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I go to FIT in NYC. I was in class with my friend dana. Out of nowhere she says my feet sqeek? In my head i'm like i got to see this. I kept telling her to let me see her feet and she didn't want to because she is insecure about them. she says they probable stink, i need a pedicure. I said i've seen your feet before and their fine. so she says friday she will let me see her feet. I think when she shows me her feet and if no one else is around i will tell her about my fetish. she has a boyfriend. do you think she will let me touch her feet more after i tell her?
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No offense, but why would she if she has a boyfriend, ya know? Plus, if she's insecure about her feet, and then thinks you're perving on them, she'll probably become even more insecure about the whole thing, possibly even getting in the way of your friendship. Just my thoughts.
I'd save it for chicks who won't represent any kind of significant loss if it doesn't go as planned. No point in risking a perfectly good friendship and all.
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its possible. letting her know about your fetish and possibly giving just a massage or something could be a good thing. i have a couple of friends that are girls who know and it is a great avenue to educate them about it, them being slightly open minded in the first place like it sounds as if this girl is, and also just them trusting that cause were friends i wont just go after their feet, and i wont. the friend relationship can give the girl a way to view the foot 'fetishist' and decide for herself what to think of it rather than just hearing about it and thinking of it as weird or gross. in my experience girls just seeing me for everything that i am, totally confident and enjoying life at least gives a positive representation of us, and breeds curiousity in the girl. for all this rambling i just mean that you SHOULD tell her about your fetish, but not to get her feet if she has a boyfriend, just because its a part of you and hopefully, if shes cool and open-minded, she'll be able to observe you and see that its not a big deal and maybe youll get to massage those feet a little once in awhile who knows. so id say TELL, but dont try for anything more at this point
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quote:Originally posted by angel wood: do you think she will let me touch her feet more after i tell her?
I'd have to say no based on just the information that we've been given thus far. I'm not suggesting that you shouldn't still go ahead and check out her feet on Friday, but I'm just saying that I probably wouldn't go into Friday expecting anything more than simply seeing them to come of it based on her apparent insecurities or self-consciousness issues regarding them. Unfortunately those types of things tend to cause gals to react less favorably to the news of a man's foot fetish, but alas nothing's etched in stone so time will tell. At the very least I do hope you enjoy the free showing.
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dude, just be glad she agreed to let you see them period. she's already insecure about them and she's showing you a lot of trust that you're cool and a friend and not a perv. rushing to get your 'thrills' of touching can backfire a lot and make it worse for any other foot fans that may want to enjoy her feet in the future.
play on the whole trust thing. get her comfy showing you her feet every now and again. who knows, being she sounds like a healthy normal female, she'll pick up on it. might loosen up and give you a shot in the future to share your views on feet and how they affect guys.
if you really want to push your luck, take the angle (honesty really helps with this one) that you are sharing things that some guys don't often share with the hopes that if her man is into that, it can grow them closer now that she knows. when done right and with honesty, she may let you touch her feet just to help her get over her nervousness about it (big maybe... but worked for me once). as long as the focus is on keeping her and her man happy.
(the one time it happened to me, the lady said her man didn't konw how to touch her feet and she had no idea what to tell him to help her out. so, she got 3 massages from me with full explanation on how to show it to him... weeks later she came back and thanked me because her man now was massaging her the right way)
if you doubt you can pull it off, just enjoy the viewing... that is more than you might have gotten before. relax, enjoy the show. let her figure out on her own you're open to more.
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would letting a guy see her feet, and posssssibly touch lol maayyyyyyyyyyyyyyybe suck on a toe be cheating????
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quote:Originally posted by munster: would letting a guy see her feet, and posssssibly touch lol maayyyyyyyyyyyyyyybe suck on a toe be cheating????
For some touching would qualify, but once you cross over into toe sucking territory, then yes, I'd say that you've unequivocally got the makings of what could constitute cheating. Here's a link to a thread that we had a while back pertaining to that exact topic.
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touch is hard to pin as cheating, one can't read your mind. but sucking... that is harder to slip as non-cheating. most women will pin that as cheating and most guys will call it fun in the gray zone before cheating. advance at your own risk!
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touching or giving a massage is alright,but once you put your mouth on a woman,toe sucking or what ever,then you have gone to far,and most likely could lead to other things.
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i don't know what will happen when i tell her. i honestly don't think she will get mad. if any thing she might be curious. i've known dana since october and she is one of the coolest chics i have ever hung out with, shes like hanging out with one of the guys. she doesn't act like a stereotypical pretty girl, like alot of the girls today.
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why would she show you her feet when she already has a boyfriend from the first place? Shouldnt you be more careful about things like this? You wouldnt end up in a hospital after all ... unless you are 7.12inc and practising martial arts for the last 10 years
Anyway...seriously... I wouldnt get things started in such a "lost" case as in the "I ve got a boyfriend" situation. Who knows... she might not have one.. and she justs wants to have control over your insticts by cutting off your enthusiasm in her (typical girlies' attitude).
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