We spend alot of time talking about our object of desire, but for the single guys do we spend too much time talking and not acting? Speaking about hypothetical situations instead of living in reality and dealing with real women instead of the internet "godess/mistress"?
I get out on the weekends and meet women weekly but I can only imagine the amount I could get accomplished if I didn't spend so much time chillin on the site. What do you guys think?
GQguy
Posted by reinforcedtoemo (Member # 28066) on :
very true..i'm working on trying to get with a lady friend of mind, who hopefully will be my lady.Then i will have all the feet i want..lol
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
not me, i spend most of my time online now. i work at a hooters and go to college, but i'm so uncomfortable talking to women now that i'd rather just leave out as soon as possible and sit online.
so i could get much more done, but i already do. and i wouldn't be getting more done with the chicks either way, so what's the point???
Posted by Solelvr 20,012 (Member # 20632) on :
Yea you gotta have that balance. I've learned alot from this forum, and sometimes use this gained knowledge in reality... However, there are situations when the lady is just a waste of time, and I could have been more productive online!!!
[ March 21, 2009, 10:33 PM: Message edited by: Solelvr 20,012 ]
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
I think the more you spend talking about it, the more comfortable you get with it. Hopefully.
Posted by Athena K (Member # 33809) on :
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: I think in real life, it would get very boring and lame having a guy talk about this crap all the time. Actually, anything obsessive.
Live life. The more you talk something to death the more unsexy you become... and honestly the more whimpy.
You like feet- so be it. Enjoy and move past the awkwardness...
i completely agree lol
Posted by Maverick Matrix (Member # 2989) on :
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: I think in real life, it would get very boring and lame having a guy talk about this crap all the time. Actually, anything obsessive.
Live life. The more you talk something to death the more unsexy you become... and honestly the more whimpy.
You like feet- so be it. Enjoy and move past the awkwardness...
There's a large reason why I post seldomly now becuase honestly, I can only talk about it for so long. Besides, what's the fun in talking about it if you can't actually do it? I don't get any foot action and I'm so busy with school there's no real time. Music takes up all my time... and there's a jam session tomorrow so I'd rather be there jammin than on the forum. Nothing against anyone on here, I just have other priorities.
Posted by Drunk_24-7 (Member # 21781) on :
If you're in a serious relationship that's lacking feet, it ain't as serious as it should be. Go get dem tootsies and celebrate just how sexy they are. If you're already with a gorgeous girlfriend like I'm happy to be blessed with, thank the good lord for her each and every day, and if you've got a camera, share pictures of your good fortune.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Must be a quiet weekend for you GQguy, lots of posts from you all of a sudden ??
Posted by High_Arch_Analyst (Member # 28756) on :
I feel you GQ...my excuse is simple.
The reason I'm here (and online in general) so often is simple, at this stage of my life it's all about working, education and taking my career and earning power to the next level.
Between the grueling hours required to work in finance, studying for the GMAT and developing/keeping my analytical tool set sharp via reading and supplemental courses in various topics -- I have NO fucking life (hence it's Saturday night and I'm posting this message) .
I probably won't be able to really get my rotation back on deck until roughly 2012. Luckily, I'm not afraid of women and try (with decent success rate) to capitalize on every situation possible (e.g. trips to the grocery store, coffee shop, GMAT class etc.) to meet women. So even though the volume of women I hook up with in a year has declined from roughly 10 to maybe four or five since I graduated from college, I'm still in the game.
Post grad, when presumably all I'll have to do is work and keep the tools sharp (plus I'll be banking 2-3x more money), it'll really be time get back out there and make up for lost time (as far as my social life is concerned) by picking up where I left of before I started this painful process -- being a totally adventurous, outdoor oriented, debonair social butterfly, complete womanizer and loving every minute of it.
For now though, I'm in total dork mode, and you every time I take a break from the grind, you guys will probably be hearing from me. Posted by Athena K (Member # 33809) on :
this place is more fun than facebook. no one superpokes you *roll eyes*
Posted by Mr.Papers (Member # 3205) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: Must be a quiet weekend for you GQguy, lots of posts from you all of a sudden ??
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: Must be a quiet weekend for you GQguy, lots of posts from you all of a sudden ??
Haha. No actually. I'm always out on the weekends. I check out the forum almost as much as I check out my e-mail looking for a topic to contribute to. Not many match my style "how do you get socks the sweatiest" isn't my thing. I was a lil drunk so I thought i'd create a few thought provoking threads.
As for time....just imagine if every hour you spent chillin on the comp you were instead out and about meeting new people. How much would that improve your life. Or working out. Or working on that project. Ect. The forum has the purpose of instilling confidence amongst our ranks. I've learned alot about myself. But is it about time that I devote more of my wu/foot fetish time to something else? Just a gut check question i'm asking myself aloud.
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Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
GQguy,
I couldn't agree with you more. Quite honestly, I have no valid excuse. There's nothing stopping me from gettin' out there, and exploring the possibilities of dating....except myself. After reading other folks' comments & responses, I now know there are others who are TWICE as busy with school and/or work schedules. Yet they still make an effort to meet other ppl outside of cyberspace. I don't care who u are, this thread was meant for us SINGLE GUYS! Some of which who are @ least trying or "winging it"--as they say. (I'm not even close!!!!) I tend to use the old excuse: "Easier said than done." On the plus side, one of the main reasons I hang out here, is for the comradery. Never in my life have I felt so at home, so at ease with a bunch of 'strangers' {and I use that term lightly} who welcomed me with open arms, five years ago. Call me a wuss if u want--I get so emotional just thinkin' about it. You guys are the friendliest bunch of people I've ever known--but will probably never meet.
Am I still wasting time talking about feet? Of course not. I'm a proud member of Wu's Forum! This place has taught me to be more acceptable of myself, and my fetishes. Nonetheless, there are other reasons I'm not so proud of (offline)
- fear of rejection
- fear of ridicule/embarrassment
- the more time I spend here, the less chances I have at finding relationships..... with the OPPOSITE SEX!!!! Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
GQguy, you have the same problem as me. We think too much.... Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: GQguy, you have the same problem as me. We think too much....
Not a problem. Just trying to live my life more efficiently to be that better person. One doesn't grow without picking out potential faults and fixing them. Fixing them is the key, many people accept their faults and don't act to fix them.
Chillin on Wu's in my younger days was a way to find sexy material. Now that phase has passed. Now i'm here to hear other's accounts dealing (or not dealing) with their foot fetish and perhaps provide my own insight. Now as I get busier and busier I wonder what value checking out wus several times a day does for me? Perhaps I would be better off getting out there and living more life as opposed to chillin on the comp? Is it always practical? Not exactly. It's 8 am now, but if I did my work now I wouldn't be working at 5pm and I could go play ball at peak hours. I could then hang out somewhere instead of waiting till the weekend to do the phoenix bar/club scene. I have a decent social life but like everything in my life it could be better. Just looking at my habits and seeing which one's fit.
I'm going to be a military pilot in a years time. They embody confidence, leadership hardwork, social savvy, efficiency and doers ect? Does my foot fetish fit into all of that? Yes. But more so in the act/do instead of think/talk.
Just constructive thought for myself.
GQguy
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
So you're with the Airforce..you guys are panzies. Have you heard the famous joke? The Navy boys navigate by the stars, the Airforce sleep in a hotel based on the number of stars and the army boys sleep under the stars !
I'm an Army brat if you hadn't guessed it.
Let me tell ya, once you're on Active Duty not alot of foot action, so take advantage now !
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
quote:Originally posted by Drunk_24-7: If you're in a serious relationship that's lacking feet, it ain't as serious as it should be.
Words of wisdom right there!
Posted by You (Member # 2107) on :
i believe i have the right balance, no complaints, no regrets
Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
GQ - Dude seriously I have never had a bad time in the air - I have been fortunate to meet amazing people on planes and while traveling. Flying military equipment is the first step to a long, prestigious career in other avenues if you want. And women will be flinging their shoes off for you.
I personally have mad respect for pilots since even the most hair raising stuff we see on the news ususally ends up as just that. Zero fatalaties as the pilot landed on a gnats ass.
Safest form of travel I tell my homies - I am a speed freak myself and justify it since it is hard to get hit by another car if there is no one around you. The cops don't appreciate that response though.
Eyes on the instruments my good man - you won't have to try to get them - after your military service that is - they will seek you out.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by ozboy: So you're with the Airforce..you guys are panzies. Have you heard the famous joke? The Navy boys navigate by the stars, the Airforce sleep in a hotel based on the number of stars and the army boys sleep under the stars !
I'm an Army brat if you hadn't guessed it.
Let me tell ya, once you're on Active Duty not alot of foot action, so take advantage now !
Haha. I like that! First class all the way!
When it comes to being a pilot...they are the epitome of adventure. I'm just saying with that goal of mine my social habits should change. I am a partier/former frat boy and I do hookup alot. I just think that we/me spend too much too much time talking about the fetish instead of doing the fetish.
Foot fetish and pilot are not mutually exclusive. Spending hours on the comp on foot fetish sites and being the stereotypical pilot is mutually exclusive. IMHO. Just got to make sure that when I make General I don't offer my secretaries and subordinates foot massages ;o) like that one guy.
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