Hi, just thought i'd share this experience with everyone in case anybody has the same situation. I started dating this beautiful girl about a 4 months ago and from our 1st date I recognized how beautiful her feet looked. Everything from the archs, the size, the toes, to the length of her toenails were just perfect. The first time I attempted to play with her feet during sex, she pulled back and said it tickled and I couldn't get anywhere near her feet. I mean, I was so dissapointed..the sex is great but when her feet are up over my shoulders, I was so tempted to nibble them or lick them and I couldn't. I mean, seriously, I would find myself masterbating about them even after we had sex and she left. This went on for about the first month, I wasnt merley satisfied with sex, I wanted to do something to those goregous feet damn it and it never failed, she pulled back hard everytime I grabbed them. So i gave up, but she also has really nice hands and legs, which she doesn't mind me kissing, so one day we were lounding around and she's lying down with her feet next to my lap. The back of her feet looked so hot and sexy...I decided to try giving her a massage and just gently work my way towards her feet in the end. So i start out caressing her hands and kissing them, i then go to her arms and love them as well. I progressed downward and started on he thighs and then the legs, massaging them and kissing them, she's loving it. I didn't spend too much time with the calfs cuz i was so zoned in on her feet....so here we go...i went for the kill...i slowly slid my hands down to her ankle and gently down to the bottom of her soles...suprisingly enough, she didnt move...i think i got her so relaxed..she was actually letting me massage her feet....i massage them and tell her how nice i think they look and she's like "really??" as if she has no clue....during the massage i'm rubbing the back of her feet, rubbing her pretty long toes, messing with the tips of her toenails...it's great..and she admits.."wow..this really feels good, i never knew...i almost want to fall asleep" and i'm like yes, please fall asleep, i'll do this all night...lol...
So that was last week, this week she came over with a great looking pedicure, she had them professionally done, they were french tips, realy shiny and all. we spend the whole day together and i'm trying to not focus too much on her feet but i'm like bothered by them all day...at this point she doesn't know i have a thing for her feet, she thinks i was just being sweet by giving her the foot massage. Well last night we are laying in bed, she is lying on her stomach watching tv with her feet in the air and i'm at the other end of the bed...i start to caress her legs again and i move up to her feet...she started to squirm again at first but then i gripped her feet realy tight and began massaging them, it seemed to calm her down...so i'm massaging them again and since she is busy watching tv, i'm taking my time checking out all her toes and staring at how beautiful they are. She then asks me "do you really like doing that? cuz you seem to be realy good at it lol" and i just tell her "well, you have really nice feet"...i then kissed them for the first time..she looks at me weird and goes "ew...my feet are dirty you know?"...and i said, "it's ok, if it feels good for you i dont mind." so i start kissing everyone and sniffing while i'm doing it...her feet don't smell, there is slight odor but not much at all...she tells me it feels really good ...so i proceeded to suck on one of her toes and she didn't say anything...and well...since i didn't want her thinking i was like obessesed with her feet just yet...i kinda stopped there...
And that's where i'm at...i'm really too embarrassed to tell her how much her feet turn me on...so my plan is just to keep doing what i'm doing and slowly progress little by little...i mean...it went from being too ticklish to touch, to me kissing, rubbing and sucking her toes...i would say there is some progress!
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Looks like you've all but told her! Go ahead and admit it!
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
Like you said, just keep doing what you're doing, you're on the right track. Contrary to previous advice, I wouldn't admit anything, just work it into your repertoire.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
Dude...okay...you suck a girl's toes and she pretty much knows what's up hahaha She'll just probably say "I know" when you tell her haha My genuine advice is tell her - she is OBVIOUSLY open to the whole foot scene, man Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
Like everyone says. She seems cool about it.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
Yup....she seems cool about it and by this point she has to be on to your fetish...you've already made it apparent that you really like her feet moreso than for the exclusive sake of her relaxation from it.....just keep doing it little by little and it will grow on her
Posted by alanski (Member # 11004) on :
yeah go for it son
i was with my gf 6 months before i confessed about my foot fetish, it was hard work but definitely worth the wait
i remember slowly breaking her in to the idea the same kind of way, best thing is to take it slow, ease different aspects of ur foot fetish in then the relationship will progress and she will like u more and be more open
when we first got together i wouldnt have dreamed telling her about my fetish but...
i finally 'made the plunge' lying next to her in the dark, sort of like "is it weird that i like ur legs and feet" what i really wanted to say was i'm crazy about ur feet i have a very strong foot fetish, but broke it gently, she said, "in a like nice way or fetish kind of way", so i said both
and to this day i rub her feet almost every day til she falls asleep then have some fun if u kno what i mean...
Posted by Hangtenfeet (Member # 34880) on :
Just like chipping away at the situation to make something beautiful. You're doing nicely. Keep your pace slow and you'll see good progress.
don't do anything crazy yet put yourself in her shoes...no pun intended would you want a guy sucking your toes? i dunno keep on softening her up, good work though
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
i would say just keeping going how you're going. take it slow as difficult as it can feel at times, but you've broken the ice and are doing well actually. i think the word fetish can have some bad associations so stick to showing. if she asks, i would tell her that you do really like pretty feet and hers are super sexy.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
Another reason not to 'admit' your foot fetish is because you want her to think (for now, anyway) that it's only her feet that you're interested in.
Posted by Five For Feet (Member # 33596) on :
Dude, I think you're handling this perfectly so far. Look how far you've come from her pulling back totally! Don't blow it now by becoming to aggressive with it. Excercising restraint has paid off big time, so continue to let her discover your fetish without the word fetish ever even being mentioned. Great story, nice job, and good luck!
Posted by JerryJones (Member # 35340) on :
thanks for the encouragement, yes i am taking things slow, I dont want to like grab her feet every chance i get, i kinda try to make it seem convenient for me to touch her feet and that being the reason i touch them. Yesterday were sitting down and her feet were relaxed on the coffee table, i pretended i wanted to sit closer to the tv so i sat on the floor next to the table and by her feet...before i could make a move she switched positions and lied horizontally on the sofa with her feet on the other end of the sofa! I didn't want her noticing i just follow her feet anywhere they go so i just tried not to think about them..boy is it tough, even though i got a good dose of those beautiful feet the other day, i can't stop thinking of them. So much more i want to do!
Posted by ned land (Member # 8065) on :
Patience my friend, you're doing just fine. Sounds like she's warming up and coming around. It's like the old proverb about the frog in the pot, throw him in when it's boiling, and he'll pop right back out, put him in cold and slowly turn up the heat, and pretty soon you've got some tasty frog legs.... LOL
Not that your girl is a frog, but that you've got the right idea by slowly turning up the heat on her feet, so to speak....
ned
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
You’re a legend dude. LOL. That's how I got my girl into it. 3 years on she is now requesting tongue massages on her feet.
To be honest don't say to her "hey I have a foot fetish" you don't even have to say you like feet, just say you like hers and find them tantalizing. I have always had a thing for feet but when I first got my GF's near me I was like I don't care if I like feet in general all I want is HERS! Lol.
The word 'fetish' conjures up bad thoughts for a lot of women and gives them the impression you are obsessed with feet. If she ever asks just say to her you really like her feet and think they are just as beautiful as the rest of her body and they deserve attention. Then follow up with a gentle kiss to her foot and look up at her in her eyes, give a smile or wink and then kiss her. She will think you are so sweet.
Keep going as you are and don't mention the word 'fetish'
BTW I have found when a girl lifts her feet up so you can see them behind you (after already experiencing nice foot attention from you) she is asking for it again.
Your a great example of someone who is taking her feelings into account, being slow and steady and not perverse or selfish. She consents by giving you access to her feet so just carry on as you are.
Doing all this transformed my GF from someone who hated her feet being touched to someone confident in her feet and really does want them played with.
Good luck.
Posted by JerryJones (Member # 35340) on :
Hello everyone, quick update..I've been pretty much still taking it slow and massaging/kissing/sucking her toes when I get a chance but she can def. tell I have a thing for feet. We were talking the other night after sex (which i had been sucking on her toes while we did it_, She asked me if I had some sort of fetish for feet and i told her no. She then told me, she thought those ppl were weird and it was sick. This made me go "uh oh...." she said it was fine for me to like her feet though, just to not go off and start checking out some other girls' feet. So, i'm not sure she bought that I didnt have a foot fetish.
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
See, are you glad now you didn't mention the word fetish? Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :
You're doing it the same way I did it. Don't just rush into it. Took less than a year but now she gives me her feet everyday. Looks like you will too.
Posted by JerryJones (Member # 35340) on :
why couldn't Adam have a foot fetish with eve so it would have been universally accepted to be into feet the way most ppl are into a pair of tits or asses.
Posted by Firefighter86 (Member # 34943) on :
Yea good point. When it finally gets out in the open make it seem like its new to you too so she won't feel alone, like its something new for both of you. I would say something like you have always noticed pretty feet but you've never really been turned on by a girls feet before until hers. Next time ur playing with her feet again, just say something like that kind of in a joking manner but still serious. Like damn babe ur feet really get me excited i dont know why! lol...
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
quote:Originally posted by JerryJones: why couldn't Adam have a foot fetish with eve so it would have been universally accepted to be into feet the way most ppl are into a pair of tits or asses.
I am 100% sure that had ADAN had a thing for EVE's feet. feet would have been part of the "sex norm" and the whole thimg would have lost its charm.
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
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