Yep today marks my 21st birthday, meaning I'm able 2 do things I wasn't able 2 do at first. Such as getting into clubs I wasn't able 2 get into, attend parties requiring you be 21 in order to get in, and most importantly I'm legal to drink alcohol:D. But here's where I'm gonna need some advice. Since I'm entering the big leagues now, what are some advice you guys(and gals) could give me to approach older women? I'm currently single and I'm going 2 be on the prowl 2night. I've got my ways of getting 2 feet down packed, so I'm not worried about that. Its just the approach I'm concerned about. Thanks fellow bros and sis!
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
My regrets to you that I am the first to respond.
First thing: The ability to drink a lot of liquor will not render you more erudite nor make you more attractive to the opposite sex. Keep in mind that you are new to this game.
Secondly: If you are gunning for older women (how much older?) they can see a game coming long before the opening move - especially if you are the one planning to make that move. You don't have a spiel that can't be seen-through.
Primary caveats out of the way...well, what do you do...? It is shop-worn and trite to advise you to be yourself; instead, I would remind you that the best parties are the ones that are unplanned. Don't try to MAKE things happen, let events unfold on their own; just be part of the scene. With time and practice, you will be able to identify your opportunities.
Something else that doesn't hurt: Exercise. Have as virile a body as your age suggests. Don't over-display it, though, and the Cougars may scent the bait. Let them carry you off to their lair to slake their thirsts.
Good luck. Good hunting.
By the way, HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!!
Posted by Toesucker85 (Member # 16795) on :
Happy birthday! dude! and good luck.
Posted by Solelova05 (Member # 11076) on :
Thanks toetapper, I really appreciate it. Im really going to take that into consideration 2night. To both toetapper and toesucker, thanks for the b-day wishes! Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
Happy B day.
Posted by sotiny (Member # 25607) on :
Happy Birthday! good luck xx
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
This is your 21st, so for today to get women should be the last thing on your mind. You should be gettin' smashed off your face and worry about 'the good ol' yardie' if a buddy of yours decides to suprrize you with one, which you can't turn down.....
Other than that Good luck on your adventures to older women. And Happy Birthday Dude Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
Happy b-day, soleolva
be sure to fill us in on the haps!
Posted by Foot Lover Of London (Member # 2420) on :
As they say better late than never...Happy b day dude and hope that it was a fruitful adventure??
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