Ok, This is something I have wondered, and I dont really know where to ask, and since I am on here every day, and post occasionally, I figured I would ask here. Why is it that some girls are "tighter" than others? Does it just depend on the girl, or what? What made me wonder is, after getting out of a very long relationship, I was with another girl a few times, shortly after. Now, some background. My gf and I would do it, quite a bit, and while she wasnt as "tight" as she used to be, it seemed like a good "fit" if you know what I mean. She was only doing it with me, and nobody else at the time we were together. Shortly after, I did this one girl, who has a pretty bad reputation, and I am sure you know what I mean. She has slept with more guys than she probably should have at her age. I thought it was gonna be kinda bad down there, but to my surprise, it was quite the opposite. Really really tight, I wasn't even able to go all the way w/ out it hurting her. She was also slightly taller than my ex, so I also thought that she might have been able to take more? I hope this doesnt sound rude or offensive,but I am sure it does. I am just really curious as to why it was like that, and what makes it like that?
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
Same experience with my past love life my friend. I say, forget trying to explain it, and just go out there and enjoy. Although, the really tight one you were referring too probably had trouble with normal lubrication. A good dose of Astro-Glide or similar lub would made a difference I suppose.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Maybe she done her kegals? Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
Vag's adapt to penis size. Your ex's V was a good fit cuase it adapted to your D. This new girl, despite her rep, doesn't have the V "memory" of your D. Maybe it's been a bit since she slept with a dude?
Posted by cs (Member # 9338) on :
quote:Originally posted by Sinnister: Vag's adapt to penis size. Your ex's V was a good fit cuase it adapted to your D. This new girl, despite her rep, doesn't have the V "memory" of your D. Maybe it's been a bit since she slept with a dude?
That's not how it works either.
Everyone's anatomy is different. The vagina can stretch a lot and maintain it shape. Consider, even your donkey dick is a lot smaller that a baby skull.
some women are tighter than others, end of story.
Posted by LordLucan (Member # 2130) on :
quote:Originally posted by cs:
quote:Originally posted by Sinnister: Vag's adapt to penis size. Your ex's V was a good fit cuase it adapted to your D. This new girl, despite her rep, doesn't have the V "memory" of your D. Maybe it's been a bit since she slept with a dude?
That's not how it works either.
Everyone's anatomy is different. The vagina can stretch a lot and maintain it shape. Consider, even your donkey dick is a lot smaller that a baby skull.
some women are tighter than others, end of story.
Exactly. It's an urban myth that the tighter the vagina or the bigger/longer the labia minora that the more sexual partners she has had. That's like saying, the longer/thicker your penis is the more encounters you've enjoyed. Everyone is different, some people are tall, some short, some thin, some fat, some athletic, some not, some smart sone dumb. Some vaginas are tight, some not.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
I don't have an answer, but it's a good question non-the-less.
Posted by xxmadisonxx (Member # 24593) on :
lol aw i like thios one, well guys its not true that u just adapt to the guy and become looser, truth is we r just all different, as embarrasin as it is to say i hav a very small erm...... wat can i call it, entry? lol and i hav not slept around, but hav had the fittin problem with all my past bfs (not that i hav a huge list) and i hav also had a baby, and i am still small, very small so it is simply that we r just all different , x
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
There are too many genetic variables in the construction of the human body to attempt to guess behavior or internal construction based on outward appearances.
It does put me in mind of a exchange I had with a girlfriend as we were about to be intimate:
Her: "Be gentle...don't break my heart."
Me: "Hmmm...better get it out of the way, then."
Posted by imation_pc (Member # 1480) on :
Madison, may I ask how tall you are? Because another question I have is. If a girl is say 6 feet tall, as opposed to a 5 foot girl, would the taller girl be able to take a bigger guy as opposed to the smaller girl? These are questions I have just recently started to think about. I mean, its been a few months,, but I finally got around to asking them on here. lol The reason is, because lately my sex life has "picked up" a bit if u know what I mean, since getting out of that relationship. but, I have yet to be with a girl thats taller than me, and of those few, I havent been able to go "all the way." Let me clarify a bit, lol, I can, but its when I go completely in, is when i feel the jump and hear the "ouch." But its not really a problem at all really. I was just wondering if height matters with that too.
Posted by Bootman (Member # 1280) on :
quote:Originally posted by LordLucan:
quote:Originally posted by cs:
quote:Originally posted by Sinnister: Vag's adapt to penis size. Your ex's V was a good fit cuase it adapted to your D. This new girl, despite her rep, doesn't have the V "memory" of your D. Maybe it's been a bit since she slept with a dude?
That's not how it works either.
Everyone's anatomy is different. The vagina can stretch a lot and maintain it shape. Consider, even your donkey dick is a lot smaller that a baby skull.
some women are tighter than others, end of story.
Exactly. It's an urban myth that the tighter the vagina or the bigger/longer the labia minora that the more sexual partners she has had. That's like saying, the longer/thicker your penis is the more encounters you've enjoyed. Everyone is different, some people are tall, some short, some thin, some fat, some athletic, some not, some smart sone dumb. Some vaginas are tight, some not.
Ok to throw some experience into this. My baby's mother and i met at the ages of 17 and 16 she the younger. She'd been with i believe she'd said i was her 16th? And had been regular with about 2 guys making me the third at the time (fuck buddies we started and so i didn't mind, as i was doing my own whoring myself at the time) Between then and the time we actually got together and we both stopped our stupid whoring she'd wracked close to about 21? I was around 11? Anyway, no matter what she did, who she was with, unless they were abnormally larger than me ( i was the biggest she was with at the time we met, so i dunno if that had anything to do with it) But no matter what happened, give her one day, and with lube or no lube it was and to this day STILL the hardest vag i'd ever tried getting into. It honestly took me 5 minutes or more just to fit all of myself in there ,and i'm over average but i'm no fuckin freakishly large guy i come in around 7" long by about 3" in width. Nothing spectacular by any means. But she was just tiny inside. Current girl i'm with and the girl before her, both seem about the same, tight, but they aint loose as a goose as the saying goes. I can let her go for a week, there's a little elasticity increased, but on the whole, it's about the same soon as intercourse begins.
As lordlucan put it, it's all about the girl/anatomy.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Bootman, when the girl says your "her biggest she's had" its horseshit fyi Posted by perfectpeds (Member # 29295) on :
quote:Originally posted by Toetapper: There are too many genetic variables in the construction of the human body to attempt to guess behavior or internal construction based on outward appearances.
It does put me in mind of a exchange I had with a girlfriend as we were about to be intimate:
Her: "Be gentle...don't break my heart."
Me: "Hmmm...better get it out of the way, then."
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Thank you, perfectpeds! I love it when I can get a laugh.
Posted by Bootman (Member # 1280) on :
quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: Bootman, when the girl says your "her biggest she's had" its horseshit fyi
Yep, i agree I tell em that all the time too. Unless she's a virgin, which don't exist in my age group or any past about 15 these days lol.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
True enough! I got my cherry popped at 16 and apparently that makes me a "late bloomer" Posted by Bootman (Member # 1280) on :
Yeah man i was 17, so i guess that makes me worse than you were hehe.
Posted by imation_pc (Member # 1480) on :
quote:Originally posted by Bootman:
quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: Bootman, when the girl says your "her biggest she's had" its horseshit fyi
Yep, i agree I tell em that all the time too. Unless she's a virgin, which don't exist in my age group or any past about 15 these days lol.
sorry to bring the old topic back, but I just discovered something today, that is pretty relevent to the topic, and i guess what im quoting.
I dont know if I mentioned that I am now pretty good friends w/ the girl in question, her best friend. Well the topic came up about buying embarassing things, and she brought up condoms, and I was like "yea i know, i hate buying them its kinda embarassing" and she was like "why, is it because u buy the magnum ones or what" and i kinda laughed a bit and was like " wait..what?" and kinda laughed a bit more. then she told me that her friend had told her about me, and that she thought it was pretty interesting. yea, I just had to throw that out there. The girl who i originally talked about had told me that I was..."big" but like what the post above me says, they usually just say that to make you feel good. But now that I found out that she even told her friend, it got me wondering. lol Well whatever the case, it made my day Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
I would have to say that i am no meical expert but i am thinking that overall bone structure and anotomy would have a lot to do with it in terms of tightness... Of course i do not have a Ph D. Although according to this site i am on my to becoming a footologist. Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
Sorry to say guys but I'm right.
Vag's adapt to penis size.
During the first stages of arousal, women's vaginas expand more than necessary in order to welcome a foreign object that it hasn't had the chance to size up. Then, after a few moments, the vagina closes back and tightens softly around the intrusive object.
2)How much psychological/physical stimulation she is given (many knuckle heads are just plain ignorant about this)
3)Also as mentioned buying a lubricant might be needed..
4)If your communication skills are sub par..Try asking her to think about her fantasies or nasty thoughts..
Posted by cs (Member # 9338) on :
quote:Originally posted by Bootman:
quote:Originally posted by bluetoelover: Bootman, when the girl says your "her biggest she's had" its horseshit fyi
Yep, i agree I tell em that all the time too.
Do the ladies get offended when you tell them they're the biggest you've ever had? Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
can't help here. i'm one of those 'super-late bloomers'. popped the cherie when I got married.. in my 30's.. yeah.. i said it! i waited that long! but this thread isn't about me
being i took a lot of bio classes (let's leave it at that).... too many variables play into this. the one you can do the most about is how much lube you apply before the "do". second to that is foreplay to relax her.
after that.. it's out of your hands. some gals are build tight.. others not.. just like guys point different ways and come in differing sizes!
as long as you both work it out so that neither gets hurt in the process.. you're on the right path.
RPM
p.s. i do now wonder.. will my kids opt to wait at all until mid-teens or marriage.. at the rate things are going.....
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