Hello everyone, I have a very strong foot fetish and the more and more I try to discover ways of fullfilling it the more I become frustrated. I have to admit now I have got to a stage where it is unberable for me, I watch videos on youtube and really cannot relate to possibly me ever being in a situation to just get near another woman's feet, now I have a lovely wife and although I find her feet less appealing than I used to I am stuck bascially with a fetish that to some degree does never reach its potential.
Where are these real life girls who without hesitation go to a guy and let him smell their feet, I have one understanding friend who is down to earth and she understands this fetish but it is just one friend although of course not every friend knows my fetish.
I am fed up of just relying on watching videos on youtube and feel I am missing out on what some guys take for granted, I do however feel that youtube is a source of staged meetings, many women I have met are put of my the near mention of a man liking a woman's feet, some have said on forums that they are freaks, now with encountering these type of women we have no chance in ever exploring our fetish to its potential, so why bother having it in the first place? I suppose I am having one of those days where you never get any type of scenario where there is a potential to even be in a situation where you dare ask a woman I like your feet without being in fear of being called a freak for having a foot fetish. I can honestly say sometimes I wish there was a way to take this fetish away from me, because it is wasted in life!
Posted by tyvianc (Member # 40624) on :
I applaud you for your fetish, but I think you are putting too much emphasis on fulfillment. It's true that some women are put off on it, but you have to not be so direct with it. Have you spoken to your wife about the fetish, and maybe she can make her feet attractive to you, where you can be fulfilled. A lot of youtube stuff is probably staged to be honest, but it's a big world out there with plenty of women who I think would love to have their feet worshipped. We as men can be one dimensional in our thinking. Meaning, don't place so much emphasis on meeting a chick and wanting to worship her feet. Here's a little vid that can help you, where it will make you laugh, but it's serious in tone.
Check out a foot fetish party near you once in a while. You can google it
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by muleslicker: I am fed up of just relying on watching videos on youtube and feel I am missing out on what some guys take for granted
quote:Originally posted by muleslicker: I can honestly say sometimes I wish there was a way to take this fetish away from me, because it is wasted in life!
I hate to say it, but your sad story makes me realize how great I have it by not being married.
I guess I previously had been taking for granted the ability to just mingle with different girls whenever I want and being able to actually sniff and lick the feet of many different girls in real life as opposed to relying on youtube videos for my fantasy fulfillment.
I previously thought I had it bad and was pretty miserable in craving so many more hot girls to have feet with, but I guess when I look at the glass bowl of a single guy from the perspective of a married guy, I am so freakin happy that I did not tie the notch all those times I had a chance.
It is freakin great to be sniffing so many different hot girl's feet and also have them stroke your weenie while you sniff. It's like an addiction where you are never satisfied until you just keep getting hotter and hotter women until you've peaked out at Kate Beckinsale or something like that.
Lemme tellya all you single guys... you actually have it quite good because alot of married guys out there would probably kill to have the freedom to do what you guys can do. Always make sure to make the most of it boiz!!
these are the married guys, Hee Hee --->
[ November 08, 2011, 10:04 PM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by ROYALS22262 (Member # 2681) on :
A simple answer is visiting a classy strip club once in a while. Beautiful young women, the variety you want, just take a dance or two or three in a back room with them, get some privacy, and get their sexy feet. You can massage them, kiss them, suck on them, lick them and smell them. It is a great way to get some relief. That should help somewhat.
Posted by mjl1717 (Member # 2939) on :
quote:Originally posted by ROYALS22262: A simple answer is visiting a classy strip club once in a while. Beautiful young women, the variety you want, just take a dance or two or three in a back room with them, get some privacy, and get their sexy feet. You can massage them, kiss them, suck on them, lick them and smell them. It is a great way to get some relief. That should help somewhat.
Yes mules..This also is great advice..!
Posted by Rae124 (Member # 328) on :
Most girls I've been with haven't asked me to smell their feet, I just go ahead and do it. Can you not do this with your own wife?
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
I have struggled with this fetish most of my life as well, and for the most part I have had partners that appreciated my love of their feet. However, not until recently have I had the courage to tell my newest partner in life about it, and she is absolutely turned on by the whole idea that a part of her is so important to me. I have complete carte Blanc with her feet and I have never been happier with because of her understanding. Her feet, my avatar photo, is part of our every day life wether we are being romantic or just a massage while watching tv.
Posted by Sol (Member # 2476) on :
Well, I have the same fetish as you and mine is largely fulfilled on a regular basis. Just because you haven't had luck with it, doesn't make it a curse for us all.
I've had girls go from HATING feet to getting theirs smelly especially for me, within just a few weeks of meeting them. It has 99% to do with your attitude, and 1% to do with the woman's.
Perhaps you're not confident enough to accept your fetish and present it in a way that won't put women off? It's hard to say, but I know for a fact that your defeatist attitude won't improve your situation.
And why is it that your wife's feet are not good enough for you? Is it that you've already done everything you can with them? Is it that you just crave other feet? Is it that she isn't very giving with the fetish?
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
i have learned to be understanding and sympathetic to guys who seem to be struggling with their fetish...It has never been an issue for me. Its kind of scary, i couldn't imagine not getting foot jobs and foot sniffing hand jobs...Just relying on "SELF IMPOSED MANUALS" while watching foot porn or youtube would be a nightmare...smh...Good luck my friend..
Posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com (Member # 13717) on :
...or you could just say "fuck it" and tell everybody. That would probably help. It's done wonders for me.
Posted by DeTrOiT (Member # 37598) on :
quote:Originally posted by Beautifulfeetonline.com: ...or you could just say "fuck it" and tell everybody. That would probably help. It's done wonders for me.
ME TOO!!!!!
Posted by peterjohn (Member # 37637) on :
man take it easy.it aint easy i know.i find myself lookin more at feet at the mall and on the net.my wife knows about my fetish but doesnt understand fully.sometimes i feel hurt when she rejects my fetish but take full advantage when she lets me smell them.and they do smell.
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
You're married. Break down your concerns to your wife. If she is understanding things can improve in that department. If not...serious change may be in order.
Posted by Miss_Stellas_SHP (Member # 43371) on :
muleslicker,
Hey, I'm married and I don't have a foot fetish, my husband does.
But one thing I know is that I keep him always wanting my feet by not letting him have them every single time he wants. Seriously, maybe your wife should try a little hard to get, I'm sure her feet haven't gotten less attractive, maybe give it a week without touching her feet, then let her get a pedicure, maybe go out bowling or something, getting her feet nice and sweaty, then take her home and bury your face in her feet.
If that's already been tried, perhaps you should try something different. I'm a stuck model, one of the tihngs that my husband enjoys the most is seeing my feet stuck in melted gummy bears so I can't lift them. Perhaps you guys should try doing that...perhaps lick some of the gummy off her feet after you rescue her from being stuck?
Just my two cents...I'd hate to see you have to turn to another woman to fulfill your fetish. I personally hate the idea of my husband even looking at another woman's feet. I hope you find something that works, I really do.
,Miss Stella
Posted by edelbrock (Member # 17055) on :
your issue sounds like its nowhere near related to your fetish. its about your sexual relations in your marriage. how much does your wife know about this?
theres so much misplaced feelings in your post that i dont even know where to start. im not knockin you, bud, just attempting to make a counter point to the things u seem to be upset over.
you want to find girls who let you do stuff like that with their feet? you have to build a relationship with them first. and theres ALWAYS gonna be a chance of hesitation.
and as far as taking (my) experiences for granted, ill have you know that i dont. i put a lot of hard work into the way i act or approach the subject and there was a lot of trial and error.
i also think you should begin to consider how watching these videos is affecting you and your relationship. you seem to be under the impression that willing pretty girls with pretty feet and free spirits are a dime a dozen and you are the only one having trouble landing one. you forget that places like youtube are a central location for the collection and showcasing of such incidents (whether real or staged at any level).
and as far as being scared to bring fetishes up, thats just something you have to learn to get over. rejection happens... just like when you were a kid trying to date girls.
Posted by Alcarde (Member # 44028) on :
I agree with Sinnister, I am married as well and while we were dating I told me then girlfriend, now wife and she liked the idea and thought it was cute. I know that most women, most married women are not too happy with the idea of their husband going to a strip club and spending money to get to the strippers' feet. I think you should seriously voice your concerns with your wife and tell her about your fetish and what you want.
When I was single, I was shy and thought my foot fetish was an awful thing so even though I went to a college where the female to male ration was 7:1, I still never approached women and asked for their feet, I was too scared of what they would think or how they would act. I never had that foot fullfillment as you put it. I have had plenty of fullfillment from my wife who loves to tease me and lets me have her feet, whenever I want. (Within reason as we do have two kids and they are almost everywhere, all day.)
Also, I would suggest to your wife that you guys do a trade-off the next time you have a bedroom rumble. You should know what she is into by now and then give her what she wants to exchange for letting you have what you want. Sometimes even after sex, my wife will let me lick the sweat off of her toes, just for fun.
There are women out there, friends, strippers and escorts, but if you don't want your wife to catch you and get in trouble or worse, I seriously suggest you talk with her about it.
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