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K well ive been going out with this girl for two and a half months now and we have been sexually active and all and we love each other. One thing I noticed about her from the beginning is that she loves being barefoot, all the freaking time in the house. For me thats cool i thought maybe she was comfortable with her feet but one day at dinner she just popped out and said she hated feet lol. But she always made these flirty remarks about feet i was so confused. Anyways, so tonight we where chillenn at my house and we where both horny watever so i took off her shoes and i just bent down and gave her big toe a little suck she seemed fine with it. Personally i am not into dirty feet but i loveeeeee smelly feet which sucks for me cuz shes always barefoot, although she does also wear her boots barefoot so thats a plus. Anyways after i sucked her toe we started making out nd shes like u sucked my toe but in a sexual way then i playfully was gonna lick her feet nd she said they are dirty nd that im crazy but again said playfully nd then she asked me if i liked feet... i said yes i do actually nd shes like well theres one thing we dont agree on but its so weird cuz she seemed to enjoy that i sucked her toe its like she dosent consider toes feet lol. I need to tell her one day straight out i have a foot fetish, nd that feet turn me on, but how the hell do you explain the smelling part? Anyone have any suggestions? She really seems to love me alot nd accepts me for who i am in any way so im pretty comfortable around her but i am shy too
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If you have the patience, I would take it slow....
Suck her toes a couple of times to let her know how much you really do like them.
Then I'd maybe move on to rubbing her foot on you (if you want that), then eventually get on to the whole smelling bit....
Cause as you can probably imagine, most people think smelling feet is disgusting so if you just come out straight and say "Hey can I smell your smelly feet?", she may be a little freaked out.
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Yep I agree be honest with her; if she really loves you she will accept and love u for who u are...and will be accomodating to your needs.
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I don't think you should go right into saying, can I smell your feet? I think you should just kiss her soles with ur nose near her toes or whatever and enjoy the smell that way. At least it looks like your not going directly in for the smell and she won't realize it. Or if she does and doesn't care, even better.
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take it slow bud... she even let you suck her toes.. so there is hope. in time.. she'll either get comfy with it (and you won't have to spell it out) or she'll get less comfy and tell you flat out not to continue.
don't make a capital deal out of it.
RPM
p.s. by the way.. i've met gals who don't like their breast played with. (no lie!!! my friend's wife is like that).. but some days.. she'll let him.. because he likes it.. other days.. she won't because she doesn't like it. making a big deal out of it only will create problems...
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I agree with what everyone is saying. Just take it slow. There's no need to be blurting out your desires. Although she might think it's a bit "weird" for you to be sucking on her toes, at least she was receptive to it, and that's a good sign. She just needs to get accustomed to the idea of having her toes and feet be more sexual. Just lead by action and not by words. She's already picked up on the fact that you think her feet are sexual. I'm sure she'll eventually get used to the idea as time goes on if you just treat it like it's a normal thing for you and don't make a big deal about it.
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Takeing it slow is a must. I dont think rushing into the feet thing with her would be a good idea.
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Massage her feet periodically, as I feel its the best way to take it slow.
From the sounds of it, she seems neutral on the whole fetish which means you might warm her up with some massages as I suggested, and her feet ache a lot even better for your cause as you can continue to build upon that into some more sucking/licking and who knows you could very well turn her on to the whole fetish thing!
No need to mention that you have a foot fetish because you already implied that by sucking on her toe.
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I've always worked into the smelling thing. Started with massages, then light kissing, maybe some tickling to be cute, then toe sucking. Eventually I'll ask to have her feet when I know they'll be sweaty and when she detests saying they'll be sweaty, I'll shake her off and tell her I doubt it. Sometimes you'll even get to sniff her feet with her in a cute playful way. One of the best foot things that happened to me was one time I was fooling around with a girlfriend and we were both sniffing one of her sweaty feet. I was jerking off and she was fingering herself. After a few minutes, she pulled her foot away and pushed my face into her pussy. I was no good. I was so hot it was nuts.
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She always seemed free with her feet with me so i didnt mind admitting it but i didnt wanna say i have a fetish cuz alot of people dont understand and see a fetish as something charles manson had lol.. I told my ex about 6 months after dating nd she was k with it about 10 months into it i explained the sniffing thing nd she was fine with it also. It seemed to me she liked it when i sucked her toe i did it playfully nd she responded sexually so i got something to work with, ill agree with you guys on all, ill take it slow
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