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I have a friend that has some out of state friends visiting that are staying up in a hotel suite. He asked me if I wanted to go by and visit for some drinks, which I passed on, but said I'd go just for the pool. So we get there and went up to greet these people and after a little convo I made a v line for the pool. When I got to the elevator there was a very plain dorky faced blonde with small boobs that was probably 120 lbs and 5'7" standing there that had already pushed the down button. I'd say she was 20 to 22. She just didn't have anything to jump out as being hott and sexy. She had on a white t shirt and some black pants with black flip flops. Once I glanced down at her feet it was an instant hard on. She had pale feet with dark red polish on that looked so soft and wet. As she noticed me she smiled at me and I asked her how she was and she replied, "good and you". I knew there wasn't much chance of this getting anywhere with her meeting a stranger in a hotel with her dressed like she just got out of bed so I went for it, and told her, "I'm doing great, do you want to know why"? She replied, "why"? I said, "bc you have some of the hottest feet and I'd marry you just for your feet". Then, I said, "don't worry I'm not a creep that's trying to come onto you, but I just want you to know the power of your feet over me". At this point I felt so accomplished bc I've never told a random lady this before. She looked at me kind of blank and said, "wow that's something I've never heard before, but I hate feet, especially mine, you must have a foot fetish". At this point we were just boarding the elevator and waiting for the door to close. I just kind of laughed and told her, "yes I have a foot fetish and you shouldn't hate your feet". She looked down at them and pointed her toes upward and said, "yeah but feet"? So at this point I'm like what the hell and say, "I'd love to take you next door to eat and then give you a foot massage". She kind of laughed and said, "yeah well I'm not really dressed up to go out". I said, "I know and I'm sorry for bothering you". So start to mind my business as the elevator is dropping floors. When the doors opened I moved out of the way and extended my arm motioning her out and she smiled and said thanks. Oh how I wish this could of ended with me getting her feet, but I was on a role yesterday. I had better luck at the pool.
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There's nothing "amazing" about any woman hating her feet or feet in general, larrr. In point of fact, it's far normal in our culture to feel that way about feet than it is to have a foot fetish, and everybody knows it. I've had a foot fetish since I was in high school (over 30 years now) and one reason I have always been able to indulge it without ANY problems is that I understand and respect that fact...because "fact" is what it is. Because of that, I have never had a single moment of sexual frustration related to my fetish in my entire life, and I've never once been treated as, or looked upon as, a "freak" like so many foot guys have.
The problem 90% of foot guys have is that they mistake their own passion for ladies feet as something the ladies "should" get...when in fact, they shouldn't. In psychology, that's called transference.
The reality is that women whose feet we find attractive MAY possibly "get it" and they MAY possibly enjoy it, but the only thing they "should" feel about it is whatever they already happen to feel about it. Just like you do about your own sexuality...and just like everyone else feels about theirs, too.
The bottom line is that whether the ladies in question hate it, love it, simply tolerate it or anything in between, their response is legitimate and deserves respect. To expect others to like what we like simply because - well, we really like it a lot - is childishly selfish at best and bone-headedly stupid at worst. And it only leads to frustration...over and over and over again.
Being totally honest with women about our fetish, as you clearly were with this girl (albeit to a agree that would be considered extreme, given the circumstances) is always a great way to be...but feeling confounded over ANY woman's "inability" to think of her feet as sexy is never going to work in any guy's favor. That's just how it is, and that's far beyond the realm of mere opinion.
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I couldn't agree more Steve. Of course this is coming from my perspective and the next guy may find her eyes a major turn on. This was the first girl I've told my fetish to that I didn't pay. I've always had that restraint with it bc of how culture sees it, but instead of being ashamed of her reaction I felt more confident and relieved.
And lala, as I got to the pool it was vacant. It was an indoor pool with hot tub so I got in the hot tub. I was in it for probably 10 mins when two ladies in their I'd say upper 20s to early 30s walked in. They were 2 attractive brunettes and as they walked in one said to the other, "well there's a guy in the hot tub" and she then gave a little laugh. I said, "well there's enough room, or I'll get the pool if you ladies would like to get in here". So one says, "no it's cool, it should be more weird that we'd rather get in with each other". So they get in. As far as their feet, well it's a good thing my lower body was underwater, lol! They sat on the opposite side of me and I asked them how they were. One started to talk about how great it felt to be traveling on vacation after a stressful year, and how great the hot tub felt. Then she asked me how I was enjoying my vacation. I told her that I was a little bummed and she asked why. So I said, "well I have a foot fetish right, and I just came across a lady in the hotel here with awesome feet that told me she hates her feet". She laughed and said, "wow I knew this guy is a freak". Then, the other one said, "wanna see mine"? So of course I said yes and then she lifted her leg up out of water and I got a good sole view and told her how beautiful they were and that I'd massage them if she's like. She was cool with it so I moved more into position to. So as I'm in the process the other one asks,"so do you like to suck toes"? So I started to lift the ones foot up that I was massaging and asked, "can I"? She said sure. Once I got her toes in my mouth the one I had started to giggle and said, "it tickles". The other one went ewwww and started to laugh too. So I went back to massaging and then a family walked in so it was no more sucking. I ended up rubbing both of their feet for about 30 mins and then they said that they had to go somewhere. Maybe I need to hang out at hotels more.
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LOL From reading your post you sooooo could've had her AND her feet and I can tell she was somewhat interested in you because you kinda came on to her in her so-so clothes and held that conversation. If you had've talked to her just a few minutes longer then, you definitely could've had her number. That was a missed opportunity, judging by reading your post.
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Well I find it more peculiar than amazing. And I kinda disagree with Steve for the simple fact I think it's more of a self esteem issue. I have seen hundreds of women who, while they don't have a foot fetish..they do know they have pretty feet and love foot rubs. I mean not just not so attractive women either. It's fat women who know that if there's one thing they can show off ya the fact they have pretty feet. So to me that means they do have something they don't mind showing off or beig proud of. What you are talking bout to me is what I believe is a woman who doesn't think anything about her is sexy or pretty for that matter. Because when I find women like this, and I let them know in my own special way they have pretty feet, they light up like light bulbs! They didn't think anyone noticed them or anything about them. Then when I see them again, they've got their nails done or even a full pedicure. Some women I've even bought them pedicures just to get them to see how people, not just foot freaks like me will tell them how pretty their feet are. And I haven't seen one yet who hasn't built something off of that. So yes it seems odd to me when they don't see it. You have women who have certain facial features and they like to play it up. You women with certain body types who like to play it up. I had one girl who was very beautiful, who love sending me pics of her perfect boobs and her nice hips and ass. I told her she may as well send me some of her feet since she told me she had just got a pedi. She said ok. Never sent. I asked her again another day. She said ok. Never sent. I asked her another day, she asked me if I ha a foot fetish...not trying to be defensive I told her, when you sent me your ass pics you didn't ask if I had an ass fetish. When you sent me your beautiful boobs, you didn't ask me if I had a boob fetish. When you sent me your pics showing off those sexy hips, you didn't ask if I had sexy hip fetish...so why when it comes to feet would you feel the need to ask now? Lol. She sent me the pics alright. Her feet were just as pretty as the rest of her body. And she loves foot rubs. But I thought that was crazy I had to exPlain it like that just to see them!!! Lol. We are still friends to this day.
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quote:Originally posted by 2nd. To God In Power: LOL From reading your post you sooooo could've had her AND her feet and I can tell she was somewhat interested in you because you kinda came on to her in her so-so clothes and held that conversation. If you had've talked to her just a few minutes longer then, you definitely could've had her number. That was a missed opportunity, judging by reading your post.
I don't know. She was more than likely traveling through and unless she was up for a 1 night stand then I doubt it. It could of gone to some long distance pic trading and chatting, but if she really hates her feet I don't think it'd of gotten anywhere. Had she of been say a co worker or a girl at a local bar I'd of pursued it even more.
As far as the rest there's too much detail to go into with stats, etc... I know there's women that get pedicures simply bc they enjoy wearing sandals or flip flops and don't want jacked up looking toes, which plays into how the culture views feet negatively. I'm sure there's others that do it for that reason and don't mind the attn. their feet gets, while others may despise their feet and feet in general. I guess if things would of gone down the way I felt they should of and wish they would then of I'd of had her feet pressed up against her face while I was inside of her, lol. Then, she'd of said, "omg I always thought I was goofy and never attracted many guys, but I got you with my feet". It's a complicated and non perfect world of course.
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Most women don't really think much of anything about their feet. Some love them, some hate them, but for many it's just neutral.
"Very plain dorky faced blondes" are more likely to feel unattractive about themselves in general. That sort of opener also comes across as too needy. A simple compliment will do for starters.
It's possible she could be convinced otherwise, but it would be more work than just moving on to a prettier face. Beautiful women are already preconditioned to the idea of being found attractive.
I've made many thousands of cold approaches and have personally found that the most influential factors involved besides picking the right women to talk to are, a positive smooth talking articulate personality, confident body language, and handsome style of dress. A man who possesses those traits will have a high probability of success at whatever his goals.
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I agree with you larrrr. There's been times when I'd see an average looking girl with amazing feet, and she suddenly became the hottest girl in the room.
The fact that something so irresistible to us is unbeknown to the woman is a really interesting concept.
In my experience girls open up really quickly to the idea that you find their feet hot. There are obviously good and bad ways of going about it but generally I've never found it hard to get a girl to start feeling confident about her feet.
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