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We spend alot of time talking about our object of desire, but for the single guys do we spend too much time talking and not acting? Speaking about hypothetical situations instead of living in reality and dealing with real women instead of the internet "godess/mistress"?
I get out on the weekends and meet women weekly but I can only imagine the amount I could get accomplished if I didn't spend so much time chillin on the site. What do you guys think?
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very true..i'm working on trying to get with a lady friend of mind, who hopefully will be my lady.Then i will have all the feet i want..lol
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not me, i spend most of my time online now. i work at a hooters and go to college, but i'm so uncomfortable talking to women now that i'd rather just leave out as soon as possible and sit online.
so i could get much more done, but i already do. and i wouldn't be getting more done with the chicks either way, so what's the point???
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Yea you gotta have that balance. I've learned alot from this forum, and sometimes use this gained knowledge in reality... However, there are situations when the lady is just a waste of time, and I could have been more productive online!!!
quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: I think in real life, it would get very boring and lame having a guy talk about this crap all the time. Actually, anything obsessive.
Live life. The more you talk something to death the more unsexy you become... and honestly the more whimpy.
You like feet- so be it. Enjoy and move past the awkwardness...
i completely agree lol
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quote:Originally posted by footgirl0226: I think in real life, it would get very boring and lame having a guy talk about this crap all the time. Actually, anything obsessive.
Live life. The more you talk something to death the more unsexy you become... and honestly the more whimpy.
You like feet- so be it. Enjoy and move past the awkwardness...
There's a large reason why I post seldomly now becuase honestly, I can only talk about it for so long. Besides, what's the fun in talking about it if you can't actually do it? I don't get any foot action and I'm so busy with school there's no real time. Music takes up all my time... and there's a jam session tomorrow so I'd rather be there jammin than on the forum. Nothing against anyone on here, I just have other priorities.
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If you're in a serious relationship that's lacking feet, it ain't as serious as it should be. Go get dem tootsies and celebrate just how sexy they are. If you're already with a gorgeous girlfriend like I'm happy to be blessed with, thank the good lord for her each and every day, and if you've got a camera, share pictures of your good fortune.
The reason I'm here (and online in general) so often is simple, at this stage of my life it's all about working, education and taking my career and earning power to the next level.
Between the grueling hours required to work in finance, studying for the GMAT and developing/keeping my analytical tool set sharp via reading and supplemental courses in various topics -- I have NO fucking life (hence it's Saturday night and I'm posting this message) .
I probably won't be able to really get my rotation back on deck until roughly 2012. Luckily, I'm not afraid of women and try (with decent success rate) to capitalize on every situation possible (e.g. trips to the grocery store, coffee shop, GMAT class etc.) to meet women. So even though the volume of women I hook up with in a year has declined from roughly 10 to maybe four or five since I graduated from college, I'm still in the game.
Post grad, when presumably all I'll have to do is work and keep the tools sharp (plus I'll be banking 2-3x more money), it'll really be time get back out there and make up for lost time (as far as my social life is concerned) by picking up where I left of before I started this painful process -- being a totally adventurous, outdoor oriented, debonair social butterfly, complete womanizer and loving every minute of it.
For now though, I'm in total dork mode, and you every time I take a break from the grind, you guys will probably be hearing from me. Posts: 460 | Registered: Jan 2008
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quote:Originally posted by ozboy: Must be a quiet weekend for you GQguy, lots of posts from you all of a sudden ??
Haha. No actually. I'm always out on the weekends. I check out the forum almost as much as I check out my e-mail looking for a topic to contribute to. Not many match my style "how do you get socks the sweatiest" isn't my thing. I was a lil drunk so I thought i'd create a few thought provoking threads.
As for time....just imagine if every hour you spent chillin on the comp you were instead out and about meeting new people. How much would that improve your life. Or working out. Or working on that project. Ect. The forum has the purpose of instilling confidence amongst our ranks. I've learned alot about myself. But is it about time that I devote more of my wu/foot fetish time to something else? Just a gut check question i'm asking myself aloud.
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I couldn't agree with you more. Quite honestly, I have no valid excuse. There's nothing stopping me from gettin' out there, and exploring the possibilities of dating....except myself. After reading other folks' comments & responses, I now know there are others who are TWICE as busy with school and/or work schedules. Yet they still make an effort to meet other ppl outside of cyberspace. I don't care who u are, this thread was meant for us SINGLE GUYS! Some of which who are @ least trying or "winging it"--as they say. (I'm not even close!!!!) I tend to use the old excuse: "Easier said than done." On the plus side, one of the main reasons I hang out here, is for the comradery. Never in my life have I felt so at home, so at ease with a bunch of 'strangers' {and I use that term lightly} who welcomed me with open arms, five years ago. Call me a wuss if u want--I get so emotional just thinkin' about it. You guys are the friendliest bunch of people I've ever known--but will probably never meet.
Am I still wasting time talking about feet? Of course not. I'm a proud member of Wu's Forum! This place has taught me to be more acceptable of myself, and my fetishes. Nonetheless, there are other reasons I'm not so proud of (offline)
- fear of rejection
- fear of ridicule/embarrassment
- the more time I spend here, the less chances I have at finding relationships..... with the OPPOSITE SEX!!!!
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