Hello everyone. This is my first post on here but I think many of you will hopefully thoroughly enjoy it . First off I thought i'd introduce myself my name is Alan i'm 25 and live in the great state of Utah. Like everyone else on here I have had a life long love of feet. However I will admit I have always been a little bit shy about bringing it up unless I were to be directly asked about it. It doesn't help that in general I can be an incredibly shy person but that's a topic for another time. So with my shyness comes other more questionable direct means of fulfilling my foot love. Which from time to time has meant posting or scouring through craigslist and finding women less interested in my fetish and more interested in making some money. Which is fair I mean a service is being provided but when the other person has very little interest in what you desire it lowers the enjoyment factor.
Fast forward to the other day when I was yet again scouring through backpages. I don't trust escorts so I generally look through the massage ads. I've emailed and texted a few women under the guise of learning how to massage feet. Which is something i've honestly wanted to learn and practice since it's something i've had very little expierence with. I've recieved some intrigued replies but usually again it came at a great price or I just felt uneasy about the whole thing. But the other day looking through the massage ads I come across a strikingly beautiful woman who wasn't practicing massage but had a picture of her feet in her ad. I text her and tell her she has beautiful feet and she responds and says thanks and eventually we set up an appointment for me to massage and worship her feet.
The original appointment was for yesterday but feeling uneasy and having second guesses I decide to cancel. However having the day off today I promise her that we will meet. She gives me directions to a studio that's about a half hour or so from my place. I get there and she invites me in. She is very beautiful and is not wearing shoes even though I had requested sexy heels it's all good. I just wanted them for show for when I took them off. She leaves and comes back and we find a position that works and here's where the fun begins..
She tells me she practices tai kwan do and other martial arts and that she takes pride in taking care of her feet. And boy they did not dissapoint! She did not get the pedicure she said she was going to get but her feet still looked absolutely amazing! A beautiful size 7.5 and they are the softest feet I have ever touched. She tells me to just try a massage and that she'll be brutally honest if i'm doing anything wrong. I should also add she's europeon and still working on her english though I forgot to ask what part she's from she has a very sexy accent. So I grab some lotion and start going at it she lies down and starts to tell me how good it feels.
I'm going up and down her soles her heel she's telling me where to rub and amazingly I am evidently a pro at it. She is lying back and I can tell she's enjoying it because I can hear her breathing very heavily and she's telling me how much she's enjoying it. This must go on for 20 or 30 minutes as that lotion is completly rubbed in and we are making small talk. She's asking me questions about my love of feet as she's very new to it. I thoroughly rub both of her feet until the lotion is completely rubbed in and she is lying back the whole time rubbing her body and breathing heavily. I then ask her about worshipping her feet since she had also agreed to that but she had never had this done before. I explain what it is and although she's ticklish she tells me to go ahead but to not be upset if she kicks me because she's ticklish.
I start with her toes sucking them gently and slowly while working my tongue in between. She is breathing heavier and heavier and telling me how really good it feels. I continue on to her toes and then work up and down her soles pressing my tongue in. Now before I go on let me just say her feet are perfect. I don't like smelly feet and her's have that slight foot scent but its hardly there but you can taste it. So im digging my tongue into her soles and she is in heaven! She is telling me how much she REALLY enjoys this and how its really turning her on. A whole body turn on and she even says she's been "converted" to the foot fetish/worship. She even asked me if women can orgasm from this. The worshipping goes on for the full hour before she tells me she should get going ib another client. Now in the midst of this she repeatedly tells me im cute she really wanted to hug me several times and we are both single.
The session ends and she continues to come up with ideas as far as getting edible lotion and stockings and wearing them JUST for me even though she hates stockings. She tells me she wishes this could continue but here's the real kicker. She tells me she would check her schedule and if she's free wants to continue this later tonight! I am blown away at this point! So I get going we hug again and she calls me and says she can and that she could come to my place and that she's still "shivering" from our session! I don't know what all to expect later but the fact that she's taking time to come to me to give her feet love means alot and means that i'm not as bad at this as I thought! This could be the makings of a very wonderful thing...
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
How much more cash did she want?
Posted by AlTheFootLover (Member # 43864) on :
I believe she said none. Although I will double check before anything else happens. I'm not an atm..
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Great story man! Welcome to Wu's! Chances are if she didn't request cash the first time she won't the second...orrrrr she is hustling you. Gave you a sample this afternoon and now she knows you would pay top dollar to get em' again. Hard to say, but don't rush into it moneywise unless your getting what you want Keep us updated and snap some pics too Posted by tyvianc (Member # 40624) on :
Al welcome to Wu's fam. That was a beautiful story. Hope you can get some pics next time of her feet. You have done everything right because you were yourself. You let your personality shine to her, and your rubbing reflected the quality of the rub you wanted to give her. Gonna definitely add u to my buddy list. Congrats man, and keep up the good work. Keep us posted for the next session!!!! Happy New Year to you man!!!
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
very nice, if she can start providing for free then this can save alot of money in the longer run.
she's a keeper, especially with the martial arts background!!
Posted by AlTheFootLover (Member # 43864) on :
bluetoelover: I should clarify there was cash involved. I didn't ask but this appears to be some sortof part or full time job she does. Even though there was no massage on my end it was only fair. I asked her if last night would be free and she said yes. I hope I wasn't trying to be a cheapskate and maybe I should've mentioned this money is honestly real tight for me. As for future sessions time will tell if I am just getting hustled or if she meant what she said and would appreciate this as part of a side..arrangement or a part of something more. If I get the chance I will definitly snap up some pics .
tyvlanc: Thank you for the warm welcome! I was shy but I like to think nice and charming. I put forth my best effort and coached her through it and kept telling her how soft and beautiful her feet were peppering those comments with how beautiful the rest of her was. Afterall I did not want to treat her feet as just an object but rather as a beautiful part of a beautiful person . I don't know how much of that she heard because I think she was so distracted by how good this all felt lol. I will keep you posted and happy new year to you to man!
Tyler D.: I would prefer to have this turn into or be a part of something more be it just as friends or see where it could go. This was all about seeing if I could give a foot massage and evidently I can and so being armed with that knowledge makes me feel alot more at ease about bringing it up with other women in the future. I was also intrigued by her martial arts background and hope to learn more about it in the future .
Just an update about last night. I never heard back and still haven't heard back from this girl. I texted her last night and didn't get a reply which she's usually pretty good at providing. So either something came up something really good or really bad happened or...maybe she was blowing smoke up my butt. I don't want to come on strong or be wierd about it so i've left the ball in her court. Although if I don't hear back by tonight or tommorow I may just text her and make sure everythings ok.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Sounds like you had a blast! And you have a business woman willing to sell you a good time. Don't forget that though. It's in her best interest to show you a good time and create chemistry to add another customer. And even if her feelings were sincere if you're not paying her for a time block your priority will drop. She'll respond again...as soon as she knows you're willing to pay again.
It's sort of like single girls. Single girls that don't answer text have another guy they're seeing. If you're her top prospect...there will be no delay. If your are not her top prospect then you'll get "oh I missed that text, I was asleep" "oh I missed that call, I didn't have service" "oh we were supposed to hang out THIS friday, sorry...."
I went off a little tangent. Anyway...good luck buddy! Hope you get what you want!
GQ
Posted by aka.footjoyboy (Member # 32751) on :
I wouldn't mind paying some $$$ for an experience like that, but if it were me I'd worship the feet a long while before going anywhere near the lotion.
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
Al,
Great story! Sounds like you both had a really good time. That's definitely an experience worth remembering...and this was off of backpage? You played the right angle to get what you wanted (the feet experience)and it sounds like it paid off.
But like anything else, her delayed response could be a money issue too..I would wait to hear from her if I was you...and if you don't hear back from her no big deal. If you struck gold once you'll strike it again.
And as was mentioned by BlueToe, careful with the hustle. These European chicks are trained professionals at that. A lot of them come from countries where the only thing they have to rely on is their bodies. And they know how to use it...so watch out.
Posted by screwhead20 (Member # 16242) on :
Nice to hear successful stories from Backpage.. It's a long process trying to find the right kind of feet you prefer on Backpage but when you do hold on to em.. After a few meets she'll warm up to you and won't mind doing it for free. Trust Me! Just got to get established first though my man. Good Luck!
Posted by Scotty7493 (Member # 13127) on :
Congratulations on your ability to put a sentence and even more so a decent grammatical structure to your story. I almost lost faith in people under 30 putting a sentence together. I'm impressed.
And of course there's cash involved. Does anybody believe she is going to do all this for free?
As long as you both had a good time knock yourself out. Don't let her take you for more than the "going" rate though.
Posted by AlTheFootLover (Member # 43864) on :
Quick update for those of patiently waiting for one. Between our initial session and up until yesterday despite a few texts one a day I did not hear from her. I figured something had happened since our first time seemed to go so well I didn't think she would just drop off the face of the earth. Well it turns out she was really sick and when we had met last time seemed to have bad allergies. But she is feeling better and wants to meet tonight and has a "surprise" for me. And when I called her her parting words were "I'm so excited!". I will keep you all posted...
Posted by AlTheFootLover (Member # 43864) on :
So here's how the second session went:
I arrived at my session about 5 minutes early. I was told to wait a few minutes because another session was running long. I come in we hug and she leads me to the massage room. She walks in and tells me to turn around and close my eyes. This was evidently the surprise I was told about. Would it be stockings? Would it be a sexy outfit? Heels? I was about to find out.
I turn around and she's dressed in a bikini,thong and rainbow socks. I guess she couldnt find stockings so she thought id like this as well. She proceeds to ask me if ive ever massaged before. Now I had my practice with her feet but as for the rest of the body I dont have alot of practice on it. She then proceeds to take off her top and her thong and lays down on her back with a towel covering her ass. She wants me to give her a full body massage this was her surprise. I'm sure any of you who have massage expierence would've thoroughly enjoyed it.
Well I appreciated the view and I did my best to work on some massage techniques but I dont know if i did anything. She gives me some tips but honestly I was a little overwhelmed. I mean after evidently having such natural beginners luck on her feet how was I supposed to top that on the rest of her body? I do my best around her neck,shoulders back and legs for a few minutes. But I was intimidated so we eventually move back to her feet. Which she was fine with. She proceeds to ask me questions about what I like shoe and sock wise. She wants to go shopping together for these types of items sometime and at a local adult store for some other fun items. Found out that we live in the same general area. And thats when the foot session began.
If you read what I wrote earlier it was pretty much the same as that with a little more variation. She asks me if this turns me on which i respond yes and as last time she seemed to enjoy every last minute of it. Unfortunately and i'm backtracking here because of some sessions overlapping and "other girls" messing up we were only in there for just a little over a half hour. Her phone had evidently died as she was going to see if we could go for the full hour. We didnt quite finish up but she repeatedly told me how amazing this felt and even said a few times "I feel like i just had sex". And that she was a little tipsy when she was getting dressed.
She tells me she's busy tommorow but that we will hopefully get together Friday. We hug and she gives me a tight hug and gives me a gentle kiss on my lower neck as we leave and she tells me she will keep in touch.
Now last time I paid and its more money then I could and should be spendings. But i suppose if i REALLY needed it I wouldve said no. The fact of the matter is i'm very frugal with cash and have money saved up. I mean you gotta have fun when you get the chance right? So last time I paid 70 and this time I was charged the full 80 even though I didn't get all of my time in.
Now comes the other moral dilemma i'm dealing with inside my head and maybe you guys could weigh in on this. It's not that I didn't enjoy my sessions I did and the fact that she seemed to enjoy it as much as she did makes me enjoy it more. Again I would prefer to have this as a part of something more should anything happen or with future girlfriends. But this again comes down to money. And maybe i'm naive but this unmarked studio operates in the basement of an insurance company. Even though she tells me it's not a full service massage I don't think it's exactly legal whats going on there.
Am I a bad person for all of this? Am I really supporting something more that maybe I shouldnt be doing? I learned and unless she's lying through her teeth I can massage feet just fine and that was my initial plan and part of me thinks I should let it be. I don't make alot of money and if this is going to be in her eyes a weekly thing I cannot do that. Obviously this is not a long term answer for any of my foot fetish needs and i'm looking to make any number of positive changes in my life so 2012 can be my best year in a number of years. And I suppose anytime instant gratification is involved your asking for trouble. Maybe i've answered my own questions here. But I still had to write them out..
Posted by tyvianc (Member # 40624) on :
Al. You have taken me on a journey where you have a beautiful first experience doing a foot massage. Now she wants you to do her whole body. Another session has gone on longer than the allotted time. She wants to keep your attention by being in a bikini and thong with rainbow socks. (Me personally, I would have screamed in my head...WTF is this??). Now just because you had a nice beginning session with her feet, never go in for more than you bargained for. I think you got played and cheated as well, because you paid her for a full session and didn't get all of your time in. You say you don't want to objectify her feet, but rather say these are beautiful feet on a beautiful person. You have to negotiate what YOU want to do for the session, because YOU are paying for it. I'm not sure exactly what happened, but you don't go to a gas station to pay for 50 dollars for gas, but only get five gallons of it. I hope you see my point. I am not one to judge, but lastly your moral dillema. You say that this "massage room" is in the basement of an insurance agency. Wow!! Well let me help you here. You gotta call a spade a spade and realize that you found her on backpages first and foremost. She's trying to make some money, and you're looking to satisfy your fetish cravings. Nothing beautiful about that except at the end of the day you both got what you wanted. But please man, NEVER, and I mean NEVER pay more for anything not received. You have the power here, not her. You have to negotiate, and what's also causing you some moral dillema, is the way you feel about this girl. She obviously doesn't feel the same about you except the fact that you make her feel good with your massages to her feet. Just keep it strictly on the feet, massage them, enjoy them and keep it moving!!!! Last but not least, you say you don't make a lot of money to do this on a weekly basis, then you are either gonna have to change your revenue stream by getting a better job or just waiting until you can save up again when it comes down to you enjoying this again.
BTW....Do you think a "Beautiful" girl like her would really have you do a massage in the basement of an insurance company?? I think if she really liked you, she would have went to a motel or her place for that matter. There's no way in hell that I am gonna have some encounter like this with feet in an environment that doesn't reflect the way I want to feel. And the reason why I say that is for one reason and one reason only.......BECAUSE I'M THE ONE PAYING FOR IT!!!!
Posted by ddash1985 (Member # 18676) on :
^^^^^^ Well said Sir.
I agree with you.I am not feeling the situation either.
Posted by larrrr (Member # 42092) on :
You have to look at it this simply, she's making 75 bucks an hour to be massaged. If I was paying a lady that much and not getting off, I'd surely expect her to have an overloving personality toward me and go out of her way to spruce up the sessions. If I were you I'd go for kissing her soles and work my way up to sucking her toes if she didn't pull her foot away. Then I would look her in the eyes and say, "baby now that I've massaged your feet, let me heal them with my kisses" and say it in a real passionate way. If she enjoys that, you may really be on to something. Congrats though.
Posted by AlTheFootLover (Member # 43864) on :
Your right tyvlanc. There is nothing more to this situation other then money and how much i'm willing to fork over for getting an hour of fun. Which given the fact I found this on backpage and considering how secretive this is I have to look at this for what it is. I was cheated this last time and I don't care what she says i'm not going back. I mean she's got a customer base and she wants everyone to come back especially me since i'm doing all the work here. And being the go with the flow nice guy of course i'll believe whatever she says! I think i'm going to for what it's worth remember the sessions for what they were and move on. This has been an on going theme in my life which was reflected in my original post. Because of my anxitieties and shyness and other personal feelings about myself I get myself thinking and feeling that i'm not desirable or worth much. Well you know you can only tell yourself that so much but sooner or later those sexual feelings catch up with you. Everyone needs some form of release and I go down this path and ultimately regret it later. I don't want my next foot expierence or any expierence to be done in this manner. I need to figure out and fix what i'm doing and why i'm doing it and make sure the next story I post on here involves someone who's into it into me and doesn't demand money at the end of our time together .
Posted by ddash1985 (Member # 18676) on :
Thats good for you Al.
I have worked with a ton of models and I definitely dictate what I want and control the situation.If I dont like the situation or model I have no problem kicking them the fuck out or not paying.Remember you are in control and its almost always about the money when you contact people in situations like those.
Also make sure its known what you want and what they are willing to do.
I could never pay money to massage someone or their feet.You could get alot more for the money you spent.Backpage is just to expensive for me and I have never trusted it.
Thats just me tho.
Posted by JZ Wand (Member # 36398) on :
You were getting played by a pro.
No big deal because you have somewhat recognized this now.
First, no you are not a bad person.
You are just in a position that doesn't give you access to feet when and how you want so unfortunately you are left having to pay for it.
I myself have never been there but I dont look down on anyone that has.
The next step was for her to go shoe shopping with you while she gets you to buy her shoes she likes. Then you were going to have to pay for more sessions to worship her feet in the shoes you already freaking paid for.
Consider yourself lucky that you have avoided that.
Regarding what to do next I would actually go back to the same place but see if you can have a session with a different girl.
It will piss the first girl off to no end (even pros are possessive) and this time you might actually get some value for your $$$!
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
You are NOT a bad person.
You are doing what THOUSANDS and THOUSANDS of guys have already done (which is pay for something sex related).
Think about it man...are you any worse than any politician, famous actor, or public figure that has been caught and exposed publicly for committing similar acts like these?
Actually, what you are doing is pretty tame compared to some of the other stuff people out there are doing.
I can understand how you feel though especially since it's the first time...that "newbie" feeling will eventually go away and you will learn more and become better at it as you have more experiences under your belt.
Only thing I would recommend is to iron out the money part of the encounter right in the beginning...before the session starts!
First question; I want to do A B C. Are you willing to do that?
Good!
Second question; How much for A B C?
Third question; How much time do I get?
And you take it from there...don't go into the session then at the end of it have her name the price...she will throw out any number and then what?
You have to treat it like a business transaction because that's her frame of mind so you have to be on the same page.
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. First off I thought i'd introduce myself my name is Alan i'm 25 and live in the great state of Utah. Like everyone else on here I have had a life long love of feet. However I will admit I have always been a little bit shy about bringing it up unless I were to be directly asked about it. It doesn't help that in general I can be an incredibly shy person but that's a topic for another time. So with my shyness comes other more questionable direct means of fulfilling my foot love. Which from time to time has meant posting or scouring through craigslist and finding women less interested in my fetish and more interested in making some money. Which is fair I mean a service is being provided but when the other person has very little interest in what you desire it lowers the enjoyment factor.![[Big Grin]](biggrin.gif)