posted
So basically, how did you guys think you got your foot fetish? From whom? How and when? I've read some stuff on how foot fetish originates during childhood experiences. Now, I'm 100% sure I know where my foot fetish originated from and whom it came from. It's just that it's very embarrassing because that person is a family member and I have no sexual feelings for that family member (not my mother btw) (Trust me non at all!!!). It's just that since I was about 5 years old, I always touched played around with that person's feet for fun and the first time I realized that I have a foot fetish was when I was 10. And her feet were the first to kind of start the fetish inside of me. I just feel very embarrassed and ashamed of myself knowing where my foot fetish comes from. I have been reading some theories on how foot fetishes came to be. And one theory that I can conclude on myself is that basically, a foot fetish can develop when the child is basically traumatized or in a stressful environment and to escape that they may just have the pleasure of say, playing with their toys, eating, or playing with someone's feet. I can honestly recall myself being in a situation like this for example, my parents arguing fighting yelling, and me just playing around with that family member's feet. That person is even aware that I used to do that and we laugh about it to this day. Yeah and just to state again I have noo sexual feelings for her, it's as if I just see her feet different from her. So yeah, I've had this inside me for a while, just had to write about it.
Posts: 12 | Registered: Mar 2007
| IP: Logged |
posted
It's perfectly natural. I don't remember most of my childhood, so I can't say if my scenario was very similar, but I do remember that I had a family member with a fancy house, and everyone who went inside had to take their shoes off. My family is mostly females, and I did spend a good deal of my youth here, so perhaps you're on to something. There's nothing to be ashamed of--it's not like as a teenager you snuck into her bedroom while she was sleeping and blew a hot wad on her soles; that would be something worthy of being embarrassed about, if not guilty. Then again, I don't put a lot of thought into where my fetishes come from-- I jsut accept them. As long as you're an adult now and know how to control yourself, the you're green.
-------------------- I'm a doormat for pretty feet. Posts: 1533 | Registered: Oct 2005
| IP: Logged |
posted
my earliest sexual memories were of my sister's feet. They were the standard for pretty feet for me for years. Pretty common I think.
Posts: 1171 | Registered: May 2005
| IP: Logged |
posted
Wow, thought I was the only one. Thanks for the comments guys. Definitely made my fetish seem more normal.
Posts: 12 | Registered: Mar 2007
| IP: Logged |
posted
wow, very interesting experience. i wish i knew how and where exactly mine originated... but i can certainly say these few thoughts:
while it may have originated somewhere, it certainly was not so bad in it's inception state... but damn as i started seeing kinky and freaky stuff with the advent of the internet my foot fetish turned into a grand central station of perverted and kinky ideas.
so for me it is a little opposite, where i am not ashamed of how it originated but much more ashamed of how it formulated way later on in life. i've seen lots of freaks and perverts on the net who aided my foot obsessed cravings from kinky deep breathing footsniffers to guys who like to have their faces stood on and especially a producer named Eliot Shear from FM concepts who loves it when women are disgusted by him. damn i have some bad shameful influences courtesy of the internet.
my fetish was very innocent when it formed in it's early days though. i have no regrets from that.
posted
It started with teachers and a few female relatives growing up from my elementary/jr. high days...I didn't know why I looked, but I thought, "Wow, her feet look pretty nice." Thats pretty much how it all started for me and I didn't feel ashame about it.
-------------------- V/R, FM9 aka Mr. Footbooty "She had real pretty feet. I was always a sucker for pretty little feet... Outside of her being pretty and hip, with a good body, her feet is what attracted me." - p. 39 of "Miles" (Davis) The Autobiography Posts: 8821 | Registered: Sep 2003
| IP: Logged |
posted
I can remember as a kid noticing the smell from my Mum & older sister's stockings. This is very early 70's. Didnt think about it much until fairly recently. But i dont think that is what turned me on. When i was about 18 i had my 1st, serious, full time girlfriend. All others before were just school flings and mucking around. Basically, it was all just basic sex. But my 1st real gal was different. She had lovely feet. I'd guess they are size 7 /12 - 8. Actually, the 1st time i noticed them was before we were going out (we had been friends in a large group of people for about 2 yrs). I was in the back seat of a car (with her sister i might add) and my future girl had a foot on the dashboard. I was fascinated by her big toe. It curved up severely, while her 2nd toe curved down. To this day, that is my fave toe part. I call it a "pincer". Anyway, we had been on a camping trip here in Aussieland on the way back i found myself just staring at her foot. When we hooked up, and after we'd done all the things we wanted to do but no one else would let us, experimentation came in. We'd shave our pubes, masturbate each other, and other stuff we'd be too shy to do as teeny boppers. My girl loved foot massages as much as i love back scratches. So, i'd rub her feet while watching a vid or day time tv (we were both on the dole for about a year) and she'd rub my back at night. Anyway, i'd kiss the tips of her toes now and then. I found i liked it, and she didnt mind. It progressed to "shrimping" her for ages. It reached perfection when she'd lay face down on the bed, and i'd lick her ass while rubbing on her feet. I'd get so hot that i'd pounce up and do her doggie or something. I must admit the thought of a foot job never occurred to me. So anyway, i was hooked on feet. We broke up and my next few girlfriends had no interest in feet. In fact, they had horrible feet now that i think of it. But as i got into my 20's i found there was something missing. it was feet! I would stare at girls on the train. I worked in town for yaers, and the office girls would pad around barefoot. ONe became a girlfriend and she liked her feet being touched up. She had 2nd toes longer than her 1st which i dont like, but it was great all the same.
Things progressed as the fashions in the late 80's - early 90's changed. Nail polish was going nuts. ANklets were coming in in a big way (particularly with surfer girls, who i used to hang with and also, obviously, they were often barefoot or in flips with tanned, smooth feet.).
Thankfully her in Oz, flips have been popular for years. they are like our national emblem! I met my wife in 1998. The 1st thing i noticed of her was her tiny size 5's in these enormous wedge shoes with a 5 inch heel. I was smitten! She obviously never even considered feet. She was "But what about my other bits"? She just didnt get it. But, she didnt mind me doing stuff. I truly became "sexual" about feet when i went on line and realised i wasnt the only one. THinggs like footjobs could be seen and it was like my world had just altered toe-tally!
I am now obssessed by female feet. I take cameras to work and i often use my camera phone to take sneaky shots of co-workers & friends. I am devoted to female feet. I am very particular about what i like, but i wont go into that.
Where i work is near the beach of one of Melbourne's richest suburbs. It's getting real hot right now, so i get girls in bikins walking past my 1st floor window. I get barefeet, flips, sandals - its great.
I never thought of my fetish as sexual in a way. I think i just appreciated the aestetic of a pretty foot. But now it's really out of hand and it is a addiction. My mates know and tease me, but their wives/girlfriends all show off for me as they see it as harmless.
posted
Mph201, I had the same exact experience, sans the "stress" part. Like when my brother and I were really young, we slept in my folks bed, i the youngest slept at the foot (no pun intended), which was near my mothers feet. They just felt really good, and as I was a kid, she woudl gladly play along. I also began to smell them, which I loved. With anything else sexual, this would be odd, but with foot fetish, this isn't out of the norm. My first time jerking off was to feet at age 10. I was too young to realize that today, i am repulsed by my mom's feet as i should be and she is old. But this kind of early experience is known to breed this fetish.
Posts: 111 | Registered: Feb 2005
| IP: Logged |
posted
I didn't even know I had a fetish, I love touching mens feet ....my Ex-husband wouldn't let me touch his and it kinda pissed me off. Then at work one day I overheard these guys talking about the new guy! Seems he had a foot fetish, Hmmm I thought maybe that is why I get turned on by feet! So of course I had to find out. I got his email address and we talked for a few weeks and then we decided to see if I had a foot fetish as soon as he sucked on my toes I went over the edge!!! So then I knew! I love clean moist feet fresh from the shower and he lets me have them whenever I want, we currently live together and are planning on getting married!! Guess where I am putting my wedding band!!! Yep on my toe!
Posts: 60 | Registered: Feb 2007
| IP: Logged |
posted
Nothing to be ashamed of mate, that may be where it originated, but its not where its going is it?
You say you were like 5? How many 5 year olds do you know who will even talk to girls, let alone see them as something we see them as now?
Posts: 184 | Registered: Jan 2007
| IP: Logged |
UBBFriend: Email this page to someone!
Printer-friendly view of this topic
![[Wink]](wink.gif)
