Well, if you think about it, that guy came on way too strong. He should have known immediately by her uncomfortable reactions to his foot propositioning that he wasn't gonna go anywhere, and should have let it be. And the whole thing about letting male relatives suck on her toes? That was too damn weird, I'm surprised the girl didn't just say "Check please?" right then and there.
She is ignorant in her attitude towards fetishes, in my opinion though. But that guy was too persistent for his own good.
Posted by eff (Member # 11277) on :
I agree.
But I hate it when a woman who has sexy feet has no idea about a foot fetish.
It's a complete waste of a perfect pair of feet, and believe me I know. I've ran into a few females with feet that put some of these foot models to shame, but they have no idea about the possibilities and are "weirded out" by the whole concept.
I've found that the best way to do it, is to not even bring up the fact that you have a foot fetish until you get a better feel for what she likes and doesnt like.
Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :
yeah he went about that the wrong way, though i dont' really like her saying it's "deviant" behavior. something about that just doesn't settle with me.
Posted by The Champ (Member # 14891) on :
ive lost count of how many times that this thread has come up
Posted by between20 (Member # 12378) on :
She gets a french ped and wears sandals and claims to be ignorant of ff? Right. He came on too strong, to someone with her own issues. He should have been the one to signal his wingman for an "emergency" phone call early on. She acts like a Domme (the "harem" remark), but refers to a distaste for "deviant" behaviors? Instant turn-off.
Posted by eff (Member # 11277) on :
That's something else thats always struck me as kind of strange....
If a woman is not into someone being attracted to her feet, and think that it's weird for men to like them.....why get them painted and taken care of in the first place?
Posted by conerz (Member # 12451) on :
quote:Originally posted by eff: That's something else thats always struck me as kind of strange....
If a woman is not into someone being attracted to her feet, and think that it's weird for men to like them.....why get them painted and taken care of in the first place?
*applause*
Posted by RJ82 (Member # 20037) on :
quote:Originally posted by eff: That's something else thats always struck me as kind of strange....
If a woman is not into someone being attracted to her feet, and think that it's weird for men to like them.....why get them painted and taken care of in the first place?
this is very true, i mean if you think it's weird why spend the time/money? granted they may do it because they want it to look pretty, but if you don't want someone looking at them then why bother.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
i hope that bitch marries a necro who lets the cat out of the bag years after they've had kids
she deserves nothin but ice tub blues after her close minded displays of intelligence Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by The Champ: ive lost count of how many times that this thread has come up
I recognized it too the minute I started reading it. If nothing else, a classic example of how NOT to act...
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
I've thought about this subject long and hard through the years, and wondered how I would approach such a situation if I ended up in an LTR or marriage with someone outside the community. It is a difficult decision. While I dont think I could ever be happy with someone who would say:" You can never, ever touch or kiss my feet", because that to me is completely tightassed. I dont think a first date is the place to bring that up either. For myself, I have always visualized, after knowing the girl, and becoming more intimate, if not even intercourse, but, say, "fooling around", doing something like offering her a foot massage while we were either at her place or mine, and then, as the intimacy happens, to say to her:" For many years, I have loved female feet. I love massaging your feet. I also like to kiss feet, and such. While we are intimate in other ways, I hope you are okay with my paying attention to your feet, and kissing them." This way, it is more like a part of a greater sexual experience. While I cant deny that I would certainly look at, or glance, if I had a first date with a girl with pretty feet, I still think that guy came on way too strong. He scared her. Next time, it would seem he should get to know the girl, and then ease into the foot subjects.
Mitch
Posted by maxxaxxe (Member # 5798) on :
Man, that dude was nuts. I thought I had it bad. There is no way I would even think about doing that until later on in the game and even then I would slowly introduce it and test the waters. I would have tested the waters first and talked about more important matters. Then, as more opportunities arise, I would advance a bit more. That man obviously had it too bad where it clouded his judgment.
Posted by Footman9 (Member # 1100) on :
quote:Originally posted by RJ82:
quote:Originally posted by eff: That's something else thats always struck me as kind of strange....
If a woman is not into someone being attracted to her feet, and think that it's weird for men to like them.....why get them painted and taken care of in the first place?
this is very true, i mean if you think it's weird why spend the time/money? granted they may do it because they want it to look pretty, but if you don't want someone looking at them then why bother.
I concur, but the guy did come on a litle too strong in the first couple rounds with this gal. A guy must have some James Bond finesse and savvy when dealing with a woman and her assets.
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