hi ive been in a beutiful relationship for the past 3 months, the problem is early in the relationship she told me she didnt like people touching her feet, so that was hard on me, and shes always wearing flip flops so it was pretty difficult for me to hide my desires, it took me 2 months to tell her i liked her feet(she is the first and only person to know this) and she didt say a word, so i dont know what she thinks. so for the past month she's been aware of my fetish, she lets me play with her toes now and then, but most of the time she doesnt let me touch her feet, and shes been like.. teasing me, maybe im over-reacting, but she knows i want those feet and now she's always barefooted, whenever she can she kicks her shoes off and goes barefooted, putting her feet on my lap, or wiggling her toes againt my leg, or putting her bare feet on the table in front of the tv when im watching it, before she knew i liked her feet, she never was bare footed, not once. and never did any of those things. its really very hard for me to hold myslef to my desires.. im confused, dont know what to do, i dont know if she really dislikes people touching her feet, but likes attention on them, if she's just teasing me or what.. and i dont want to be pushy about it, dont want to get her uncomfortable what do you guys think/suggest
anyway thanks for stopping by my thread sorry for the grammar, im mexican and never really payed attention to my eglish classes cheers!
Posted by JRfeet69 (Member # 8399) on :
just tell her that ur really into feet and u would like to try it out. be smooth and romantic about it, i've convinced plenty of girls who were taboo to the whole idea. start with a massage and light kisses and just be straight up
Posted by AlexVaNY (Member # 29626) on :
There's only one way to find out. Try these...
- Next time she props her feet on your lap, start massaging her feet. Go slow, don't immediately start slobbering her feet. Start with a foot rub and watch her reaction.
- Go to Bath & Body, the Body Shop, etc and buy a foot care basket (pumice stone, foot scrub, foot lotion) and offer to give her a foot massage when she comes home from work tired. I can't see her turning down a massage after a long day of work.
- Take her shoe shopping for sexy sandals. All women love shoes.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Take your time, don't go overboard, but continue trying to access her feet. My guess is that she'll change over time and become much more comfortable with you enjoying her feet.
I never thought I'd be able to touch my wife's feet in any way- for most of our marriage I didn't- because she's so ticklish. But she's taken "mind over matter" and now let's me do anything I want with her feet (touching, rubbing, licking, sucking her toes, FJ's, cumming on them) without never a complaint about it tickling.
[ March 10, 2008, 09:58 AM: Message edited by: feetluvr ]
Posted by Sabbath (Member # 4844) on :
Hola! si , se lo que es eso.. asi son las chicas muchas veces dicen que no.. pero en realidad si quieren jaja Yo diria que fueras poco a poco , como te recomendaron alla arriba empieza tal vez por darle un masajito y ve si puedes llegar mas lejos, buena suerte!
Posted by provenLoser (Member # 21637) on :
Beg.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I agree with feetluvr. You just have to take your time and start off slow with foot massages. Let her get comfortable with you touching her feet on a regular basis. From there, you can work your way up to other things.
Posted by beefted (Member # 24335) on :
thanks everyone, i guess ill give it a try.. get her comfortablee and hopee that she understands mee thanks y gracias tmb al paisanok me contesto jaja
Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
Been dating her 3 months and no feet yet? Dude if you're gf doesn't let you have her feet what are you doing with her? You might break up with her tomorrow and no memories of having her feet to jack off to? Don't understand it.
Posted by foot_sniffer2281 (Member # 21756) on :
Maybe she isnt intentionally trying to tease you but rather slowly getting comfortable with the idea of you liking her feet.
Maybe she is easing herself in - i.e letting you view her feet...and seeing how you react and how she herself reacts/feels.
Or maybe she just loves teasing you Posted by slimebass (Member # 1409) on :
She is definitely teasing you-maybe she does want to see you beg!
But you have to give it a shot. If she reacts bad you can shrug it off and say you were kidding or just trying something new. Don't new lovers explore each other bodies?
Go for it.
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
when i first got with my girlfriend she was pretty much the same in the shy sense!
not so much the teasing however she may have been doing it without realising.
my adivce is to persist. it took me andmy gf some time to get used to the foot activity. weve been on and off with but now she's totally comfortable with it.
give it time and if she doesnt acceot it AND continues to to tease you then you have a right to be upsett as you both have an obligation to please each other!
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
I agree with the others. Take the time to massage them and caress them. Sometimes a few drinks will help her relax too. I mean don't get her shitfaced just get her to relax.
Posted by footgirl0226 (Member # 29201) on :
Seriously, I never thought much of my feet til B. So... go slow and if she has questions, be honest and not all macho. lol When we as women are into our man, we WANT to learn and please.
Be calm.
Now, even though I like the suggestion of giving her a pedicure yourself, offer to send her to get one too. I, personally, have gone to the same woman for so long, and I am completely in love with her. I sit back in the massage chair, close my eyes and even fanticize about her when she does my feet. AND I WOULD HAVE never admitted that a few months back... so... find what gets her going... and run with it!
Good luck!
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Some really good advice above. I missed it if it was mentioned: pressure. Any perceived pressure and this will kill any hope you have of persuading her to indulge your foot desires.
Take your time; don't try for results any time soon, think in terms of months. Remember, "Rome wasn't built in a day" (whatever the hell that means).
Posted by scrunchlover (Member # 21542) on :
quote:Originally posted by beefted: hi ive been in a beutiful relationship for the past 3 months, the problem is early in the relationship she told me she didnt like people touching her feet, so that was hard on me, and shes always wearing flip flops so it was pretty difficult for me to hide my desires, it took me 2 months to tell her i liked her feet(she is the first and only person to know this) and she didt say a word, so i dont know what she thinks. so for the past month she's been aware of my fetish, she lets me play with her toes now and then, but most of the time she doesnt let me touch her feet, and shes been like.. teasing me, maybe im over-reacting, but she knows i want those feet and now she's always barefooted, whenever she can she kicks her shoes off and goes barefooted, putting her feet on my lap, or wiggling her toes againt my leg, or putting her bare feet on the table in front of the tv when im watching it, before she knew i liked her feet, she never was bare footed, not once. and never did any of those things. its really very hard for me to hold myslef to my desires.. im confused, dont know what to do, i dont know if she really dislikes people touching her feet, but likes attention on them, if she's just teasing me or what.. and i dont want to be pushy about it, dont want to get her uncomfortable what do you guys think/suggest
anyway thanks for stopping by my thread sorry for the grammar, im mexican and never really payed attention to my eglish classes cheers!
What attracted you to her in the first place? Why are you even continuing the relationship?
Posted by Uno1 (Member # 2883) on :
Have to agree with the others. It sounds like one of the following situations:
1. She wants to see you beg (sort of sexy, but kind of mean if taken too far).
2. She's easing herself into the idea of giving you access to her feet on a regular basis.
3. She's trying to give you the next best thing.
Best advice I can think of: Ask. Ask her what it is, exactly, that she wants the next time she "teases" you, and how long it's going to go on.
Posted by Brandy's Foot Slave (Member # 20905) on :
Honesty is the best policy dude!
Posted by beefted (Member # 24335) on :
Hi. first off let start by apologizing for no responding sooner, i had a problem with my computer so i couldnt login for some time.. some interesting things have happened since, i took some of yoir advice and it worked.. now i get to kiss her feet and suck on her toes when we have a chance.. so thank you so very much for your help.. now i look back at my post and i think she was teasing me but not t make me beg, but more like some of you said to ease herself to the idea, and see how we both reacted.. i took it slowly.. being completely honest and stopping when she said so.. it was hard.. at first it was very confusing.. she wanted but not really.. but when i got to give the first kiss.. it was all downhill from there.. the other problem i got was her big toe, it took a while to get her comfortable with me kissing her big toe.. all the others were fine, but when she got confortable with that she let me do whatever i wanted .. just yesterday was my first official toe suck, i massaged, smelled, and kissed those feet and sucked her toes for like an hour.. it was the best.. so thanks to all.. hope my experience is helpful for someone else.. and enjoy cheers!
Posted by lamp (Member # 19270) on :
go for it all the way! make it clear from the start thisis what you like! if she cant really accept it then get out fast.
dont make the same mistake i did and end up 3 years down the line still trying to get your foot fetish sex life sorted.
im now emotionally attatched to my girlfriend but sexually unsatisfied. you have a right to those feet, and if she's teasing you, you have an even bigger reason to confront her. give it a little more time though
Posted by shadixx (Member # 22316) on :
Heres the thing...she probably doesn't know what she is susposed to do with them. She just thinks you like to look at feet or something. She doesn't know that you want to lick them,sniff them,suck her toes etc. etc...think of it from her point of view,she has no idea what all a foot fetish entails. So my suggestion is that you tell her what you want. Ask and you shall receive!Dont worry about her thinking your weird,if she was going to judge you on that she would have called you out on it when you told her you liked feet. If she loves you,she will do it to make you happy. If she won't then go find another girl,there are PLENTY out there that would be willing. I have done whatever to the feet of pretty much every girl I have ever been with. However, I don't think you will have much of a problem seeing as she is already teasing you with them. Much luck to you brother.
Peace and grace
-Jacoby
Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :
Glad to here you got to enjoy her feet. Now post some pics of them.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by beefted: im confused, dont know what to do, i dont know if she really dislikes people touching her feet, but likes attention on them, if she's just teasing me or what.. and i dont want to be pushy about it, dont want to get her uncomfortable what do you guys think/suggest ... ...im mexican and never really payed attention to my eglish classes
she's testing you (whether she realizes it or not) in order to find out what kind of man you are. the short answer is to fall for her test, but fall for it in the right way.
best of luck friend-o Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
beefted, steady ahead. Give your girl a bit of time to accept that her feet are beautiful. She probably wouldn't be teasing you if she was really creeped out by your love of her feet. However, know when to move on later if needed to search out your true solemate. Do not become numb to your soul's desires to just get by so so.
Posted by amglo (Member # 10488) on :
Easy answer, tell her that her heels are too rough & the best cure is some "Man Protein" that needs to be applied directly.
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