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As some of you might know i'm 18 years old and still in high school. I have a real good buddy he does not know about my fetish. Well he's been going out with this girl since 6th grade were in 12th now. She never in her life wore a pair of sandles. Well one day my friend bought her a pair of sandles and said you should wear these. She came to school the next day wearing them and I almost passed out because her feet were so beautiful. I sliped her a little note saying I liked her feet and she should wear sandles more often. She wrote back and said in these exact words "You say that like you have a foot fetish or something, if you do you can tell me I wont tell anyone" She would be the first person I ever told so I told her I did. Also she has known that I have liked her since abouth the 9th grade so later that day she broke up with my friend came to me and said now its your turn to be my b/f this was all last week and during this time I have had the best foot time ever but I also feel really bad for my ex best friend. Sux balls.
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Well... i have to agree with Sinnister on this one. You don't do that to a friend. Should have at least let some time pass by and know that he would be alright with it. She isn't that much of a saint either do, so have fun with the little devil that apparently has feet like angel
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So, for 6 years, she's "dating" your best bud, then you write her a simple letter admonishing her to wear sandals more often and boom, "it's your turn to be her bf." I'm sorry, but something's wreaks about this situation. Whatever the case, if he is a "real good buddy," I would make rectifying things with him paramount before persuing a relationship with her. I mean, what if someone else writes her a little note and she leaves you just as easily?
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Ouch....Dude, I hope you can take a beating, and that your EX friend isn't bigger than ya.....Have to agree with everyone here dude. There are rules that guys follow, and lines that we don't cross....and thats one of the big ones...
I Think you are young and you live and learn i guess...
...better hope no one else writes her a letter....
good luck... and just Remember the fetal position cuz you might find yourself in it soon.
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I don't think there's any harm in this really. I mean dating the same person since 6th grade is really mind boggling to me. Hopefully your bud will be able to handle you moving in on his now ex-girlfriend. The whole immaturity factor of this situation is highly amusing too. The "Its your turn to be my boyfriend now" line gave me a laugh. I guess since I graduated high school 20 years ago I have trouble relating to this now.
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dont listen to any of these people who said u did wrong. who said u broke any "rules". all u did was tell her she had nice feet. that is just the same as guys on here who told total strangers they had nice feet. same thing. she left her b/f on her own decision. enjoy it and dont worry about any stupid "rules"!!
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For goodness sakes crazyscot - he suggested she wear sandals more often because she has nice feet; that statement is completely innocuous, how's he supposed to know his bud's GF of 6 years is going to dump the guy and then claim him because of that? That's absurd. Again, however, I would examine closely the mental state of this girl and really ask yourself is it worth losing a good friend over... from her statement she seems utterly immature.
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I just left highschool last september (before i turned 18) and i'll be 19 in about 11 days.
That's just some crazy shit.
Wrong, and not wrong on a few levels.
Writing her the note and complimenting her wasn't really wrong, and i honestly dont take offense to any of my friends complimenting my girlfriend. So there's nothing wrong w/that, Especially if he bought the sandals for her and told her to wear em. Even being honest about your foot fetish with her, there's absolutely nothing wrong with. That's part of who you are.
Now her up and leaving your friend for you, there's something odd. I guess i can't blame her to leave somebody for a foot guy. But the idea of them being together for 6 years in school... I remember school, i didnt date anybody until i could drive and owned a car, just because i didnt wanna deal with the highschool/junior high immaturity.
But it's like a few of us has already said she wouldnt have just left at the drop of a hat if there wasn't something else, and if that's the case then it's not so great for you. So i wouldn't trust her much, or find out why she left your buddy so quickly for you. Could have been she was honestly craving something new, 6 years is about 1/3 of my lifetime currently, and yours as well.
But as for accepting her as a g/f... Well i guess i can see both sides, you're young i was just about at that stage where hey, you were just honest with a chick that has great feet, and she had a positive response, so you can't possibly turn it down.
But the fact of it being your best friend, i just dont agree with. My best friend of 14years has an ex who was interested in me and knew about my fetish and kept talking to me... And my friend hasnt been with this girl (dating) at the time for over 6 months. And i still wouldnt do anything with her then...Just not right, it's a territorial thing for some men, and others it's just respect.
I found out about a friend of mine foolin around with one of my ex's...Not less than 3 weeks after i'd broke up with her. I wasnt so happy...
Guess it all depends.
But it aint about right or wrong, go with what you want. She may leave ya as easily as she left your friend, or maybe she was lookin for something a bit more kinky and life was just boring with him, either way. If this goes really good for ya it may end up being something worth losin the friend over, and if it's not, and he realises he's better off w/out her which he will most likely, (once he has his own freedom back and starts seein other girls, etc and realises it's alot better and experiences more...) You'll put it all behind ya.
Man i rant
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