Dudes, today I broke with my girl after 4 years of relationship. She has already left home and now I am so sad... there's no way to go back for another try (we know it won't work), but I still have so warm feelings towards her... though it's not passional love anymore as it was at the beginning. I cannot help wondering what will she do from now on. Will she be OK? Will she get a job? (she's jobless now) Will she be happy? This questions torture me right now and drive me more and more sad, knowing I won't be able to be there to help her if needed.
At the beginning she allowed me to indulge in my foot fetish: she gave me footjobs very often. But in the lasts months that willingness disappeared at the same time our sex life became less active. Problems grow, passion leaves.
We shared so good moments together that I will never forget her.
I need some encouragement words, do you have any for me?
Posted by Lord (Member # 2465) on :
The beginning of hardship is like the first taste of bitter food--it seems for a moment unbearable; yet, if there is nothing else to satisfy our hunger, we take another bite and find it possible to go on.
GEORGE ELIOT, Adam Bede
Posted by diamond johny (Member # 27586) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lord: The beginning of hardship is like the first taste of bitter food--it seems for a moment unbearable; yet, if there is nothing else to satisfy our hunger, we take another bite and find it possible to go on.
GEORGE ELIOT, Adam Bede
I like that. This also helps: Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
This might not have anythin' to do with the price of fish, but has definately made a huge impact on me...
It's something that feels hard at first but little by little good things happen. You make your own progress by making your own steps to move on. Then everything that happened becomes a memory and you realise that everything is okay again.
The great thing about the human mind is that emotions are relative. You don't realise how good everything is until it goes bad, and people can live in abject poverty and alone yet still be completely happy in themselves. We're highly intelligent and adaptable creatures.
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