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Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
Contrary to popular thought of course [Tongue]

What brought me to this conclusion? Well many of us think that we're very subtle about displaying our love for female feet. There are all sorts of stories about guys sneaking around to satisfy their fetish..a stolen glance, a subtle comment, that oh so clever compliment "you look great barefoot" ect are all loud giveaways.

So my pof.com profile has a line where I say "a nice pedicure is my weakness". Innocent enough in my opinion. But many women that have read that have plain out asked me "do you have a foot fetish" or simply assume that I have one. No prob, but it's just funny. Who knew I was so transparent.

One girl I met on there had the same reaction to that line. The funny thing is the guy she dated before has a foot fetish too. She said he would bother her everyday for foot pics on her cell phone! I wonder if he was also into footjobs too? I guess i'll find out soon enough! She didn't seem too enthused about his foot fetish though...although she did seem to be interested in mine. Already said she'd get a weekly pedicure as long as she's seeing me.

What are some instances where you think you're being discreet but instead are exposed for what you are....a female foot lover?
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
What are some instances where you think you're being discreet but instead are exposed for what you are....a female foot lover?

usually when i have her feet in my face and i am just gently kissing and gently licking her soles, i feel like i am being discreet. But then i let the cat out of the bag when i start burying my nose in her toes and my eyes light up like a lunatic and i start inhaling her foot scent really REALLY hard.

it is usually at this moment where a true woman shines. either she is accepting and turned on (which is the desired reaction) or she is taken aback and freaked (which is the more common reaction). i guess it means i exposed myself in a way, Hee Hee [Big Grin] (do try this at home fellas) [Thumbs Up]

[ February 01, 2010, 03:26 PM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
 
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
 
Our society isn't as innocent as it was 40-50 years ago, so most girls do have a clue.
 
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
 
While I try not to stare and make it obvious...I think women do pick up on it.

They might not think you have a fetish...but might make note that you were looking at that area more then a couple of times.

Regarding plenty of fish...I got an account and have been talking with a few women. Most don't want to give the time of day.

Have been talking with a couple...one mentioned she has weird habits...and I joked about having my own weird habits...she of course asked what habits I had...I was going to say something about the feet thing...but figured better wait a bit longer before springing the trap!

My move is generally to offer a massage and gauge a reaction from there.
 
Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
 
I have a stellar record of being careful in such instances. However, whenever I mention ANYTHING to a girl regarding their feet, I always think I'm bringing the attention on myself because my love of feet occupies about 40-50% of my overall brain activity and I always think a little of it will inevitably leak out.

For example, just last week here in NYC it was 15 degrees one morning, and I happened to ask this cute Indian girl I work with who was wearing Converse with no socks if she was cold. Actually what I said was 'You're not wearing socks?' And before she could say 'No' I had to rewire myself not to say 'Can I smell your feet?' before I actually said 'It's kinda cold for that, isn't it?' to her response. I only fall off though when I am drunk, and in those situations for the most part, the girls are drunkish too and have a little fun with me.
 
Posted by Maverick Matrix (Member # 2989) on :
 
Years ago when I was in college, I used to go salsa dancing and a girl I became friends with as the club one night said her feet hurt. Naturally at the time, I offered her a foot massage. Right away she asked me if I had a foot fetish. At that time, I was a bit blown back as no one since then had ever been that bold to ask me that. Since I was super-shy at the time, I sheepishly said yes.

Funny thing was, she had friends who also liked feet and participated in lots of foot worship and other activities. She also said that every guy she's known has either liked feet or done something with feet. Unfortunately, there was no way I could've done anything with her because she had a boyfriend at the time. Oh well...
 
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
 
Funny that I have in conversations with womesn whose feet i am admiring tel me of ther past boyfriends who have also liked feet. We are no where near as unusal as we sometimes think we are.
 
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
 
Nah, it's actually quite a common thing. I told one of my close friends about it last night and she kind of just went "So? It's pretty common actually"

I was like, "hmmmm, yeah I guess."

Don't know why but I still get surprised how easily women pick up on these things.
 
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
 
When it comes to online, and I don't speak of this forum, a lot of guys are far from subtle about their foot fetish.
 
Posted by Diabolicus (Member # 7743) on :
 
True that, some are just downright creepy about it, but that's the internet for ya.
 
Posted by Raider991 (Member # 34737) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by A&F_FootDude_05:
When it comes to online, and I don't speak of this forum, a lot of guys are far from subtle about their foot fetish.

Yes, this is true and I am definately guilty of it. It is easier to type 'show us those arches' as opposed to saying it in real life. Plus sometimes there is no to limited opportunity to ever meet the girl or want to, so I throw the line out and see what I get. Been pretty successful
 
Posted by LukeAM (Member # 6773) on :
 
Women KNOW men have foot fetishes, haven't you seen Pulp Fiction [Smile] . They play dumb because they cant understand why we like them, but they are very perceptive. They see men checking their feet out all the time, they remember their b/f's from yrs ago kissing their toes and always massaging them. Alot of girls I have been with have admitted to knowing MOST guys are into feet, but are shy about it.
 
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
 
Women are hip to the game. They know; or Kinda know, but still need solid confirmation or just find it amazing to think their feet can cause such a commotion. Society paints the picture that men are only into bodacious ta-tas and ass. Well, in my case, they have 50% of that equation right. I'm an assman [Blush] (I ain't too proud [Mmm] ), but the rare breed of men are into pretty female feet as well. This makes us an enigma to many curious women creatures. We are unique and share a special affinity. I love pretty feet and I am perfectly find (and not weird). It's that simple. [Thumbs Up]
 
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
 
I have found a couple women I have dated had past experience and unfortunatly, their response wasn't positive...

There was one woman that I was seeing and wanted to check out what her feet looked like...so she had those sheep wool slippers or whatever...and I could see the heels...so I made a slight mention about not wearing socks...and she goes, "oh your foot fetish...the last guy I dated was obsessed with that...total turn off"

[Cry]

I never got to get at those feet [Cry]
 
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by oneagain:
I have found a couple women I have dated had past experience and unfortunatly, their response wasn't positive...

There was one woman that I was seeing and wanted to check out what her feet looked like...so she had those sheep wool slippers or whatever...and I could see the heels...so I made a slight mention about not wearing socks...and she goes, "oh your foot fetish...the last guy I dated was obsessed with that...total turn off"

[Cry]

I never got to get at those feet [Cry]

OK. Got it. There are some bad apples in every batch, that happens sometimes, but hey, she seems to be consistent with attracting footmen [Joint] . She has something going on [Wink] . Again, never put anything pass a woman. When it is to their advantage, they know or learn quickly. Women have power. And if they can win with it, they will use it on you everytime. They can bring down powerful men just looking/acting like a demure deer or a sexy vixen on the hunt. Remember Delilah brought down the powerful Samson in the Bible. Ask any male politician...they get caught up every year.

[ February 04, 2010, 11:27 PM: Message edited by: Footman9 ]
 
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
 
Yes, women are power yesterday, today and tomorrow. Women are the kings, Queens and men are the servants until Christianty.
 
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
 
i find an interesting trend.. the younger the lady, the more apt she is to know and spot you (no matter how careful you are) but won't make as big a deal as one who is older. however, older women who have passed their hangups on the topic are more discreet with you about your foot fetish and more understanding.

the other trend i've noticed, the more modern the woman, the more she's aware of your staring. some gals from other countries (usually religious or conservative countries) tend to be more oblivious or confused at the attention given. but that doesn't stay that way long.

being that feet are so far below your average eye level, it's very easy to spot that you're looking down at feet. the only way to not get noticed is if her head is not facing you and she's not looking at you. other than that, she'll spot you quick fast!

RPM
 
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
 
Well take a step back and read what you put. In innocence, I'd assume one of two things: you were gay or had a foot fetish...it's not a thing non-fetishists would notice/care about. It may have been more blatant than you think...

More subtlety would be "I like a girl with well-kept nails" orrrrrr "I like a girl who takes care of her hands and feet - poor grooming is a big turn-off for me."
 
Posted by scrunchlover (Member # 21542) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by GQguy:
Contrary to popular thought of course [Tongue]

What brought me to this conclusion? Well many of us think that we're very subtle about displaying our love for female feet. There are all sorts of stories about guys sneaking around to satisfy their fetish..a stolen glance, a subtle comment, that oh so clever compliment "you look great barefoot" ect are all loud giveaways.

So my pof.com profile has a line where I say "a nice pedicure is my weakness". Innocent enough in my opinion. But many women that have read that have plain out asked me "do you have a foot fetish" or simply assume that I have one. No prob, but it's just funny. Who knew I was so transparent.

One girl I met on there had the same reaction to that line. The funny thing is the guy she dated before has a foot fetish too. She said he would bother her everyday for foot pics on her cell phone! I wonder if he was also into footjobs too? I guess i'll find out soon enough! She didn't seem too enthused about his foot fetish though...although she did seem to be interested in mine. Already said she'd get a weekly pedicure as long as she's seeing me.

What are some instances where you think you're being discreet but instead are exposed for what you are....a female foot lover?

I don't have a problem with any of that. I DO have a problem with women who want to show their feet, then get upset when people look at them. Some of you out there know what I mean.
 
Posted by SuperFeet (Member # 34769) on :
 
Take heart. Most women I know minimally liked or were intrigued by foot fetishism. Some loved it. I have only known one woman who really disliked it and told me I was "strange". She is long gone. Most have thought it was "cute", "sexy", "a turn-on", or "cool."

Take heart. It is a great fetish and many women enjoy it. I think those who don't are self-concious about their feet. That is all.
 
Posted by luv p3rf3ct to3s (Member # 22036) on :
 
i have foot adventures all the time, but i have never had any women ask me before i have mentioned my fetish to them....hell i'm trying to get caught that first time....lol
 
Posted by toesukr22B (Member # 6298) on :
 
"a nice pedicure is my weakness"

common sense would dictate that a guy who does not like feet would never say that would he?
 
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Footman9:
Women are hip to the game. They know; or Kinda know, but still need solid confirmation or just find it amazing to think their feet can cause such a commotion.

Very true. Most woman are VERY perceptive. My wife had heard about guys who love feet but had never dated one. When I confessed my fetish to her she was surprised in a way but wanted to learn all she could about my likes and desires in the foot realm. One of the things of course that surprised her was just how much I love feet and footwear.
 


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