...you send a nice email to a footgirl, compliment her and ask her a question and get NO response!!!
People that don't communicate well really gets under my skin!
I sent an email to a certain footgirl to compliment her peds. I also asked if that was cum on her soles in the pics (looks like it, but hard to tell).
I get no response!!
Why do they put their email up if they won't respond?
Posted by lover_of_feet11 (Member # 13186) on :
Hey, I've done it before. Only thing is, I really didn't expect a response. I think it's only due to a code of confidentiality. Make sense of that...if you dare. There's a reason it says "Send _____ an email to let her know what you think of her feet". As far as expecting a response, I, in my opinion, feel that it's a longshot. But in the event that a model shoots you an email, CONGRATS!
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
My good man, I will be the first to bring "the news" to you.
Some of the footgirls we like are fakes. They are not into the foot fetish thing as deep as they proclaim. Let me give you a couple of examples.
I once asked a female site owner (footgirl) to be a guest model for me, and she was all for it. Why? Because my site draws major traffic. I was a fan of hers before I became a site owner. So after we got to know each other, I emailed her, and offered to pay a premium for a pair of shoes she wore in some of her sets. The result was crickets and frogs.
My second experience was with a very popular footgirl, one I had a good shoe buying relationship with, and all was well. But once she got her own site, she ended the relationship by going MIA on replies to my emails. But posted like a weasel on an exercise wheel on her board. Apparently, my dollars paled to her site income, so they were no longer needed.
All footgirls are not like that. Some of them are unable to reply because of computer issues, or are not in the mood to reply because of personal issues. Also take into account that some email goes to SPAM folders, never to be read. Another thing to think about is rarely used email accounts. Some footgirls create email accounts just to get on a foot board, but do not check those accounts because they are not their main accounts.
There is light at the end of the tunnel, as some footgirls are genuine. If you find one that does not reply, then find a new one. In the modeling world, models and photographers are notorious for not returning emails sent to them. It is a common occurrence from amateur level to professional level.
Do not let this isolate incident get you down. There are too many footgirls out there to count, ones that would love to hear from you, and will return your emails.
Posted by carlton94 (Member # 11081) on :
ilikesoftpeds, I feel the same way. If a footgirl isn't going to respond to your email then it was pointless of her to post her email. In fact she shouldn't even put her foot pics online in the first place.
Posted by ilikesoftpeds (Member # 9269) on :
Thanks guys for the responses!
I have emailed a couple of them before and some reply. Others like this last footgirl didn't.
And if a footgirl is a fake or isn't into it, she probably puts pictures up to mock us or for some childish attention. I hate that.
Luckily, most footgirls are sincere about the fetish. They understand us a bit better and actually enjoy showing their peds for theirs and our pleasure. I am thankful for the true footgirls.
jediofthefeet, did this fake "footgirl" really send you crickets and frogs??
That was really mean of her to fuck with your emotions and get your hopes up like that.
Most footgirls here seem to be nice and genuine and again I appreciate them!!
Keep up the replies, guys.
[ March 22, 2006, 12:51 AM: Message edited by: ilikesoftpeds ]
Posted by jediofthefeet (Member # 1463) on :
I said crickets and frogs to mean she did not reply. I took the phrase from some of the old Warner Brothers cartoons when a character, usually and underdog, such as Daffy Duck or Sylvester, trying to get applause, and all he gets is the sounds of crickets and frogs.
lover_of_feet11 and carlton94,
You also must consider that unless a girl runs her own foot fetish site, chances are the person submitting the photos is the dude that took the pictures or is a male webmaster.
So if you reply to Send _____ and email", your kind compliments will be going to him--not her.
I am one of the few that keeps it sincere. If you reply to my webmaster email address or PM me about a model, I will forward to her if she has an email address, and then I'll tell you I did it. I cannot make them reply to their fan mail, but if they do, I forward their exact responses back to you, their fans.
There should be a thread titled "Secrets that site owners or foot photographers don't want you to know". Posted by ledaemon (Member # 198) on :
I do lots of home clips and pics with my wife and operate a little clipstore like everyone else on the internet these days. In our case as far as e-mail my wife hasn't got a clue as to how to use it or even cares to know. She hasn't gotten past Solitaire on the computer yet... Whenever I post stuff I don't try to pose it as her posting her pics, but always keep it real letting everyone know that I pretty much take care of all the business. I'll show her responses on forums from time to time, but she's not interested in the "cyber world" she just enjoys keeping me happy with her feet. This is just a hobby for me more than anything else and it keeps my pipes clean and I'm the one that likes to share the feet.
Posted by Ben Del Amitri (Member # 2724) on :
I can't say anything at all for girls in general because there are so many sites and so many of them run differently.
For girls on my site:
They have email addresses and they are genuine. We take their security VERY seriously, so email you send to a girl on our site goes through our servers and the girl receives it in HER email box at home - but through our servers, via a Virtual Private Network.
We do this so that if somebody tries to trace her IP address, they won't get it. They will get the IP address of our main site's server, an intentional layer of protection and privacy for the girl.
There are a few girls who we have not been able to set up with a VPN tunnel into our server and for them, we've set them up with a way to access their fanmail through a web-based control panel.
Some of these girls can get hundreds of emails in a day and there is NO WAY they can answer all of those. Further - much of the email targeted for them gets relegated to junk or spam folders for various reasons. For example, emails sent without something in the subject line or emails coming from behind a proxy that can not be identified.
Last week, for example, we had to shut down Kirsten, Summer and Malory's email boxes altogether due to having been inundated with thousands (yes, thousands) of spam items, in addition to the overflowing boxes of legitimate email from well-wishers. Sometime next week, we will create new accounts for these girls and open them up again, changing the names somehow to keep the spambots at bay.
There are also simple situations that keep a girl from answering emails. Some girls spend very little time online and some of them don't even have a computer. Summer, for example, spent an entire day at the library trying to answer a few weeks worth of emails and she didn't even put a dent in the pile. That was just one day (and she can't make it over to the library every day).
There are also girls who are afraid of answering emails for fear of encouraging an overzealous nutcase. Nikki, for example had a terrible stalking situation from a "fan" and when we went back and read through his emails, they seemed to have been from a "normal", well-balanced person. She's been terrified of "fans" ever since and we've had a few similar (but smaller) problems with Liana, Dhyana and Liv.
After all of that, there are some girls who very simply are not great communicators and don't send or answer emails from their own friends and family ..... much less, people who email them about their feet.
[ March 22, 2006, 03:55 AM: Message edited by: Ben Del Amitri ]
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
It does kind of feel like a rejection when they don't respond back. It makes me think they are just doing it for the ego boost which is why most of them do it but try to make me think otherwise please.
If they have a pay site it would be smart for business to respond back to all emails. If I assume that you aren't a nice girl the last thing I would do is join your site.
Posted by guitardrew (Member # 6635) on :
Ben, The situation you described with Nikki kind of ruffles my feathers, in that people expecting certain things from the women on these sites that we basically 'unload' to need to get real. There is nothing of this nature implied in them posing for sites or having sites and they have no obligations to us whatsoever, we seek these sites out and we get what we pay for. Sending them an email is one thing but actually getting mad when they dont respond to you or show you special attention besides sharing their photos/clips with you? Give me a damn break, its just another way to try to find 'easier' ways of meeting girls into your fetish, get out there and meet them face to face yourself. And, in many cases you get the stalker type as your situation revealed which ruins it for all normal fans who have lives!
Posted by Bondo (Member # 1403) on :
In defense of the women who don't email back, it does say "Send and email" and not "Send an email and I promise to reply". Also in their defense, some of these women get quite a bit of fan mail on a daily basis. Naturally, some email will get lost in the shuffle. It sucks when it's yours, but it does happen.
In defense of the fans though (like me), it's such a great feeling to be acknowledged with a reply. We obviously hold these women in some sort of high regard, and knowing we're getting a response from someone we admire is awesome.
Bondo
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
It's not just footgirls, I've noticed. A lot of site owners haven't responded to email inquiries I've sent them--and I mean non-sexual sites! Is it because they're too busy, or perhaps they get too many each day to respond to them?
Posted by mystik (Member # 1420) on :
Hmm...well picture this. Mystique and I have contributed a couple of sets to Wus, and naturally she gets a load of e-mails to accompany them. At first, she tried her hardest to reply to each one. And I was fine with that. But then it got over bearing. If someone wants to send her an e-mail, thats fine. She can deal with it, she loves the compliments, and if its done in good taste, with a good manner, then more than likely they will get a response. But then the funny business happens. They respond to the response. Naturally. But add this to the loads of new e-mails that come from OTHER people and all of the sudden you have a LOT of e-mails to answer to. And they take a long time. Most of the people that recieve replies we like to call "clingers". They want to develop it past a simple compliment into a straight up friendship, and that simply cant happen with the enormous abundance of e-mails recieved. When you e-mail, dont sound creepy, dont sound rude or whatever. The creepy ones get thrown away immediately. The ones that sound sincere and nice get replied to. It all depends on how you say it, because I know if its a sincere compliment, Mystique loves responding. If its something like "Oh my GOD your feet are the best I'd love to jizz all over them and worship them for hours." Then no. You will not get a response. Thats not flattering. lol.
P.S. We've had a stalker before as well, and threatened to find out where she lived and come see her and stuff. There are some wacko's out there...
[ March 22, 2006, 09:58 PM: Message edited by: mystik ]
Posted by Lyrical (Member # 6603) on :
Personally, I would just respond right here what I think of her feet. if she replies great if not so be it. It's not like I really plan on ever meeting them face to face anyway so I wouls definitely not be looking for a response. If one comes great if not, no harm no foul.
Posted by ilikesoftpeds (Member # 9269) on :
quote:Originally posted by guitardrew: Ben, The situation you described with Nikki kind of ruffles my feathers, in that people expecting certain things from the women on these sites that we basically 'unload' to need to get real. There is nothing of this nature implied in them posing for sites or having sites and they have no obligations to us whatsoever, we seek these sites out and we get what we pay for. Sending them an email is one thing but actually getting mad when they dont respond to you or show you special attention besides sharing their photos/clips with you? Give me a damn break, its just another way to try to find 'easier' ways of meeting girls into your fetish, get out there and meet them face to face yourself. And, in many cases you get the stalker type as your situation revealed which ruins it for all normal fans who have lives!
I was trying to compliment her and simply asked her a question. Is that really so bad??
And I am NOT the type of person that emails over and over again as I also view it as "stalker-ish".
Maybe they shouldn't put their email up in the first place if they don't want the hassle. It is only logical.
I know that they aren't obligated to answer their email- noone is for that matter. But, like I said, if you put up your email on a fetish board with pictures of your girls peds what the hell are you going to expect??
I didn't say anything like "I'd love to cum on your peds" or anything of that nature.
Now, I know sometimes I'll use the jerkoff emoticon , sometimes liberally HERE in the FOOT FORUM where it is more accepted. But I never do anything like that in emails.
I simply complimented them in a NICE way and simply asked if that was cum on her soles in the pics. So what. Big deal.
Besides, I don't email footgirls hardly at all, I was just compelled to email her to COMPLIMENT.
[ March 23, 2006, 12:45 AM: Message edited by: ilikesoftpeds ]
Posted by mystique (Member # 4356) on :
I dont think he was directing his post at you cutie ^_~
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
A lot of good information has been shared that bears repeating.
*Some of these models regularly receive hundreds (or thousands) of e-mails, and it's difficult for them to respond to all of them even when they want to do so.
*Some fans want more than a simple one-and-done e-mail exchange, and become angry when the model doesn't have the same interest in corresponding that they do. (And I can just imagine the inappropriate nature of some of the messages.) I'm sure that this has turned many a model off from replying to fan e-mails.
*I'll also take one earlier comment a step further and say that the vast majority of "footgirls" are participating in photo and video shoots not because they have a sincere interest in the fetish, but because it's a job - and there's nothing wrong with that! They don't owe anyone any more than what they give during a shoot. Period.
Posted by ilikesoftpeds (Member # 9269) on :
quote:Originally posted by mystique: I dont think he was directing his post at you cutie ^_~
I guess so. But it seemed like he "indirectly" aimed it at me.
I just like to compliment the footgirls. I have seen some of your pics and they are nice Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
Mystique: I guess you can call me a Clinger then huh? LOL how about a Kling-ON? J/K..i don't know how you deal with all the e-mails..you're tough as nails!
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by mystik: Hmm...well picture this. Mystique and I have contributed a couple of sets to Wus, and naturally she gets a load of e-mails to accompany them. At first, she tried her hardest to reply to each one. And I was fine with that. But then it got over bearing. If someone wants to send her an e-mail, thats fine. She can deal with it, she loves the compliments, and if its done in good taste, with a good manner, then more than likely they will get a response. But then the funny business happens. They respond to the response. Naturally. But add this to the loads of new e-mails that come from OTHER people and all of the sudden you have a LOT of e-mails to answer to. And they take a long time. Most of the people that recieve replies we like to call "clingers". They want to develop it past a simple compliment into a straight up friendship, and that simply cant happen with the enormous abundance of e-mails recieved. When you e-mail, dont sound creepy, dont sound rude or whatever. The creepy ones get thrown away immediately. The ones that sound sincere and nice get replied to. It all depends on how you say it, because I know if its a sincere compliment, Mystique loves responding. If its something like "Oh my GOD your feet are the best I'd love to jizz all over them and worship them for hours." Then no. You will not get a response. Thats not flattering. lol.
P.S. We've had a stalker before as well, and threatened to find out where she lived and come see her and stuff. There are some wacko's out there...
Exactly what my friend Mystik says! If you're mentioning hot and "cum" in the same email, I think you answered your own question as to why you don't get a reply. Just because a girl doesn't respond to vulgar emails, does not mean she is 'fake'(as someone put it) it means she demands 'respect', as she rightfully should.
When Daemoness puts a contribution up, she gets well over 100 emails in that days time. Imagine trying to respond to all of those. No guy wants to think of himself as 'just another fan' but when you're one out of hundreds of emails, that is what you end up being.
And well, again like Mystik said, if they respond to an email the guy *always* emails back trying to start real conversations. Which, in my opinion, is what each guy hopes to accomplish. Even a simple "thank you for the compliments!" response that Dae has sent out has always garnered a new, and much longer reply from the guy she responded to.
I know all foot models are appreciative of each fan that they have, but cut them some slack in this regard. They post sometimes, they model their feet for you, you can't get mad if they wish to leave personal conversations and life out of this realm.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
This is a pretty interesting topic and I'm kind of surprised it wasn't brought up sooner.
I can only imagine the amount of emails some of the more popular foot models get, either from the website their pictures are posted on or even via private messages/emails through this forum. I think that anyone sending an email to any foot model through any website or through Wu's should approach it with an attitude of minimal expectations. They should probably expect not to get a response because, as pointed out by some other posters, email gets lost or misdirected, or the girls simply don't have enough time in the day to respond to every single piece of fan email that they get. Let's be honest here. There are probably very few models, if any, that are solely (no pun intended) making a living posing their feet on foot fetish websites. All these girls, I'm sure, have their own lives with their own busy schedules and, as such, speaking for myself, I wouldn't expect any repsonse emailing a favorite foot model and giving her some nice compliments, etc..
One of the girls on Ben's website was kind enough to respond to a couple of compliments I gave her on these forums through Wu's private messaging. Believe me, I wasn't expecting it so it was a pleasant surprise. I then responded in kind but, again, I know this girl has a life and her time is limited so I wasn't expecting a full-blown dialogue to start happening.
I think we, as foot fans, all need to keep things in perspective, especially when emailing/messaging the models. Not every email is going to get a response because there are just too many outside factors that make it virtually impossible. If we do get a response, then great. However, if a response isn't forthcoming, then I'm not going to lose sleep over it.
Posted by Julia exposed (Member # 9025) on :
Wow! that's a lot of replies on this subject and it looks like y'all have had much trouble with this issue. As a model, I try to answer all emails as long as they are not insulting or degrading. I havent gotten a fan email in a while but if I do and it's nice I will reply. It's only right IMO. If someone takes the time to send me a compliment, I feel it's only right to thank them in the least. It may take me a few days to get to it, but it will happen 99% of the time.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
I've been "lucky" enough to become cool with the models i count among my favorites. (I know; technically you can only have one favorite, but you know what I mean.) And it's kinda cool to know that I can pick up the phone and call most of them just to say, "Hi" if the mood strikes. That being said, I would never become angry with any of them who didn't respond to one or more of my e-mails or calls. They're under no obligation to do so. Anyone who believes that a particular "footgirl" (or regular ol' person for that matter) owes them something is bonkers.
Posted by coedfeet (Member # 2738) on :
quote:Originally posted by mystik: If its something like "Oh my GOD your feet are the best I'd love to jizz all over them and worship them for hours." Then no. You will not get a response. Thats not flattering. lol.
I as a webmaster love these kind of replies, because that is what the vast majority of people use these foot sites for, jack off material. So if I'm creating images/video meant for that, then anyone saying it made them do that, i feel I succeded.
And all my models I've ever worked with realize that's what they are doing, creating a wack off fantasy for viewers. I ask all of them if they mind if I forward emails to them, even explicit ones. Vast majority don't mind, unless they are extremely prudish. Most think it's a hoot, and feel complimented that they gave some guy that reaction.
Whether they answer, I don't know, I don't follow up. so many of these girls just don't do the web or email much, they have other things taking up their time.
Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
So basically you have your First Class Respectable Foot girls..like Mystique and Malory and Daemoness...then you have the "1night foot stand kinda girl that you wack off to at your computer, get this over with people are looking at us" type thing. LOL Girls who do it because it's fun, Versus Girls like Co-Ed's who are doing it for the extra $$ dough and don't care about foot freaks.No big deal myself, i enjoy all the pics anyone puts up, because feet are sometimes hard to come by for the working man lol..good job Co-ed!
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by coedfeet:
quote:Originally posted by mystik: If its something like "Oh my GOD your feet are the best I'd love to jizz all over them and worship them for hours." Then no. You will not get a response. Thats not flattering. lol.
I as a webmaster love these kind of replies, because that is what the vast majority of people use these foot sites for, jack off material. So if I'm creating images/video meant for that, then anyone saying it made them do that, i feel I succeded.
And all my models I've ever worked with realize that's what they are doing, creating a wack off fantasy for viewers. I ask all of them if they mind if I forward emails to them, even explicit ones. Vast majority don't mind, unless they are extremely prudish. Most think it's a hoot, and feel complimented that they gave some guy that reaction.
Whether they answer, I don't know, I don't follow up. so many of these girls just don't do the web or email much, they have other things taking up their time.
Well I agree and disagree. I'm sure each model would prefer to read any email sent to her, vulgar or not. But this does not mean they don't feel violated by some of them, and refuse to respond due to their content nature alone.
Fiasco, I don't think it is so much that people feel the models owe them anything though. They just feel if they go out of their way to email, then the model should email back. People just need to consider the facts that:
A.) They are one of hundreds of people emailing someone who has a life outside the computer and does not have time to respond to all of those nor can she even read them all in one sitting.
B.) Yes they pose on a site that people get off to, but that does not mean they want to hear the explicit DETAILS about what someone did to their pictures.
Foot model or not, i've yet to find any female in this world who actually is flattered by "holy shit you're so fucking hot I came so hard looking at you".
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
scarlet.. i've never ran into a woman who likes to hear how much a guy 'looses control' by what they look like either. something more creative and nicer tends to work wonders.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
Scarlet: Fiasco, I don't think it is so much that people feel the models owe them anything though. They just feel if they go out of their way to email, then the model should email back.
I agree with your A and B, Scarlet. We'll just have to agree to disagree on whether or not some people feel that the models owe them something though. (And disagreeing isn't necessarily a bad thing!) Some guys do feel that if they are a member of a site featuring a certain model, or even if they are just a fan who hunts down free pics of her online, that they are entitled to some form of correspondence.
RPM: something more creative and nicer tends to work wonders
Bingo. Posted by coedfeet (Member # 2738) on :
quote:Originally posted by RPM: scarlet.. i've never ran into a woman who likes to hear how much a guy 'looses control' by what they look like either. something more creative and nicer tends to work wonders.
Well you haven't looked around here too much. I can think of 4 top models right now who wouldn't be offended. Genie, Gigi, Lexi L. And Nicki Arches.
Heck, a good deal of questions sent to Nicki in the recent monthly interview were jerkoff related, and does she like the idea of guys doing it to her pics. She had a great attitude. I can't imagine somebody writing to Gigi or Lexi (or even my models who've done them) about jacking off to their "masturbation instruction" clips, and the girls get the vapors and all put off.
I won't go as far as to say it's gets them off to hear it, but I know they would appreciate any compliment on their work.
Putting down or ignoring guys who wackoff to foot or adult sites is putting down the majority of paying customers.
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by coedfeet:
quote:Originally posted by RPM: scarlet.. i've never ran into a woman who likes to hear how much a guy 'looses control' by what they look like either. something more creative and nicer tends to work wonders.
Well you haven't looked around here too much. I can think of 4 top models right now who wouldn't be offended. Genie, Gigi, Lexi L. And Nicki Arches.
Heck, a good deal of questions sent to Nicki in the recent monthly interview were jerkoff related, and does she like the idea of guys doing it to her pics. She had a great attitude. I can't imagine somebody writing to Gigi or Lexi (or even my models who've done them) about jacking off to their "masturbation instruction" clips, and the girls get the vapors and all put off.
I won't go as far as to say it's gets them off to hear it, but I know they would appreciate any compliment on their work.
Putting down or ignoring guys who wackoff to foot or adult sites is putting down the majority of paying customers.
Well, some are different than others. Models who have full time websites tend to do it for a living, and it is part of customer happiness to indulge them with responses.
Perhaps I should be more specific. When I respond to threads such as these, I think of my girlfriend(Daemoness) and others like her that do contributions or end up on sites like Footalicious where feet are shown but not much else. There *is* a difference(in my mind) between feet models and feet models that also do footjobs and handjobs on an expectancy level of email content. And for those models I think of, it may not outright offend them to hear some of the responses, but it doesn't make them want to respond to those guys.
I don't wish to say anything negative about any of your examples but they do make their money off their subscribers, how much money would your site make if no customer interaction was performed? I guess all i'm trying to say here, is a lot of models do the modelling for fun or because their boyfriend likes it and the money is a nice addition, and not many really *want* to talk to the guys emailing them, but they enjoy the compliments.
Edit - And I never said the graphic emails offend them per se..it is just, someone saying anything about cumming on their feet or asking how they jerk their guys off with their feet doesn't leave a lot of room for them to want to respond.
[ April 20, 2006, 07:29 PM: Message edited by: scarlet ]
Posted by coedfeet (Member # 2738) on :
Understandable, as I look at it from a paysite / professional view. I can see how a regular guy posting his own woman's pics may not like it. But I also think they would not be required to respond at all, unlike website operators. I would not feel the same if I posted my old lady's. I guess I feel those comments come with the territory and are not out of line. But I took the op's use of the term foot model as meaning a paid girl.....
Posted by coedfeet (Member # 2738) on :
quote:Originally posted by Wrinklesguy: So basically you have your First Class Respectable Foot girls..like Mystique and Malory and Daemoness...then you have the "1night foot stand kinda girl that you wack off to at your computer, get this over with people are looking at us" type thing. LOL Girls who do it because it's fun, Versus Girls like Co-Ed's who are doing it for the extra $$ dough and don't care about foot freaks.No big deal myself, i enjoy all the pics anyone puts up, because feet are sometimes hard to come by for the working man lol..good job Co-ed!
What the fuck are talking about dude? whether or not a girl gets paid makes no difference in her character. I can guarantee you any girl who has her own site or works for one, is doing it for fun, money, and the knowledge they are pleasing someone. If it makes you feel better to jerk to an amatuer, then go for it, since you'd have no chance with either.
Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
Did u have to start the personal attacks co-ed? I am a big fan of your site, THAT is the only way you blow of customers with that type of response..sheesh dude...by first class models i mean the girls who devote alot of their free time on Wu's who have fans here and talk to them and become their friends,not talking shit about yours at all,just that they don't post here and we don't know them other than the pics u take.Sorry if i worded that wrong buddy.
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
I agree with coedfeet
I can understand a girl not feeling the need to respond to an explicit email but to be offended or suprised by it is downright hilarious.
and girls do like knowing that guys jerk off to them, especially ones that post pics of themselves on the net
when they say they don't it's just some sort of an anti slut defense
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: I agree with coedfeet
I can understand a girl not feeling the need to respond to an explicit email but to be offended or suprised by it is downright hilarious.
and girls do like knowing that guys jerk off to them, especially ones that post pics of themselves on the net
when they say they don't it's just some sort of an anti slut defense
Very nice, mike.
1.) No one said models were taking offense by it, just simply they don't care to respond.
2.) You just called every foot model a slut.
Also, to generalize all girls by saying they like it when guys jack off to them is somewhere near the epitome of masculine mindset that blinds itself with thoughts that objectifying women is the key to their hearts.
Daemoness(for an example) likes the attention a lot, but doesn't care much to even acknowledge what guys do to her pictures. She'd just prefer to hear the "you're beautiful" and leave it at that. She knows it happens, but that is NOT what modelling is about to her.
[ April 22, 2006, 04:37 PM: Message edited by: scarlet ]
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by scarlet:
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: I agree with coedfeet
I can understand a girl not feeling the need to respond to an explicit email but to be offended or suprised by it is downright hilarious.
and girls do like knowing that guys jerk off to them, especially ones that post pics of themselves on the net
when they say they don't it's just some sort of an anti slut defense
Very nice, mike.
1.) No one said models were taking offense by it, just simply they don't care to respond.
2.) You just called every foot model a slut.
Also, to generalize all girls by saying they like it when guys jack off to them is somewhere near the epitome of masculine mindset that blinds itself with thoughts that objectifying women is the key to their hearts.
Daemoness(for an example) likes the attention a lot, but doesn't care much to even acknowledge what guys do to her pictures. She'd just prefer to hear the "you're beautiful" and leave it at that. She knows it happens, but that is NOT what modelling is about to her.
First of all I definitly didn't call the models sluts. what I meant was they would be worried about coming off as sluts if they admitted to liking guys pleasure themselves while looking at their pics.
Still to this day people will be quick to call a girl a slut if she admits that she like guys with big penises so instead she'll say she likes a guy with a sense of humor. That is an anti slut defense.
I already said it makes sense for them not to respond to explicit emails
and yes every model wants guys jerking off to their pics
especially if they have done footjob content Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
Well...generally speaking I find girls to more prefer the "you're beautiful" reaction to their pictures rather than the "omg I jerked off to you" side.
But I think you need to get out of your masculine mindset. It might come as a shocker, but girls DO prefer sense of humor over cock size. Quit watching porns Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
Owned! lol Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by scarlet: Well...generally speaking I find girls to more prefer the "you're beautiful" reaction to their pictures rather than the "omg I jerked off to you" side.
But I think you need to get out of your masculine mindset. It might come as a shocker, but girls DO prefer sense of humor over cock size. Quit watching porns
I agree but at the same time whether they admit it or not they like knowing that guys jerk off to them.
I also agree about the sense of humor thing over cock size for the most part but at the same time there are women that will dump a guy if they don't think he measures up regardless how funny he is. They'll be very careful about who they tell for the reason they dumped the guy because many will judge them.
I don't think of it as some masculine mindset, I think that's just the way it is.
by the way I don't watch porn, strictly foot related material for me Posted by Outback69 (Member # 2217) on :
~Insert popcorn-munching smilie here~
Good thread! Like someone else said before, I am surprised that this hasn't been brought up sooner...
My point of view on this is that if you are going to put your pics on the internet for millions to see, then you can expect to have both good and bad feedback on them. It's the nature of the beast...
Granted, you don't have to reply to every single e-mail but there is an inherent mindset that goes along with this:
If you are expecting to be paid for the pics that you take for a paying website, then you'd better be prepared to swallow some pride and take the good with the bad.
IF you are just posting the pics for fun, then I see no need for any reason to even look at the e-mails, good or bad.
[ April 23, 2006, 03:20 PM: Message edited by: Outback69 ]
Posted by Arthur Herk (Member # 1228) on :
quote:Originally posted by Julia exposed: As a model, I try to answer all emails as long as they are not insulting or degrading. I havent gotten a fan email in a while but if I do and it's nice I will reply.
Thats a shame! Id say this in an email but you may not reply so Ill say I love what you do and your pics are verrrrrrry awesome
I have only emailed one foot girl and it was OK, great communication even did requests. Than it all dried up and Ive maybe emailed 3 times in a year, and still nothing... pretty sad
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by Arthur Herk:
quote:Originally posted by Julia exposed: As a model, I try to answer all emails as long as they are not insulting or degrading. I havent gotten a fan email in a while but if I do and it's nice I will reply.
Thats a shame! Id say this in an email but you may not reply so Ill say I love what you do and your pics are verrrrrrry awesome
I have only emailed one foot girl and it was OK, great communication even did requests. Than it all dried up and Ive maybe emailed 3 times in a year, and still nothing... pretty sad
See...in my opinion that is still one of the #1 reasons they may not reply. Guys attach on quickly, and hope to accomplish a relationship with said model over the net where they are friends and he gets free pictures or special conversations. Need to realize...the models don't want that.
Best way I can put it... if she responds, then cool, i'm sure you'll email as many times as she keeps responding. But they know what guys are like, so a no response is basically saying "no thank you" to your invite to chat.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
Exactly, Scarlet.
Posted by Arthur Herk (Member # 1228) on :
Yea Ill be a sheep and say your 100% right scarlet...
So by quoting me youre saying Im trying to accomplish a relationship? What the fuck do you know to presume any intentions of mine?
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
Well, if agreeing with someone when you think they're right makes you a sheep...
Baaaaaa!
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: by the way I don't watch porn
I watch porn. Just figured I'd clear that up in case anybody's unsure.
Calico Jack
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by Arthur Herk: Yea Ill be a sheep and say your 100% right scarlet...
So by quoting me youre saying Im trying to accomplish a relationship? What the fuck do you know to presume any intentions of mine?
I will show you.
"I have only emailed one foot girl and it was OK, great communication even did requests."
Consistent communication and you even asked for requests, note where I say 'free pictures and special conversation'
"Than it all dried up and Ive maybe emailed 3 times in a year, and still nothing... pretty sad"
That shows how long you've been trying to carry on said email relationship with the model. It doesn't mean relationship in a dating sense. She responds, you respond, every time as long as she keeps it up. One year has passed and you still toss the occasional email looking for a response, *that* is how I presume to know you were looking to establish something.
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
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Posted by Neo (Member # 1891) on :
quote:Originally posted by Calico Jack: [QUOTE]I watch porn. Just figured I'd clear that up in case anybody's unsure.
Calico Jack
LOL! Thats pretty funny, Go Calico!
This is an interesting thread and I am also surprised it has not come up sooner. Sometimes folks just dont realize how rude or common a comment may really be. On a funny note, just by coincidence at this time we have been wondering what happened to Pinks emails until we just figured out that our emails have not been working from one of her 3 sites! Hopefully our webmaster has things going soon. hehe.
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
if a model has a pay site and if she's a smart business person she should do her best to respond to all emails
even the "I jerk off to you" emails
respond to the emails, make the guy think you are a cool girl, it increases his attraction, he joins your site, girl makes more money
it's that simple
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: if a model has a pay site and if she's a smart business person she should do her best to respond to all emails
even the "I jerk off to you" emails
respond to the emails, make the guy think you are a cool girl, it increases his attraction, he joins your site, girl makes more money
it's that simple
Yeah, I said that a while ago that models who run sites have enough common sense to not piss off the customer. I'm speaking merely on behalf of the contribution models or those on paysites that are not their own.
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
quote:Originally posted by scarlet:
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: if a model has a pay site and if she's a smart business person she should do her best to respond to all emails
even the "I jerk off to you" emails
respond to the emails, make the guy think you are a cool girl, it increases his attraction, he joins your site, girl makes more money
it's that simple
Yeah, I said that a while ago that models who run sites have enough common sense to not piss off the customer. I'm speaking merely on behalf of the contribution models or those on paysites that are not their own.
I know
post pics of you feet already i'm tired of waiting Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike:
quote:Originally posted by scarlet:
quote:Originally posted by Mighty Mike: if a model has a pay site and if she's a smart business person she should do her best to respond to all emails
even the "I jerk off to you" emails
respond to the emails, make the guy think you are a cool girl, it increases his attraction, he joins your site, girl makes more money
it's that simple
Yeah, I said that a while ago that models who run sites have enough common sense to not piss off the customer. I'm speaking merely on behalf of the contribution models or those on paysites that are not their own.
I know
post pics of you feet already i'm tired of waiting
careful, I might just do it to please the masses Posted by mystik (Member # 1420) on :
This entire thread got completely flipped. Its funny reading for sure, but what have we established? Ok, the thread's original intentions were to express the annoyance of why certain foot models do not respond to e-mails. To which a few on here have tried to explain that they got a ton of e-mails, on top of the fact that some of them are less than response-worthy. No one's really saying that the ones that say "I want to jizz all over your feet" aren't flattering in their own perverted way. But the ones that treat the lady like shes a human being with emotions and not some sex toy are the ones that will probably get the feedback.
Like scarlet has re-established, most guys that e-mail models will respond to the response in hopes of creating a friendship with said foot model. Happens with any foot model, and sooner or later they are going to cut you off because there are a ton of guys out there that want the same thing. And for this SAME reason, a lot of models choose not to respond to most e-mails.
Mighty mike did bring up a good point in saying that an up and coming site would be wise to respond to most e-mails, as it would increase business and member registration. But that is a whole other level of fetish science (lol). Either way, if you send a model an e-mail and she doesn't respond, dont take it personal. Mystique tends to try and respond to every single one (shes nice like that...she even responds to the responses...even though I tell her to cut them off lol) but not every model will be like that. Just enjoy the pictures, if you throw a compliment her way, she'll more than likely read it and feel good about it before she sends it to the trash with the other 50-100 e-mails she got that day. Dont take it personal. You sent it to make her feel good and to keep posting great pics, not to develop a friendship. Sure you'd like to feel acknowledged, but in some way you did accomplish your goal of making her feel good about what she does, and theres no shame in that.
Posted by Benji (Member # 1757) on :
I'm so sick of this topic! When will it be dropped!?
Posted by FIASCo (Member # 1899) on :
Ummm... Posting in it will only keep it going.
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
quote:Originally posted by FIASCo: Ummm... Posting in it will only keep it going.
That is a very good point!
Posted by Wrinklesguy (Member # 732) on :
OK then let mine be the last...recently one of you creeps {you know who you are} recently verbally bashed my friend and Ben's model Malory and sent her a bunch of threatening sick e-mails,enough to make her leave the site, maybe for good..i dunno..but i've been trying to smooth things over with her.Ben Del Amitri is too much of a gentleman to say this so i'll be the smoking gun on the subject..this is complete bullshit and i hope you read this and leave Wu's..in fact? Wu should be involved, thanks to this "person" and his raunchy crap posts and e-mails Malory is gone.
Posted by faintXofXheartX33 (Member # 12559) on :
I would think that putting your e-mail address into the inbox of a model is a great way to get spammed.
I've heard about that happening to people who e-mailed a popular model about a year or two ago.
They got no response and got put onto a mailing list for said model without their approval.
Posted by Barefoot Kristy (Member # 14345) on :
I know this is an old thread, but I wanted to throw my 2 cents in since this subject came up in one of my cam shows recently. I have my email address all over my site & love to get mail. Unfortunately, just putting my email address out there also means that I get spammed like crazy. I get up to 200 messages a day & the majority of them are spam. Sometimes real messages pile up too & it takes me some time to reply, but I would say a good rule of thumb is to give a model 2 weeks for a response. If she hasn't replied by then, send her another one just in case the first one got bumped to the spam folder by accident.
As far as the vulgar emails go, I think a reply is still in order, even if it's nothing more than "Thanks, but I'd prefer more polite language in any future emails." The sender knows the model received it & also knows her boundaries for any future correspondance. Should make everybody happy.
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