I have to admit having such a huge foot fetish makes me feel like a HUGE pervert. I mean I can look at an really older woman's foot and teenage girl's foot and think they are extremely sexy. I don't think about the sex but rather than just the feet. It turns me on. I feel morally bad when I have the oppurtunity to look a teenage girl's feet and then I catch myself and force myself to stop looking. The same goes if I see an older woman with gorgeous feet. I mean I saw a 64 year old japanese woman with incredibly tan feet and super soft looking soles. I was actually trying to plot to feel her feet. They were so soft. In the end I asked her I could give her a foot massage to make her feel better relaxed after I trained her and she agreed. I felt like such a perv. Honestly am I taking it too far. She doesn't know about foot fetish and certainly didn't think her trainer was doing this to get his rocks off. Please help what are your thoughts? Is it okay to look but not act even if your purpose isn't revealed or just don't act or both. Don't look or act?
Posted by Vanderfeet (Member # 8733) on :
I do feel you have a moral obligation to confine your foot-touching to people who are aware of your intentions.
As far as simply looking, don't let that tear you up inside. I'm sure it's a universally human behaviour to check out one's preferred eye candy as it passes by - be it tits, ass, feet, whatever. Fantasy is fantasy, and you could have worse ones.
Just be sure to give people the respect they deserve, don't drag unwitting strangers into your fantasy fulfillment, and don't break any laws! You should be fine.
[ November 26, 2008, 02:21 PM: Message edited by: Vanderfeet ]
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
i feel like a big pervert looking at womens feet all the time.
i hate it when i see other guys looking too. lol
but i think we have to accept that we are with this fetish for life and its only going to get stronger and stronger.
Posted by Mommie Dearest (Member # 18340) on :
Too look and be sexually attracted is a human reaction. What is the difference between looking at feet in a store or scoping for big tits on a beach?
Also I will have to agree with Vanderfeet ...
quote:Originally posted by Vanderfeet: Just be sure to give people the respect they deserve, don't drag unwitting strangers into your fantasy fulfillment, and don't break any laws! You should be fine.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
The "monster" is just too big. It's irresistible; don't beat yourself up over it.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
It is an incredible pull, but OK unless it drives you to do things to unsuspecting women. THat would not be good.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Yeah I'm the same. Cant help looking..just enjoy what u can and dont beat yourself up. All guys look, they either look at breasts, legs or whatever, but we all look. Just dont make the perving obvious otherwise you look like a creep.
Posted by bremmer (Member # 26185) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mommie Dearest: Too look and be sexually attracted is a human reaction. What is the difference between looking at feet in a store or scoping for big tits on a beach?
It is nice to get an "OK" from you. Seeing this perspective from a female is very therapeutic.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
quote:Originally posted by Vanderfeet: Just be sure to give people the respect they deserve, don't drag unwitting strangers into your fantasy fulfillment, and don't break any laws! You should be fine.
Bingo!
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
my advice is to get a girl, and love her feet
Posted by John Michaels (Member # 4576) on :
why would we ever want to quit? Its not like drugs or tobacco where its bad for you. Don't feel like a pervert dude, look at all the celebrities who have foot fetishes.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
I'm very comfortable with my interest in women's feet and feel not the slightest bit a pervert. As for quitting...I can't think of a reason to even bother trying.
Posted by toeringguy (Member # 32356) on :
nothing to be ashamed of, why would you want to stop? in the summer seeing feet everywhere, it's like a neverending hard-on, guys that like tits can only imagine what they look like, we see feet every day, and don't think women don't know guys like feet why else would they make them look so nice. man, i wish it was summer lol
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by expressions: I have to admit having such a huge foot fetish makes me feel like a HUGE pervert.
oh i know exactly ur feeling man and lemme tellya, it can be tough! And OH YES boyz, i am one big time pervert fer sure!!!
what i have been doing with a small increasing amount of success is been fantasizing about normal sex (ie schlong inside kitty) when i have been having my foot fetish fantasies.
it's really just an incorporation of those thoughts at this point (ie normal sex), but includes foot play as well. but definitely a leap in the right direction from where i previously was because i could only enjoy feet on my fat hawg and now it has become a little more normal at times.
so i say don't lose hope and where there is a will, there is a way Posted by Bootman (Member # 1280) on :
To me, the fact that feet are a non sexual part of the body by means of reproduction (as is mouth, tits asides from the breast feeding side) I can see that giving a woman a foot massage/pedicure that she'd agree to, whether it be because i do have an interest in seeing/touching as many feet as possible is not a bad thing. Turning the girl on her stomach and wankin it onto her soles/smelling/licking her feet while she doesn't know or can't see it is not so good.
It can turn you on, but don't act on it with unwilling participants. The woman agreed, and it obviously was something she wanted as far as a foot massage went, and so long as you didn't rub her feet across your wanger when it got hard through your pants or anything else, i don't see any harm.
Posted by Bootman (Member # 1280) on :
And when i say as possible in reference to the amount of feet i can get my hands/eyes on i'm not talking unattractive nasty women, or feet just because it's their feet.
Had to clear that up or else my conscious would kill me. Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
i do understand too. before i met my wife who made me feel comfortable, accept and even embrace my fetish, i detested my urges. they made no sense, it was utterly perverted, and i wanted to stop. i tried so many times, but i just couldnt.
now though, i realized, its just another aspect of sexuality and if you can find a willing partner who shares your excitement in any way, all the better.
as far as getting to massage clients feet.. thats a grey area. i dont think you are really violating their rights. they are willingly and even wanting you to massage their feet and i dont think its wrong to have erotic thoughts. if that was the case, it'd be wrong to help that cute and busty girl with her email program cause you cant help but have naughty thoughts about her boobs as you show her how to attach a file lol. the only thing you might need to worry about would be if your fetish ever became known. then you might place them in an uncomfortable situation.
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