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Posted by Morris (Member # 2276) on :
 
Footnight.com is suppose to be throwing a party here in Dallas on May 3. I was really excited when I got wind of this a couple of month's ago, but after all this time i've had time to think about the amont of money I will be wasting at this event.

Don't get me wrong. I am a die hard foot fetishist. I've got tons of foot fetish material! Everything from magazine's, videos, pic's ( past gf's, my wife's feet/several of her gf's and shoe's from gf's of my wife. I'm tellin' ya'll, I'm in this reeeal DEEP.

My wife does'nt have a problem with me hitting the party. I just feel like it would be a rip of for me personaly. I think it's cool for guys/girls who can't get feet on there own or those who are'nt comfortable with sharing their passion for female feet.

Me? I've never really had a problem talking a women into allowing me to have my way with her feet. And believe me, I have had more then my share of "free feet".
The thing with this foot party is, they've given me to much time to think about it. I'm a spontaneous spender. I like do things on impusle. I keep thinking about other cool things to do with that money. "Playstation PSP"? Hello.
At least I'd be taking home more then just a memory. I would consider going if I could at least take pic's of the feet I'm paying $20 for 10 minute's.
Yeah, that PSP is starting to sound real nice the more I think about it.

By the way, has anyone ever been to one of Dr. Susan Block's foot exhibition parties? I have. I worshipped a bunch of feet and didn't have to all that damn money. And to this day I still enjoy picture's I took at that party!

I hatin' on ya'll now. I just got come home with a little more then memories.
 
Posted by Morris (Member # 2276) on :
 
I'm sorry, I meant to say that I'm not hatin' on those who have gone or are going to go to these parties.
 
Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :
 
Just don't go Morris! Use the cashola you save to buy your wife some new shoes and toe rings.

I really don't have a reason to go other than I haven't had a different pair of tootsies in my mouth since hooking up with my good lady wife for 15 years. However, I wouldn't have her blessings to go to this event as you do, and she would definitely blow a gasket if she found out I was there! I'd come home and all my shit would be in the front yard along with a computer monitor with a sledgehammer imbedded in it! [Laugh]
 
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Morris:
I think it's cool for guys/girls who can't get feet on there own or those who are'nt comfortable with sharing their passion for female feet.

That's often the case, Morris. For the most part, these types of parties are indeed an outlet for people who don't necessarily have access to any other outlets, or for people who aren't really open about their fetishes and require a certain degree of discretion. I've been to many of these types of parties over the years and have met a whole lot of people in the process, and I'd say that the majority of them usually do fall into one of those two categories.

However, there's also always a smaller faction of people onhand at these events who are more like myself; They're people from the scene who engage in the vast majority of their weekly foot fetish activity elsewhere in private, but who still enjoy attending these parties periodically as a means of either networking or of simply enjoying a night out in the social company of like-minded fetishists who gather together to celebrate a common passion. I frequently throw my own private group foot parties here at home with friends from the scene, but I also love to complement them occasionally with the sultry mood & ambience that these public parties have to offer. I walk in and there's wall-to-wall foot fetish activity going on with a multitude of gorgeous gals. Maybe I've just been involved in this scene for too long, but I really do feel a certain sense of being at home whenever I walk into one of those venues. hehe I've always said that these types of events are not for everybody, but for some they're excellent outlets and let's face it, they're fun! I've never had any need to go to them, but I've certainly never regretted going to them either. It's all up to you, so I'm sure that whether you choose to go or not, it will be the right decision for you personally.

[Cool]

Calico Jack
 
Posted by DancingFool (Member # 3728) on :
 
I say it definitely is a waste for 2 reasons:

1: Its a phony situation with girls you're never gonna have any kind of relationship with, borderline prostitution if you will.
and

2: Did you know that theres a line of men waiting to lick a girl's feet and after each guy is done, they wash their feet in alcohol or witch hazel or what do you call that antiseptic shit? Imagine how her feet would taste by the time they got to your place in line? Plus you can't jerk off, and yes it does cost a shitload.

Better off hittin the bars if you have no other outlet and finding some drunk girl at 2am. (oh yer married right? Well get funky with yo' lady)

By the way I know all this from reading the rules of FootParty--I would NEVER even think of going. I went to that site just to find pics, hehe.
 
Posted by Morris (Member # 2276) on :
 
Me too DancingFool! Even though the site was lame, I still saved a handful of pic's with model's showing their soles and wide toe spreads! Boy do I love soles and toe spreads!!
Thanks for riding with me on this one guys.

By the way, i'm still new to the computer world. I have'nt quite figured out how to post some pic's from my collection. I'm working on it though.
 
Posted by Barbarino (Member # 30) on :
 
I have been to many foot parties, and would recommend them. The women are super cool and the $20.00 is nothing. I don't have a hook-up to free feet so this is a great vacation to enjoy some other feet. The women put their shoes back on after a session so you cannot taste the witch hazel, just the natural feet. I have sucked the toes of a few porn stars (Lalya Jade, Jacklyn Lick, Shayla Laveaux, Taylor St. Claire, August, Sharon Wild, Alex Foxe, and Erotic Nikki)that I would not have ever been able to be with without the party. Much better than trying to suck toes at a strip joint.
 
Posted by Craigy boy (Member # 3340) on :
 
I would never even consider paying for a foot party. Swingers party? Sure. But, i get enough out my wife and friends.

Though, sucking on a porn stars feet, and getting some pics would be ok.
 
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Barbarino:
I have sucked the toes of a few porn stars (Lalya Jade, Jacklyn Lick, Shayla Laveaux, Taylor St. Claire, August, Sharon Wild, Alex Foxe, and Erotic Nikki)that I would not have ever been able to be with without the party.

Good point, Barbarino. I completely neglected to mention that aspect of things when I posted in this thread, but you're absolutely right of course. I've met a pretty eclectic array of adult film stars & well-known models from various foot fetish websites when attending those foot parties over the years, so that's certainly worth mentioning when speaking of the cool things that these parties sometimes have to offer.

[Thumbs Up]

Calico Jack
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
The part about not having anything to show for it is the shitty part. It's not to say there's no chance of hookup though, as I was lucky enough to really date one of their "foot models of the month" for several months.

The part about these things being worth the money is kinda subjective. Back when I had a job, yeah I thought it was worth the money, though nowadays, I can't say it would be worth the money because of a different association I have for the value of a buck.

In either case the memories and the feet are great and easily accessible. That is essentially what you're paying for in my opinion. This saves the hassle of BS pickup lines and whatnot for men who wanna taste a variety of hot female feet without consequence.

This is also one of the reasons I'm glad I'm not married yet, though there's a lot to be said about the marriage benefits of consistent feet (which is also a very good thing in my book).
 
Posted by PugetSoundJason (Member # 9281) on :
 
I completely recommend them. Up here in the Northwest anyways. I have not been to any parties outside of Seattle and Portland, so I can not speak for them, how ever I have heard that some parties were not that great. The reason I enjoy the parties up here is because they are so intimate and they are such a great time, the girls are charming and beautiful and Ben is such a great host. I can understand the financial thing, and many people can not afford the luxuray of going to a party. I think it is a great deal though, and would rather blow 250 dollars worshipping the feet of 10 or 12 beautiful girls than blow it on Internet porn or going to a strip club. Free food and beverage, the parties last 4-5 hours and the guests that do show up definitely are for the most part, the guys that are not shy about expressing their fondness for attractive female feet. You pay the entry fee and can have as many or as few sessions as you want. You can can spend 85 bucks(that is the minimum for entry and 1 session) or blow hundreds if you please. You can stay for a little bit, or stay till the end and help clean up. Not one time have I ever seen one person regret showing up. That's fine that some of you have no intention of showing up to one, and feel so strongly against them especially considering some of you have never been to one! In my humble opinion you are really missing out. But if some of you have never had the oppurtunity in your personal life to indulge in foot worship, then this is your chance. Until then, I am going to enjoy worshipping the likes of Kirsten and whom ever else Mr. Del Amitri has in store for next Saturday! [Smile] I wish some of you could be there. It truely is a kind of night where all your worries and stresses and being bummed about world issues can go out the window for a while.

P.S. I have never seen a guest complain about the way a foot girl's foot tastes. The witch hazel is basically odorless and tasteless, disenfects, and the girls do a thorough wiping. Besides the girls wear their own shoes, or sneakers, or stockings, or socks between session to retain their scent.
 
Posted by ghost (Member # 1664) on :
 
i've never been to one before so i cant knock it, bu ti will say if you got your wife and her friends and you arent shy about your fetish, then you can have your own damn party! spend some of that money and have a cheap party of your own with all the feet just for you!
 
Posted by FootLover84 (Member # 5693) on :
 
Never been to one, but it sounds like it is a waste when you could hook up with someone and play with their feet and more. You don't even have to be in a relationship to play with a girls feet.
 
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
 
I could never go to one even if my all time favorite foot models were there.

Just wouldn't be comfortable paying for that.
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by FootLover84:
...you could hook up with someone and play with their feet and more. You don't even have to be in a relationship....

I've been to bars and clubs where there's a lot of hot girls who I had no relationship with. And their big boyfriends probably woulda kicked my ass (or humiliated me) if I went up to any of those girls trying to game my way into something as innocent as playing with his girl's or his acquaintance's feet.

Foot parties have a serious advantage over these type of potential obstacles for people who aren't casanovas and for those who aren't good shit-talkers when it comes to weaseling their way out of potential conflict that could stem from mistaking innocent cold approaches (like rubbing a strange girl's feet).

[ February 27, 2006, 03:00 AM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
 
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
 
Altho foot parties aren't somthing I've had the pleasure of indulging in as of yet,I still can't knock the aspect and there being.yes,I have a gf that allows me to indulge in her feet whenever I choose,and when I had periods of being single I would meet girls @ bars/clubs and any chance I could u damn straight I got what youre calling "free feet"(remember nothings free hehe)But even with all that said,I can't knock thease parties for what they're are.here we have a place,or places where we can go and indulge in our fantasies fetishes with women who have beautiful feet(somthing that's not always garunteed with "free feet"), and understandment of our fetish.
I don't feel the fees should be an issue being that your living out your fantasies and dreams,and as life goes on,everything you want comes @ some price or another...me personally when the time is right and my cards fall into the right place(grr comitments),I'm going to indulge in multible women with with the sexyest tasting n smelling feet all @ once,and yes I'm aware its not gonna be cheap,but I have no problem paying money for one of my dreams to become reality...its not everyday you can get multible beautiful women,with feet that match(don't forget,most women don't have flawless feet),who would allow that scenerio.good luck just getting 2 women u met @ a bar that nite n takin em to your house,onely so u can play wit their feet,see what I'm sayin...hmmm lets see would I pick a psp or sexy drop dead feet??? We know wich I'd say to pick
 
Posted by soleslurp (Member # 2442) on :
 
I can't say cause have'nt been to one of those party's. But I would love to go to one justy for the experience no doubt [Cool]
 
Posted by munster (Member # 12452) on :
 
Id go for sure. I live in vancouver though, and i cant really travel to the states right now so i miss out all the time. Id glaaaaaaadly pay 20 bux, pft i was thinkin those thang are 200! Anyday, to suck the toes of any foot model or porn star is way sexier than pickin some chick up at the bar...these chicks know exacctly whats up!
 
Posted by angel wood (Member # 9241) on :
 
i thought about it one time but nah, i think its a waste of money. i would rather share my foot fondness with the woman who cares about me and not my money. [Smile]
 
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by munster:
to suck the toes of any foot model or porn star is way sexier than pickin some chick up at the bar...these chicks know exacctly whats up!

I disagree

that chick at the bar is actually interested in you unlike the girls at these parties
 
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
I have to agree to a large degree with Mighty Mike about the impersonality. I did have a specific time where I paid upfront for 20 minutes, but she seemed so impersonal and ready to move on that she said time was up after 10 minutes and completely forgot that I paid for 20.

Anyway, I was so caught off guard and so amazed that she forgot that I went ahead and just called it quits on her. Never sent her a followup e-mail about modeling her feet for my website either.

This was one isolated incident though and the others have been great. As I mentioned earlier, I actually ended up dating one girl.
 
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Craigy boy:
I would never even consider paying for a foot party. Swingers party? Sure. But, i get enough out my wife and friends.

Though, sucking on a porn stars feet, and getting some pics would be ok.

It would be be better than ok, Craig it would be totely fantastic particuly if the Porn Star in question turned out too be, Louise Hodge who starred in, Every Woman Has A Foot Fantasy, & talking of Foot Partys do any of my fellow Uk foot-worshipers know if they still have Foot Partys near London Bridge Station once a month & if so how much does it cost too gain admission tese days?
 
Posted by bb57 (Member # 5582) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by quant_93:
I don't enjoy feet alone, I want them as part of a sexual encounter, to me these parties just get boring.

Although I can be into just the feet at times, I pretty much agree with you. Same goes for strip clubs. If I know I'm not going to have sex with the girl in a situation like that, it just feels like a waste of time and money. Bear in mind this isn't the same as a typical social situation where simply talking to a girl is just fine. Things like foot parties are based totally on sexual desire, yet you get none.

Why would I go to the party only to get worked up, get nothing sexual, then have to come home and squeeze one off? If I'm out in a club or wherever and I meet a girl I'm sexually attracted to, that's the last thing I want to happen.

[ March 01, 2006, 11:33 AM: Message edited by: bb57 ]
 
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by bb57:
Things like foot parties are based totally on sexual desire, yet you get none. Why would I go to the party only to get worked up, get nothing sexual, then have to come home and squeeze one off?

I'll have to jump in in defense of foot parties regarding that issue in particular because no two parties are exactly the same, and different organizers run their events differently. For instance, a great many of the foot parties that I've attended over the years have allowed footjobs to take place on the premises, and naturally that does indeed constitute the facilitating of a sexual release. City & state laws coupled with licensing issues and personal preferences tend to dictate the more detailed differences between how organizers choose to run their events, and there's enough variation between them to alleviate any generalizations about foot parties on the whole. Besides, even the notion of what constitutes a "sexual release" is something subjective that can be interpreted differently by different people. For some it must involve ejaculation, while for others a conventional worship scenario is satisfactorty to attain those ends.

Like bb57, I too am the type of person who'd not want to go to a sexually-charged venue only to find myself worked up and left frustrated with no follow-through at the end of the night. Most foot parties that I've been to have not disappointed me in this capacity, but the ones that have served to inspire me to begin organizing my own private weekly parties several years ago for close friends of mine from my local fetish circle.

As for the initial topic touched on in this thread (are foot parties a waste of money?), I admit full well that I'm likely not the best-qualified person to speak to that issue since I was one of the people involved in building the foot party scene from the bottom up back in 1995 and subsequently haven't actually had to pay any fees other than those involved in organizing the events in the first place. Today, while I continue to support the burgeoning foot party industry and lord knows I've attended a ridiculous number of them over the years, my personal feeling is that foot activities should ideally be recreational & non-profit endeavors to be engaged in by those who are truly passionate about it. I'm one of the lucky ones who's been able to make that happen, but not everybody is due to a number of factors (geographic limitations, personal inhibitions, etc), so foot parties can be effective ways to offer those people alternatives. So in summation, I'm not recommending that everybody go out and spend their cash on foot parties. What I am saying is that more options are always better than fewer.

[Cool]

Calico Jack
 
Posted by bb57 (Member # 5582) on :
 
In that case, I wouldn't consider it a waste of money. My only exposure to foot parties is what I've read here, but if there have been discussions prior to this covering parties that, um, finish what they start, I missed 'em. As it is, this is the first thread I've come across that discussed this point, though I doubt I've read half the threads in this particular forum.

At any rate, CJ brought up some critical points like the law [Big Grin] and I'll certainly defer to his knowledge of these things given his considerable experience. Since I've never been to a foot party, my thoughts were based largely on what I've read here, which sounded like a lot of frustration as far as I was concerned.

I guess disposable income would be a big factor, too. Value is relative.
 
Posted by crazyscot (Member # 3393) on :
 
Go throw your money out your window.... [Eek!]
 
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
 
My problems with foot parties is that photos aren't allowed at nearly all of them. If I was to go to one of them, it would be mainly for that purpose.
 
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by dougiezerts:
My problems with foot parties is that photos aren't allowed at nearly all of them. If I was to go to one of them, it would be mainly for that purpose.

I can certainly see where that'd be a detraction for the guys who are into the photography aspect of foot fetish, but naturally restricting cameras on the premises is a security measure taken to insure the anonymity & discretion of those in attendance. What some parties do to address this issue is have those individuals who wouldn't mind being photographed sign a waiver or release form in advance which in essence gives their consent to be photographed during the festivities so those with cameras can know who's fair game and who isn't. In the beginning I used to find it rather distracting to see people wandering around the venues snapping pictures, but it eventually became second nature and I learned to just phase it out of my field of consciousness for the most part. Besides, once you've received a footjob in front of dozens of onlookers, there's very little that can make ya feel inhibited! hehe

[Big Grin]

Calico Jack
 
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Tyler D.:
I have to agree to a large degree with Mighty Mike about the impersonality. I did have a specific time where I paid upfront for 20 minutes, but she seemed so impersonal and ready to move on that she said time was up after 10 minutes and completely forgot that I paid for 20.

Anyway, I was so caught off guard and so amazed that she forgot that I went ahead and just called it quits on her. Never sent her a followup e-mail about modeling her feet for my website either.


ouch

she was actually watching the clock

some girls will do anything for money I guess

That's why i could never go to one. I feel most of these girls are thinking exactly the way she thinks only they are better at acting. Kind of like a stripper acting overly friendly so you throw more money at her too.

I hate strip joints by the way
 
Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :
 
Expensive?...maybe.
Waste of money?...not for me.

My wife & I have a great time at the foot parties here in Baltimore. We go so often that the people who run it give us discounts for being regular customers.

Bondo
 
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by Bondo:
We go so often that the people who run it give us discounts for being regular customers.

Hey Bondo, when you say that they give "us" discounts, do you mean that the admission fees apply to your wife as well as yourself? I've been involved in the foot party scene for over a decade now and have still never been to a foot party that charged women to gain entry. I'm curious as to how they're running the events in Baltimore because the only foot parties that I've attended in Maryland to date were parties that I myself had thrown in Silver Spring, Odenton, Annapolis, Crofton, and the general Prince George's County area.

[Cool]

Calico Jack
 


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