Okay I guess it's obvious what the answer to that question probably is for many guys here . To the point: I'm hoping to get a girlfriend soon and have had my eyes on a few ladies lately, one of whom seems like a really cool person (though she's almost certainly unattainable in my regard). Obviously, if I end up really loving my girlfriend...things will happen. Just thought I'd ask this: the very first time you gave special attention to a woman's feet (kiss, suckle, etc), what was her reaction? I know women are likely to react differently, but I'm just wondering what I might expect so I'll know what's "normal."
Posted by ilikesoftpeds (Member # 9269) on :
Yes! She seemed to love it. I think girls like kissing moreso than sucking, licking, but I could be wrong.
Posted by Skittlzrapper (Member # 9922) on :
Yes! And the responce was very good. She said to me as I was doing it " Ive never had any one kiss my feet before, Im getting turned on dont stop " One thing led to another..
Posted by FTPHANTOM (Member # 47) on :
I started out by massaging her feet,she really like that,then moved up to kissing them,then the rest of the good stuff,and after 10 yrs of being married to her,she still think's that feet are ugly and nasty lol.
Posted by Dazzz (Member # 12539) on :
my girlfriend doesnt mind me kissing her feet
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by Uno1: The very first time you gave special attention to a woman's feet (kiss, suckle, etc), what was her reaction? I know women are likely to react differently, but I'm just wondering what I might expect so I'll know what's "normal."
Depending on how you set the stage and work up to these activities, it could be anything from pulling them quickly away in disgust to "oooh, I like that!" Most will probably be in between those two somewhere.
But to answer your first question- In my case, I didn't perform thses activities on my loving wife until we had been married for almost 23 years (about two years ago). I wrote her a letter while she was away to "break the ice", then we discussed some aspects of it a little before I "took action." In the veins of being a very loving and at least trying to understand wife, she was very submissive from the beginning. She also is extremely ticklish and I was expecting that to be an issue, but she's barely ever even giggled when I massage and kiss her feet or suck her toes.
I'd be lying if I said that she was not a little apprehensive at first. This was a very new and surprising revelation for her. She had never considered her feet pretty, much less arousing, so it took her a bit to get used to that. I'm sure she was somewhat concerned about being ticklish, and whether she'd be able to fulfill my wishes because of it. But with each time we've done feet activities, she's gotten more and more relaxed and into it to the point that she now is very activiely participating physically and verbally.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
I had to overcome two things. 1- my lady is super ticklish. I've never met someone so ticklish.. and i'm super ticklish. prior to me, no one was as ticklish as I. I mean she's ticklish 90% of her body!!!!! so that was the first hurdle. 2-shes' self-concious about how much her feet sweat. something I so enjoy thoroughly. on top of that, a perk for me, though she sweats a lot, it doesn't have a harsh or overpowering scent ... just perfect for me (one who like subtle scents).
so, after overcoming hurdle one... i was the first man to ever touch her feet, let alone come close to kissing them. she was intrigued. part of her wanted to pull away in discuss.. the other part was touched that i wanted to get that close to her that even her 'less attractive' parts turned me on. she also like the fact i took great pains to not make her feel ticklish and i was very respectful of her needs.
because i worked with her needs, now she actually looks forward to me playing with her feet from time to time. to her, it's one of the most endearing parts of me.. the ability to work with her needs.
trust me, it took a lot of working about and around the ticklish part. but it was so worth it.
a woman's response is as diverse as there are women out there. so, be prepared for anything and work with what you have and you'll get what you want (no always the way you want, but you'll get it)
RPM
Posted by Benji (Member # 1757) on :
back in the day with my ex, she really enjoyed the attention i gave her feet when i kissed and sucked her toes and feet... those were good times. It's the spoiling feeling that girls like when you pay special attention to something like their feet.
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by Uno1: I know women are likely to react differently, but I'm just wondering what I might expect so I'll know what's "normal."
There really is no "normal" reaction when it comes to that sort of thing. All gals are different and their reactions will vary based on any number of factors including their open-mindedness (or lack thereof), inhibitions (if any), past experiences, and so forth. There's really no way to accurately predict what response you'll get, so your best bet is to simply approach the situation with confidence & charisma and let her fill in the blanks from there. I've known gals who could throw some serious curve balls in this department, enough so to where their reactions just could not have been predicted in advance. I've known gals who loved wild & kinky sex to the point of practically being nymphomaniacs, and yet they absolutely recoiled with disgust at the idea of a man putting his lips to their feet. You just never know what to expect, but that can't allow that to deter you from getting out there and giving it your all.
On a positive note, in my particular case the first gal whose feet/toes I kissed/sucked was a rather shy & quiet gal with a great sense of humor who had no prior experiences with a man at her feet, but she knew full well of my fetish from the outset she and was very open-minded to the idea of exploring my passion in the name of pleasure. Her initial reaction the first time was that it felt far more ticklish to her than anything else, but once we got past that hump through repeated bouts she began to warm up to the whole thing very quickly. Here I am many moons later and I'm happy to say that she and I are still incredibly close today and the foot action with her is better than it's ever been. I wish you luck!
Calico Jack
Posted by catsman (Member # 10269) on :
Oh my goodness, yes! I'm 47, and I did it way back when is was way out of the mainstream! Still loving it today!!!
Posted by ToeLuvinFirefighter (Member # 2688) on :
Kim enjoyed it, it was after a date very early into our relationship. I was giving her a foot massage through her hose and couldn't help the sexy smell of her feet. I simply asked if i could suck on her toes. She already knew that I had a foot fetish and would tease me by wearing sexy open toe shoes with awesome pedicures. I simply tore the toe part out ofher hose and smelled between her toes, which in turn led me to suckong on each of her toes while she was spreading her toes apart... She had never dated a man that liked her feet sexually but was very open minded about it.
Posted by Zamora (Member # 1236) on :
The responses I got on various occasions : " We have a foot fetish here, don't we ? " This is so cute from you" " Ieeuuuuuuuuuuu " " That tickles"
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
I've actually discussed the initial reaction of some girls whom I've been involved with just to see what they were thinking/feeling at the "moment of truth" so to speak. For the most part, they were quite surprised and taken aback having me start to suck on their toes. However, the surprised feeling didn't last too long once they began to feel the sensations on their feet. To describe their thoughts/reaction in a brief sentence, they said their initial thought was, "What the....??? Oh, wow! That feels pretty good!" I'm sure there are girls out there who would be grossed out by having their toes sucked and their feet licked and kissed. I guess I'm fortunate that I haven't run into many of them.
Posted by Patrick (Member # 1169) on :
The first girl who I experienced this with was 16. No don't worry, I was 16 too. She knew I liked her feet, but it took some time before I told her. This was several years before Abby (on Soles of Silk) got me open to things. Anyhow, she liked it and it made her smile.
Abby of course, was a different ball game, sticking her feet at me every minute she could. But I've also dated several other girls who were the same way and LOVED the attention.
I have only dated one girl, for about a month, who hated having her feet touched. She hated feet all together, so that was a lost cause. But once when she was drunk she stuck her feet at me and told me she loved having them touched!?!?!?
Patrick
Posted by Calico Jack (Member # 2299) on :
quote:Originally posted by Patrick: She hated feet all together, so that was a lost cause. But once when she was drunk she stuck her feet at me and told me she loved having them touched!?!?!?
LOL, oh the humanity! Gotta relocate that gal's home next to a vineyard.
Calico Jack
Posted by lambskin (Member # 1542) on :
None of my past girlfriends and now my wife had any problems with foot play. A couple were kind of surprised and perhaps a bit taken back, but eventually grew into liking it. The others seemed to really like it (the sensation of licking and toe sucking) right away. My wife loves the sensation of having her feet kissed and licked and loves to feel dominant with it (which is perfect for me). So go for it, but go slow at first. Most girls will be responsive, I think, as long as you take it easy.
Posted by Uno1 (Member # 2883) on :
Wow. I'd forgotten this topic for a while. Never replied.
quote:Originally posted by Fate111: However, the surprised feeling didn't last too long once they began to feel the sensations on their feet. To describe their thoughts/reaction in a brief sentence, they said their initial thought was, "What the....??? Oh, wow! That feels pretty good!"
Cool. Aren't feet supposed to be linked to a woman's other zones?
Any other tales/updates? Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
I'd say a good move is if you're more than friends with the girl, start with a massage, then say you have really pretty feet, then go in for the kiss.
Posted by stephm_ff (Member # 27001) on :
quote:Originally posted by octoberbaseball: I'd say a good move is if you're more than friends with the girl, start with a massage, then say you have really pretty feet, then go in for the kiss.
he's right i think. with my current girlfriend, i used to give her massages (before we got together) with a fair bit of oil and see how she'd react to that, in the massage i gave her feet every sensation i could think of, including massaging her toes simulating what it would be like if someone sucked them. she loved it, and sure enough after we got together and to this day she loves getting her feet kissed, sucked, everything.
on a side note, with every other girlfriend, we've been in bed and before i licked the honey pot i would start by kissing their feet and working my way up from there, and i'd see what their reaction was to the feet part. thats also good way
good luck!
Posted by atyourfeet77 (Member # 29698) on :
Just a few days ago I was giving my girlfriend a foot massage, and I started to kiss her feet in random spots all over her soles and toes. We have been dating for a year, so she is comfortable with everything I do basically. She immediately told me how good it felt, so I decided to start sucking her toes a little bit. I heard her gasp and then smile as she closed her eyes. I knew she was enjoying it so I proceded to lick her feet all over and she ended up loving it. I am now in the clear for licking her feet and toes as much as I please!! Even though she commented on me having a foot fetish afterwards, she was happy with finding out about this fetish I have and thought it was cute. I waited a while but it was worth it!
Posted by Uno1 (Member # 2883) on :
Nice stories Posted by shomeyoT0ES (Member # 2662) on :
quote:Originally posted by Patrick: The first girl who I experienced this with was 16. No don't worry, I was 16 too.
LMAO I'm glad u cleared that up, Patrick!
Although I was aware of my fetish @ an early age...I didn't experience it until I reached my early 20s. (It was with an older woman.) I'll never forget! The 1st time I had her alone--in my apartment--I could barely contain my excitement!!! Just seconds after we got inside, I knelt down & gently kissed both feet, even before she took her shoes off!
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
I have always had a positive reaction to my ministrations but it was something that I let "evolve"; ie. I didn't go right for the cookies. I was never abashed about offering foot massages but waited until I was sure she was confident in my "normality" before I allowed my true, full-blown interest in her feet to become evident. In general, women don't want a relationship that leads-off with the "kinky" or "sexually unusual".
There was one exception to the above caveat but that's a story for another time.
Posted by moneyman (Member # 17336) on :
Yes of course! The 1st time i did i was 23 and it was a secretary that was 38 that i worked with. She and i flirted for a few weeks and she called me one night to watch a movie at her place. When I arrived she led me up the stairs to her apartment and as she was walking i could see her soles some since she was wearing clogs. She had a great tan and I knew I was going for her feet that night! Well we were sitting on her couch kind of watching a movie and i commented on her legs looking nice and she grabbed my hand to let me touch her leg and feel how smooth it was. Me being an opportunist just swung her leg up on my lap and just grabbed her shoe and slowly slid it off. She just looked at me and giggled and smiled so i started to rub her foot some and next thing i know she swings her other foot up on my lap and layed back and closed her eyes. That was my green light and i just started kissing her feet all over and they were great, She had size 7 and had blue nail ppolish and her feet were tan, they were awesome!! I did try and smell them some but hardly any scent which was the only disappointing part of the night. Needless to say that led to other things and i didnt leave her apartment until the next morning. That was my 1st time and it went very well. But I have dated 2 girls that when I 1st had an opportunity to get to their feet they had bad reactions and were like" feet oh no feet are gross" so I got nowhere with both of those girls. Some are just closed minded and will not open up to that sort of thing. Out of the many women I have come in contact with and had my way with their feet only 3 have had bad reactions, 2 were girlfriends, 1 was a fling. So overall my percentage has been good but u just have to ease into it with some tact, its a numbers game. I will admit that I still think about those 3 that got away, but will make up for it in the future. Thats my take on it and hopefully anyones 1st kiss and reaction goes well!
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Posted by spartanguy (Member # 6990) on :
Many, Many times!!!
Posted by ljjnico (Member # 15015) on :
Not just yet. But hopefully soon I will get a girlfriend and will tell her that I have a foot fetish.
Posted by perfectpeds (Member # 29295) on :
Here's goes my next novel! LOL Those of you who know me - also know this is true... I ramble on and on ....
As a woman who has only recently had her feet worshipped, kissed, toes sucked, soles licked, nibbled etc., and yes - who is also very ticklish - I was hesitant in my thinking but I was also curious. I think to start - you would want the woman to be comfortable enough with you as a person. Trust has a lot to do with it. Feel connected... but I would say that my favorite part was having my soles licked and yes.... running the tongue in and around the toes and then gently sucking up until it pops out of the mouth...
But I would start slow - Build her trust and some night start with a foot massage -- almost every woman would kill for one of those... and then maybe lay your cheek on the top of her foot and comment Wow it's so soft...gently inhale to get a smell and to check her reaction... gently run a finger in between each toe during the massage and tell her she has beautiful feet - everyone woman loves to be told something about her is beautiful. Eventually she'll want to keep hearing it and might even start to believe it. And if she starts to believe it - you're going to find heaven! LOL
Just don't pounce on her right away -- unless she's all for it! Women are repulsed if they feel forced to do something that is foreign to them... give it a chance. I think almost every woman will come around.
Whew... after all that I wish I could get it right now! LOL
Posted by Uno1 (Member # 2883) on :
You're cool, perfectpeds. Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
you did a mighty fine way of describing it perfect ped.. got me thinking in that venue now!
RPM
p.s. what a romantic picture you did paint
Posted by perfectpeds (Member # 29295) on :
quote:Originally posted by RPM: you did a mighty fine way of describing it perfect ped.. got me thinking in that venue now!
RPM
p.s. what a romantic picture you did paint
Hope your wife appreciates it! wink wink
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
oh she does:D
Posted by Sabbath (Member # 4844) on :
The first time I did it was with my first girlfriend, I was 17 at the time , we were making out and one thing led to another so.. during foreplay I was kissing her whole boddy, going and lower and I just did it. She asked " do you like my feet? " and I told her there were very pretty , since that day I started having lots of foot action. Posted by Elvzz (Member # 14178) on :
Women do react differently - some are surprised and some really like it and are thus converted! Just like asking out a woman - do it for you - not for them. It is a generous act so there is a duplicitous nature to my prior statement. I say do it for U cuz, we tend to get paralyzed by having both sides of the convo in our head. Like many of these threads - Hey, they say "No" a lot. So go for the YES!
U can get close enuf to have sex with her and suck her toes as you play - she will feel ENGULFED not Rammed.
I shot Anna yesterday and she asked how feet fit into mainstream sex - I told her there is no mainstream with me - and her pupils dialated. Whoo Ah! How do you make hot chocolate? You heat it up to a simmer - otherwise it will get as hot, but BURN!
Out
Posted by perfectpeds (Member # 29295) on :
nicely put Elvzz. It's true that if you aren't sweating it and you make it feel natural, most will give in to it out of curiosity at first but it sure feels good when those toes are being lavishly licked! mmmmm-mmmm-good!
I just wonder how long it will be before I have that experience again! Keeping in mind that I am a woman and of course need more of a connection that JUST SEX>>> -- damn I wish I was a man.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
Well said, Elvzz! I think it's important that everyone does it for themselves, instead of worrying about what other people will think. The bottom line is you can't control what other people think. It's totally out of your hands and, as such, you shouldn't waste your time and energy on it. If you become preoccupied with it, then you don't come off doing it as something natural and, as a result, your actions become stilted and not natural. Then you begin looking suspicious and you look like you're hiding something, which will make the entire scene very uncomfortable for everyone involved.
As long as a woman is comfortable with you when you're one on one, kissing a woman's feet/sucking on her toes should be treated as a natural thing that you do and not something you need to fret over.
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
Yes, I've kissed my girlfriend's feet, on occasion. Wow, very nostalgic to see a thread with Calico Jack involved!
Posted by markn (Member # 13818) on :
Your question is not a stupid one. Many people have desires which they have been unable to yet explore. You need to be patient with your girlfriend in fully revealing your admiration of her feet. The vast majority of women have been taught by society that their feet are ugly, and a guy who wants to put his lips upon them must be mentally ill. Actually, the loving a woman's beautiful, soft feet is an incredibly romantic experience. You should first start by giving your lady foot massages with high quality, warm, foot lotion. Also, take her out shoe shopping, the ladies love an attentive shoe shopping boy. It is also important that you not focus too much attention solely upon her beautiful feet. Women want to feel that you love their whole body. Again, have patience with your girl and have fun.
Posted by Terri (Member # 29793) on :
Anyone here who hasn't can't really be interested in feet, for myself there must be at least 50 different girls who's feet I've played with.
Posted by haydenpanettierefeetslave (Member # 2512) on :
I have kissed feet are several occasions. They loved it
Posted by sotiny (Member # 25607) on :
have i kissed a womans feet?
no. not really my thing.
:-)
Jen x
Posted by Skittlzrapper (Member # 9922) on :
Yes..
With one of my more serious girlfriends of years gone by I used it as a breaking the ice to my whole foot fetish thing. It was early on in the flirty making out stage we were hanging out in her room and the night before she had put here bare feet on my face and asked if "they smell" I figured she was a foot girl so I gave it a whirl.... Yeah worked very well.. from that night on ever blow job she ever gave me had her feet wrapped around the base of my dick.
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