Foot fetish can control your life. Well, maybe not. But, it sure can run your dating life. Has feet ever ruined a relationship? Posted by stephm_ff (Member # 27001) on :
sorry to hear you're worried about this, but if it helps it's never ruined one for me... i had one gf who really didnt like it when i paid attention to her feet lol but it didnt end it or anything. i've actually been very lucky and most of my girlfriends have been really receptive to my foot fetish and enjoyed it, so i've gotten footjobs etc from girls i never thought would be into it which is a nice suprise! there are girls who love it out there u just have to be lucky enough to find them! good luck!
Posted by Footlovers (Member # 11023) on :
Yeah I would not say that it had ruined a relationship - maybe cause a very minor problem / awkward feeling if say I was in the mood for feet more than anything else, but she wasnt.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
If anything, it's improved my love life! See my post "Only Her Feet Can Do It" for elaboration.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
nah.. no issues for me.. maybe because it's more a finely tuned interest instead of a fetish.. therefore.. if a gal isn't into what I like.. then.. i can proceed without. (thankfully.. that didn't come into play for marriage.. well not full effect anyway)
RPM
Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
It's very hard for me to tell most of the time. I get things in waves. A lot of the time I feel I'm fine without women and feet. But there are these sudden bursts where I feel desperate.
I'd like to think I'm fine without getting feet and being single. Which is not just wishful thinking, because I happen to keep myself happy and content a lot of them time.
But then there are moments like tonight when I was at a gig. The females were quite agitating me.
This thankfully doesn't happen often. It doesn't help though, that my past relationships have brought out the mysoginist in me to a certain extent. It's mostly what causes me to not bother chatting women up. Plus being lazy as fuck LOL.
Posted by moman (Member # 479) on :
My wife loved getting her feet massaged whenever she wanted while we were dating. She was a bio-chem major and had a lot of lab classes which involved standing - so at the end of a long day of counting fruit flies or mixing chemicals, she always enjoyed that I would rub her feet for her. When I finally confessed my foot fetish to her after we had been together for about 6 years (wasn't nearly as open about it back then - no Wu's to let me know it was normal) she basically said "no shit! I knew that after about 3 months of twice a week foot rubs." So, it never got in our way, she just figured it was part of what made me me and she enjoyed the attention. I remember after I graduated and went off to grad school, she came to visit for a weekend and told me to stay in the living room of my apartment and she would be right back. Well, it was in February in Michigan (the definition of cold) so she turned the heat up in the apartment to about 80 and ten minutes later she came out wearing shorts, a tank top and strappy beach sandals. Then she set out a blanket on the floor for a "beach picnic". When she came out I let out a low whistle and she held her foot out in front of me and asked if I liked the color on her nails with her new sandals. How could a foot guy not like hot pink nails in strappy sandals in the middle of winter?!
Bottom line - if she truely loves you for who you are, then she'll adapt to (or hopefully adopt) your lifestyle.
MoMan
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Yes, I won't date a girl with ugly feet. GQguy
Posted by xxmadisonxx (Member # 24593) on :
id like more foot attension in a relationship, but im really tickleish but like havin the tops of my feet bein touched, dont seem to get much tho ;-(
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
Of course it has, the up front selection process of finding a woman more like Madion and seeing something you like is quite a balance! Hey, it is safe sex, anyway!
Posted by J.J. (Member # 24686) on :
Never got in the way, au contraire, it always adds an extra edge to my sexlife Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
to say it's gotten in the way is an understatement. they've pretty much ruined it to be honest.
Posted by cs (Member # 9338) on :
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: Foot fetish can control your life. Well, maybe not. But, it sure can run your dating life. Has feet ever ruined a relationship?
Never ruined a relationship, but it has got in the way. Could have hit it off with this chick in one of my classes last semester, but i just wasn't attracted to her feet at all. Being as i have a legitimate fetish, that wasn't going to work for me.
Posted by ukblksolescd (Member # 29800) on :
Well it didnt ruin the relationship but I really looked stupid. I actually stayed in this really abusive relationship because this girls feet were so bloody hot. I was only 17 at the time and we were in high school but I used to give her foot massages in class kiss her feet and all that and I dont know I think it blew my mind that she was into it but the downer was this girl was suuuuuch a biiiiatch. Cheated on me, sole a really pricey watch and money from me, my parents were so disappointed in me for the longest because they found out about all the classroom foot fun on a parents evening. Well I guess I got what I deserved for really staying with someone I should have broken up with years ago.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by Keyfeet: Has feet ever ruined a relationship?
My love of feet has ruined one relationship that I recall.
I dont see why a foot fetish would get in the way of a relationship. If a girl was really that worth it, she would be open minded and take you for who you are =) but hey thats coming from a girl whos mad about someone with a foot fetish lol so i may be a bit biased.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
One gal I dated, was absolutely drop-dead gorgeous; turned out that she was a fashion-model that did a lot of photography work in New York. Man, I was proud to think this woman with such killer beauty was attracted to me. I often tried to catch a glimpse of her feet (at the time, very unrevealing shoes were in vogue) and had no luck when we were in intimate moments. On one occasion I caught here as she had just stepped out of the shower and saw her feet...they looked like bags of smashed crabs. As remarkably beautiful as she was, I kept flashing back to the sight of her feet as we continued to date; this continued to nag at me for some time. Finally, I just let the relationship peter out; fewer calls, less contact.
To this day, I don't know if I regret it or not.
Posted by perfectpeds (Member # 29295) on :
I'm not sure about this and my experience is rather limited to-date as I was only just very recently introduced to my own foot sensuality and beauty and am now left wondering what it truly means to "you" as men who love feet and what does it mean to "me" as someone who now wants her feet worshipped but isn't sure where to find it... It's not just about feet for a me (as a woman).
So in my case, I wonder, as a (currently or previously) single foot lover do you (as the man) feel the need to have multiple ped-partners or are you still searching for "the one". And if "the one" is willing to engage herself in your desires (or at least most of them LOL), will you be satisfied being monogamous? Will you be happy if your variety comes only from pictures and videos - or would you feel a need to touch and play with another woman's feet to feed your fetish?
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i'm a one woman type of guy!!! monogomy is key for me. i don't need to have 'relations' with other feet.
the only thing for me.. I do wish i came to grips with my foot interest and heel interest at a much younger age. would have made a difference in my dating life.
as for being married.. i love it. and though my wife doesn't fully get it.. she participates enough so that i'm not feeling deprived. granted i wish she was more into it, but i've got no need to get substitutes.
one of my friends was a model for me (i've posted her pics here a few times).. but now that i'm married.. the desire to photograph her feet has changed.. it's more for the art now than for the joy of being close to her feet. and i've done a lot less photos as a consequence.
i'm not driven by my interest.. but i do manage them as i feel they need be. i'm in charge of my behaviors and 'destiny'. impulse control, in my opinion, is a sign of maturity.
so, perfect peds.. there can be a guy who is into you an your feet out there. how that works out, i wish i knew.. i'd be a billionaire!!.. but being open about it has greatly helped. my wife partakes in my interest.. had i not opened up.. i'd be out of luck
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