Hey all, I am pretty sure most if not all of us like pretty soft and smooth feet. Therefore, we would only date and marry a girl with gorgeous feet. However, what are we suppose to do if her feet turn ugly just 5 years from the time you marry her and your fetish is still really strong? Then how do you satisfy your fetish? Do you have to go get a "foot" mistress? I am just thinking out loud, I am single and not married.... just wondering what to do if this happens.
Posted by Pjay (Member # 35692) on :
I believe that as people get older with each other, they still keep that mental image of how they looked earlier on, and that sustains the love and they can accept--and still be attracted to--each other. I think that would include the feet. Of course, if you're talking about them getting somehow so old and decrepit that they look mangled, that might be different.
Posted by toesukr22B (Member # 6298) on :
personally i hate comments like this, no offense bro, but you marry someone you love, you don't marry a bodypart, what are you gonna do when she turns 60 and her tits are by her knees and her feet are all wrinkly??? If she doe not take care of them talk to her about it, if she loves you she will want to please you!
Does no one believe in monogamy anymore??? you don't cheat on your wife just so you can be satisfied and get off for a whole 20 min?!!!
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by AceCorr: just wondering what to do if this happens.
welp thats a tough one and my suggestion is to be a guy who can switch hit to some pussy as well as feet
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
[QUOTE]Originally posted by toesukr22B: ...you marry someone you love, you don't marry a bodypart./QUOTE]So very true. If you do indeed love a girl only for her feet that's your business, but save yourself the time, effort and expense of a divorce and don't marry her because it's not going to last.
Sorry this is a bit lengthy- but wanted to try to convey my thoughts thoroughly so you'd understand.
I've been very happily married, to one woman, for 29 years. Because her sex drive is so much lower than mine I do get off to photos of other women, but I've never done anything physically with another woman.
I guess the easiest way to put it is- when you fall in love and marry a girl things happen- you do compromise on things and look at things differently. Our relationship is a great example.
Even though my foot fetish was as strong as it ever was, back when we were friends, then dating and eventually engaged I never even paid attention to her feet. For one thing I was getting to know and getting closer to "her" and number two she had very bad bunions on both feet that I found rather unattractive. That, combined with the fact that she had a sexual "skeleton in the closet" (she had been sexually abused by her father- which I didn't know until just a few years ago) made me not want to divulge my fetish to her. Consequently I became a voyeur of other girl's feet to satisfy my fetish desires.
I was very happy and excited when she decided to get her bunions surgically removed. It was her decision and strictly for comfort, nothing to do with aesthetics at all. However after pain and long recovery following the removal of the first one, she decided against having the other one removed.
So, long story short, fast forward to a few years ago when I stumble upon Wu's forum. The guys and girls here were great and continually encouraged me to tell her about my fetish. So I did. I think it was part because we had been married so long and partly because she had had her own sexual secret/skeleton that she accepted it totally. She had a lot of questions- she had heard about foot guys, but that was it. So over several conversations I layed out all of my fetish likes, longings and desires.
She jumped in with "both feet" (pun intended) to completely start indulging my fetish desires: buying tons of sandals and flip-flops; allowing me to buy her good quality toe rings and anklets that she started wearing 24/7; and of course allowing me to have her feet to enjoy (holding, rubbing, kissing, licking, sucking and enjoying sexually)
The point is- I loved her feet because they were hers and she was sharing them only with me. So a funny thing happened- I now find her feet extremely beautiful, sensual and sexy even though they're not perfect. Believe it or not, I not only can look past her one remaining bunion, at times I find it even sexually exciting.
So in summary- what I'm trying to convey is: - Don't love someone just for a body part(s) - Once you do love someone for themselves, you'll find that they can and will make you very happy and satisfied.
Hope that helps.
Posted by Toesucker85 (Member # 16795) on :
i agree with feetluvr. by the way if you get her regular pedicures that will help too.
Posted by Iowas foot slave (Member # 28971) on :
If they don't appeal to you like they used to, it might not be the feet changing. It might just be you getting bored with them. If that's the case, then you need something to entice you. Look at some foot porn to get the imagination going. If that doesn't work, as a last resort, you could try talking to your partner and asking if you can indulge in another woman's feet to try and spark the interest and imagination again. Just make sure your partner approves the new woman foot friend of yours, the activities performed, and is 100% comfortable with it. Your partner may take it many different ways so be careful with this one.
Just keep one thing in mind, you should always love your partners feet due to what they are, not what they look like.
[ January 15, 2010, 01:14 AM: Message edited by: Iowas foot slave ]
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
quote:Originally posted by toesukr22B: personally i hate comments like this, no offense bro, but you marry someone you love, you don't marry a bodypart, what are you gonna do when she turns 60 and her tits are by her knees and her feet are all wrinkly??? If she doe not take care of them talk to her about it, if she loves you she will want to please you!
Does no one believe in monogamy anymore??? you don't cheat on your wife just so you can be satisfied and get off for a whole 20 min?!!!
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Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
I'm not sure how pretty feet would turn ugly in jut 5 years unless there was some type of accident or something. most things like corns or the like can be treated and bunions are typiclly hereditary to some degree so chances are she would already have them when you met. I do think it is possible to chnage your original view over tie as in feetluvr's case and also there are pretty feet that are not perfect so the two are not equal. I don't think any of us would get rid of a Rolls Royce because it has a scratch.