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Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :

I've been troubled by this question and the possible dilemma it offers.

Can a guy, obsessed with feet and footjobs, enter into marriage knowing that he will never derive any enjoyment from his wife's feet? Reason - she has ugly feet, and with those feet there is no desire for feet.

What are the repercussions of starving a foot lover of feet?

Posted by Maverick Matrix (Member # 2989) on :

If you're obsessed with feet, personally I think it's impossible to go without it. Luckily for me, I have other things to fill that "void" so I'm not constantly thinking about feet.

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

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Originally posted by ozboy:
Can a guy, obsessed with feet and footjobs, enter into marriage knowing that he will never derive any enjoyment from his wife's feet? Reason - she has ugly feet, and with those feet there is no desire for feet.

What are the repercussions of starving a foot lover of feet?

oh my, yes we have a real problem here. take it from a guy who can speak on behalf of all the obsessed foot guys around here. there is no way you'll be able to last long w/o the feet you enjoy most... the nectar of life so to speak.

if you do go without them, this will end up causing problems later cuz you will be wanting to lick and sniff the feet of every hot footed lady that passes in front of you with open toed shoes.

now imagine how pissed the wife would be when realizes all this. she will divorce you and take half your money. that will mean less money to spend on women's feet for later too.

save yourself the heartache and find you those feet you will enjoy, cuz lemme tellya from a footguy's perspective: we need those feet, and we need'em bad. depriving us of such is like trying to neuter your pet with just your imagination.

don't fool yourself into something that most likely is not gonna work. you need those feet and you will need them even more when your wife's feet cannot satisfy dem pervy needs. i bet my cum on it!

Posted by N2feet23 (Member # 28130) on :

I think a person with a foot fetish can survive.. it would be very very hard but with all the internet foot stuff out there and WU links, it makes it easier to make it through the hard times

Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :

I'm with Tyler on this one.

[Cheers]

Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :

Can a human survive without water?
Can a tiger become a vegatarian?
Can Oprah be skinny one day?
Can a foot guy go without feet ever?

See the trend??

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

^ ROTFLMAO!!! the oprah one too was just hilarious [Big Grin]

Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :

I'm with footgirl on this.. obsession... you can't do without the object of desire without therapy.. or the object!

as one who isn't 'obsessed'... i think i do fine and will continue to do fine! (yes.. there is a bit of help with the web)

control is the key... and not letting the need run you but you running the need.

even with a wife who is willing to play along, she may not always want to play along at your pace, your appetite, your time, your moment... so knowing how to give and take.. and holding off is going to help keep a marriage happy.. if not, she leaves you and at minimum, half your money!

RPM

Posted by Tom Uz (Member # 12166) on :

When I met my wife I didn't like her feet. I like long and slender and hers are kind of short and stubby. Once married I started to be attracted to her feet not because of how they look but what they mean. I can't be submissive to any human being alone - I have to make her representative of some noble ideal like love or destiny or loyalty to my vow. But how else could I ever focus my love on one body? Nobody's that beautiful. It has to be linked to an idea. It has to be linked to a person - the eye-to-eye, toe-to-toe part of the relationship. If you get that right, this might work its way out later but it might take years. Would you be like the guy that has to stop drinking because he's in love with a recovering alcoholic? If so, I hope she'd be forgiving of your lapses, because there will be some.
I tried to act nonchalant, working a little toe sucking and footjobbing into the old trip around the world, not letting on that for me it was the best part.
Eventually, we grew apart and divorced after 5 years. We never talked about foot fetish so it wasn't like we disagreed. It was just that me wanting more and feeling reluctant to say so vs. her really not thinking much about it but having other issues I was missing became one more on a list of reasons we were on different planets.

Posted by foot_fashion_industry (Member # 33265) on :

quote:
Originally posted by ozboy:
I've been troubled by this question and the possible dilemma it offers.

Can a guy, obsessed with feet and footjobs, enter into marriage knowing that he will never derive any enjoyment from his wife's feet?

Let me answer your question with a question. Does 2+2 add up to 7?

That's what I though.

Problem solved.

Posted by climax (Member # 6641) on :

quote:
Originally posted by ozboy:
I've been troubled by this question and the possible dilemma it offers.

Can a guy, obsessed with feet and footjobs, enter into marriage knowing that he will never derive any enjoyment from his wife's feet? Reason - she has ugly feet, and with those feet there is no desire for feet.

What are the repercussions of starving a foot lover of feet?

Can a sex lover survive without sex? Whatever the pleasure, im pretty sure being in a partnership without it wouldnt be so good.

Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :

I think it depends on the feet. If they're deformed, then no way! But is it a problem that can be taken care of simply with a good pedicure? If that's the case, that would be fine with me.

Posted by Mr.Papers (Member # 3205) on :

I would say mos def not. like T said you will be lusting after every woman who passes with sexy shoes or even flip flops. The wife will divorce and then comes hell.

Posted by Mikayla's #1 Fan (Member # 2662) on :

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Originally posted by N2feet23:
I think a person with a foot fetish can survive.. it would be very very hard but with all the internet foot stuff out there and WU links, it makes it easier to make it through the hard times

I see where you're coming from, but one can only enjoy so much of video clips, & two-dimensional photos. The flip-side to that of course is, the wife finds out you're spending ALL your "quality time" downloading foot pics! How's that gonna make her feel?

Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :

I think even though there are forums and tons of videos availabe, the desire to actually taste and touch feet will overwhelm you and you will end up getting feet from someone else.
That is probably why you read about the creepy foot guy in newspapers or on tv. Got tired of dreaming or watching and needed the real thing.

Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :

quote:
Originally posted by FtLckr26:
the desire to actually taste and touch feet will overwhelm you and you will end up getting feet from someone else.

yes indeed, we can pretty much all agree that those creepy foot guys in the news all have this one thing in common: they were all overwhelmed by the need for feet.

quote:
Originally posted by FtLckr26:
That is probably why you read about the creepy foot guy in newspapers or on tv.

it's a lesson in behavioral science for any foot guy to take note of if he does not want to end up like them. keep those feet urges satisfied to a point to where you do not become this overwhelmed.

quote:
Originally posted by FtLckr26:
Got tired of dreaming or watching and needed the real thing.

what they really needed was some therapy. this sorta ties back to the whole obsession thing discussed earlier and the need to avoid letting it get that bad. i would like to reiterate that putting oneself in a position to where he is gonna be craving feet all the time and not getting any satisfaction is gonna be an eventual recipe for disaster.

get some feet boyz before the cravings turn into an obsession! [Thumbs Up]

Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :

IMHO- no. You'll end up admiring and/or ejoying the feet of other women like I did.

Scared that my wife would totally not accept my fetish, I didn't tell her about mine until we'd been married for about 23 years. In addition, as others had mentioned, I really wasn't aroused by her feet, largely because of two bunions on the inside of each foot.

Consequently I'd seek out other women's feet anywhere I could, but especially public swimming pools (indoor pools in the winter). I had a job that allowed me the freedom to set my own schedule and travel within an area. I knew all the best places to view feet.

I eventually moved to Florida, where Of course I saw feet all the time). Once the internet came along I found foot sites that I visited on a regular basis.

After finding Wu's a few years ago, I was encouraged to tell my wife about my fetish. I did, and becasue she truly loves me, she completely accepted it and has worked hard at making me happy with her feet: taking excellent care of them, polishing her toe nails regularly, wearing foot jewelry 2/7, going barefoot at home, and wearing sandals and flip-flops whenever she can.

To put it simply, I fell in love with her feet and all aspects of them arouse me. She did have the worst bunion removed fro one foot, but I can even overlook the other one, largely because she shares them with me so openly.

Don't know if that helps or not, but that's my personal experience.

Posted by peterindc (Member # 33778) on :

I once dated an attractive woman, a dancer with very ugly feet. Although we dated, I knew our relationship would not be a permanent thing. Her feet were gross.

Posted by StarsHill2 (Member # 23140) on :

I think, foot fetish isnt obssesion at all... it becomes obssesion when you can't have sexual pleasure if u don't do feet stuff or whatever... In my case, i do enjoy sex even if there are feet involved or not... the difference is that when feet are present on sex they become an spice to the whole thing, i mean... make things hotter. The point is that i consider myself a foot fetish man, what doesnt mean i cannot have a normal sexual relation where feet are not into. I agree with footgirl0226 at all!

Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :

Relationships and dating are so complicated on their own right, its a shame that us foot guys have to add additional complexity and demand pretty or unique feet which satisfy our pallette....

Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :

No, but try to survive without long toes - which is only about 4% of the female pop., plus finding one that will suck her toes while you are kissing her during sex. Needle in hastack and training time.

Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :

Well being obsessed with feet (but not to the point of therapy), I do not think i would go into a marriage or put myself in a position where i would not get the enjoyment of feet and i would not marry an woman with ugly feet because it just wouldn't be possible.

Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :

I don't reckon so...I'm fortunate in that respect though [Big Grin]

Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :

Cain you are soooo right - the day I shut the site down, you'll know the feet of my dreams made me choose.

I have had several gf ask if I could be married to only one pair of feet. Which is a loaded question in itself. ergo I am attached to my freedom.

Posted by Eliza Durden (Member # 22995) on :

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Originally posted by footgirl0226:
I think the real issue is the "obsession" with anything. It's not healthy to be consumed and obsessed with anything...

I absolutely agree! You took the words right out of my text box !

Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :

Maybe obsession is a bit of a strong word. I'd say its an 'issue' that must be addressed and considered.

Posted by N2feet23 (Member # 28130) on :

weekend_warrior-- true... my motto is, if I wasn't checking it out on-line then I would be out trying to get it.. can't have both so pick one is what I say... all the ones I know didn't have a problem with me checking stuff out on-line cause they knew if I wasn't allowed to do that or they got mad about it, I would go searching for it outside of the house.

such a tough subject... feet are just too great to not have in a persons life.

Posted by lynard (Member # 20188) on :

I think I would need to know...how ugly?

Posted by Brandy's Foot Slave (Member # 20905) on :

I couldn't

Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :

Needless to say, this topic is pretty HEAVY! I told another member (in a Private Message) I'm actually worried about finding a soulmate, b/c I've been TOO BUSY lookin' for a "sole-mate" [Confused]

Should I be worried?

Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :

An update for you guys. I've been out w this chik now a few times. We've had relations as well twice now. But I almost cant take it anymore. The fact that her feet arnt 'there' is a REAL issue for me. I just dont have attraction for this girl despite the fact that she harbours some good character qualities.

The feet thing for me cannot be brushed under the carpet !!