You know, thinking about it no matter how popular foot fetishes may become, I think there's always going to be a burden and that is the ticklish factor - whether some women are into our fetish or not there's always gonna be a problem getting through the ticklish barrier. Maybe there is a way to get through it, but I just don't know.
Posted by whyme (Member # 29265) on :
quote:Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05: You know, thinking about it no matter how popular foot fetishes may become, I think there's always going to be a burden and that is the ticklish factor - whether some women are into our fetish or not there's always gonna be a problem getting through the ticklish barrier. Maybe there is a way to get through it, but I just don't know.
A better question to ask might be, how can we reduce the ticklish barrier of being tickled.....i know it is a natural feeling. Do some girls adapt/get used to it?
or do you NOT do certain foot activites to them as they tickle too much?
View it and answer it...
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
I think we had the same thought as the same time - I didn't even see your post regarding the same topic just two minutes earlier than mine
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
just lick harder. that usually is the way to lessen the tickle effect. but it creates other side effects which may or may not be beneficial to the situation, ie. appearance of greater desperation being one.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I'm sure the "ticklish factor" is a reason. However, I don't think it's the main reason why having a foot fetish won't catch on. Most people in society as a whole think it's just plain weird to be turned on by a woman's feet.
The thing that bodes well though is that women can be very open to things if they are in the right environment with a person they feel safe with and that they trust. If you can gain a woman's trust and be designated "safe" to a woman, then the odds of her being open to trying something new and different go up quite a bit.
Case and point - I have a female friend that has pretty ticklish feet. Early on in knowing each other, we were out one time and she stated that her feet hurt. I offered to give her a foot massage but she declined, using the excuse that she would be okay, plus she stated that her feet were, in her words, "very ticklish" and she probably couldn't handle having her feet touched because they were so ticklish and the massage wouldn't feel all that good anyway. I didn't make an issue out of it and just let it go.
Fast forward to several months later, after we had hung out together quite a bit more and knew each other better. She came out to visit her sister who, at the time, lived in the same area where I was living. She asked if I was free and if we could get together and just go hang out at a bar. Long story short, we ended up getting together, hanging out and having good conversation as friends often do. We ended up going back to her sister's house where she was staying. We ended up on a couch in her sister's basement. By this time, we were pretty comfortable with each other so I decided to just take action. The worst that could happen is that she would say no and that would be the end of it. It was pretty chilly that night so she ended up getting a blanket and put it on both of us while we got comfortable on her sister's couch. She put her socked feet up on the couch but didn't stretch her legs out all the way. At that point, I said, "Why don't you stretch your legs out so you can be more comfortable? I won't mind." With that, she stretched her legs out, putting her socked feet right in my lap. Since it was chilly, I started to massage her feet and said, "This will help warm your feet up." For someone who was supposed to be so ticklish, she sure didn't act like it! She simply relaxed and commented on how good the foot massage felt. I then replied, "Well, I'm sure that feels good. But it would probably feel even better if I take these socks off." Just before I finished what I was saying, I began pulling her socks off. Again, this was met with no resistance on her part and no protesting about how ticklish her feet were. I started massaging her bare feet and, again, there was no "ticklish" reaction. I couldn't resist tickling her soles a little bit, just to see how ticklish her feet were and, yeah, they were ticklish! However, because she was now comfortable being around me and trusted me, she didn't put up any resistance or made excuses as to why I couldn't touch or massage her feet. Things went so well that, after spending some time on the foot massage, I decided to just go for it and, eventually, began sucking on her toes. Not only did she completely enjoy having her toes sucked, she admitted to me later that she had never had that done to her feet before and was shocked, in a good way, as to how good it felt to her. She said she couldn't believe she could feel that much pleasure from someone sucking on her toes and licking her feet! This was coming from someone who flat out said no to me when I offered a foot massage to her several months prior to this occasion.
I don't think a foot fetish will really be completely "acceptable" or be, as some term "mainstream". Unfortunately, there are too many negative stigmas attached to the fetish. However, when dealing with a woman on a one on one basis, earning her trust and creating a safe environment for her, that stigma can completely disappear and you can "persuade" her to think otherwise about a foot fetish.
Posted by slimebass (Member # 1409) on :
I had a girl I knew who had ticklish feet but didn't mind a foot massage. I think it's important that they know you're not trying to tickle and then they get used to your touch. She would always be a bit ticklish at first and eventually was not tickled at all.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Regardless of how ticklish a woman's feet might be, I promise that it won't tickle (or have "a little pinch" like your local M.D.); might feel unusual, at first, but this is going to feel very good....
Posted by xxmadisonxx (Member # 24593) on :
ok guys well i have ticklish feet also, but i love havin them massaged the way i get around it is...........................
start with the tops of the feet as they r not as ticklish (well not for me) then once the girl starts gettin comfy u take it a little further, but u must start with the tops as if u go straight to the bottoms of the feet the girl will probably start gigglin and it will ruin the mood, so start with the tops........ do this for as long as u can like 10 minutes , stroakin maybe kissin, but like Tyler.d said the harder u go the less ticklish it is, so maybe like soft of the tops and then harder on the bottoms, massage the bottoms once the girl has got comfy and feels relaxed. kiss and rub harder tho , not like really rough as that wont b sexy but just enough to get a good reaction, avoid really light strokes on the bottom cos it will ruin the whole thing.
hope this helps xxxxxxxxxxxxxxxx
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
Any woman that says her feet are too sensitive to be touched is usually just uncomfortable because once they push past that the tickle sensation will more often then not just turn out to be relaxing to them.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
Hey if they are giving me a footjob its their fault if they tickle themselves. Posted by xxmadisonxx (Member # 24593) on :
good comment lol x
Posted by Ophillia (Member # 29787) on :
i agree with fate. trust is a big issue. i also agree with tyler keep going it goes away. also...if it's a new thing sometimes a few giggles are hot and helps to break the ice!
Posted by Michael P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05: You know, thinking about it no matter how popular foot fetishes may become, I think there's always going to be a burden and that is the ticklish factor - whether some women are into our fetish or not there's always gonna be a problem getting through the ticklish barrier. Maybe there is a way to get through it, but I just don't know.
this is pretty far down the list of why it won't catch on Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
I think they're ticklish mainly because you're trying something different and new. Once you get past that, it should be fine.
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
quote:Originally posted by Fate111: I'm sure the "ticklish factor" is a reason. However, I don't think it's the main reason why having a foot fetish won't catch on. Most people in society as a whole think it's just plain weird to be turned on by a woman's feet.
The thing that bodes well though is that women can be very open to things if they are in the right environment with a person they feel safe with and that they trust. If you can gain a woman's trust and be designated "safe" to a woman, then the odds of her being open to trying something new and different go up quite a bit.
Case and point - I have a female friend that has pretty ticklish feet. Early on in knowing each other, we were out one time and she stated that her feet hurt. I offered to give her a foot massage but she declined, using the excuse that she would be okay, plus she stated that her feet were, in her words, "very ticklish" and she probably couldn't handle having her feet touched because they were so ticklish and the massage wouldn't feel all that good anyway. I didn't make an issue out of it and just let it go.
Fast forward to several months later, after we had hung out together quite a bit more and knew each other better. She came out to visit her sister who, at the time, lived in the same area where I was living. She asked if I was free and if we could get together and just go hang out at a bar. Long story short, we ended up getting together, hanging out and having good conversation as friends often do. We ended up going back to her sister's house where she was staying. We ended up on a couch in her sister's basement. By this time, we were pretty comfortable with each other so I decided to just take action. The worst that could happen is that she would say no and that would be the end of it. It was pretty chilly that night so she ended up getting a blanket and put it on both of us while we got comfortable on her sister's couch. She put her socked feet up on the couch but didn't stretch her legs out all the way. At that point, I said, "Why don't you stretch your legs out so you can be more comfortable? I won't mind." With that, she stretched her legs out, putting her socked feet right in my lap. Since it was chilly, I started to massage her feet and said, "This will help warm your feet up." For someone who was supposed to be so ticklish, she sure didn't act like it! She simply relaxed and commented on how good the foot massage felt. I then replied, "Well, I'm sure that feels good. But it would probably feel even better if I take these socks off." Just before I finished what I was saying, I began pulling her socks off. Again, this was met with no resistance on her part and no protesting about how ticklish her feet were. I started massaging her bare feet and, again, there was no "ticklish" reaction. I couldn't resist tickling her soles a little bit, just to see how ticklish her feet were and, yeah, they were ticklish! However, because she was now comfortable being around me and trusted me, she didn't put up any resistance or made excuses as to why I couldn't touch or massage her feet. Things went so well that, after spending some time on the foot massage, I decided to just go for it and, eventually, began sucking on her toes. Not only did she completely enjoy having her toes sucked, she admitted to me later that she had never had that done to her feet before and was shocked, in a good way, as to how good it felt to her. She said she couldn't believe she could feel that much pleasure from someone sucking on her toes and licking her feet! This was coming from someone who flat out said no to me when I offered a foot massage to her several months prior to this occasion.
I don't think a foot fetish will really be completely "acceptable" or be, as some term "mainstream". Unfortunately, there are too many negative stigmas attached to the fetish. However, when dealing with a woman on a one on one basis, earning her trust and creating a safe environment for her, that stigma can completely disappear and you can "persuade" her to think otherwise about a foot fetish.
Great points, especially about the "safe' factor being an essential necessity to a woman opening up to the idea of her feet being the object of desire. It is in the timing, mood, environment, and person your are with that can make the moment.
Posted by Realiti (Member # 31251) on :
Honestly, I think the biggest thing that holds the fetish back is insecurity. Most guys are not very confident about complimenting a strange womans feet. I had a guy approach me in a mall once and tell me that I had beautiful feet. I was flattered and intrigued with his boldness. I had a friend with me that initially laughed after the guy walked off and said "What a weirdo"
We work hard to keep our feet looking and feeling good....lotions, creams, polishes, uncomfortable shoes, anklets..etc... All of these things are to draw attention to our feet. To get a compliment after all of that work is usually very flattering as long as the person is polite about it.
My friend laughed initially, but within 30 minutes she was asking me if her feet were ugly. I assured her she had beautiful feet as well, but she worried herself to death, and talked me to death, about her feet never being complimented. She works hard to keep them that way and now she appreciates any compliment on her feet...the problem is many guys are very hesitant to just walk up to girl and say "I love that color on your toes, you have beautiful feet!" They'll compliment eyes, clothes, hair, legs, or body...but very seldon feet or shoes...why is that I wonder?
i discovered that, when my girl's feet were pretty wet while taking a bath, her feet lost the tickling feeling... and i was able to do what ever i want with them... and then she even gave the first foot job ever. Posted by Realiti (Member # 31251) on :
Awesome, my feet are very ticklish but they seem to lose the tickling sensation when the erotic sensation takes over. I'm much less ticklish when I'm turned on or when the rubbing or licking is a little harder.
Realiti www.realiti4u.com Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
..."when I'm turned on or when the rubbing or licking is a little harder." Comment by Realiti
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Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
I agree that tickling is pretty far down the list of why people don't accept it. Afterall some people enjot a careful tickling sensation. As sad as this is I think it's just because it's feet I'm afraid and not your typical pair of breasts.
Women's bodies are temples to men, absolutely beautiful, my GF's body is stunning, and I adore it. She loves that I love her feet as well, it makes her feel special. But before she met me she thought feet were ugly and not to be appreciated.
But to be honest the aspect that foot worship is seen by many people as dirty or taboo is a small part of the turn on. Yeah it's kinky and I love it! Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
I hear that!
Posted by climax (Member # 6641) on :
quote:Originally posted by LuckyTeen: I agree that tickling is pretty far down the list of why people don't accept it. Afterall some people enjot a careful tickling sensation. As sad as this is I think it's just because it's feet I'm afraid and not your typical pair of breasts.
Thats definatley high on the list for why it might not catch on. However there is another issue, and that involves us, the foot guys. First of all, you have the ones taking it too far, im talking about the freaks in the daily news papers. There arent making it any easier for our positive image, that is enough to fuel peoples hatred for the foot fetish thing. Although those freaks are giving us a bad name, at the same time, its sad to say, but there isnt really anyone out there giving us a good name either.
Every time i hear a foot outsider talk about foot fetishism, in between the "eww" and the "thats weird" theres always " i dont understand" or " i just dont get why". Because of this its clear that the general masses have a big lack of understanding and knowledge of foot fetishism as a whole, yet no one is standing up to fill in that void, meaning the only public knowledge and exposure to the foot world that they get is due to the freaks in the paper, and the media itself which isnt helping with movie scenes such as road trip where some perv licks a sleeping girls feet, in short, making us look like we all are like that. Thus thats the only thing they have to go by, negativity, pervy and creepy.
Tell me who is out there putting a positibe spin on things? Not us, we sit and talk about how the freaks give us a bad name, but hey, its not like us foot guys are doing anything about it.
We could do with a voice, an icon who is putting out there, one person comes to mind and that is QT. Other celebs who have made minor comments about their foot interest in the odd news clipping or interview dont count since they arent going out there way to put 'feet on the map' sorta speak.
But again, a few celebs isnt enough either, there too much negativity out there already. This does not mean that you should go out there and put your interests on the map, not at all. I know are the guys who dont care about how the world sees them, and there are those who already have sig others who indulge them so they are happy too, thats good, my hat is off to them.
Then there are those who want to say something but lack the courage or confidence and just remain with their head down. There were some who were putting it out there, i remember one guy on youtube, i think the channel was footchat or something, with blogs of him talking about his interest, that was a great start. And then the famous vid where the a guy complains about flagging feet videos, i dunno about you, but i have seen less flagging and deletion of youtube feet videos since that clip went up on the site, id say he made a difference right there. If more people did what they did and spread the word that we werent all freaks like the papers, then things would very slowly start to turn around.
Whether foot fetishism catching on or not really matters is a different subject, but for those of you who are interested, well i think this is amongst the top reasons to support this non catching on theory.
[ July 02, 2008, 09:40 PM: Message edited by: climax ]
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
What people neeed is a late night program on foot fetishism and why people are attracted to it with interviews of people on the street or something as to what they think about it and maybe willing girls, who have never had their toes sucked, sucked and record their reactions down or listen to what they say about it after experiencing it. Personally I'm not bothered if people don't understand it or think it's weird of even if that makes me weird because of it (as that itself is a weird thing to say) but I know there are a lot of people who would feel a lot better if people in general stopped hating on the fetish.
I mean, I never thought I'd indulge it, I just saw it as a fantasy but at the same time I never went out of my way to meet it, I didn't feel so desperate to lick a girls foot while she slept or do anything I shouldn't have done, I just waited patiently.
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
quote:Originally posted by Realiti: Honestly, I think the biggest thing that holds the fetish back is insecurity. Most guys are not very confident about complimenting a strange womans feet. I had a guy approach me in a mall once and tell me that I had beautiful feet. I was flattered and intrigued with his boldness. I had a friend with me that initially laughed after the guy walked off and said "What a weirdo"We work hard to keep our feet looking and feeling good....lotions, creams, polishes, uncomfortable shoes, anklets..etc... All of these things are to draw attention to our feet. To get a compliment after all of that work is usually very flattering as long as the person is polite about it.
My friend laughed initially, but within 30 minutes she was asking me if her feet were ugly. I assured her she had beautiful feet as well, but she worried herself to death, and talked me to death, about her feet never being complimented. She works hard to keep them that way and now she appreciates any compliment on her feet...the problem is many guys are very hesitant to just walk up to girl and say "I love that color on your toes, you have beautiful feet!" They'll compliment eyes, clothes, hair, legs, or body...but very seldon feet or shoes...why is that I wonder?
I'm glad your friend realize the scope of the compliment you received; being closed minded she missed out initially. Her lost. I hope she knows better now. If a women gets a genuine compliment about her feet from a guy, that guy is a special rare breed of a man, she should be honored to meet such a man. The elusive footman is oh, so .
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