My gilfriend is beautiful, nice and she is the best girlfriend I have ever had, but her feet aren't very pretty. I think she knows that I like feet because she started a footjob for about two times but even she thinks her feet are not beautiful. I like her very much, but I am not happy. What should I do?
Posted by dbacks (Member # 26882) on :
Send her to go get a pedicure, pay for it.
Posted by Rider Aldebaran (Member # 38525) on :
By "not very pretty", do you mean average, below average, or ugly?
Posted by Niecksy (Member # 36301) on :
Rider Aldebaran: below average
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
I agree with spotlight, you need to let this one go dude. If you are a true foot guy, then you will not get over her repulsive feet.
Posted by foot_sniffer81 (Member # 5909) on :
No one is perfect...you will always find flaws with someone.
By the sounds of it your girl is great....beautiful and kind.
Unless the feet issue is a show stopper (and by that i mean you really cant get sexual satisfication from her), i wouldn't be willing to let her go so easily.
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
quote:Originally posted by foot_sniffer81: No one is perfect...you will always find flaws with someone.
By the sounds of it your girl is great....beautiful and kind.
Unless the feet issue is a show stopper (and by that i mean you really cant get sexual satisfication from her), i wouldn't be willing to let her go so easily.
This is reasonable advice.
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
Dump her...I been there many times...there are many girls out there who you will get along with that are kind, great, funny, warm, etc. etc. who also have good feet.
I dont know about you man but for me to date a girl (meaning we are both exclusive to one another) it is MANDATORY that she has good feet...it's just too much a part of my sexuality for me to compensate on that particular aspect of her.
She has bad feet? Bye bye...
Posted by Niecksy (Member # 36301) on :
I really do not know what to do. This is the first time it happens. I am afraid of dumping her because she will suffer and she doesn't deserve it, but on the other side I think I could be happier. The truth is that I just can't say to her "I am breaking up with you because of your feet". I have no other reasons (excuses) to break up.
I am afraid Spotlight, catsman and skaramunga are right.
Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
quote:Originally posted by Niecksy: Rider Aldebaran: below average
LOL...oh man that didn't sound very good.
I once broke up with a great girl (pretty, great personality etc etc) because when I had seen her in short shorts she had "thunder thighs". I mean REALLY big thighs so much so the rest of her was out of proportion.
Just remember, if you marry this chick, you'll have to be getting up in bed at the sight of her ugly feet every morning LOL
And like someone else said, you can't put a pedicure on ugly. It's like putting a wax job on a Pontiac Aztek!
Posted by Weekend_Warrior (Member # 2662) on :
Just hearing your story kinda freaked me out, Niecksy. I had a similar problem years ago: Beautiful feet--not so beautiful girlfriend! Posted by hyperion2424 (Member # 39397) on :
You might also grow to love her feet over time. Purdy 'em up first though with a spa pedicure, collect all the data you can before you do the most drastic thing possible in response.
The words of GoodGuyNeighbor are ringing in my ears: "It's just feet..."
-hyp
Posted by Barbie Gurl (Member # 41134) on :
Well my man it seems like you have already made up you mind!! You aready said you can be happier so you have to end things now before you hurt her more but dragging it on!!
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
quote:Originally posted by hyperion2424: You might also grow to love her feet over time. Purdy 'em up first though with a spa pedicure, collect all the data you can before you do the most drastic thing possible in response.
The words of GoodGuyNeighbor are ringing in my ears: "It's just feet..."
-hyp
This true..Perhaps you could grow to love her feet??
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
send her over my way
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
foot transplant?
Feet aren't everything man. Hows her ass?
Posted by Mr. Mule (Member # 35514) on :
I said it before I'll say it again, "Don't Settle" If she got ugly feet I doubt you will learn to love them just being honest! Imagine the roasting you would get by the feminazi's who post on Dan Savage's love column if you asked for his advice. LOL! I can see the comments now "Your going to leave a great girl because of some nasty foot perversion" LOL!!!!
Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
My wife does not have the prettiest feet either. However she is always willing to entertain my fetish. trust me, it doesn't even matter. when you have someone that will endulge your fetish, the rest doesnt matter. So enjoy!
Posted by 2nd. To God In Power (Member # 23391) on :
LOL I highly beg to differ. She HAS to have sexy suckable toes or else it's a definite no-go.
Posted by silke (Member # 8419) on :
I lived that situation. I was for 5 years with a gf, she was beauty, nice and we had much in common. However, her feet were ugly, they were a turn off for me.
At first I wanted to think that breaking only for her ugly feet was a mad thing to do... but the truth is that our sex life started to suffer. I was not excited by her feet and looked at other feet with desire. I wished I could have a gf with nice feet to get aroused and kiss them while making love and etc...
Our sex life brought problems and our relation became bitter... I made love with no passion... I looked at other girls feet.... I watched foot fetish porno videos and masturbated to them... I was not satisfied.
So my friend... in the end, that silly thing can be a problem. It really can destroy the relation and bring you to a bitter end, where you'll feel guilty for wasting her time and yours. If you really are a foot man, then you should break with her if her feet don't attract you.
You don't need to say you are breaking because you don't like her feet. Just say you don't match.
[ July 29, 2011, 07:19 AM: Message edited by: silke ]
Posted by Talos (Member # 39913) on :
I dated a girl who's feet had no arch and webbed toes. I gave her a foot massage once and it turned me off. Luckily, I found other reasons to break up with her avoiding upsetting her.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
in the offline world.. here is what it sounds like.... you're dating a gal based only on her feet... nothing else.
in the fetish world.. it's a no brainer.. dump her. you're not happy.
here are the options i see.
1-you're breat with her minus her feet. you can grow together and enjoy each other.. minus her feet
2-leave and find a gal who has amazing feet, but won't let you touch them because that grosses her out and she wants to dump you because she thinks you're a freak
3-you get lucky and find someone you're really cool with, very happy with, and has great feet.
my wife, when we were dating, made an effort to accomodate me. though her peds aren't the best i've ever wanted, they do have the hose look i enjoy. however, now married, she is much less likely to get into foot activity like when we were dating. thank goodness we have a lot of other things in common:)
sure it gets a bit annoying at times, but only at times. our love life is amazing otherwise. and the few times she does bring her feet into the equation, it adds to the pleasure that is.
so, my friend. if you decide to leave her (which seems to be the vibe here).. don't tell her it's her feet. she can't do a thing about that. and she'll be even more hurt and crushed. especially because on all the metrix gals use, you're getting along fine.
better luck next time. only if there was a way to see the feet before you get serious... hum.......
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