Hello guys! I am dating this girl, and we are getting along prety well. She is beautiful, inteligent, polite and really kind to me (wich is the most important for me). But yesterday, I went to her house and got to see her barefeet for the first time. And I noticed her feet are somewhat ugly. Her bigtoes are longer than her other toes. Well, that wouldn't be a problem for a normal guy, but I have a HUGE foot fetish. I love tickling and worshipping girls feet. I could spend hours at a girl feet doing that. To me, female feet are as sexy or even more sexy than her breasts or butt. But her feet did not arouse me. Probably because of her bigtoes, since her other toes are really cute and normal.
Please, what should I do? Any advices? Did any of you ever had this kind of situation? Please, any enlightment and opinion are welcome.
Thank you all in advance!
Posted by vsank2000 (Member # 40246) on :
Say thanks for the memories and move on...or you'll end end cheating.
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
How bad are they really?
If she pleases you in other ways...you should give her feet a chance and appreciate her feet uniqueness.
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
You can always hang with her until you find another pair;)
Posted by Peter, Peter (Member # 40235) on :
You said somewhat, that means you can deal with it. Are they hideous? probably not, just not perfect. There will always be other feet that you want more than what you have. They say the grass is always greener, well there is a reason for that. Make a decision and live with it.
Posted by Icarus (Member # 46711) on :
I have seen many poor-to-average feet that look WAY better from the bottom, as they are being lowered on to my face! Yes, I am a sole guy, but IMHO feet almost always look better from the bottom.
You may be jumping the gun; at least find out if she will even let you have your way with them, first. Many girls do not want their feet tickled even if they don't mind you worshiping them. Find out how the smell, how they taste before you decide.
Posted by aka.footjoyboy (Member # 32751) on :
Like Icarus said, be sure to see her soles; you might change your mind. If possible, posts some pics here.
Posted by ucflyeah (Member # 32674) on :
We need to see a pic!
Posted by KlassFX (Member # 46337) on :
It's not his feet type, it's not gonna work.
This is the problem when you don't get the fetish issue out of the way immediately. It's a minefield. Take the hit, limp away, and heal up for the next encounter.
Next time adjust your targetting: Only girls with feet of your type, and try to get as much early info as possible about how she might feel about foot fetishes.
A possible workaround is to open up the relationship, or go to poly-amorous (the way of the future).
Posted by zackseamus (Member # 33575) on :
Wow, so many good answers in so little time. Thanks a lot everyone So far I love the perspectives each of you have about this. And its fair to say that your opinions are 50% to 50% (wich makes it even harder for me to decide, since all of you have valuable arguments) Well, let me try to explain a bit more of what is going on so I can be more specific.
I just came out from a bad relationship. I loved this girl, but it didn't work out. And it has been an year since I can't get her out of my mind (Yes, I am that kind of platonic lover). Then, all of a sudden, I met this other girl I am going out with (for the last two weeks). She is kind, beautiful, funny, and etc. But I didn't fall in love for her yet. But that is not a problem for me, since I have fallen in love with many girls in the past that actually sucked and were bitches. I think that I will end up falling in love with her as our relationship goes deeper and matures, and I get to know her better.
I am 100% sure that this girl will be loyal to me, and kind (she is that kind of person that is very gentle with everyone). So, this makes me ponder about a real relationship, wich would be great. The only downside of this relationship so far is her feet.
So here is the problem: I know that people say "Get over her feet, etc". Ok, that makes sense, but I think about the future. Lets be honest, we all have our carnal desires. For example, 10 years from now, I would still never be able to get on with her feet, and that is really important for me. So, I am quite afraid I would end up having an affair outside of our marriage, and I would end up cheating on her this kind of thought haunts me. I am not saying this would happen, it is just a possibility (with high chances of hapenning).
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
What happens with this is really up to you. Only you know for yourself how loyal you will really be to her.
If you truly care for her, and think that you can go with her, in spite of you not liking her feet, then continue. If not, I'm sorry to say, you may have to try to find another gf.
For myself:
I would more likely bail on a girl, for her saying that I cant play with her feet at all, rather than for just having feet I wasn't attracted to,. To me, a girl I'm dating, refusing to engage in my interest, isn't good.
Good Luck. I hope you can figure this out.
Posted by oneagain (Member # 35859) on :
Yer thinking too much.
Just see how things go. Be with her feet a bit and see if things changed.
In the beginning I was keen on small feet with no smell...in the last few years I've desired 10+ size and sniffing is manditory!
I had dated this Thai girl who had big feet (for a Thai) and they weren't your standard flair...well I grew to adore them and I admire them for their earthiness...their wide soles kissing the ground. I haven't seen her for years but those 'different' feet I grew to adore and still desire.
Unless she pushes you away or they are uncared for and are riddled with blisters and boils and thick callouses all over...I'd give them a test go before you bail
Good luck and keep us posted
Posted by longhitter04 (Member # 2391) on :
You're in love with a girl that you've only been seeing for two weeks, and have no "carnal knowledge" of her? Really? How did that happen?
With all due respect, I think there's a bigger issue you need to address that will cause major issues in your life.
Posted by Spotlight (Member # 25079) on :
Get rid of her.
Posted by 5thgear (Member # 46148) on :
Big toes longer than the other toes you say. Send her this way.
Posted by buster372002 (Member # 3579) on :
I've had this problem many times, and also the problem where I've been attracted to a girl's feet, but just did not want her as gf material. In all of those previous cases, I've moved on.
However, with my current gf, I originally was worried that her feet were not up to my standards. Nevertheless, I revealed my fetish, and over time, things have really improved. She now gets pedicures, keeps her nails a bit longer, wears toe rings and sexy heels, and I'm now a lot more into her and her feet than when we first met. Not to mention she's got great fj skills she never even knew she had. We're happy
So, give her a chance for a bit maybe? No one's asking you to marry her.
Posted by Zamora (Member # 1236) on :
I would say give her a chance as buster and others have advised you. Unless the feet are totally messed up, most feet can be improved drastically to a decent level with good care.
You would have to worry about whether she can be introduced to foot love, given she does not put much emphasis on her feet. But a girl who respects you and is into you should not be treated as a sexual object. If she is to you nothing else, just leave her. It is only fair for you and her.
Posted by ucflyeah (Member # 32674) on :
I can't even LOOK at ugly toes, much less have them in my face, and NO WAY fall in love forever. No chance in hell.
Posted by omni7phat (Member # 999) on :
I might be chiming in here a little late but oneagain, longhitter, and buster have already echoed my sentiments.
My wife's feet are not the most perfectly shaped toes, but she takes very good care of her feet because she knows how attracted I am too them. I offer to paint her nails, and I give her foot rubs. I make subtle comments about what shoes might look good on her feet without being pushy. My bigger concern is how quickly you attach to someone. I think longhitter has identified something you need to look to internally. Whatever you ultimately do please be considerate of her feelings.
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