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I must admit that up until this weekend I've always taken everyone's comments about how much girl's really love, and some really get into, foot massages with a grain of salt. But call me a believer now...
Though I've always rubbed and caressed my wife's feet to some degree, I usually only truly massaged her legs. But this weekend I gave my wife the the longest and most thorough foot and leg massage I ever have- and I couldn't believe how much she loved it and got into it. She moaned softly and told me how good it felt as I deeply rubbed her soles. At one point, while massaging her toes individually she told me that each one of her little toes were sending me love it felt so good. It was so fun and so sensuous. I'm now going to massage her feet every chance I get.
I just wanted to give my testimony and let you know that I'm now a believer! Massage on!
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I totally agree, feetluvr. Giving a woman a really good foot massage can help in getting her hooked on you. I have a theory that because we like women's feet so much, we have this innate ability to make their feet feel really good via massage as a result of our attraction to them.
Women can definitely tell the difference between a guy who massages them on any part of their bodies just for the sake of giving them a massage because guys have to or have been asked to, versus doing it because guys really want to or because the guy is really into giving a woman the massage. I think the touch in each instance is completely different and conveys a lot of non-verbal communication that women are in tune with. Massaging a woman because a guy really wants to or because he's totally into it results in a better massage for her and she can sense that on some levels, even though maybe we may not even realize, as guys, that our touch is different compared to other massages she may have had before. For me, personally, I always make sure that I come across to a woman with my touch as a giver when it comes to massages, especially foot massages. I think that she can tell the difference and she realizes that the massage she's receiving isn't the typical ordinary massage for the sake of just giving her one. Plus, when coming across as a giver in that instance, she can sense that change from the ordinary and she'll beome more comfortable in the situation at hand (i.e. me giving her a foot massage). If a woman is more relaxed and more confortable with you, this can definitely open up the door to other possibilities when it comes to her feet, either later on in the foot massage or at some future point, especially if you're one on one with her and there's no one else around.
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Congrats, glad you finally got to see how much most women like it.
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quote:Originally posted by Fate111: Massaging a woman because a guy really wants to or because he's totally into it results in a better massage for her and she can sense that on some levels...
I believe that's very true and we're lucky that we can massage feet almost anywhere!
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I'd say it is truly magic for women, I happen to turn my x from someone who hated to have her feet even seen to everytime i came over, she would have her feet up and ready for a massage and the best part is that later down the road I even saw her giving herself a massage after we parted. It is just a wonderful feeling to change someone imo
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quote:Originally posted by gojiita00: I happened to turn my x from someone who hated to have her feet even seen to everytime i came over, she would have her feet up and ready for a massage...
It is a pretty powerful thing when you influence someone to change. My wife was somewhat the same way.
Dr Scholl's sandals were popular when we first started dating and she wore a pair of those frequently in the summertime. But she was all natural, and did nothing to attract any visual interest to her feet- she didn't wear anklets or toe rings and rarely, if ever, painted her toenails. Now she has almost a dozen pairs of flip-flops and sandals, keeps her toenails painted most of the year, and wears toe rings and an anklet 24/7.
But even better than that is the change that has occured in allowing me to touch and massage her feet. Her feet were always extremely ticklish and she never let me touch then early in our marriage. Now she not only enjoys having me touch them and massage them but even encourages me to, as well as enjoy them sexually.
Nothing short of an incredible "metaporphisis" in my eyes.
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oh do i know about this topic. sometimes my wife and i put a movie on, and from the beguinning to the end of the movie, i 'm cream-massaging every inch of her feet. we just put the movie on, she puts her feet on my lap and while we watch the movie, i'm taking care of her feet. my wife's feet always feel and look very smooth and that is due to me.
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yeah.. giving a gal a massage is a powerful thing when done right.. and i've gotten a few request for some from my lady and a few friends whom i've massaged. but i keep the massaging to my lady mainly. she deserves that special attention from me...
and it's fun to give a massage when you know what you're doing and you see the woman is really enjoying what you're doing to her! and for her!!!
quote:Originally posted by Fate111: I totally agree, feetluvr. Giving a woman a really good foot massage can help in getting her hooked on you. I have a theory that because we like women's feet so much, we have this innate ability to make their feet feel really good via massage as a result of our attraction to them.
Women can definitely tell the difference between a guy who massages them on any part of their bodies just for the sake of giving them a massage because guys have to or have been asked to, versus doing it because guys really want to or because the guy is really into giving a woman the massage. I think the touch in each instance is completely different and conveys a lot of non-verbal communication that women are in tune with. Massaging a woman because a guy really wants to or because he's totally into it results in a better massage for her and she can sense that on some levels, even though maybe we may not even realize, as guys, that our touch is different compared to other massages she may have had before. For me, personally, I always make sure that I come across to a woman with my touch as a giver when it comes to massages, especially foot massages. I think that she can tell the difference and she realizes that the massage she's receiving isn't the typical ordinary massage for the sake of just giving her one. Plus, when coming across as a giver in that instance, she can sense that change from the ordinary and she'll beome more comfortable in the situation at hand (i.e. me giving her a foot massage). If a woman is more relaxed and more confortable with you, this can definitely open up the door to other possibilities when it comes to her feet, either later on in the foot massage or at some future point, especially if you're one on one with her and there's no one else around.
great post, and every word of it is true.
I myself, just learned the wonders of giving a great massage. And my girlfriend LOVES it. Shell let me do anythnig to her feet now.
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