Yes people twice in one week I've heard these words from 2 different females, and I'm not impressed. These girls seem to think that me loving feet is weird, creepy and strange.
Why cant people be more open minded and accept our fetish as valid and normal?
Posted by femsolelover (Member # 1584) on :
Why can't people be more open-minded toward ugly people, and over-weight people? Same concept. I'm sure you already know the answer to that.
Posted by J.J. (Member # 24686) on :
Let them think what they want, in the end they're the ones looking ridiculous. After all, everybody knows that the coolest people are foot fetishists. Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
I think that girls who are that uptight about their sexuality are weird and creepy
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
did you say anything in particular to these women that might've led to those conclusions?
sometimes, even the most remote things that a person says or does can have an affect on a woman's assessment of a particular situation.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
I think a lot of women can broaden their horizons and see how great and unique the fetish can be, with all possible stereotpes set aside....others are just never going to get the handle of it....I guess that's just how it is Posted by Sir Mike (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by femsolelover: Why can't people be more open-minded toward ugly people, and over-weight people? Same concept.
uh no it isn't
ozboy you shouldn't just tell girls that you like feet
when you're fucking around with her just grab her feet and do what you want, she won't think it's creepy while in the moment
and these particular girls had little if any interest in you, if brad pitt or whatever celebrity tells a chick he has a foot fetish she won't call him creepy or strange
[ May 03, 2008, 05:49 PM: Message edited by: Sir Mike ]
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I'm noticed that it's often more acceptable to admit that you're gay, than to admit that you're attracted to women's feet. Such is our PC society!
Posted by tom (Member # 223) on :
weird and creepy - i'd rather be that than a prematurely middle aged sack of tedium who gets excited about interest rates - or doing DIY on their kitchen.
i'll take wierd over boring fucker any day!
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
quote: i'll take wierd over boring fucker any day!
funny Tom !
Here is some more context for y'all. One girl was the massage chik giving me a FJ who commented that it was strange. 2 diff 12 year old girls who stumbled accross my Youtube account with all my favourite foot clips commented that they thought it was creepy !!
Posted by The_FJCruiser (Member # 6007) on :
I agree with what everyone else is saying. Its not strange and creepy at all. I'd be willing to bet those girls had pedicures. Why is it that women go to the effort to make their feet look nice then when a guy notices it they think its weird? My girlfriend, who is very supportive of my love for feet (mainly because she gets foot massages out of the deal) told me about a commentary she heard on an afternoon radio show up here the other day. The topic was what makes women attractive. They rated different body parts on how they could make or break a lady for being hot or not. Feet were number two behind breasts. I'll let that soak in. Take care! Posted by d-wreck9 (Member # 19014) on :
damn i guess i am really lucky, my girl loves it and has never once said it was weird..
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
I have always felt that it was important to come-across as reasonably well-adjusted before I introduce my foot fascination. To those who have never encountered it before, I'm sure it does seem strange.
"Creepy" is an evaluation left to the individual to whom it is being introduced. The quality of the introduction is what will leave the lasting impression.
Finally, all 12 year old girls deem everything "Creepy". They're working on their put-downs for later adolescence.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
Upon you explaining how these comments came about, ozboy, I wouldn't base your beliefs on these particular incidents.
First of all, I'm assuming that your "massage chick" is someone who is getting paid to give you a FJ. Correct me if I'm wrong. Either way, whether you're paying her or not, who cares what she thinks? You're paying her for a service and, weird or not, she's the one taking your money. If you're not paying her, then who is more "weird"? You for asking her for a FJ, or her honoring your request and giving you one?
quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: I have always felt that it was important to come-across as reasonably well-adjusted before I introduce my foot fascination. To those who have never encountered it before, I'm sure it does seem strange.
"Creepy" is an evaluation left to the individual to whom it is being introduced. The quality of the introduction is what will leave the lasting impression.
Finally, all 12 year old girls deem everything "Creepy". They're working on their put-downs for later adolescence.
I agree with Toetapper on this. I wouldn't put much value into the comments made by 12 year olds. You shouldn't even let that bother you. They're just finding out about sex so everything seems different and "weird" to them.
When it comes to adult women, it's important to come off as a normal person in your interactions with them and never "out yourself" verbally when it comes to your attraction to women's feet. If a woman doesn't know you very well, then it's going to come across sounding weird if you say you like women's feet. You're better off just getting to know a woman and building her comfort and trust in you.
From personal experience, there have been certain female friends of mine that I didn't bring up my attraction for women's feet with right away and I waited months, sometimes years, before allowing them to see that part of me. By the time I thought the moment was right, there was absolutely no resistance on their part when I began sucking on their toes while giving them a foot massage and it was a rewarding experience for both of us that led to multiple encounters.
Bottom line, if you come across as being comfortable with yourself and establish that comfort level, as well as a level of trust, with a woman, she will definitely be more open minded to new things she has never experienced that she never even thought about before.
Posted by Sir Mike (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy:
quote: i'll take wierd over boring fucker any day!
funny Tom !
Here is some more context for y'all. One girl was the massage chik giving me a FJ who commented that it was strange. 2 diff 12 year old girls who stumbled accross my Youtube account with all my favourite foot clips commented that they thought it was creepy !!
who cares if she thought it was strange when she actually gave you the FJ
they were actually 12? again who cares what they think? at 12 they shouldn't know much about sex to begin with
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
2 different 12 year old girls?
That's what you're complaining about?
Yeesh!
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
amen!!!!!! should i even ask for pics of those heels? i'll be good though.
RPM
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
yippie!!!!!!!!!!! my diverse tastes makes me special.. and now i'm going to get a super special treat.. you in heels.. hose.... as well as bare!!! cool!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
and by the way, me lovin' women in heels may make me strange or creepy to some.. but that's more their problem than mines! lol!!!!
RPM
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
quote:Originally posted by dougiezerts: I'm noticed that it's often more acceptable to admit that you're gay, than to admit that you're attracted to women's feet. Such is our PC society!
I think you're absolutely right, DZ - feet may be seen as taboo, but gay is seen as controversial yet I don't think it carries a taboo anymore... I know of some gay people and I also know of some foot fetish people.....I feel those with a foot fetish keep it in more, but both are still unspeakable to a degree...it's probably because schools will post up signs to support homosexuality - a good move - among other things like gender and whatnot...you won't see a poster promoting feet, but I think it's pretty clear this isn't meant to be an attack on homosexuals, but rather to spark irony and how we're really the ones that are in the [shoe] closet.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
great point! but the good news is.. amoungst the younger crowd.. the 'phobia' and 'stigma' of feet is starting to fade! cool!
RPM
Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
In my experience they think its weird but come around if you don't focus solely on the feet. I've only been with one girl who didn't let me have her feet and that lasted a whole of one night lolz.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Fate, always enjoy reading ur posts.
quote: From personal experience, there have been certain female friends of mine that I didn't bring up my attraction for women's feet with right away and I waited months, sometimes years, before allowing them to see that part of me.
Fate, I cant wait that long bro, maybe a few dates. But the feet thing will have to surface sooner rather than later. Of course when I think the moment is right.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: Fate, always enjoy reading ur posts.
quote: From personal experience, there have been certain female friends of mine that I didn't bring up my attraction for women's feet with right away and I waited months, sometimes years, before allowing them to see that part of me.
Fate, I cant wait that long bro, maybe a few dates. But the feet thing will have to surface sooner rather than later. Of course when I think the moment is right.
Thanks for the compliment, ozboy.
I do understand about not wanting to wait that long. The women I've eluded to in my experiences are more friends and nothing really beyond that. There's no doubt that the playing field changes quite a bit when you're dealing with a woman who you have more than just a friendship interest in and are looking for something more. The basic idea is still the same though. Try and get a good level of comfort and trust going and things will work. The more relaxed you both are, the more natural your actions will be when you finally make a move to suck on her toes.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I've found that women that have respect and or are interested in me are the ones that take my fetish and actually have fun with it! I would say for some women, wait till you have sex with them and then let them know what really turns you on. In a way you're doing her a favor by letting her know what gets you going. Hopefully in turn she does the same. My fetish is relatively tame though but I always start small. And as we have more sex or get more physical i'll introduce another facet. If they like you, they wont care. As for feeling weird/creepy why should I? If a girl were to allude to that why would I care? I've had many beautiful intelligent caring fun women jump at the chance to indulge me in my fetish. By definition a woman that tried to put me down over something I was born with doesn't fit in the beautiful caring intelligent fun category that is my standard. There are more women up for footplay than many would think. There aren't a ton of cool guys out there that know how to be a man and treat a woman like a woman should be. Like yourself and your fetish and the world will follow. GQguy
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I've found that women that have respect and or are interested in me are the ones that take my fetish and actually have fun with it! I would say for some women, wait till you have sex with them and then let them know what really turns you on. In a way you're doing her a favor by letting her know what gets you going. Hopefully in turn she does the same. My fetish is relatively tame though but I always start small. And as we have more sex or get more physical i'll introduce another facet. If they like you, they wont care. As for feeling weird/creepy why should I? If a girl were to allude to that why would I care? I've had many beautiful intelligent caring fun women jump at the chance to indulge me in my fetish. By definition a woman that tried to put me down over something I was born with doesn't fit in the beautiful caring intelligent fun category that is my standard. There are more women up for footplay than many would think. There aren't a ton of cool guys out there that know how to be a man and treat a woman like a woman should be. Like yourself and your fetish and the world will follow. GQguy
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
For what it's worth, footgirl0226, I am anxiously awaiting the posts you mention. I love to have my gal wear sexy shoes for sexy activities.
Being a fan of bondage as well, I have a couple of pairs of - for lack of a better term - harnesses that wrap around the ankle and under the arch of the shoe (a nice high heel), preventing the removal of the shoes. As much as I like bare feet there are simply times when I wake that I want to see my lover sleeping not just peacefully but sexily, as well.
Posted by leo1000 (Member # 21194) on :
Sadly I get that response a lot with big footed woman one i was talking to told me she has size 13WWW feet and said he tried a footjob but didn't like it. Hmm well ok but others would say oh that's gross without saying well I tried it.
Posted by Toesucker85 (Member # 16795) on :
quote:Originally posted by J.J.: Let them think what they want, in the end they're the ones looking ridiculous. After all, everybody knows that the coolest people are foot fetishists.
so true so very very true Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
quote:Originally posted by J.J.: Let them think what they want, in the end they're the ones looking ridiculous. After all, everybody knows that the coolest people are foot fetishists.
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