Since its almost summer- the sights are great in the Supermarket.. Im taking a survey and Ill contribute... What are the best lines to attempt to get foot action?.. And importantly NOT come off as a perv...!! (a lot of guys are ignorant about this) Ill return with a thoughtful comment on this..
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
Hate to be a thread killer, but in all practicality there is virtually no way NOT to come off as a perv. in the super market scenario that you describe.
Posted by lovesize7s (Member # 34342) on :
while trying to be classy and fun at the same time I always take a shot!Whether its"I hope to god your husband is a toe man" or depending on the girl(tattoos)"How many times a week do guys with foot fetishes approach you." Its all about the demograph!!! I live in a very high end community and I still go for it.If you swing enough you will hit the ball eventually!!And I do every once in a while.I have also had success with"please accept this as a compliment(smile act bashfull)but you really take incredible care of your feet"
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Basically I aim this question at some of the veterans or more experienced memebers of this forum(maybe older then 35-40 years of age)
I agree if you swing enough you will hit the ball eventually..Also some guys are very smooth and cassanova -like or even pick up artist..
First I think one has to be very careful how you approach the woman.. [Constantly buffereing] what you say to her not to sound like a perv or frighten her.. For example. "Please dont take this the wrong way..(Guess her shoe size) But are those feet a size 8, size 10, etc?....After she tells you her size say--They are very attractive or well cared for"..And possibly if you can lead to it.. "Im a foot massage master".. Any thoughts on this.. I know it is done or can be done.. Some of those feet in the supermarket are almost heavenly! As love size 7 says you should sound classy and sophisticated..
Posted by Michael P (Member # 1922) on :
there are no "foot lines" that won't make you come off as a perve
approach her the way you normally would
Posted by Danielle Moore (Member # 34633) on :
I personally have had guys come up to me in the super market or in other public venues and ask me what brand shoe I am wearing because their girlfriend would absolutely love them or some had even said I would love to see my girlfriend with a pair like that, I think they are sexy.
Since I wasn't born yesterday, I know they were looking for a conversation opener and to see what kind of response they would get. Sometimes I play a long and other times, depending on my mood, I won't.
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
quote:Originally posted by Michael P: there are no "foot lines" that won't make you come off as a perve
approach her the way you normally would
Thats the thing- many women may see it as different or freaky..Some may like that..
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Simple. "Hi" "hey" "hello" said with a cool smile and good eye contact. Come off as warm. Simple. Anything else i've read already will give you the leading role as "perv #1" when she recounts the story to her girl friends after she dials them to ensure you don't follow her home.
After the hello, talk to her like a human being. Geez, at some point if you dated her you would have to treat her like a normal person, why not start now? Even if a super model came up to me and asked me my shoe size she'd come off as weird. Imagine this scenario in reverse? Think of this, how would brad pitt minus the fame and cash approach a woman? He'd say hi, and make small talk. The foot stuff comes later when you know she's attracted to you. Talking about it sooner WILL ensure the attraction part never happens.
GQguy
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Simple. "Hi" "hey" "hello" said with a cool smile and good eye contact. Come off as warm. Simple. Anything else i've read already will give you the leading role as "perv #1" when she recounts the story to her girl friends after she dials them to ensure you don't follow her home.
After the hello, talk to her like a human being. Geez, at some point if you dated her you would have to treat her like a normal person, why not start now? Even if a super model came up to me and asked me my shoe size she'd come off as weird. Imagine this scenario in reverse? Think of this, how would brad pitt minus the fame and cash approach a woman? He'd say hi, and make small talk. The foot stuff comes later when you know she's attracted to you. Talking about it sooner WILL ensure the attraction part never happens.
GQguy
I agree, just wondering if there are any other techniques! Also would NOT want to get thrown out of the supermarket(lol)
[ May 09, 2009, 06:30 PM: Message edited by: mjl1717 ]
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Here's one...after normal conversation where you find out things that you like about her...give her a compliment on those commonalities. i.e. I say " I love to travel, blah blah blah" She says "me too, i've been to blah blah". She has said something that warrants a compliment. You could say " you seem cultured/classy, it's very cool" "i like your style, even your toes look classy". See...she earned your compliment by expressing that she was into something you're into. So you compliment her not on her appearance but on her character. This is more genuine and she won't forget it. You brought up her toes and if she's open to talk about it she will. You don't come off as weird either, but very perceptive and meticulous in how you look at a woman. A man with taste. Of coure don't let the thread on toes linger too long. Chat about what you like to do and set up a mutual hangout. I.e. "I love hiking blah blah" she might say "I love it too blah blah" Then you say "i'm going sat you should come" get her digits. Set up the date hike(insert activity here) and you can take it from there.
But it all starts with hi, and a smile.
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Yes GQ,
Thats what Im talking about.. some kind of insidious or subliminal remark that come off as a repectable guy..
1)Or even saying "Oh, I notice you put a lot of care into your feet" And carying on a decent mini conversation (not too much) if she allows it...But buffering it since she is new game..
[ May 09, 2009, 07:21 PM: Message edited by: mjl1717 ]
Posted by jebzy (Member # 33706) on :
i work in one part time aswell, and i see some great feet! just today i saw a girl she was either middle eastern or turkish or something like that, around 18/19 and she was gorgeous, i just smiled at her and looked down at her feet, she then looked down as well and wiggled her toes and smiled and walked off, she had these black strappy sandles, her feet looked so warm and soft.. her soles and toes where pink from walking/heat and she had shocking pink nail polish and to top it off she had matching lipstick on.. wow she was hott!
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Hmm. The inititial premise has to be that you ARE a respectable guy. You just want to make sure that you don't come off as a perv. I don't really talk about feet until I know that sex is inevitable. Theres no point in bringing it up earlier. Really...what's the point in brining it up? Especially if you've seen her feet and you like them. Foot fetishist that get laid also get feet. Thats how it goes if that's what you're looking for.
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Yes, its a very sensitive touchy topic..That often I avoid especially in the early stages...But if one is in to feet..I think it may be possible to cleverly mention it without being obtrusive ..
Posted by cathymules (Member # 15805) on :
11 times out of 10 you will be shot down.you will come off as a perv.dont bother until you start dating and if she in to you, you can have her feet or anything eles.play it slow.do you really think if you were at the market that you would have her feet in your face .she would be so turned off. get a girlfriend first then slowly bring in the fetish .bye for now and good luck Cathymules
Posted by Mr.Papers (Member # 3205) on :
GQguy is speaking truth IMO.
Another way I scored two chicks was by using what we have around us (sometimes I call them metaphorical props). Both times I walked up to older women and just started with a "hello." I then asked if they were mothers (they said yes) and wished them a happy mothers day.
This put a smile on there faces, so I put one on mine and asked if they were "single mothers" Now I did this more than two times but the two that I scored were actually single. I'm in my early 20's and in LOVE with older women aka milfs so I get a lot of "you're too young" or "you can be my son!" but that does not stop me.
The key is if you are in a store and she is looking at a product find something witty to say in relation to you, her, and the product. It could be if she is passing by you and you are looking at a product say something to her. Chances are you will never see her again in your life so why not.
I love picking up women in supermarkets and different stores because they really don't go all out and you will get to see the real them. Another one I had was I saw this chick in the deodorant section and she was walking my way. When she got closer and about to pass me I said, "be careful I just sprayed this, I know you've seen what happens in the commercial. She laughed and I asked her name blablabla and ended with me getting her number etc.
In conclusion, you don't have to be the best looking, smartest, richest guy to get women; you just need the confidence. It's funny to me how grown ass men can get there feelings hurt by a little ole woman.
Ironic don't you think?
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Simple. "Hi" "hey" "hello" said with a cool smile and good eye contact. Come off as warm. Simple.
would this also depend on if the female would even be warm enough to the "Hi" in order to move into small talk???
some women at supermarkets can't be bothered to be honest, so should finding someone who would be open to small talk be part of the deal as well???
[ May 10, 2009, 02:46 PM: Message edited by: blackHxC88 ]
Posted by footster008 (Member # 26335) on :
ITT creeps trying to justify being creepy
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by footster008: ITT creeps trying to justify being creepy
uncalled for "ITT" was uncalled for
[ May 11, 2009, 12:14 AM: Message edited by: blackHxC88 ]
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Simple. "Hi" "hey" "hello" said with a cool smile and good eye contact. Come off as warm. Simple.
would this also depend on if the female would even be warm enough to the "Hi" in order to move into small talk???
some women at supermarkets can't be bothered to be honest, so should finding someone who would be open to small talk be part of the deal as well???
Good question! Have you ever smiled at a baby? Automatically they'll smile right back and get super excited. As adults we hide our emotions. When someone smiles at us we're caught off guard. We wonder why. We look behind us to see if someone else is behind us being smiled at.
Meanwhile the person smiling is seen as warm, happy and social and CONFIDENT. Some women won't smile back. It's a risk! But guaranteed that you made her day a little better. If she walks by you again and you're unphased odds are she will be more receptive. People love being smiled at.
The smile is the best opener. Not the joker toothy smile but the i'm happy to be here smile. It says far more than any canned line. To have a busy/hectic/bad day and still be able to smile says alot about your mental strength.
So in closing you smiling doesn't depend on anyone but yourself. Don't worry about what she thinks. Of course smiling at someone who is staring at her shopping list makes little sense, make eye contact. Practice with old people and little kids. Work your way up to the women you're attracted too. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
Posted by Brek (Member # 28601) on :
quote:Originally posted by cathymules: do you really think if you were at the market that you would have her feet in your face. good luck Cathymules
If that were true, I'd need a bigger pantry. Posted by Michael P (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy:
quote:Originally posted by blackHxC88:
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: Simple. "Hi" "hey" "hello" said with a cool smile and good eye contact. Come off as warm. Simple.
would this also depend on if the female would even be warm enough to the "Hi" in order to move into small talk???
some women at supermarkets can't be bothered to be honest, so should finding someone who would be open to small talk be part of the deal as well???
Good question! Have you ever smiled at a baby? Automatically they'll smile right back and get super excited. As adults we hide our emotions. When someone smiles at us we're caught off guard. We wonder why. We look behind us to see if someone else is behind us being smiled at.
Meanwhile the person smiling is seen as warm, happy and social and CONFIDENT. Some women won't smile back. It's a risk! But guaranteed that you made her day a little better. If she walks by you again and you're unphased odds are she will be more receptive. People love being smiled at.
The smile is the best opener. Not the joker toothy smile but the i'm happy to be here smile. It says far more than any canned line. To have a busy/hectic/bad day and still be able to smile says alot about your mental strength.
So in closing you smiling doesn't depend on anyone but yourself. Don't worry about what she thinks. Of course smiling at someone who is staring at her shopping list makes little sense, make eye contact. Practice with old people and little kids. Work your way up to the women you're attracted too. The more you do it, the easier it gets.
this is a man that knows his shit
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
fun stuff but be prepared for a smack down lol
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Excuse the ignorance but what does ITT stand for?
Posted by lovesize7s (Member # 34342) on :
wow this thread turned into a book!!I hope you got your answer mjl1717.I do believe the smile and eye contact play the biggest role.you just have to pick the right girl!!Cougar bars and 711's might be better than the supermarket to get started!!Batter up my man!!!!!!!!! GOOD LUCK
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Ok, I agree instead of being too aggressive..Its probably best and safest to get eye contact and smile... And not say anything too out landish..I think each situation is unique.. Mr Papers also made good comments..
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
quote:Originally posted by mjl1717: Excuse the ignorance but what does ITT stand for?
ITT=in this thread
Posted by Mr.Papers (Member # 3205) on :
quote:Originally posted by mjl1717: Ok, I agree instead of being too aggressive..Its probably best and safest to get eye contact and smile... And not say anything too out landish..I think each situation is unique.. Mr Papers also made good comments..
thanks bro hope it works out for you keep us posted
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
okay, yeah the suggestions about getting to know the girl 1st are actually the ones that would generally work best, but to get back into the original spirit of the thread, here is a way to directly address the feet thing, hence skipping over that extended process of trying to fool her into thinking that you actually liked her for her personality before you liked her for her feet LOL!
you: "got a question maam."
her: "yes"
you: "where do you get your nails done?"
her: "i get them done at (fill in the blank)"
or
her: "i do them myself"
you: "oh cool, they're rather nice. I'll need to tell my ex-girlfriend to go to that place."
or
you: "i should hire you to do my ex-girlfriend's nails since she can never get them quite as nice as yours."
those are your ice-breakers but what comes next is more fill in the blank type of convo.
from either of these two outcomes, you can let her know upfront that you have an innocent eye for nice feet (unlike most men who never notice). you can also work in the fact that you gave casual foot massages to your ex because of her nice feet & that you are able to discern that this grocery store lady takes care of her feet. from there, you can ask her if anyone's ever given her feet a good massage.
chat her up happily for a little bit, but at the end of your chat, give her your card. pencil in foot massage on the card at the time you hand it to her.
let her decide later if she wants to meet up with ya.
this handing over of contact info works especially great with very poor attractive women in grocery stores who need money badly and you have worked a proposition into your conversation to meet up later for a coin-to-feet exchange.
you can generally spot those more viable women by looking at what they are purchasing & the clothes they are wearing, or if you saw them in the parking lot, the type of clunker they drove in, not to mention the location/condition of the grocery store too. best of luck boyz
[ May 13, 2009, 01:46 PM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Sir Tyler, I agree, a guy has to play the male role here... It just that going for feet is such as touchy area- avoiding being percieved as a perve..And you dont want to turn her off..[when I was a young lad I was shy, timid, more like a girl,-as I became more mature and experienced I saw that we only pass these halls once and I became willing to reasonably take risk..] But I think your technique is good with decent thinking.. There is a such thing as the "gift of gab"....Some are better at this type of commnication then others.. Also many do Not realize it is such as fine art communicating properly, concisely and at the right time..Thx..
[ May 13, 2009, 10:39 AM: Message edited by: mjl1717 ]
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Guys thanks for all the level headed responses..
Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :
If you are only trying to get some foot action, start with myspace or craigslist. But if you want to pick up a chick at the supermarket who you notice has nice feet, talk to her normal and save the talk about her feet until after you have greeted and opened up. Just mention how nice her polish or shoes are for now.
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
Yes-thanks for he feed back..I wanted to hear others thoughts.
Posted by Goddess Tangent (Member # 34407) on :
OOoo lovesize7s is totally smooth!! An Danielle Moore totally sums it up from a female perspective!
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