Just had a nice conversation with my wife. Always wanted a 3some with her and I have mentioned this numerous times. I think I got in commin! I told her I want no sexual contact with the other woman other than suck her toes. The plan as of now is to have my wife give me a BJ while I suck her toes and the "other" womans' toes. Looks like we'll have to get a woman "we don't know" as my wife does not want to participate with any co-workers, etc.... Wife and I have been married for 16 years and she has always been into my foot fetish. Time to take it to the next step. Anybody with similar situations?
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
NO, but congratulations that's awesome. That's one thing I want to do in my life. There's one girl who I'm an acquintance with and she has a cute friend. Honestly I don't think anything will happen, but I can only dream.
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
Good luck. Could be mind blowing.
Posted by oscarthemonkey (Member # 1692) on :
I'm working on it!!!
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
No. Much luck with that. I hope all goes well after the experience.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Have had a few occasions with a couple of girlfriends. Some results were wonderful, some nearly catastrophic.
It's wonderful that she enjoys your foot-passion and is willing to give you the opportunity to explore another woman's feet.
A word of caution, though: Make sure that she has absolutely no reservations about this; if she has the slightest, don't do it. Further, if you have any doubt about her having doubts, don't go through with and keep it as a pleasant fantasy.
It is surprising what unexpected emotions (especially jealousy) when one sees their spouse with another and enjoying themselves. This can breed a whole lot of insecurities.
Having said that, here's wishing you lots of luck finding and enjoying your (collectively, that is) new partner.
Toasting with a liberal swallow of bourbon.
Posted by -cfg- (Member # 13863) on :
bona fortuna
Posted by *Brooke* (Member # 24153) on :
So much fun!! We just had our first foursome!! I never thought I would like it or even be up to it but a couple drinks later and we were having a foursome with a couple that we have known forever....
I would say not to do a threesome because then your wife might be jelous...It is better when u can both have fun with a nother person. I am serious when I say that a foursome was amazing and we are a lot closer now...
Posted by footgirl0226 (Member # 29201) on :
I know I wouldnt be able to handle it... It's one thing to play around innocently online...
For me, I just couldnt. For my husband, he just couldnt...
But for those of you who can, we want details lol
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
good luck buddy. a single bi woman is known in the swinger community as a unicorn. i think you get the picture. my wife and i are swingers and have had plenty of foursomes and moresomes and both want a si bi woman for ages and we have tried.. hard.. and i dont think we've ever come close. we are both very attractive (not to be a prick) and have plenty of options when we go to the swing club we belong to but si bi women are worth their weight in gold and know it. your best bet [b]is[/] to find a friend of hers.
the ironic thing about your situation is we're almost the opposite. my wife would be happy to just watch and interact with me as i had whatever fun i wanted with a woman (even a straight woman) with the only limit being her feet. thats a hands off situation.. and honestly, thats more than ok with me. lmao
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
That's a true dream for you pal, but make sure you just touch the feet then and be sure to give your wife more attention, maybe lick both feet at the same time or something.
Posted by Eliza Durden (Member # 22995) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: Have had a few occasions with a couple of girlfriends. Some results were wonderful, some nearly catastrophic.
It's wonderful that she enjoys your foot-passion and is willing to give you the opportunity to explore another woman's feet.
A word of caution, though: Make sure that she has absolutely no reservations about this; if she has the slightest, don't do it. Further, if you have any doubt about her having doubts, don't go through with and keep it as a pleasant fantasy.
It is surprising what unexpected emotions (especially jealousy) when one sees their spouse with another and enjoying themselves. This can breed a whole lot of insecurities.
Having said that, here's wishing you lots of luck finding and enjoying your (collectively, that is) new partner.
Toasting with a liberal swallow of bourbon.
I am going to agree here. Something like this can be bound to ruin a relationship, or it can be fine. My experience with a 3some was long ago and I was not married at the time. It did ruin things between my best friend/girlfriend and I. Things got very complicated very fast. We were able to get over it a few years later, but it took a long time.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote: I am going to agree here. Something like this can be bound to ruin a relationship, or it can be fine. My experience with a 3some was long ago and I was not married at the time. It did ruin things between my best friend/girlfriend and I. Things got very complicated very fast. We were able to get over it a few years later, but it took a long time.
which is exactly why you need to communicate, communicate, communicate before it ever even comes close to happening. it took my wife and i about 5 years of discussing swinging before we felt ready to actually try it.. and since then it's done nothing but made our love stronger and our sex life ALOT hotter!
Posted by Eliza Durden (Member # 22995) on :
quote:Originally posted by nusuth: which is exactly why you need to communicate, communicate, communicate before it ever even comes close to happening. it took my wife and i about 5 years of discussing swinging before we felt ready to actually try it.. and since then it's done nothing but made our love stronger and our sex life ALOT hotter! [/QB]
When you are 17 and 19 year old gurls screwing around with an older tattoo artist, you don't do a whole lot of communicating. We did a lot of other things, but communicating wasn't one of them...
I wouldn't even go there now that I am married. I rip a gurl's eyes out of her head if she tried to touch my husband. Posted by toelkr (Member # 1358) on :
My wife is totally into having a threesome or a foursome. We fooled around with some friends years ago and really liked it. Now were older and ready to explore our sexuality. My wife is also interested in women she admitted that she's very bi-curious.
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