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This question is about your first ever foot fetish experience with a female, and how to go about it, if you are the shy time.
Can you name some tips (from your experiences with gfs, ex's, wifes) of how to get from Not worshipping a girls feet, to telling them about your fetish, and having your first ever Foot worship experience with them.
People are shy at tell the girl obviously, as they are scared she might find it freaky, so share your tips....
a)how did you get your FIRST ever girl to allow you to accept your fetish and let you lick her feet? how did you persuade her?
b)Do you have any tips/strategies?
c)Any strategies to AVOID, which haven’t worked for you, or have been inefficient?
d) have you ever worshipped the feet of a play mate - a girl you just do 'no string' kinky fun with?
e)Anything else you want to share? - don't be shy...
Share your first Foot worship experience, and explain how you got the girl to ALLOW you do it on her....
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A) Well, it took a long time before I was even ready to tell her about it at all. We were dating for quite some time, and had just started being sexually active. So one night while we were just "watching a movie" I thought i'd share with her. I asked her if she had any fetishes at all, and if she did i would tell her mine afterwards. So I let her share and could tell she was getting hot, at this point I just kinda got it over with and blurted it out. She seemed to take to it, and since we were both just starting to get to that phase where we "did it" regularly, she was quite eager to explore my fetish, and I was eager to explore hers. It just kind of escalated from there.
B)Strategy, why yes. I like to call it "sharing time". Haha. If you find yourself talking dirty with a girl or are making out or whatever. Go right ahead and ask about her fetishes, most girls don't mind as it gets them hot talking about things that turn THEM on. When they have told you, they usually want to know yours in return, so that they feel less vulnerable. Most of the time the "I'll scratch your fetish, you scratch mine" approach works. You never know, she might even take to the whole feet thing after she tries it on for size.
C)Every strategy and approach can fail if you use it on the wrong girl, just trial and error i guess.
D)Thankfully yes. Since we were both "playmates" we agreed to a set of rules. One of the rules was every other time we hooked up we would change who got to pick an "activity". Took awhile before i was comfortable enough to introduce the idea of toe sucking/footjobs/sockjobs or anything of that type. She actually didn't mind doing it after the second or third time, and she was starting to get really good near the time that our relationship had to end due to commitments.
E)i don't know. lol
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i'm glad a woman said that! i was getting tire of saying it. the one and only strategy that worked for me... confidence.. when i don't have it.. that is when things get nasty, uncomfy, weird, all that stuff. (but confidence alone isn't a perfect guarantee she'll like what you say.. just greatly improves your 'luck')
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: The more I read posts like this, the more I think that I am the freak of this whole site because I just never knew it was so hard to tell someone what you liked and didnt like!
Women like confidence. Plain and simple.
You are making it much harder than it is.
Oh sorry, i have only started posting to this fourm recently, so am kinda new here. (i know i was a member ages ago, but have only started to post recently)
sorry 4 the post again...
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quote:Originally posted by whyme: This question is about your first ever foot fetish experience with a female, and how to go about it, if you are the shy time.
Can you name some tips (from your experiences with gfs, ex's, wifes) of how to get from Not worshipping a girls feet, to telling them about your fetish, and having your first ever Foot worship experience with them.
People are shy at tell the girl obviously, as they are scared she might find it freaky, so share your tips....
a)how did you get your FIRST ever girl to allow you to accept your fetish and let you lick her feet? how did you persuade her?
b)Do you have any tips/strategies?
c)Any strategies to AVOID, which haven’t worked for you, or have been inefficient?
d) have you ever worshipped the feet of a play mate - a girl you just do 'no string' kinky fun with?
e)Anything else you want to share? - don't be shy...
Share your first Foot worship experience, and explain how you got the girl to ALLOW you do it on her....
(I expect everybody who has worshipped feet to participate in this post, the tips wil be valuable to others! )
a) It's important for the girl to be comfortable with you and trust you first before she'll ever let you do more than massage her feet. As far as "persuading" goes, I have, personally, never done that, as that creates a very awkward position for the girl, especially if she has no idea that you like women's feet. To me, actions speak much louder than words. Doing the action of sucking on a girl's toes without saying, "Hey, I have a foot fetish" is so much more effective, in my opinion. All of this assumes that you have established a level of trust and comfort with her and she's comfortable being around you.
b) Confidence, confidence, confidence! You have to be comfortable with who you are as a person, and this includes being comfortable with liking women's feet. If you're comfortable with who you are as a person, you'll radiate that naturally through your actions and body language. Body language is something women are big at picking up on. A guy who comes across as "looking for something" from a woman or who isn't confident in himself has a different body language than a guy whose mindset is just to have some fun and is comfortable in his own skin.
c) Strategies that don't work include repeatedly asking a woman to let you give her a foot massage. That's very needy behavior and, if she puts two and two together, she might figure out that, through you obsessing about it, that you have a foot fetish. If she thinks that's weird, or you creep her out by asking her repeatedly, then it's game over even before you start. Another thing that's ineffective is trying to start up something with a woman (i.e. conversation, friendship, etc.) just to get at her feet. Because your goal is coming more from the stance of desperation or neediness, this will show in your actions (i.e. body language) and the girl will, more than likely, pick this up right away and want nothing to do with you. Make an honest attempt to get to know the girl first and don't make it all about just her feet.
d) Yes.
e) I don't know what else to add to the above.
My first foot fetish experience was with a neighborhood friend of mine who was around my age. She let me suck her toes without me even asking her. We knew each other for a number of years before this happened. Also, I had established through my actions (i.e. giving her foot massages, tickling her feet) that I "had a thing" for her feet. I had heard something about toe sucking and, although I had a foot fetish, it had never occured to me to do it at the time (I was 16 when I sucked her toes for the first time.). It sounded really cool to me so I wanted to try it just to see if I liked it. Rather than asking her, I just did my usual foot massage thing one day with her and just went for it after massaging her feet for a short time. She didn't mind at all and didn't resist. As a matter of fact, sucking on her toes became a fairly regular thing for me to do to her feet after I did it for the first time.
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From my personal experiences of intimate encounters with girls (and I do mean intimate), be like Nike and just do it. Considering you're already through the door to begin with, doing stuff with her feet at this point is just like foreplay, or showing that you love every single inch of her.
Girls get weirded out when you focus on her feet exclusively from the get go. You have to show you appreciate all of her first off before you begin to find your favorites.
And if you do just want her feet, offer her a foot massage AFTER you offer her a friendly shoulder rub. Throw out a funny line like "If you think that's good, I also do feet." And if she says no, then leave it alone. Don't force it. But all in all, it all comes down to confidence. Be confident in yourself and own your fetish.
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quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: Women like confidence. Plain and simple.
You are making it much harder than it is.
actually, it is
If you see a girl you like, just go up to her and start talking to her confidently and see her react favorably. It's pretty simple, but if you lack the necessary confidence in that regard, it is not.
To our surprise, relationships can be greatly accelerated ahead of the "3rd-date-then-you-kiss" mentality or any other arbitrary checklist for success.
Confidence and passion in your dialogue with a woman can allow you to connect in much less time than estimated by society (so you can be on your way to her feet in less time). Might sound unbelievable, but it's not -- let your confidence exude and go talk to her.
And deception can sometimes be closer to home than you think -- for example, if you think you can just go up and pretend to get to know her first before going after her feet (even though you might've really wanted her for her feet from the start), you might be deceiving both of you.
Confidence in yourself allows you to cut through all the "getting-to-know-each-other" BS faster, so you don't have to play all the games like "how many brothers and sister do you have?", "what is your favorite food?", etc. and so many other nuances that kill time.
Let your confidence flow freely so you can talk about things that interest you (and hopefully, her too, LOL!). The feet will come, and so will you
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Personally I don't really understand all the fuss. It seems to me that to consider yourself a freak just because you like feet is sorta missing the point. It means that you think that you are weird and everybody else is normal. Well, I hate to bring this but normal people do not exist. EVERYBODY has got some sort of sexual 'strangeness' somewhere deep inside of them wether they talk about it or not. There is no such thing as sexually normal, it simply does not exist.
So, we may deduct that the ones that consider themselves 'normal' are actually the crazy ones. (and, most probably, the BORING ones)
This should amount to about two cents no?
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One move I do which has proven successful on many occassions...first of all you need to know that she likes you and she wants to have some form of relations with you. Second of all you meed to know that she's not grossed out by feet...some women are and you're just gonna creep them out. Ok here it is...offer them a full body massage...If she likes you then she will gladly say yes. So you start at the top and slowly work your way down...back...lower bacl...back of thighs...btw make sure she's on her stomach of course....then when u reach her feet...u lift them up close to ur face and massage the soles of her feet...you can use her moans and groans if any to see if she's enjoying it...and if she is then you just slip her toes in your mouth while your kneading her soles. This move has worked for me countless times and has been successful everytime...U just need to know 1. if she has sexual interest in you and 2. if she's grossed out by feet or not.
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First experience for me was when I was 17 (I'm 18 now) and I used to give my GF full-body massages with my tongue too. I was massaging her feet and she put them further up to my face, I couldn't resist and thought she would find it sweet if I gave her sole a little kiss, I did.
Luckily she loved it and we built up to toe sucking and full blown foot worship with footjobs. She is now the one asking me to worship her feet as she just fell in love with it and she HATES feet!
We always put time aside for a lovely session and I love that she loves it and I love her ^_^
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