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Hey what's up guys, last night after "family" stuff me and a couple friends hung out and went to a strip club..surprised it was even open..AND CROWDED..lol.
Anyway, i drank like 5 beers (enough for me to get tapped) and got a lap dance.. The girl was sooo hott..i'm not even joking, she looked like salma hayek. So she was grindin me pretty hard, yet i didn't even get an erection..or even slightly hard. I don't know if it was the alcohol to blame or the fact that it's me and like 3 other guys next to me getting lap dances... Sorta weird public anziety i guess..lol.
Funny thing is, the last time i was at a strip club pretty much the same thing happened...and i wasn't drinking. I honestly think it's the fact that you're in PUBLIC, you feel un-easy..that's just me. Anyone else have this problem..? I don't have problems with sex, i've had 2 girlfriends, it just seems like all the other guys i talk too say sh*t like "how can you not get hard at a strip club"... I hate that.
I kinda felt bad for the stripper grindin me, in a way that she probably thought i didn't like her...lol.
PS, it's so funny that i can't get "excited" at a strip club, yet if i see a well dressed, attractive women in like starbucks, i gotta practically say to myself "she's not hot..she's not hott" in order to not make a tent in my pants..lol. HAPPY HOLIDAYS EVERYONE.
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I haven't been to a strip club in forever, but I used to frequent those kinds of places quite a bit through my early and mid-twenties. I almost always got worked up when I got lap dances, but there was that occasional time here and there when I didn't.
If you don't mind me suggesting this, maybe this is a sign for you to stop going to strip clubs. I'm not saying strip clubs are bad or the girls are sluts or anything like that...but think of it like this:
If you went out to the movies and fell asleep everytime you went, odds are you'd stop paying theatre prices and just wait for these movies to come out on video.
Same with strip clubs. If you're not enjoying it as much as you think you should, maybe strip clubs just aren't for you. Now if you like strip clubs and don't mind not getting worked up...well, that's another story.
As for me, the way my life is right now, money and finances (or lack thereof I should say) are constant head-aches. I got to thinking about all the money I used to spend at strip clubs the other day, and if I hadn't spent all that dough in those places, I might have a healthy chunk of change in the bank right now. Sure, I enjoyed myself, saw lots of pretty girls, had plenty of drinks and good times with the fella's...but if I could reverse time and do it all over, I'd pass on those places. Hell, for a fraction of the cost, you can get into a web-site or get yourself a DVD of pretty girls and TOTALLY enjoy yourself in the comfort and privacy of your own home.
So that's what I'd say to you Bro...if you're not enjoying it to the max, better to save your money anyway.
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Wow thanks alot for the advice Lou. I forgot to mention, it's never me saying "let's go to a strip club"...lol. Hell i'd rather hooters and see them hot orange shorts..haha. I got 2 good friends, that love strip clubs. I'm just like "ok...let's go" when they're like "there's nothing else to do"..
And for some reason, WHY do all the strippers come to me when i'm neither that good looking, or well dressed...and alittle overweight..? Lol.. They never hassle my friends that much.
Whenever i try to explain myself to these 2 friends, about how i'm not really into seeing woman dance around naked...but i'm into the mystery of "dressed woman"...they're like WTF..?
PS atleast i didn't pay for the $30 lap dance...they covered me..although i did spend like another $30 on beer..and $15 for the cover charge/admission BS. Yeah i'm gonna say i got the sh*t's next time..i gotta go home..lol.
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quote:Originally posted by gibarian: And for some reason, WHY do all the strippers come to me when i'm neither that good looking, or well dressed...and alittle overweight..? Lol.. They never hassle my friends that much.
It might be because your friends look too eager for the girls to approach them. Hey, women like challenges, and don't let anybody tell you otherwise! That's why you occasionally see girls with basturd boyfriends who treat them bad..."Oh, I just KNOW I can change him..." you'll often hear the girl chime...whereas decent and caring men usually get the shitty end of the stick. I could never figure out why a girl would hook up with a basturd in hopes of changing him into a decent guy, when there are often decent guys out there just waiting to find the right girl! Women are such strange and beautiful creatures...and we are NEVER going to understand them.
So that'd be my guess Bro. You're indifferent to a girl up on stage shaking her money-makers, whereas your buddies, the ones who WANTED to go to the club in the first place, are anxious for her to come near. Women pick up on these things.
quote: Whenever i try to explain myself to these 2 friends, about how i'm not really into seeing woman dance around naked...but i'm into the mystery of "dressed woman"...they're like WTF..?
Why don't you explain your attraction to female feet to these friends while you're at it!
Man, don't worry about explaining a thing to anybody. I used to feel that way myself...felt I had to explain why I liked a girl's feet, or why huge breasts didn't do anything for me, or why I've got a weakness for razor-thin 80 lb girls who look like they'd kill for a cup of white rice...it doesn't matter. At the end of the day, you are the one who enjoys your desires, not your buddies. Let them enjoy what they like, and be done with it.
Sorry if I got preachy.
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Thanks again, and you are SO SO right about that...about woman liking the wrong one. They think i'm a "she's gotta have nice feet" kinda guy.... Whereas i'm really a foot loving mofo..lol. I never told anyone about my foot fetish, just the occasional "it's nice if her feet are pretty" etc. Not even my 2 past gf's..
This will all change with my next gf i bet... I'm gonna tell her after a while, then i bet she'll say it infront of the whole family at like a gathering etc....
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quote:Originally posted by gibarian: This will all change with my next gf i bet...
Say it loud and say it proud, brother! (Damn, I sounded like Hulk Hogan there.)
As for the lack of an erection during lascivious public circumstances, I've often found myself in situations where I really had to deliver the goods because it went beyond simply having to produce an erection from the other side of denim. I frequently engage in group footjob scenarios on the weekends where not only are other people involved in the activity but spectators frequently stand around and watch as well. I'm sure they'd all have plenty to talk about if I fell short of the mark under those circumstances, but thankfully it hasn't happened to me thus far. I don't drink so I'm not sure how much that plays into it, but figured I'd mention it just in case it's relevant in some way. Some people may just have a natural tendency to perform better under pressure than others. Hell, we've all seen porno flicks where even in the midst of a scenario that's hot as hell, a guy stil fails to produce. They've got the magic of editing on their side though which unfortunately is a luxury that can't accompany us to the strip clubs or fetish dungeons.
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Lol... Yeah that's the major problem i think, is that i'm not crazy about the whole "public" thing.
I remember i was watching playboy one night, and they asked Lex Steele (male pornstar) what do you have to do to be a porn star. He said, flat out "you have to be able to have an erection in the middle of timesquare infront of everyone"..... I would NOT be able to do that..haha.
Yet i swear it it's so funny, like i said about the chick in starbucks...or like if i see a hot milf in the grocery story...i'll have to run for cover cause i got a "woody"..lol. I simply believe, that the little head acts out when IT want to sometimes..
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quote:Originally posted by gibarian: "you have to be able to have an erection in the middle of timesquare infront of everyone"..... I would NOT be able to do that..haha.
LOL, I have an erection in the middle of Times Square all the time! You see, some of my favorite adult video shops are only mere blocks away from the main Times Square junction, so by the time I hit the Square after having browsed & bought, my batteries are fully charged. New Yorkers beware!
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