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Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :

We have all done this, but how did you tell em?

[ July 21, 2008, 11:13 PM: Message edited by: Keyfeet ]

Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :

I usually don't say anything; I just do it when the time is right.
I think talking about it before hand is exactly the wrong approach.

_fjb_ [Cool]

Posted by Turm (Member # 1048) on :

I've had one girlfriend and I never actually 'told her' that I have a foot fetish. I rather made her feel at ease and slowly opened her up to new sexual activities (i.e. footjobs), and made sure to massage her feet from time to time.

Neither of us ever even mentioned the word 'foot fetish', I was able to make the activities just seem like a normal part of a sexual relationship.

The key is just to seem cool about it all, don't give off weird or nervous vibes.

Posted by Panic (Member # 21074) on :

i mentioned that I have this "thing" i like to do during sex. I also let this build up for awhile because I told her I was shy about it and that I thought it might be weird to her. One night at a bar, I asked her if she was ready to hear about the "thing". she said yes. and so I told her I like to suck toes during sex. She said and I quote" is that all, I thought it was going to be something involving poo or pee". Needless to say, I was sucking on her toes that very night.

I guess I was lucky that she was open to it. This was about a year ago. Now I can pretty much have foot fun anytime I want.

Basically, I made sure I peaked her interest in wanting to know what I liked but was too shy to ask for and when I finally told her she was open to it because it was something I liked and was gratful I was not asking her to pee on me.

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

Many times, all it takes is the proper body language. Good luck [Thumbs Up]

Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :

^ [Laugh]

That's great Tyler! [Thumbs Up]

Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :

I told my wife when she was drugged up and going in for surgery and i asked if she remembered what i told her and she said know so i had to tell her all over again lol.

Posted by footgirl0226 (Member # 29201) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Cain:
I told my wife when she was drugged up and going in for surgery and i asked if she remembered what i told her and she said know so i had to tell her all over again lol.

lol

How long into the relationship was this? Cause you are forward. I cant imagine it was long after you met! ha!

Posted by shomeyoT0ES (Member # 2662) on :

I never really "told" my girlfriends (past or present) that I have a fetish! I simply made it known in the bedroom.... [Roll Eyes]

Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :

quote:
Originally posted by shomeyoT0ES:
I never really "told" my girlfriends (past or present) that I have a fetish! I simply made it known in the bedroom....

BINGO!

Posted by stephm_ff (Member # 27001) on :

quote:
Originally posted by shomeyoT0ES:
I never really "told" my girlfriends (past or present) that I have a fetish! I simply made it known in the bedroom....

me too, but after it was out there we would talk about it

Posted by tom (Member # 223) on :

in my experience - demonstrate in the heat of passion - and if that doesnt get you a slap, bring it up later.

being too up front about it to early makes it an "issue" - after all most girls (unless you are real lucky) wont have a shopping list of what they love sexually early in a relationship - so why should you?

Posted by russ (Member # 10866) on :

i've told my girlfriends in the past and never had a problem. I think the key is making sure the girl is really into you before being so upfront about it.

With my current girlfriend(our relationship is barely a month old), i haven't mentioned "foot fetish" at all (i did tell her i thought her feet were sexy, but I've never said the word fetish around her, much less telling her i have one) but i try to make it known with my actions.

I have sucked her toes/licked and nibbled her soles a bit during the heat of the moment and gotten great reactions.

I can tell she's gotten the hint, because she never hesitates to put her feet in my lap, or to rub them where we all love to be rubbed.

I think it mainly depends on the girl's personality. If she's open you probably won't have much trouble. Knowing each other fairly well and a sense of trust will really help out.

[ July 22, 2008, 02:20 AM: Message edited by: russ ]

Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :

From experience now I know not to tell. Telling usually gets a negative response, so I build up slowly. Get to know the girl maybe go out with the girl one thing leads to the other get to the massage if I'm lucky to get that far then continue from there. Getting my fantasy minus having to use the words foot fetish.

Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :

I just come right out and tell them that I have a foot fetish and the just giggle and ask me for a foot rub.

Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :

You are a lucky man Tiny Dave. If I said that I would have to hope that the girl is into it.

Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Tiny Dave:
I just come right out and tell them that I have a foot fetish and the just giggle and ask me for a foot rub.

how long into the relationship?

Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Keyfeet:

quote:
Originally posted by Tiny Dave:
I just come right out and tell them that I have a foot fetish and the just giggle and ask me for a foot rub.
how long into the relationship?

That approach tends to work for me too. I'm not at all shy about liking feet so I usually go ahead and let them know that I have a foot fetish pretty early into a relationship(actually it's usually before it can even be called a 'relationship'). I don't really wanna waste time with a girl that's not gonna be cool with it. So I like to get it out of the way pretty quick ya know?

Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :

I've only told two women and I just talked with them about what body part I liked and why.

Posted by soles_n_toes (Member # 31541) on :

i always lucked out, my past girlfriends would ask me if i had any fantasies/fetishes and i would say i had one but wouldnt tell them right away to get them more willing to accept it. they've all been ok with it after i eventually told them. one of them even made sure to tease me occasionally and always have footplay as part of our sex.

Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :

quote:
Originally posted by Turm:

The key is just to seem cool about it all, don't give off weird or nervous vibes.

Quoted for posterity.

Posted by hijkl (Member # 30359) on :

Often times I don't even have to say anything.

I was dating a girl and she put her bare feet in my lap and she noticed I had a boner and was just like "Oh okay."

Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :

In a word, "Slowly".

Posted by silke (Member # 8419) on :

I haven't tell my gf that I have a foot fetish. As said above, I try her to guess by facts. I massage her feet when there's a chance, sometimes suck her toes and soles during sex, and sometimes, when we are in bed, I place my lap near her feet so she can rub them around there.

I haven't get a full footjob from her already.... but it's a matter of time. The surprising thing is that, when we were at the beginning of our relationship and I hadn't have the chance to show her I like feet, we went to a restaurant for dinner and she removed one of her shoes and put her foot on my crotch. There's where I thought "This is the girl I have been waiting for!"

Posted by luv p3rf3ct to3s (Member # 22036) on :

i'll just tell a woman. straight up. even a stranger. i dont really care what they think of me, i'm just telling the truth. but generally the response is good.
my usual goes like this: "i LOVE that pedicure. very hot. and if i may, this may sound a bit crazy, but as a man with a serious foot fetish, you have just made my day."
say that in a matter of fact tone and all i can say is that has always been successful for me.

Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :

I should have expanded a bit. I don't really tell them but simply show them that I have a thing for their feet.