I've been seeing this girl for the past month or so and we're really in to each other. We get along great, We've had sex and its fantastic. One thing bothers me though...She hates feet and pantyhose. I haven't told her that I have a foot fetish nor have I told her how much I love hose. I'm not afraid to tell her because I feel like I can tell her anything, what is scary for me is that I'm afraid she'll say "Well, all feet are gross and there's no way I'm gonna let you do anything to my feet" which will then make it very difficult for me to stay w/ her...is that shallow, am I crazy? What should I do?
Posted by SOLEMAN 13 (Member # 33699) on :
She might be/get into it, just give it time. If nothing else, you can always get some sleepy feet action. If she never does come around, though, I'd let her go; by that time you'd probably be wearied of her anyway.
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
Ok, here is my advice, take it or leave it.
Start off with a nice romantic foot massage, if she doesn't allow you to do that....move on. WHY? Life is to short and we are all where we are because we choose to be. Do you really want to chose to be with someone that is not sexually compatible? If you are into feet and she won't let you give her something as simple as a foot massage, move on love. There are plenty of woman out there that would WELCOME the idea of a man giving her a foot massage. Don't settle because its easy, find what you want because its hard, the reward is worth it.
MWAH
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Posted by FootLovinJazzMusician (Member # 33322) on :
I agree 100% with the sage advice given by Miss Moore.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Me too! If she thinks you're a weirdo, it's time to move on.
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
Exactly Footgirl0226.....Speak and Support each other, if you can't do that, then don't bother.
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
How did she break it to you that she doesn't like feet? Also I would say take it slow as others have said start with a light massage, compliment pedicures.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
One thing about relationships is that hopefully we want our signifigant others to be happy. Her opinion about feet may be just what her experiences so far have been. Maybe she needs to be exposed to a different experience that may change her outlook and if she did take a hard stance like no way ever, you might want to think about how much she cares about what makes you happy in the first place. I agree silence is not your friend in this situation so speak up!!
Posted by justdaone (Member # 16096) on :
I totally agree with Danielle. You gotta just go for it.
Posted by BFS (Member # 20905) on :
Thanks guys...I'll talk to her and we'll see how it goes...Wish me luck!
Posted by jkluvsfeet1984 (Member # 30704) on :
My wife hates everyone's but her own feet. Like if my bare foot is anywhere close to touching her she freaks. However, she absolutely loves catering to my fetish, i.e. worhsipping, footjobs, wears sexy shoes all the time, gets pedicures, etc. And she LOVES getting cum on her soles which is the biggest part of my fetish. The point being: I was open with her from early on about what I was into, she accepts it, despite her obvious hang up with feet, and loves to please me. So, if the girl your with is worth keeping, she'll be cool. If she freaks out, then cut her loose. There's plenty of fish (feet?) in the sea.
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
i think what Miss Moore said is right.
I have finally come to terms with it now.
I will confess to the girl im seeing (at the right time in the bedroom) that i love feet.
it has to be done.
and if they dont like it, then you need to find people that do.... especially your wife to be! lol
Posted by Saint Deb (Member # 34440) on :
Go down on her and if you do that right, you can always guide her feet in for a footjob...
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
The thing is, when you are in a relationship, the person with you has to love YOU and everything about you, including your fetishes. If they don't, move on and PLEASE do not waste time by pretending you can live with it...have the courage to take care of business and know what you want.
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
quote: I will confess to the girl im seeing (at the right time in the bedroom) that i love feet.
more importantly make sure you tell her you love HER feet.