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Okay so what do you do if you date this hot chick and feet come up and youre thinkin what if she thinks youre weird for liking feet...BUT she beecomes one of those people who is like 'ewwwwww' feet are nasty and there's just no going around it, like its worse than thinking feet are weird but thinking they are absolutely disgusting What do you guys do in that scenario end it once the night is over or find a way around someone passionately against feet
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I am in a relationship right now whereby that is the case exactly. I am considerably older than she and she is an ex model and former Miss Teenage PA. She has drop dead gorgeous feet and a great body overall and stands around 5'3". I am attracted to her for many reasons and must admit her feet are part of the picture. Even if I cannot fulfill my fetish fantasies with her, I would never drop her over it. She has far too much on the ball for that to be the case. Her feet are very ticklish and does not like anyone to touch them. She does her own pedicures since she can't stand even a trained pedicurist to touch them. She has let me hold them breifly if I promise on my life not to tickle her. My strategy here is to hold them as often as I can and never violate my promise to her. She finds feet in general to be disgusting and cannot even stand to watch the Ped Egg commercials on TV since they feature feet being de-caloused.
I have a very strong foot fetish but my attraction to this woman far exceeds the desires of my fetish, so I will bide my time and work it in very slowly. During sex, she does not mind me playing with them at all since she is proccupied with other things, obviously.
I hope that is an answer of sorts. Not any easy solutions to this one.
quote:Originally posted by sparlash: I am in a relationship right now whereby that is the case exactly. I am considerably older than she and she is an ex model and former Miss Teenage PA. She has drop dead gorgeous feet and a great body overall and stands around 5'3". I am attracted to her for many reasons and must admit her feet are part of the picture. Even if I cannot fulfill my fetish fantasies with her, I would never drop her over it. She has far too much on the ball for that to be the case. Her feet are very ticklish and does not like anyone to touch them. She does her own pedicures since she can't stand even a trained pedicurist to touch them. She has let me hold them breifly if I promise on my life not to tickle her. My strategy here is to hold them as often as I can and never violate my promise to her. She finds feet in general to be disgusting and cannot even stand to watch the Ped Egg commercials on TV since they feature feet being de-caloused.
I have a very strong foot fetish but my attraction to this woman far exceeds the desires of my fetish, so I will bide my time and work it in very slowly. During sex, she does not mind me playing with them at all since she is proccupied with other things, obviously.
I hope that is an answer of sorts. Not any easy solutions to this one.
Sparlash
Well i can certainly see why you would stay with her and as you mentioned you do get some footplay so she doesn't find it gross. But i would say the average guy going out with an average lady should seek to break things off especially if it is early on in the relationship. You do not want to go into a relationship with negatives like that.
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Though it is very challenging to go into a realtionship with someone like that, AND I believe that you really shouldn't try to change your partner, my personal experience has been that, if you truly care for one another that the issue will have a strong chance of eventually working itself out- meaning that she'll come around to some degree.
During our courtship and early marriage I could not so much as breath on my wife's feet she claimed to be so ticklish. Hard to believe that now my holding, caressing, massaging, and orally enjoying them illicits nothing but moans of pleasure.
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flat out i would go i was born with it, i liked girls feet sence b4 i was 5, no joke. and then i'd throw the old "some ppl like boobs, some like ass, witch i like to i love ass's lol. and some ppl like nice feet." go into wat u like about girls feet, like wat u prefer, and wat u think is nasty. and then i give em the crown topper of "hay, if a girls got nasty feet hygen wat do u think her twat looks like?"
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I gotta go with Cain on this one. I tend to lose interest in a girl pretty quickly if she's of 'ewww feet are gross' variety. So I would say get out asap.
However, I have had success with the above mentioned anti-foot girls because I'm not shy about my fetish. I make them feel like they're the weird ones for not liking feet. If you approach the subject right and with confidence, most girls, regardless of what they say at first, love getting their toes sucked.
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I would break up if she totally wouldn't allow it. I did just that a long time ago when a girl I was dating for a month wouldn't even go for a foot massage.
Well i can certainly see why you would stay with her and as you mentioned you do get some footplay so she doesn't find it gross. But i would say the average guy going out with an average lady should seek to break things off especially if it is early on in the relationship. You do not want to go into a relationship with negatives like that. [/QB]
I agree, however, what should I do since I'm married to one like that?
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My Wife is NOT into feet at all. She kinda likes when I kiss em, making her ego go up a lil (which I don't like). But overall, she's not into feet. She notices "Me looking @ other girl's feet". And I do comment sometimes, "doesn't she have very pretty feet"? And she'd agree, since she admires pretty girls. (I think All girls admire girls to a certain extent).
Anyhow, she's not into my feet thing, or looking at online photos, or make any effort to take care of her own feet. Her feet are ok, but could be better... However, she's got NO interest in FEET, period.
Would you leave a wife for that? I know its hard as hell to live with one like that... so, what are my choices.
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Sounds like she's on the flip side of all of us, she has a anti-foot fetish, something must have traumatized her in her early years about feet in general, where we all embraced them at that early influential age, just a thought.
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my wife initially didn't care for feet at all. in fact, i only done her nails onces. she's hyper ticklish.
worse, her family has poked fun of how much her feet sweat all her life. to the point that getting her to remove her shoes was a multi-year effort.
she was the one for me, so had to figure how to work around it.
she rarely gets her nails done because she's so ticklish.
when she finally let me close, it was her curiousity that won out, she hadn't had a guy touch her feet before.
started with just holding with enough pressure not to tickle. then.. getting her to realize, the scent wasn't offensive to me (well in pumps anyway).
it took several years to get to the point where i can touch and massage, let alone lick her feet.
my selling point.. i don't have a fetish! i happen to appreciate feet, but don't have a fetish.. don't have a dior need to have her feet. in fact, it was the need to see her in high heels that was more important to me.
and she didn't do heels either. it took her a while to get to try heels herself too. and in her mnind (best I can tell).. she rather i play with her feet than go out on a long date in heels. so feet was the lesser of two evils.
what really helped, when i managed to convince her that once the world saw her feet and told her what they thought about it, she'd see it my way. and Wu's compliments helped shift the tied of things a lot. and I posted on Wu's after I got married.
I love her, and will work hard around her dislike of feet. which now has turned to a nonchallant approach. no like or dislike.
will i get it to the level I want. most likely not. IT's a mutual compromise. but helps i don't have a fetish, just an acute interest.
i didn't overkill or over push. had i done that, she told me she'd not budge on her position.
now... back in dating world.. i was more bold about it. if i sense you hate feet, i moved on before you realized there was interest. life is too short.
however. when i met the woman of my dreams.. i had to accept the fact i'd have to adjust my tastes and interests. she had the qualities i need in a soul mate. that is far more important.
in friendships and photoshoots.. it's the same.. if she's dead against it, move on.. if the opposition to feet is more based on "popularity", you can work around it (see Ben's stories)
RPM
p.s hope that helps. I can't fanthom divorce for lack of feet (or heels in my case). but, I do have the option to vent to friends if it gets uncomfortable. gotta thank Wu's for that!
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On the wife question, I do not think i would leave but I also would not have been married to her in the first place if I knew I had a serious foot fetish. No disrespect but I have a hard time understanding why someone would get married if their perspective spouse completely opposes something that brings them pleasure. This is assuming of course that whatever the thing is has been communicated. Just my thoughts. My wife used to ask me if she had ugly feet I probably wouldn't have married her. i told her if I had been dating her for several months and never seen her feet and loved her then I saw them and they were ugly then yes I would still have married her but if the relationship was in the very beginning and they weren't attractive at all or she was opposed then she's right I wouldn't. That's one reason I always tried to get at least a glimpse of the feet with any young lady I dated.
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haha RPM you had me at 'excessive sweating'! haha really great story though and impactful on me that there are people on here who put the deeper connections before their love of feet, as im deciding what is most important and what i want in a soulmate..... i first thought that i need to be myself and thats it, but that isnt in the spirit of compromise and i will get nowhere with no bending i guess even on my fetish... if i have an insatiable thrist for feet and my girl is the target and shes not 100 % down that isnt fair and wont work at all for me in the end, ill still be here subscribing to many sites haha.
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