I'm going out on limb here from my usual type of posts, but whatever.
Between having a girlfriend, hooking up and self service, since I was about 13 (I'm 27), I've gone maybe a week without having an "O".
After being out of the game for bit, I've been talking to this new girl. We are into each other. I think eventually we'll hookup. Until then, as a personal challenge, and an act of restraint and self discipline, I'm not going to engage in "self service" for 6 weeks or until I hook up with this new girl, whichever comes first (excuse the pun).
It's been five days and I'm holding up quite well. I just avoid internet porn like the plague and focus on studying for CFA. I've also been doing kegals like crazy, they tend to kill erections after about a 100 reps.
Anyhow, how long have you guys/gals gone without having a big bang of your own? And for you smart asses, I'm talking about post losing your virginity and/or learning self service.
Edit: Grammer
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
I don't understand why you are doing the 6 week plan, but hopefully you'll get with the gal before then. My worry would be holding off all that time and then finally doing the deed would make you last for say... 30 seconds. Not a great first sexual impression!
Anyway for myself I think the longest I go these days may be a couple of days. Any longer and I lose sleep, can't focus, bad concentration, etc.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
i dont think i have ever kept track but i think it's been around a week also and only when something unusual is happening in my life.. like spending a week with our family on vacation or i am under incredible amounts of stress from work. typically though.. whether its from my wife or on my own, almost every day.
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
quote:Originally posted by LeDaemon: I don't understand why you are doing the 6 week plan, but hopefully you'll get with the gal before then. My worry would be holding off all that time and then finally doing the deed would make you last for say... 30 seconds. Not a great first sexual impression!
Anyway for myself I think the longest I go these days may be a couple of days. Any longer and I lose sleep, can't focus, bad concentration, etc.
It's a personal challenge LeDaemon, to prove to myself that I'm not a slave to having an orgasm. Think Buddhist Monk. I'm always looking for ways to test my self discipline e.g. eating healthy, getting good grades, hitting the gym hard, using condoms every time and getting tested etc. This just seemed like a real challenge, that's the appeal.
With respect to performance. I'm doing the kegals to practice maintaining control. And as an added layer of defense, I'm going to tell her what I'm up to. That way if I'm like virgin (hee), touched for the very first time -- she'll know why.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
my longest dry spell (post learning self service) was definitely when I went to military training camp for a month.
we could not masterbate there, plus they put saltpeter in our water (thank god) LOL
and any other dry spells that may compare are when i may go on trips to visit family or whatever for a few days. even then i sometimes break down and wack that little piglet.
it is definitely a tough discipline thing for sure. anytime i start thinkin of hot tall women i've seen off the internet with like size 12 feet, i start thinking in my mind what it would be like for her big toes to be encases around my little porker and stroking it up and down and how good that would feel.
it's small little thoughts like that which will get me going every single time and i just have to give in and mate with the hand. i hope that six week thing does some good. i know there's one guy in these forums who does not masterbate at all and in fact has a finer appreciation for feet than the rest of us. don't recall his username at the moment but i recall reading his posts about 6months back, maybe longer
i heard from someone recently that Effexor is good at taming the libido. this might help in addition to kegals. best of luck
Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
I have gone about six months now after me and gf broke up.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
^^Whoa 6 months?
I've been about 7 days but I think I could double, maybe triple that if it was a competition with a prize worth it involved.
Posted by Tiny Dave (Member # 30771) on :
If it goes on any longer I will have to find a hooker. Posted by alanski (Member # 11004) on :
haha i don't understand the 6 week plan either, i've tried to 'last' for a while but i gave up after 5 days
i have and keep trying to go longer than a day but i struggle
i've masturbated every day for the past 1.5 years
Posted by xm1 (Member # 19377) on :
i think your challenge in reverse makes alot more sense. If your only concerned about the 'challenge' of it then find challenge in not going more then an hour at a time between sessions. Your biology is meant to be doing this thing and doing it alot, choose the course thats natural. Plus as someone who is concerned about your physical state and your long term health, masturbation should be a mandatory part of your workout. You have absolutely nothing REAL to gain from abstaining.. except for maybe some disappointing moments spent with your next brief encounter with a partner.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
This is a personal challenge that I would refuse to undertake. An orgasm is among the greatest gifts bestowed upon human beings. I suspect that if more people vigorously pursued the orgasm as a goal the world would be a much more relaxed place.
The longest I've gone since I discovered the orgasm? Two days, possibly 3 - tops; had a small accident with a Prince Albert piercing.
Posted by shook (Member # 12484) on :
longest I went was 1 week. and i've only done that once. other than that the longest is 2 days lol
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.: my longest dry spell (post learning self service) was definitely when I went to military training camp for a month.
we could not masterbate there, plus they put saltpeter in our water (thank god) LOL
and any other dry spells that may compare are when i may go on trips to visit family or whatever for a few days. even then i sometimes break down and wack that little piglet.
it is definitely a tough discipline thing for sure. anytime i start thinkin of hot tall women i've seen off the internet with like size 12 feet, i start thinking in my mind what it would be like for her big toes to be encases around my little porker and stroking it up and down and how good that would feel.
it's small little thoughts like that which will get me going every single time and i just have to give in and mate with the hand. i hope that six week thing does some good. i know there's one guy in these forums who does not masterbate at all and in fact has a finer appreciation for feet than the rest of us. don't recall his username at the moment but i recall reading his posts about 6months back, maybe longer
i heard from someone recently that Effexor is good at taming the libido. this might help in addition to kegals. best of luck
Saltpeter is just a rumor. The longest I went was 5-6 weeks in basic traing. It was easy though because of all the stress. We also didn't have anything of a sexual nature around us.Showering with 20 other dudes will kill any shot of arousal for weeks.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Saltpeter is just a rumor.
very good to know. i always wondered, but then again this was May '96 so it may have been real back then, but who knows. i only heard it through one of the CTO's
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: We also didn't have anything of a sexual nature around us.
well, you lucked out, but i had a small handful of girls throughout the 157 member training camp that really got me wanting their feet. in fact, one of those girls who i still monitor online to this day. this did not even include the two training instructers who were fit and athletic. both captains. in fact, one night while on cleaning duty for the main HQ (2man detail, spread out in AM hours), i was really tempted to search the office of one captain really hard in hopes that I would find her nikes that she wore during our constant PT sessions. OMG, what I would've done with her shoes as a lowly cadet
honor code said I couldn't lie cheat or steal, but it sure as hell didn't say anything about borrowing LOL
[ October 10, 2008, 05:36 PM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by luvntoes (Member # 10587) on :
usually about fifteen hours lol. too many feet around.
Posted by Lord (Member # 2465) on :
During an outdoor session of love making in the woods at the school track I got poison ivy all over my body and even my penis. It took almost 2 weeks to go away no big O's during this time. Brutal brutal brutal. I know your not supposed to scratch but during that 2 weeks I must have touched my penis more than any other 5 years combined.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
i have gone a maximum of 1 week.
it was an explosion when i cracked a nut.
i actually went twice in one sitting!!! lol
good luck! i have faith in you.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
fellas I lasted like almost 2 months once... I was in a camp out in northern Alberta working in the oil patch with around 250 guys...I would wake up with NO morning wood let alone me even thinking of pussy/peds my boner would be killed when I looked around! My cock spit dust when I got outta that camp! Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
wow blue toe!!
that is quite somethin! lol
i could never last that long.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
I barely did!! I worked like a mofo though.... had rage like a bull! Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
3 weeks, mostly because i didn't notice nor bother
will probably end up doing the same now Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Saltpeter is just a rumor.
very good to know. i always wondered, but then again this was May '96 so it may have been real back then, but who knows. i only heard it through one of the CTO's
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: We also didn't have anything of a sexual nature around us.
well, you lucked out, but i had a small handful of girls throughout the 157 member training camp that really got me wanting their feet. in fact, one of those girls who i still monitor online to this day. this did not even include the two training instructers who were fit and athletic. both captains. in fact, one night while on cleaning duty for the main HQ (2man detail, spread out in AM hours), i was really tempted to search the office of one captain really hard in hopes that I would find her nikes that she wore during our constant PT sessions. OMG, what I would've done with her shoes as a lowly cadet
honor code said I couldn't lie cheat or steal, but it sure as hell didn't say anything about borrowing LOL
Hilarious. I'm going to FT this summer. BMT and FT are two different beast. The sexiest thing I saw in basic was one T.I. in a form fitting blues uniform with the skirt and pumps.
Dude...the fetish is strong withing you. Lol. I would never even think of doing something like that. Wild!
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toe Sucker II: i have gone a maximum of 1 week.
it was an explosion when i cracked a nut.
i actually went twice in one sitting!!! lol
good luck! i have faith in you.
LOL! That's another thing I'm banking on. When I do let one go after six weeks, I'm betting it will be much more intense and fulfilling
Also, with respect to health concerns I doubt celibacy is really unhealthy. I also don't doubt that yanking your crank every day is healthy. Bottom line one can be healthy and abstain. Maybe not for life but six weeks c'mon,
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
High Arch,
You'll be right till you hit 2 weeks, then you'll really feel it!! By the 4 week mark you'll be getting hard ons all the time and it will be hard to get your mind off the matter, you'll be dying for a release. I doubt you'll make it to 6 weeks, something will give...
Believe or or not but when I was 19 I went for 1 year without stroking the snake; I was religious !
Now I frequently go 1 week or so in between self service sessions...
[ October 11, 2008, 10:54 AM: Message edited by: ozboy ]
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
About a week and a half- after some minor surgery.
Like Nusuth I go almost every day either from the wife or self-service. As someone sais- why deny youself the pleasure.
And speaking of pleasure- even the wife does extremely well by me- she just doesn't have the time or the energy to make love to me or masturbate me (especially long edging sessions) like I can do for myself.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: You'll be right till you hit 2 weeks, then you'll really feel it!! By the 4 week mark you'll be getting hard ons all the time and it will be hard to get your mind off the matter, you'll be dying for a release. I doubt you'll make it to 6 weeks, something will give...
ozboy is right, this sequence is very true. it gets progressively worse.
i experienced exactly that when i had my 4wk celebacy at military field training.
by week 4, i think you will be busting that nut all over the place (like i did, when i finally got privacy at home). it is very hard to control, excuse the pun
Posted by shomeyoT0ES (Member # 2662) on :
Assuming this question excludes solo masturbation, two years and counting.... Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
^ it actually includes it. hence all the low numbers we're seeing LOL
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
Surely someone here is going to have a "wet dream" while playing this celibacy game.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: High Arch,
You'll be right till you hit 2 weeks, then you'll really feel it!! By the 4 week mark you'll be getting hard ons all the time and it will be hard to get your mind off the matter, you'll be dying for a release. I doubt you'll make it to 6 weeks, something will give...
Believe or or not but when I was 19 I went for 1 year without stroking the snake; I was religious !
Now I frequently go 1 week or so in between self service sessions...
I see it differently. The first couple of weeks are very tough. Especially since just like smoking we tend to do it at certain times during the day or when we're stressed. After the first couple of weeks though you get used to not doing it and it gets easier. If you're used to doing it after work go work out right after. If you do it before bedto fall asleep, make sure you're exhausted before you head to bed. Not having access to the internet also helps because it's another "cue"
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
quote:Originally posted by LeDaemon: Surely someone here is going to have a "wet dream" while playing this celibacy game.
LOL
very true. Its almost like playing with fire! Its just going to happen.
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Not having access to the internet also helps because it's another "cue"
Agreed. For me, so far, avoiding IP has been the biggest key to staying on course.
Posted by cathymules (Member # 15805) on :
whats wrong with masterbation.you would nt last 2 mins if i left my mules with you. oh by the way i orgasm at least once a day
Posted by YSUfan17 (Member # 26509) on :
I'm reminded of the classic "Seinfeld" episode "The Contest".
Specificly, the scene where Jerry finally goes off on Kramer about the naked woman across the street, & is screaming...
"I can't take it anymore! She's driving me crazy! I can't eat, I can't sleep, I can't leave the apartment! I'm here climbing the walls! Meanwhile, I'm dating a virgin, I'm in this contest...SOMETHING'S GOTTA GIVE!!!!"
Posted by Panic (Member # 21074) on :
3 days tops
Posted by AndyUK (Member # 3419) on :
I have been 9 days once - almost drove me mad!
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
How to prevent masturbating? DO NOT TOUCH your cock. Not even to piss. NEVER put your hands on your cock EVER. NO MATTER what happens NEVER TOUCH IT. Now after awhile, you will end up a nut case but before that you will have such a HUGE HARD ON with your cock swelling, vibrating, pulsating, quivering, weeping, begging, crying - to be LOVED and paid attention to - but DO NOT GIVE IN. LEAVE IT ALONE. After awhile, IT will find its own way to TAKE CARE of ITSELF. And when sleeping, DO NOT lay on your stomach. DO NOT try to drill a huge hole in your matress because you are so damn hard and horny - IGNORE IT. When sleeping, sleep on your back. DO NOT allow your covers to cover your cock - the "touching" of your covers might be too much for your cock. Cut a hole in your blanket so your huge hardon can just stick out through the hole in your blanket - and "breathe"... DO NOT EVEN LOOK at your cock. DO NOT EVEN BREATHE on your cock. DO NOT LET the wind blow on your cock. PROTECT IT at ALL COSTS!!!! NEVER LET ANYONE get anywhere near your cock... PRETEND it really isn't there.... NEVER fall in love with your cock and do not let anyone else - Man or Woman - fall in love with your cock... After about twenty years of being so damn horny, then and only then can you LET a WOMAN take GOOD CARE of it FOR YOU - LET HER HAVE that HUGE LOAD you've been "storing". ONLY SHE WILL TRULY APPRECIATE and UTILIZE your WHOLE LOAD!!!!! It is NOT for you anyway. It is not yours to keep. And do not give it to any ungrateful females. Most of the time they don't know what it is for anyway and couldn't care less. You will be very happy - you WILL SEE....
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Hate to disappoint, Mikey P, the longest the male body will "store" a load is about 3 days; after that, the body starts to eliminate it in urine. About all that's really happening is on a mental, and less physical, level where a person builds up the anticipation. It certainly seems to work for some folks; you might look into Tantric sex practices.
What a male CAN do is to trick their body into producing semen in overdrive: Masturbate frequently (several times a day) for a week or more and then stop whacking altogether for 3 days. On day 3 or 4, depending on how you count them, do a slow masturbation - take a lot of time. When you finally go-off, you'll have quantity and intensity.
In a post some months ago, I made this point: If your body isn't saving it up, why should you?
Just a couple of thoughts.
Posted by Mikey P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: Hate to disappoint, Mikey P, the longest the male body will "store" a load is about 3 days; after that, the body starts to eliminate it in urine. About all that's really happening is on a mental, and less physical, level where a person builds up the anticipation. It certainly seems to work for some folks; you might look into Tantric sex practices.
What a male CAN do is to trick their body into producing semen in overdrive: Masturbate frequently (several times a day) for a week or more and then stop whacking altogether for 3 days. On day 3 or 4, depending on how you count them, do a slow masturbation - take a lot of time. When you finally go-off, you'll have quantity and intensity.
In a post some months ago, I made this point: If your body isn't saving it up, why should you?
Just a couple of thoughts.
DO NOT TOUCH YOUR COCK!!!!
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: Hate to disappoint, Mikey P, the longest the male body will "store" a load is about 3 days; after that, the body starts to eliminate it in urine. About all that's really happening is on a mental, and less physical, level where a person builds up the anticipation. It certainly seems to work for some folks; you might look into Tantric sex practices.
What a male CAN do is to trick their body into producing semen in overdrive: Masturbate frequently (several times a day) for a week or more and then stop whacking altogether for 3 days. On day 3 or 4, depending on how you count them, do a slow masturbation - take a lot of time. When you finally go-off, you'll have quantity and intensity.
In a post some months ago, I made this point: If your body isn't saving it up, why should you?
Just a couple of thoughts.
Interesting point Tortapper. It seems plausible. However, I'm curious about it's truth. Who or what is your source? Are you a urologist?
Posted by mclaren f1 2003 (Member # 2934) on :
a few years back, after a hard break up, i lasted a few months without touching myself. after a while i just didnt think about it.
but with working from 4am to about 12pm and then going to school until about 11pm, i just spent my free time sleeping lol
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
quote:Originally posted by High_Arch_Analyst: [/qb]
Interesting point Tortapper. It seems plausible. However, I'm curious about it's truth. Who or what is your source? Are you a urologist? [/QB][/QUOTE]
To be honest H_A_A, I cannot recall the specific source of the information. I am certain that it was from a reliable medical source but it was so long ago that the exact research now escapes me. I have no medical degree but have a tendency to collect odd facts, especially as regards sex (in all its facets).
I wouldn't impart this information if I was not confident of it. I will always add caveats when research only "suggests" something. Then again, it's masturbation...if it hurts, don't do it.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Note to Mikey P: I AM NOT TOUCHING MY COCK.!!! At least not till tomorrow afternoon.
Posted by Solelvr2009 (Member # 20632) on :
On my own will I would say about a week, but that was only a personal test to let it "build up" so I could drown my target , which may have been my hand I dont remember!!!
p.s. I took zinc & folic acid during that time, and it made a super thick load-- just google it
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