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So, I recently found a girl that I am now in a relationship with. She's a friend of a dorm buddy, and she came up with her best friend, who had been having "phone relations" with another guy on floor. We met then while the friend and dormmate entered relationship status, and we conversed via instant messages for another week or two before they came back down (they're about 4.5 hours away).
We hit it off over AIM, and we really liked eachother. Lucky lucky, she was curious about all sorts of fetishes, and has some of her own. She eventually told me some of her own, at which point I was comfortable enough to tell her about my fetish - and I couldn't be happier that I did. She was intrigued by it, started teasing me, and now she's pretty into it.
The next time she came down with her friend, she was excited about teasing me - walking around barefoot and putting my hands on her feet when we were watching movies, etc. We got intimate, and I indulged her fantasy - we'll get to that soon - and she left INCREDIBLY happy. I'll probably end up getting some foot action next time And apparently, I can work wonders with my hands. Must be the bass.
Well, we're in a relationship status now, though her best friend and my dormmate are no longer so. We ended up doing a whole bunch of impromptu cyber stuff, which drove her wild - She's turned on by my fetish now, and we love eachother's personalities.
Now, as to this - She's into temperature play, that is, hot and cold/tactile sensations. When she came, since we can't melt wax without setting off a fire alarm, I used some trays of ice, and it drove her nuts. However, though my own fantasy has yet to be indulged, I want to make sure that hers doesn't get old. I already went to work on her with the ice, and gave another scenario during the "cyber" over AIM (though these sessions so far have been one way - I don't mind). I want to keep it as fresh and interesting as I can without making things old next time around, because I'll most likely end up sampling those cute feet of hers.
So, does anyone have some ideas for ways to spin temperature/touch play? I want to keep her as entertained as I'm sure she'll keep me.
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Temperature play, huh? That's interesting, most people would think of it as torture, or S&M type stuff.
Well, let's see, you probably wouldn't want to leave the sort of marks that would typically be left with hot sensation applications, such as cigarettes, candle wax, etc., so I'd suggest filling a hot water bottle with, well, hot water, a little hotter than normal. Again, not to the point where it causes pain, unless she's into that. Try using that and the ice cubes in conjuction with one another and see how she likes it. Also try blindfolding here; if she doesn't know what to expect, it makes the sensations feel stronger.
That's some for starters, and its cool that you're both able to be open with your respective fetishes. Good luck bro.
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I know a girl that is driven wild by the following activity. Take an ice cube into your mouth and let it begin to melt a little. Then while still holding it in your mouth lick around her clit and outer lips with your cold tongue. Then when she is enjoying the licking sensation insert the cube inside her with your tongue. This girl used to just go nuts when the ice cube mixed with her hot internal temperature. Ice cube melts and makes things quite juicy and very tasty I might add.
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quote:Originally posted by personman: Lucky lucky, she was curious about all sorts of fetishes, and has some of her own. She eventually told me some of her own, at which point I was comfortable enough to tell her about my fetish - and I couldn't be happier that I did. She was intrigued by it, started teasing me, and now she's pretty into it.
Funny how quickly her having her own fetishes "levels the playing field" (as in you "try to understand me and I'll try to understand you"- which should be the case in any relationship anyway).
Very happy for you man! She sounds like an awesome girl.
I'm even interested in hearing more about the temperature play. Where does she like to experience the temps- all over or just certain places?
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quote:Originally posted by feetluvr: Funny how quickly her having her own fetishes "levels the playing field" (as in you "try to understand me and I'll try to understand you"- which should be the case in any relationship anyway).
Very happy for you man! She sounds like an awesome girl.
I'm even interested in hearing more about the temperature play. Where does she like to experience the temps- all over or just certain places?
When she came over the second time, I had two trays of ice already frozen - she wasn't anticipating it. During a casual round of lovemaking, I let her know that they were there, so she covered her face with part of the blanket, and I went to work with the ice. It seems to be good anywhere that's sensitive, but certain places were more keen than others. Mostly along her stomach (letting it pool in her navel seemed to be good by her), breasts, the occasional underarm stroke, the occasional errant cube inserted into pants... And, of course, mouth-to-mouth cube delivery, with everything warmed up orally during it. Tip - if you happen to be "handy", right when she's about to climax, pour some ice water down her chest.
And, of course, I got to run some cubes across the soles, between the toes, etc. But no more than any other part of the body. I didn't end up kissing or licking her cold feet, to let her know that I was interested primarily in her satisfaction. It was fun, though, to dump an ice cube in one of her socks, and then slip it on her foot and let it melt there while I worked elsewhere.
I'll have to try the clit thing mentioned above. She's got some "jewelry" down there, so the increased sensitivity + numbness makes her go nuts.
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While I don't have anything really to contribute to the temperature play part of the discussion I just want to point out and compliment you on the stance that you take regarding her pleasure first!
All to often lately we have been hearing about the down side of our fetish through the news clippings that are posted here, so I really want to compliment you on not just "diving in" and getting your rocks off while not satisfying her needs...
As a wise man once wrote, feet men ARE better lovers because we concentrate on the whole body!!!
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get her to put one foot in a tub of freezing water and the other in hot water and then give you a footjob.
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And apparently, I can work wonders with my hands. Must be the bass.![[Big Grin]](biggrin.gif)
However, though my own fantasy has yet to be indulged, I want to make sure that hers doesn't get old. I already went to work on her with the ice, and gave another scenario during the "cyber" over AIM (though these sessions so far have been one way - I don't mind). I want to keep it as fresh and interesting as I can without making things old next time around, because I'll most likely end up sampling those cute feet of hers. ![[Fingers Crossed]](graemlins/fingersx.gif)
