You like her, she likes you, but you find out she really hates feet, she hates seeing them period, whether it is hers or anyone elses. What do you do personally? Do you take it as a challenge and hope she will somehow come around, or do you move onto another girl?
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
I've had a couple women that hated their feet or attention to them. For the most part they came around a bit. On English woman I was banging would cringe when I would start to suck on her feet...that would kill the mood. She didn't mind massages or pictures...she just dreaded 'intimate' contact with them...so I never really was 'fullfilled' so to speak.
Only a couple of times that my interest in feet ended any possible relationship. One Thai woman (in the States) was totally disgusted by feet. Other was this Chinese -American woman who was heavier then I had interest in...but hey sometimes you go after what is available...anyways she at first seemed cool about feet...but wasn't going to allow me to touch her feet.
So I punted on those two!
Posted by Drunk_24-7 (Member # 21781) on :
Depends how much you like her, how hot she is and how cool she is outside of that quirk. If you figure she's worth it, then you accept the challenge and you convert her. If you don't think she's worth the effort you move on to the next girl. What you do not do is surpress your foot fetish and start a relationship anyway and attempt to get by without endulging what it is you truly like. If you do that, you're destined for disaster at some point because regardless of how hot she is, it's something you need in your life to be completely satisfied and if she can't give it to you, you're better off finding someone who can. Doesn't mean you can't fuck her. Go ahead fuck her, do it two or three times and the second or third time start sucking her toes while you're ploughing her and see if she stops you. That will go a long way in deciding where to go with the relationship from there. There's nothing wrong with a challenge.
My wife was anti-feet and had a self proclaimed foot phobia were her words when I complimented how hot her feet were. I still managed to get a foot job out of her on our first date. She'll never be as into it as me obviously but she's been completely converted and draws pleasure from foot fetish activites now as well. We've been married for a couple of years, have a couple of kids and have a versatile sex life exploring lots of kinky stuff and we've done all kinds of foot related stuff from worship to foot jobs to smelling and smother and trample and ball busting, tickling, shoe play, sock play, you name it. It's not a big deal, it gets me off and brings out the animal in me so she loves to indulge me and satisfy me as I do likewise for her so it works out great. If she put up a wall against it and wasn't willing to explore it with me, then odds are we wouldn't be together today because as cool as she is in all aspects of life outside of the foot thing, it's a part of me and my love and lust for sexy feet comes with the package so in order to have a healthy relationship I need to have my foot fix. You probably do to. So if you're up for the challenge, go for it and show her that a little foot lovin' ain't so bad. If she can't meet ya at least halfway or further, well hopefully it was worth the shot, if she can, it may be the best move you ever made and lead to a spectacular relationship and a whole new world of fun for her that she'd previously never thought possible.
No harm in taking on the challenge but make sure you take it on, don't duck it and sell yourself short by trying to repress it because that just won't work. You'll either cheat to get your feet or just me a grumpy, miserable and bitter dude at some point when the initial excitement of a new relationship wears off and you can't enjoy the things you want out of the person supposed to be closed to you.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
Say challenge accepted. If she likes you she'll let you at 'em if you're taking care of her. If not say "NEXT!" and move along.
Posted by Jiao (Member # 44950) on :
I think it depends on the root issue. You have to ease in to girls not hip to the foot scene and find out what the root cause is. For example, my wife initially didn't like her feet touched. That was because she was SO ticklish. Before she met a foot fetishist like me, I think she thought the only reason anyone would touch her feet was to tickle them. Now she is a foot goddess, and I have my way with them, with no ticklishness! And it didn't take long, either. I think you have to identify the reason for her aversion before giving up.
Posted by Fwrinkledsoles (Member # 101) on :
Give it time and tell her it is fore play by lick her vagina a few minutes, then suck her toes a few minutes back and fore. And have her playing with her nipples. Posted by Jay the Footman (Member # 42837) on :
If she hates her feet, but is willing to let you play with them I'd say go for it, but if she hates her feet and will NOT let you play with them, tell her "nice knowing you", keep it moving.
but that's just me......... we don't all have to do it my way.
Posted by larrrr (Member # 42092) on :
It would depend on how she turns me on and my feelings for her whether or not I'd move on. I wouldn't focus my entire attn on her feet. I'd take the first attempt to convert her during sex. Get her turned on and go from eating her out down her leg with licking/kissing until I got to her toes while I'm doing her. If she rejects it and gets dressed, then it's not meant to be. Of course I'd rather have a really cool and open girlfriend to foot fetish that would let me suck her toes whereever and whenever. Then again I seem to be balanced to maybe enjoying the vagina more than feet nowadays so if she's a trophy, then she could possibly convert me to making her feet a specatator event.
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
If she's truly into you, she will come around provided you approach it correctly.
Posted by safar85 (Member # 36947) on :
im with bondo, way too many women with way too many sexy feet to bother trying to talk one into it if shes not into your fetishes!
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
I dated one girl, who actually posed for my site (Paige Noelle), that hated feet and having hers touched. I find that a lot of girls don't think highly of their feet until someone pays them some attention. And while Paige did here and there, it was often a chore to get to them. When she was drunk a few times though, she admitted she liked it. Of course once sober, she denied she'd ever say that. Needless to say, we didn't last anyhow, but it wasn't based off her anti-foot thing only.
Patrick
P.S. And like others said above, if she's totally against it, move on.
Posted by LuckyTeen (Member # 30822) on :
Iv'e learned it's always possible to convert a girl into it. An ex gf of mine actually mentioned feet when we were talking early on in the dating game about some things we don't like.
Hated feet, I had the exact same thoughts as you. She even told me a story about a boy on holiday who wanted her to suck his toes and she heard him say to someone he wanted to suck hers. Proper freaked her out.
Now, that's like the challenge to end all challenges!
She ended up absolutely loving it. She used to ask me to lick her feet all the time, sometimes up to an hour. It was one of her favourite things.
Bottom line, if the girl likes you she will. Just don't make a big deal out of it. Don't go for her feet all the time early on. Just throw it in there when you're kissing her body, spend some time everywhere then go to the feet last, see what her reaction is when she's relaxed.
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