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I read alot on here about wifes/girlfriends that are not really into your foot fetish. I have been married since 1992 and had been dating my wife since 1987. Of course it will start off slow and thats the way it should be. I knew what I wanted from her (feet/toes) and also a great life with her from the start. If you are in love,treat her with respect, and don't force anything (sex wise) with her she will eventually give in. My wife and I started by just laying in positions and talking where no sex was involved. I'd compliment her on her looks and give her a foot rub. Eventually her feet were apart of our sex life. She would just offer them to me because I would compliment to her how pretty her feet were. I left it at that!! It wasn't until the late 1990s that my wife first said the words "you have a foot fetish" to me. I know all those years before she knew I had one but to her, it was just part of us and our sex life. So hang in, be patient, and play your cards right!!!
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Very nicely put Stash. We're all different in how we communicate with our wives, based on many factors, but I believe if you treat any women with love and respect, unless she's had some traumatic experience, she'll reciprocate. And it certainly doesn't hurt to treat her feet right (foot rubs, etc.) without being a horn dog.
While I agree that you should never force anything on your lover, I'm also sure that few of us sit down and discuss everything we're going to do before we do it. Our love life has grown and changed dramatically several times because of experimentation and creativity.
Several years ago we were making love, she on top of me. I reached around with one hand and was rubbing my index finger all around her vagina and ass. She obviously liked it. Since my finger was already really wet and slippery I started gently probing her ass with my finger. Still hearing no complaints, I began slowly working it inside of her until I was in to about the second knuckle and sliding it in and out while she rode my cock. She had a BIG climax. We had never, ever spoken of doing anything anal, but yet we did it. Because we had so much fun with "normal" sex, and I had always assumed that she considered that somewhat taboo, I never dreamt of going there. We've not done anything more than that anally, but I am thinking of moving in that direction.
Along the same line, just a year ago I surprised her with a vibrator, and she was very receptive to trying it out. Some of the biggest climaxes she's ever had have been courtesy of the vibrator, and a little help from me.
Anyway, doing things with her feet developed much the same way, and although she's not come out and said it, she KNOWS I have a foot fetish.
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first time me and my wife made love, man i was so nervous i had planned everything dinner, music the works she was 18 and i was 20.
i knew she was very special so i was really anxious about not fucking up, she was also a virgin and i wanted it to go well for her to. Anyhow we went to bed and started petting and then when we were ready to start Mr Willy decided to play dumb and did a real floppy on me!!
Man it was shit, she was really cool about it though and said lets just kiss n cuddle no pressure so we did, and then while we were just messin about i play fully tickled her pretty little feet and Mr Willy turned into a rock !! We made love for the 1st time (3 times) that nite on a mattress on my college room floor and she had an orgasm everytime (i thought i was so cool LOL).
Later on she said 'you like my feet dont you' i was a little reserved about the foot thing then so i said 'I LIKE ALL OF YOU!!' which she thought was sweet.
Its funny that nite was kinda saved by my foot fetish , just by tickling her feet and watching her toes wiggle a bit( i never actually kissed or sucked them for many weeks ), i was able to relax and then get really turned on and 20 years later we re still very much in love and together
Man im getting Misty!! LOL
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Those are all cool stories.Stash you got a good point and advice for those guys that are struggling to let there wives and girls in on there foot fetish. Posts: 1937 | Registered: Aug 2004
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Feetster, It is amazing how our fondness for looking at their feet can come to our rescue whem that certain part of our equitment lets us down is'nt it?
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Feetster- you have a extremely perceptive wife! I've had the same experience with feet "getting me going again." My wife has just really become aware of my fetish over the last several months.
One of the disadvantages of living in a warm climate (FL in my case) and excercising regularly is that, as soon as you exert yourself in any activity (including horizontal romance dancing) you sweat like a pig.
We went at it the other night, starting with missionary, but then moving to doggy style to try to avoid over-heating, but it was too late, and I was having trouble finishing. That is 'till me wife said "You wanna cum on my feet?" as she lifted her soles up toward my cock, pointing her toes. I pulled out and with a few strokes blasted her feet full of cum. They had saved the day!
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Your experiance of her Feet coming to the rescue is further proof that those of us who are turned on by lady's feet will always be able to use our facination to our adavantage on the occasions in which, the our Equitment starts to flop as soon as the lady announces that she wants to go to the toilet just after yo have managed to get errect, does anybody else's ladyfreind do that? By the time she gets back into the bedroom it is a case of trying to get errect for a 2nd time, but as I know the she wiil only announce that she wants the toilet again due to the her gut instinks telling her that she will need to spend a penny during intercause, I tend to ask her to rub her Toes on it & within seconds it is as hard as a Rock & then I decide it is easier to spill the human-Milk on her FEET. I reckon that in future I will tell her to use her FEET right from the start as it will save time .
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Those guys who have never discovered how beautiful ladys FEET can be don't know what they are missing & what is more it could(If the expeariances of, Feetster & Feetluvr are anything to go by), save their entire relationship with their respective Wifes/ladyfreinds as well.
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Before I forget a thank-you is in order to, Stash for starting this particular thread in which has made me realise that there we are even more lucky(if that is possible) to poccess this facination with women's FEET than I thought we were.
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I've always felt that when a person is in love with another person they will desire to please one another in every way. Not just eventually "give in" to the other partners sexual interests.
I just can't understand why so many guys don't just flat out admit to their wives/gfs that they have a foot fetish. Why are so many men hung up about this? Is it because of the possibility of rejection? Is it because of shame?
Every woman I have dated (including my wife), has really enjoyed my foot fetish. I know that a big part of that is that I was totally honest and unashamed about my fetish with them right off the bat.
If a woman is going to mock you or make you feel funny about something as sipple as you thinking their feet are sexually stimulating, what would you want to be with a woman like that for anyway? If she isn't going to accept you for the way you are or the things you like, what good is she as a partner for you?
Shit guys...just be honest. Quit messing around with games...be bold and be honest!
-------------------- "Foot fetish is not a choice... It's a lifestyle!"
-Quote from my phenomenal wife-
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'Those guys who have never discovered how beautiful ladys FEET can be don't know what they are missing & what is more it could(If the expeariances of, Feetster & Feetluvr are anything to go by), save their entire relationship with their respective Wifes/ladyfreinds as well.'
I wouldnt say it 'SAVED' our entire relationship but it certainly helped us start on the 'RIGHT FOOT'!! LOL. the basic key to any relationship is Give and take. Give her what she needs and she will do likewise Im living Proof!! LOL
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You have certainly given everyone some food for thought there that's for sure.
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Let's get this thread that, Stash started, back on the 1st page for the benefit of new members who may have missed it first time around.
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my wife actully thought she had ugly feet until i came alone. we have been married for 13 years now and at this point if i were to make love to her without making love to her feet also(not that that would ever happen) she would notice and tell me. my wife is a beautiful woman, she just didn't know that she was from head to toe.
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I always waited until the relationship developed a bit before I revealed my love for the female foot and theirs in particular. Once there was real affection in the relationship not one of them ever rejected my foot fetish. In fact all of them were more than happy to please me in a variety of ways.
Once the girl cares about you, you're home free!
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