Just bowing off some steam, but yeah. Great site bro, I like your work. (Message read), no reply.
Thanks "bro."
Posted by PERFECTCEII (Member # 46920) on :
On facebook no girl ever last when talking to. They will ignore me without even saying..I have to go or something like that. Instead they completely ignore me and I never even mention feet at all to them. Just normal things and sometimes a week later I reply saying. : How are you ? and things like that and they still haven;t reply. Yep Florida sucks to have friends.
Posted by Rocky TSM (Member # 28971) on :
I feel for you. I live in Iowa. Not much exciting out here. All the female friends I have rarely talk to me. 9 times out of 10, I get ignored. When they do reply, it's only one or two messages before I get blown off again. Unless they need me for something. Then they'll talk my ear off.
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
Next them! These girls get so many messages the numbers are phenomenal. Read these two messages two Don Juan's wrote about their experiences with girls from POF (Plenty of Fish).
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I got a very valuable insight yesterday which I thought I'd share. I went on a date with a girl I met via POF. We got talking about the types of people on there and what sorts of mails and profiles catch our attention.
She logged into POF on her phone and actually showed me that she had nearly 200 messages (in 2 days) and some of the weird mails she'd got. She told me she basically goes into POF and deletes all messages with the subject line "hi" or "hello". Of those remaining she scans over the profile photos and deletes any that don't appeal. Then of the mails she opens, if any of them are written in text speak or gangsta speak, she deletes them. If they are sexual in any way she deletes them or if they appear generic, such as "how are you?" or "How long you been here?" etc she deletes them.
I was especially flattered by the fact that she was the one who initiated contact with me, but she said my photos caught her interest and then my profile seemed funny, intelligent and genuine, which is the sort of guy she's looking for.
Well, this shows just how hard it is to get the attention of girls on POF and why you will often struggle to get a reply. Unless you make yourself stand out and make a good first impression, you're going to end up deleted with 100s of others without getting a chance.
What's more, it also shows how competetive POF is. If attractive women are getting 100 mails per day, then that's thousands of guys we have to compete with. It's no wonder there are so many flakes on there.
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This is the reason why POF for 80% of guys doesn't work. I know a girl who is a 6 who gets over 2000 messages a month, The girl Jariel speaks of gets 3000! This is the reality of online gaming.
I've been doing online dating for 10+ years the most (first time)messages I ever got in a month is maybe 20 (that is if I send maaaad spam msgs out)
Jariel is part of the top 10%, online dating isn't for regular guys. This is why looks are so important online + tight profile, women get bombarded and overwhelmed and that's where the bullshyt entitlement mentality comes from
I know a girl who is below a 4 on the scale and she even gets close too 500 messages a month
its ****ed UP!
Posted by Robotron2084 (Member # 33263) on :
One thing I notice is women as always aren't interested in small talk.
Sort of difficult to make a connection without a little general contract. What makes a girl take interests when they're peppered with thousands of messages is a mystery.
It's similiar to contacting models online for shooting. Cast a wide net and hope for the best.