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Hi all, I think my foot fetish has died let me explain what I mean, I love my wife but her feet now just do not seem to have the attraction they once did. I do enjoy smelling her footwear but even this has gone now with most of her shoes having very little or no scent whatsoever. I still find I am looking at the internet for stimulation but with nothing to look forward to in the foot department. I often wish I could smell some of her friends footwear, their feet would be better but of course that is out.
Last week we went to her mums for dinner and her sister came and we sat on a sofa after dinner relaxing, her sisters stockinged feet were near me infact right by my leg I did feel aroused but thought this is her sister here it is not just anyone!
I would buy some worn shoes but with so many fake e-bay sellers out there some who do not even show their feet in their sales where am I going with my foot fetish here? I hate to sound fed up with this but is this the end of my foot fetish just resorting to the internet for arousal or hoping a chance sniff from my wifes girlfriends
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Doesn't sound like your foot fetish is gone, but it does sound like you're bored with your wife.
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quote:Originally posted by wanttosucktoes: easily fixed. Hit up the local strip joint, pay for some feet fun. End of story.
Ok, this is what is called a cop out and comeplete bullshit... NEXT!
quote:Originally posted by Toe Sucker II: its similar to having the same food EVERY DAY 3 times a day... you do get bored... you should probably spice it up with your wife and try new stuff.
I like this idea better. Yes, try something new with her, but choose the things that you like with regards to feet. Everyone likes something different. Also, try and stimulate each of your senses when you're with your wife's feet.
Sight: Pick out your favorute color polish or nail design for her to wear.
Sound: Try having her walk around in flip flops or heels before she comes to cuddle up with you. I know for me hearing flip flops is like foot foreplay for me. Hearing them before seeing them makes me wonder what the flip flop and the foot occupying it looks like.
Smell: If her feet don't have a scent at the end of the day, ask her to wear certain shoes that will make her feet more fragrant.
Taste: This goes along with smell. Again, if her feet don't have that "end of the day" smell and the taste to go along with it, then you could trying adding a thin layer of something to her feet like chocolate, honey, jelly, whipped cream or whatever other flavor that floats your boat. If that doesn't work for you then I would say try nibbling some food like fruit, cheese or something else from between her toes. Again I don't know what you're into, I'm just tossing different ideas out there for you to try.
Touch: Bare? Hose or sock covered, then to bare feet? Lotion? Oil? It's entirely up to you.
I hope some of these ideas help you. Let me know what you think and if you try any of these. Good luck!!
I agree with some of your theories. But that doesnt seem to be the problem with him. Its his wifes feet. He says he is attracted to other female feet.
There is nothing his wife can do to fix this. Its in his head. Once you have to find toys, try new things to make the bedroom fun, the relationship is that much closer to an end.
Think about it...when you first meet a chick you take her back home and have sex. Do you need toys, or to try something new? You just rip off each others clothes and go at it.
Its his life. You only live once. You want hotter, younger feet go find it.
If he likes everything about the relationship, except the feet part, go find some girls. I reccmoned a strip club because there is no emotional attachment, and its just quick and to the point and you will never see this chick again for the most part.
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I'm surprised no one came up with just plain old refraining from doing anything feet related with your wife, or anyone else's feet, for that matter.
I do agree that it's like having the same food every day, three times a day. Therein, I think, lies the problem. If you only got "fed", say, a couple of times a week as opposed to more regularly, I'm sure the appetite for your wife's feet would come back.
I say just chill out, do other things besides looking at women's feet (including online and sneaking peeks of other women in day to day circumstances), and stay away from your wife's feet for a period of time.
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I think sucktoes hit the bulls eye. It's the raw truth.
Spicing things is basically a last ditch effor to to see if there is still a spark. I'd say try it out, but if the fire doesn't start roaring again, the guy has a right to seek fulfillment elsewhere.
If that means starting over with a new woman, well pal, you wouldn't be the first person to bail on their marriage because they aren't getting their rocks of anymore. Besides, who really takes marriage seriously these days. Getting a divorce is about as bad as getting your teeth pulled. It hurts, but you get over it and it's something almost everybody has had or will go through.
I suppose you could ask your wife to let you indulge other women's feet. If she says no, well, then -- you have a tough decision to make chum.
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To add to the above thoughts, it might be helpful to remember that we all go through phases. For as much, and as long, as I have been a devotee of women's feet. A little rump-ramming porn (especially lesbian), women's masturbation, etc. goes a long way for me.
Perhaps you should consider what other things draw your sexual attention; and not just yours, but consider what erotic activities appeal to your wife (she shouldn't be neglected because of your sexual doldrums).
I agree that a little foot-abstinence might be helpful - absence makes the heart grow fonder, and all that.
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Hey guys thanks for all the replies I really appreciate your help here, this fetish rules my life there is not one hour of the day that passes by that I do not think of feet.
Knighttime feet Thanks for your long and helpful answer I read it carefully and maybe some of your ideas can work.
I am not fed up with my wife far from it and love her very much it is just the feet part, they do not appeal to me as once they did before they are small and hold very little scent at all even when she wears the same shoes for weeks on end. I just would like the chance to smell some sexy feet and even just smell some footwear who the person I can see wearing the shoes. Here in Turkey most people leave their shoes outside there door, we live in an apartment and next to us are two couples the women always leave their shoes outside, would it be wrong of me to pinch a sniff I have seen their feet before and would love to inhale their shoe scent
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