A woman calls you a pervert, or any similar term, after you make a comment to her concerning her feet. How do you react?
Posted by Jak (Member # 7343) on :
SLAP THE SHI.... sike just playing
Posted by Hal (Member # 3484) on :
Luckily it`s never happened to me with a woman --- it seems men are much more reactionary in this respect. Iīve had men making shitty comments to me & my models while taking photos outdoors, but never any ladies.
-Hal-
[ June 20, 2005, 08:03 AM: Message edited by: Hal ]
Posted by muleslicker (Member # 3049) on :
I was buying some shoes off e-bay for a lady friend of mine, I asked the seller if she would mind if I had a photo of her feet in the shoes to see what they looked like on. Her reply was that 'I was sick' and she would report me to e-bay and her husband would try to get me banned. I think for starters she was having a bad day and maybe took it out on me. This has gave me an idea for my new post, thanks Dougie
Posted by vasduten (Member # 2211) on :
I only had that happen once, and after she said, "are you some kind of pervert or something?" I shot her a disdainful look, implying with my glare that SHE was the pervert, not me. Apparently, it worked. Her eyes darted around, and she mumbled"Oops, sorry?" and left.
So what if I was lurking behind a shoe rack to see her try on heels? So she caught me, big deal! I wasn't going to let her think I WAS perving on her feet, but she embarrassed herself anyway.
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
In that hypothetical situation described in Dougie's poll, the only viable option for me would be to walk away without a comment. By complimenting her feet in the first place, my intentions would obviously not be to pick a fight with the gal, so I'd certainly not insult her or ask if she's got a problem with that. Furthermore, I'd never apologize to a gal for having complimented her feet, regardless of her reaction. So, if she decided to get bent out of shape because I said something nice about her feet, walking away commentless is definitely the route that I'd go, and the odds are that I'd meet a much nicer gal along the route anyway!
Calico Jack
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Thanks for your responses, guys! I have an interesting story, that goes along with this: There was a woman in my office I got to be friends with. She was an older women--in her 50's--but VERY attractive. And she took her shoes off at her position a lot! One day, I showed her some photos I took, and one was one of the other girls barefooted. She said something about it being "weird" that I did that. But she didn't stop being friends with me. A few months later, I asked to take a photo of her with her shoes off--and she did it! (Well, she took just one shoe off!)
Posted by thosetoes (Member # 2489) on :
quote:Originally posted by Jak: SLAP THE SHI.... sike just playing
Posted by shomeyoT0ES (Member # 2662) on :
I almost never respond, verbally.
I'm such a wuss! Posted by spartanguy (Member # 6990) on :
Hasn't happened to me becaue the only girls I compliment are ones that I have had at least a brief conversation with like at the landromat or at a park. All of them have said "thanks" or "Really, thats different" or comments to that effect.
Posted by solo (Member # 7898) on :
wey most woman secretly like there feet messaged any way and then they don't mind u kissing licking the feet
Posted by sapor (Member # 8319) on :
any woman who calls you a pervert for complimenting her in any way is out of order i would never insult for cmplimenting me and i dont think anyone else should either
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Well, it depends. I do feel that some "compliments" are out of line. I would never compliment a girl on her breasts--except my girlfriend, of course! In fact, I feel more comforatable telling her she has nice feet than nice breasts.
Posted by 21ToeSucker (Member # 3187) on :
in my opinion the chicks that flip out are the oens that grew up thinking that everyone else thinks that are some unattainable goddess... bitchy c**ts like that usually get more pissed off if you just completely ignore them... That's what I do... The only subset of this tactic is that occasionally they take this as a challenge and try to find a way to get your attention... ... ... Did I mention that I really hate broads like that?!?! The superficial "God's-gift-to-humanity" kind... especially when they're aren't even that great looking, although being a knockout isn't an excuse either.
... I probably made enough of an asshole of myself for tonight... I'm going to bed...
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
I would just walk away. if she reacts like that to a compliment, then she probably is to shallow to consider for a meaningful conversation. In that regard, I wouldn't even waste another breath on her.
Posted by The foot fu**in master (Member # 2152) on :
quote:Originally posted by Lyrical: I would just walk away. if she reacts like that to a compliment, then she probably is to shallow to consider for a meaningful conversation. In that regard, I wouldn't even waste another breath on her.
Well said Lyrical!
Posted by Footjob Witch (Member # 8351) on :
my current footguy introduced me to feet,and i can say from my experience in our first meetings and conversations,AND HOW HE HARDLY EVER CALLED ME AT FIRST!,he didnt have any trouble finding feet before me.
the interesting thing is,he told me about his foot fetish right away.....but not how you might think. he said well if you get involved with me you have to understand i have a few fetishes.i thought ok interesting.so he says,"well i have a fetish for going down on women and giving them oral sex".
immediatly my legs started to tingle a little.he went on to talk about feet for the next half hour,what he liked doing with them....while he was talking i began to wiggle my toes on my flipflops involuntarily and subtly arch my feet as well.i did this because i was listening to him and imagining doing it.why? because i had already imagined him going down on me LOL!
i probobly wouldnt have been so comfortable with the foot thing if he hadnt dropped the thing about pleasing me first.after we had been together for a while i asked him if that was just a way to get my feet by saying that,and he said"well no,not really....you have to understand with my footjob fetish,i did alot of going down to reciprocate,in relationships where it was a quicky,we would have footjobs and oral sex instead of intercoarse,i like feet better than sex.but when i want to talk to a girl about sex or what pleases me,i like letting a girl know how i like to please her first and foremost,instead of how i like her to please me"
so when i saw this thread i remembered the time when i was first told about the foot fetish thing in public,and how i gave him the total opposite reaction than "YOU PERV"...infact i had mentally already orgasmed with his tongue and had cum on my feet.
i thought i would share:)
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
Cool story, Mona! Reminds me a bit of my own encounters because not only do I also tell gals right up front about my fetish, but I'm also a major endorser of simultaneous cunnilingis/footjob goodness and engage in that activity as often as is humanly possible. I'm really a huge fan of sexual reciprocation & mutual simultaneous satisfaction in general, but that in particular definitely one of my all-time favorite incarnations of it. I haven't used it as a devious ploy by which to attain footjobs because I absolutely love giving oral to a gal anyway, but I can certainly say from firsthand experience that it's helped more than a few gals warm up to the idea of giving footjobs, and now they're seasoned professionals!
Calico Jack
Posted by Weltmann (Member # 5023) on :
Lovely story I am impressed. I always needed some time to introduce my fetish to the girls I was dating. Sad story, the funny thing was, they liked it as soon as it came out... And pleasing the girl... thatīs a given thing...
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
Solo, Your 200% correct in pointing that out & Tracy Cox says in one of her new books that most woman consider it a massive compliment if a man finds their Feet sexy in anyway shape or foarm.
Posted by mystique (Member # 4356) on :
yeesh.... I'm too open minded to ever say anything like that! She is someone you just need to stay away from !!!
Posted by Mr. Eave (Member # 8565) on :
Meh i dont really get the whole foot job thing. I get the ocasional run on u with feet. But concentraiting on just feet to get yourself off is something i am not into. Am i the only one who doesnt think that foot jobs are the best foot fetish activity?????
Posted by FTPHANTOM (Member # 47) on :
lately I've had good reactions,most say thank's
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
Mr Eave, I would'nt say your the only one but your certainly one of a very small group that's for sure, & speaking as someone who's only had a few footjobs off one lady & no it is'nt my cleaner who I keep going on about(exept in my dreams of cause), and I can honestly say that it is a brilliant experiance & it gives me more pleasure than sex itself!!!!!!!!!!
Posted by feetpies (Member # 10542) on :
If your comment was a compliment, and she called you a pervert, I'd suggest looking confused and slightly angry and say something like,
"I give you a compliment and you call me a pervert? You have problems lady"
Once I was in a bar with a female friend. We were both admiring a girl who had really nice breasts and we were discussing them. We certainly weren't being lewd in any way... at some point the girl walked by and said hello and asked what we were saying. I said we were just admiring her breasts.
Two minutes later this girl's *friend* comes over and starts bitching at me... "How dare you say something like that...!" blah blah...
I simply said, "In some parts of the world what I said would be taken as a compliment, which is what it was. I didn't say "wow nice tits" or anything like that".
You do something or say something nice and the girl bitches about it? Her problem, not yours.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Interesting story. How did she react to that? And while I'm on the subject: When men compliment women on their looks, that's sexism; when women compliment other women on their looks, that's sisterhood!
Posted by feetpies (Member # 10542) on :
The girl wasn't sure how to respond - so she didn't say anything more and just walked away.
She was expecting either an argument or an apology "Oh, I'm so sorry... ". In essence I didn't take her bait. Same with goes with any type of "attitude". You don't have to go with it and assume *you* did something wrong. They are doing something wrong with their attack/comments. So you use that against them - or just sidestep by knowing you have done nothing wrong.
Posted by Dante Mons (Member # 9580) on :
I'd say "Well, that's what I get for trying to be nice." And laugh as I walked away. Never let someone downgrade you for your likes.
Only once did a woman I complimented on her feet say "Are you some sort of wierdo?" and I shot back "Look how you handled a compliment. And I'm supposed to be the odd one?" As I shook my head at her and walked away. You could tell that broke her snotty attitude.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Plastercast to thank: Mr Eave, I would'nt say your the only one but your certainly one of a very small group that's for sure, & speaking as someone who's only had a few footjobs off one lady & no it is'nt my cleaner who I keep going on about(exept in my dreams of cause), and I can honestly say that it is a brilliant experiance & it gives me more pleasure than sex itself!!!!!!!!!!
Talking of my cleaner I can honestly say that if I ever manage to recive a Footjob off her it would more than make up for not having sex with some girl that I belived I was madly in love with back in 1981 but having said that I was only 16 at that time so it may well have just been infatuation I guess.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
I think the best way to deal with being called a pervert (simply for expressing your fondness of her feet) is to just let it roll off your back and continue to be the natural you. The women will respect you more for being true, especially if you don't react adversely to her comment
For instance, one time I was shoving a tall brunette's foot down my throat and she called me a freak, so what did I do? I kept shoving her foot down my throat! It was great
Then there's this other time where I had this hot athletic blonde demonstrating a yoga handstand for me with her feet at my head height and I started licking her feet and asked her where she learned the pose. She said she learned it from a yoga class and I started licking her feet even harder and told her "Wow, I'd love to be in a yoga class with you", and she rolled her eyes and called me a freak.
These "freak" accusations from them came naturally and were not scripted. My reaction, however, needed to be strong in either case.
Just stick with your guns man, it'll convey to them that you don't need their psychological approval in order to be yourself, and that basic premise alone, will do a lot for stepping up the attraction.
But don't shove a woman's feet down your throat after you just meet her ...tell her she has nice feet first
[ January 10, 2006, 10:37 AM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by DennisIsEvil (Member # 11755) on :
About the most I ever got was one of my friends asked why I like her feet so much. After I told her how I like her shapely toes and the beautiful color she painted her toenails she was completely cool with it. Most of the ones who flip out about it are as 21toesucker put it unattainable goddess types. Most of the girls I talk to like it and think it's cute I have a foot fetish.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by DennisIsEvil: About the most I ever got was one of my friends asked why I like her feet so much. After I told her how I like her shapely toes and the beautiful color she painted her toenails she was completely cool with it. Most of the ones who flip out about it are as 21toesucker put it unattainable goddess types. Most of the girls I talk to like it and think it's cute I have a foot fetish.
The ladys that appreciate being told how attractive their feet are willbe the more clued-up one's & any many cases it will be due to the fact that they had never thought of their feet as being sexy so they consider it to be an enormous compliment & quite rightly so it has to be said!
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by DennisIsEvil: Most of the girls I talk to like it and think it's cute I have a foot fetish.
That's been my experience as well in the vast majority of cases over the years, Dennis. I believe that the manner in which gals react to our fetish generally has far more to do with how we conduct ourselves than with any preconceived notions they might have. I've said this many times out here, but I can't overstate the importance of it. If we treat our foot fetish as something abnormal that needs to be hidden, then that's precisely how gals are going to see it. But, if we approach our own fetish with relaxed sexual confidence and treat it as a normal & fulfilling part of our healthy sex lives without obsessing over it, most gals will be perfectly cool with it.
Calico Jack
Posted by Martial Law (Member # 2564) on :
"You're a pervert!" "Yeah, well you're the one missing out on as many foot massages as you can handle and me not minding going out shoe shopping with you."
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by Martial Law: "You're a pervert!" "Yeah, well you're the one missing out on as many foot massages as you can handle and me not minding going out shoe shopping with you."
Unfortunately if the situation caused such a response from her in the 1st place (whatever the cause, be it her, or just bad presentation), I'm sure she'll be able to live with that fact of no shopping with the foot guy who offered the compliment
[ January 10, 2006, 10:47 AM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by z80 ParaNoia (Member # 1767) on :
women are weird in that way..cause us guys are total opposite. if woman comes to me and says...hey nice dick..i would not be offended.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by z80 ParaNoia: women are weird in that way..cause us guys are total opposite. if woman comes to me and says...hey nice dick..i would not be offended.
Creepiness radar is much more "on-alert" so to speak with girls more-so than guys. Especially hot girls who tend to get positive comments all the time. It's not hard to imagine that if a girl is really hot, that there's a possibility of all the numerous comments she might've gotten in a week or a month, that maybe a subset of those might've been creepy.
If us guys had to deal with such on the large scale that hot women tend to deal with, maybe our automated response filters might get a little jaded at times as well. This is just a generalism and not intended to imply that all or even many hot girls would take foot comments as unintended.
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by z80 ParaNoia: women are weird in that way..cause us guys are total opposite. if woman comes to me and says...hey nice dick..i would not be offended.
Neither would I in fact I would be over the moon to such a degree that I would most likely ask the lady in question if she would like too have it between her feet particuly if the lady paying me the compliment was my cleaner, Oh well Im entitled too have my little dream are'nt I?
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Plastercast to thank:
quote:Originally posted by z80 ParaNoia: women are weird in that way..cause us guys are total opposite. if woman comes to me and says...hey nice dick..i would not be offended.
Neither would I in fact I would be over the moon to such a degree that I would most likely ask the lady in question if she would like too have it between her feet particuly if the lady paying me the compliment was my cleaner, Oh well Im entitled too have my little dream are'nt I?
Oh well it looks like I will have to carry on dreaming at the moment.
Posted by The Champ (Member # 14891) on :
id definetly tell her off. im kind of a loose cannon and would say what`s exactly on my mind. some concider that a problem, but i disagree
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Plastercast to thank:
quote:Originally posted by Plastercast to thank:
quote:Originally posted by z80 ParaNoia: women are weird in that way..cause us guys are total opposite. if woman comes to me and says...hey nice dick..i would not be offended.
Neither would I in fact I would be over the moon to such a degree that I would most likely ask the lady in question if she would like too have it between her feet particuly if the lady paying me the compliment was my cleaner, Oh well Im entitled too have my little dream are'nt I?
Oh well it looks like I will have to carry on dreaming at the moment.
That was posted about 6 months ago & Im still dreaming about such an exciting scenario but as long as she continues too allow me too massage her beautiful Feet/such her cute plump Toes, paint her Toenails & play Footsy, I should be eternerly greatful & class anything else as a huge unexpected bonus. I guess I will just have too learn too lower my DREAMS/Fantasys too avoid frustration, even if it easier said than done, because Im ashamed too say that I get greedy somtimes & the FACT that I have witnessed her husband give her dirty looks for putting her Feet in his lap made me belive that she knew she had Beautiful Feet before I told her how I felt about them & may have secretly wanted her Feet too be worshiped. She & her husband have both got got a Dentist appointment today & Im missing her like you would'nt belive as she's usualy playing Footsy with me at about 12.30-12.45 on a Friday! lunch-time &
Posted by pedactor (Member # 12893) on :
if a girl called me a perv after me complimenting her toes, id definately get pissed off... in my head my comeback would be, "your an idiot/dumbass/moron... and the biggest one at that that ive ever met" in real life, i hope it goes down that way, especially for the bitchy princess type...from what ive seen, some girls recoil what they say after you getting back at them... if she was kidding, id laugh it off
to the champ... shit, if she is bold enough to bash you then whatever, she can take getting told off right? lol
Posted by nose4toes (Member # 16640) on :
QUOTE]Originally posted by pedactor: if a girl called me a perv after me complimenting her toes, id definately get pissed off... [/QUOTE]
When "accused" of being pervert, I always agree, and add "what's you're point?"
Perversion is simply deviation from the norm. Would I want to be normal? Just like everyone else? Hell no. So ... thanks for the compliment!
Oddly, I am never called a pervert for my love of feet. It's always for other comments I make. Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by nose4toes: When "accused" of being pervert, I always agree, and add "what's you're point?"
...and of course another way of agreeing could be to just demonstrate right there on the spot (ie. like start rubbing your crotch in front of her and make weird desperate sounds with pie-eyed maniacal facial expressions).
...even better would be to top that off by concluding with "what's you're point?," spoken in a suddenly normal demeanor
[ September 29, 2006, 10:19 AM: Message edited by: Tyler D. ]
Posted by Adidas Sandal Fetish (Member # 15036) on :
I've never been called a pervert before, and if I was I wouldn't really give a damn.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by Adidas Sandal Fetish: I've never been called a pervert before, and if I was I wouldn't really give a damn.
What if it was your parents after they put a black-lite to your bedsheets, j/k Posted by Adidas Sandal Fetish (Member # 15036) on :
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.:
quote:Originally posted by Adidas Sandal Fetish: I've never been called a pervert before, and if I was I wouldn't really give a damn.
What if it was your parents after they put a black-lite to your bedsheets, j/k
They wouldn't find much there.
If they checked out the carpet in front of my computer monitor though Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by Adidas Sandal Fetish: If they checked out the carpet in front of my computer monitor though
LOL Posted by nose4toes (Member # 16640) on :
quote:...even better would be to top that off by concluding with "what's you're point?," spoken in a suddenly normal demeanor [/QB]
Hahahah ... I did a "monitor spray" when I read that (made the mistake of taking a sip of the drink while browsing).
Posted by pedactor (Member # 12893) on :
quote:Originally posted by nose4toes:
quote:...even better would be to top that off by concluding with "what's you're point?," spoken in a suddenly normal demeanor
Hahahah ... I did a "monitor spray" when I read that (made the mistake of taking a sip of the drink while browsing).
[/QB]
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by solo: wey most woman secretly like there feet messaged any way and then they don't mind u kissing licking the feet
I think your right there as the vast majority seem fine about it, of cause you always going to get the odd ungreatful one but genrally speaking I would say your comment was spot-on!
Posted by Plastercast to thank (Member # 827) on :
quote:Originally posted by Tyler D.:
quote:Originally posted by Adidas Sandal Fetish: I've never been called a pervert before, and if I was I wouldn't really give a damn.
What if it was your parents after they put a black-lite to your bedsheets, j/k
You've got to take your hat off to, Adidas Sandal have'nt you? good luck to him I say!
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