Foot Fetish Forum: kinky or fetish?

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Posted by sotiny (Member # 25607) on :

hi everybody, this is my first post on a foot forum.
i have always had a thing about feet and shoes but have found it hard to express and explore until now.i adore the erotic thoughts and feelings i have about feet and footwear.
i dont have a fetish but must be kinky. i dont like to use that term as it feels sleazy to me. i cant think of another!
i think it is normal for most people to have a kink or 2 and a few have a fetish. which would you describe yourself as...are you kinky or a fetishist?
i was just wondering..
jen xx

Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :

A fetish is a fetish, being kinky is something else, lol

Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :

No, a fetish is the object and kinky is the action toward that object. I wouldn't say it's something else.

Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :

I definitely have a fetish, and welcome aboard. What are these thoughta and feelings you have about feet and why is it so hard to express and explore? Hopefully joining this forum will help tons of great topics to read up on.

Posted by The foot fu**in master (Member # 2152) on :

Welcome Sotiny!
I've always referred to my liking for feet as a fetish. As A&f said, the object of desire is the fetish, and kinky being the action towards it.
In any case, I find feet sexually arousing, I enjoy looking at them, touching them etc and I love it!
I note you describe your shoe size using the UK reference. I'm from the UK and I know that this kind of topic is still regarded as a bit taboo.
The thing is though, foot fetishes are more common than people think!

Posted by Hal (Member # 3484) on :

Fetish. And I don`t have a problem with the term at all...I think we should be proud of it.

-Hal-

Posted by sotiny (Member # 25607) on :

thank you for your replies,
i am no expert but i think a fetish is something craved and needed to achieve sexual completeness where nothing else will satisfy. like an addiction, but not always bad!
a kink, on the other hand, or foot(lol)is when a person has a leanng towards unusual sexual practices but can also be fulfilled by other sexual stuff.
but thats just how i define it to myself. im not trying to say thats how it is because im not really sure.

J xx

Posted by shomeyoT0ES (Member # 2662) on :

quote:
Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05:
No, a fetish is the object and kinky is the action toward that object. I wouldn't say it's something else.

According to Wikipedia's definition, Dude is right. [Cool]

I toe-tally agree!

"WELCOME To WU's, sotiny!!!" [Cheers]

Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :

Being "kinky" is having a slightly different approach to, perspective of, and response to something (sexual, of course) that most find to be "normal" behavior.

"Fetish" reflects a greater dedication/devotion or even obsession with an object. The outer boundaries of foot-fetishism (gosh, why would I use that example?) would be, say, some sort of visual appeal is stimulating. Perhaps, some sort of contact with her feet is just a little more sexually satisfying. A full-blown foot-fetish is when something about feet is absolutely necessarily present for somebody to find complete satistction. More tersely: No feet, no cum.

Then again, I type too much.

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

i would definitely admit that i'm both: a kinky fetishist, cuz i desire an object known as female feet (ie. my fetish) and then i perform actions toward them (ie. kinky behavior), Tee Hee! [Big Grin]

Posted by Tom Uz (Member # 12166) on :

These words "fetish", "kinky", even "sex" and "love" mean different things to different people. But aside from what you call it, you've got the dividing line right, Sotiny. I think "person has a leaning . . . but can also be fulfilled by other ...stuff" is what most of us are. And "needed to acheive...nothing else will satisfy" is another story. To me, that's not so healthy - "like an addiction" as you say.

Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :

fetish. works for me.

Posted by rxs25 (Member # 13999) on :

fetish of feet, kinky in the aspects as i'd do *mostly* anything if a girl wanted to

Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :

I thought we were perverted????

Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :

Yeah i would say most of us have fetishes here that's what i would call mine.

Posted by sotiny (Member # 25607) on :

thanks for your answers.
i am quite inspired to find this site and
i anm reading through the older posts and getting a feel for things.
it is great to be able to find out more about this.

J xx