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So I finally got a girlfriend again after moving states. I've been dating her about 3 months now and right up front we talked about my foot fetish and she seemed pretty accepting of it. She'd never heard of anyone into feet before me and as most girls she wondered how her feet could be attractive, but I've gradually been trying to work on her. But she's all new to it.
I've had a foot fetish forever but just recently got to explore it and shes the first girlfriend I've ever explored it with so I'm still kinda shy about it.
The first experience with her was rubbing her feet during sex which has since become a standard thing now between us. After the first time I did it she said she was really suprised but she really liked it. She said she thought maybe she liked it so much just because she knew it turned me on. This to me kinda shows that she's willing to try new stuff and she wants to please me. Then finally a few days ago I sucked her toes a little bit during sex. She seemed to enjoy it, but we haven't talked about it at all so I dunno what she thought.
Anyways I guess what I'm trying to get is some advice on how to get her more comfortable with the whole thing so any ideas? I think I'm off to a good start and she seems okay with it. Would it be a bad idea to just go ahead and start worshipping her feet during foreplay sometime and see if she says anything about it?
And the last question...She has really nice feet and I love them. She likes to go barefoot a lot though and her soles aren't as soft as I'd like but I think they just need some regular lotioning. After showers she always puts lotion on her body but I notice she never does her feet lol! So how can I tell her in a nice way to try lotioning her feet? Or any ideas on getting her soles softer?
Thanks much guys. Sorry for the long post, I think I rambled haha
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I don't think it would be a bad idea to start sucking on her toes during foreplay. You said that she seems ok with the things you have done with her so far that are foot related during sex and she has an idea that her feet turn you on. I'm sure that she'll get comfortable with it over time. It's already obvious she has a comfort level going with you in general. I don't think she would allow the foot action you've been getting so far if that wasn't the case.
What I would recommend as far as getting her feet more softer is offering to give her a foot massage. Then, before you begin the massage, get out the moisturizing lotion that will help make her feet softer. This is a pampering gesture so it will be points for you. While you use the lotion, you can make a comment about using it to keep her soles soft, just like the rest of her, or something to that effect. This goes a long way and it's far more constructive than just coming out and bluntly saying that you think her feet could be softer.
I'm sure she will pick up on the fact that her feet can be an interesting and unique way of turning you on and, as such, will eventually "go the extra mile" so to speak. From my experience, once women that I know got tuned in to the fact that women's feet turn me on, the amount of attention and time they take to care for their feet has increased quite a bit. This takes various forms from wearing, or shopping for, shoes that flattered their feet or revealed them in a sexy way, polishing their toenails on their own or making an appointment for a pedicure if they knew they were going to see me soon, wearing toe rings, moisturizing their feet on a semi-regular to regular basis, etc.. I've found that once a woman becomes "foot aware", she will begin doing those extra little things on her own to make her feet stand out.
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Thanks much for the reply and advice Fate111. You're probably right in regards to her comfort level with me so I guess I'll just go ahead and try some foot play during foreplay. We are supposed to hang out later so I'll probably be giving this a shot today! lol. Guess I just gotta man up, keep confident, and go for it.
And you are right I think she is starting to take nicer care of her feet and taking notice more. I'm sure this will amplify as she gets more comfortable with the whole thing.
I'll report back with how it goes. Thanks again.
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Brother, believe me as you know all girls love foot massages all girls............and i can asure you that no girl will say no to get her toes kissed don't use suck use kiss and will be even better............sometimes they say no but it's not because they don't like it, it's because they are embarassed of how their feet could smell, what they don't know it's that we enjoy the smell.
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TwistedMethod, sounds like you have a really great girl. Good Luck with her. As for getting her soles softer. Two suggestions. One, either try buying her a foot bath, and have her soak her feet in warm water each night. Warm water softens skin on feet, gets rid of callouses, and makes soles much more smooth, and sensitive. This way, her soles should be much softer to touch. Or: Perhaps recommend that she try getting a pedicure. I know they cost a bit, but even if she can, every once in a while, the pro pedicurist can remove any hard spots from her soles, and "pretty up" her feet. If either of you can afford to do this for her, even every once in a while, it can really serve to help her feet look soft and pretty. Many girls I've known have gotten pedicures, to keep their feet soft. Hope these bits of advice help. Good Luck.
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yeah, my girlfriend never even remotely thought about her feet before i came along. we havent had sex yet (i think we're probably the last couple on earth that's gonna wait until marriage, and no that aint a good thing )
she's used to all of the foot worship i love though, so i'm happy.
anyways, enough about me.
if i were you, i would just try putting lotion on her feet while masaging them. she would probably enjoy that. also, just try more romantic things with her, like rubbung and kissing them. she'll come around...
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