because im 18, most girls and boys at my ages in my eyes would take the piss out of me for having a foot fetish, but it isnt that bad, is it? the people ive told have been alright with it but that only like 4 or 5 people. i want to know if theres anyone in this forum that is opposite to me that has all there friends knowing and them sayin, "yeah, thats the person with the foot fetish" and them bein totally cool with it, if u are out there, ur a god to me lol.
Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :
I'm 18, friends know. We don't speak about it.
Posted by jks got a feetish (Member # 25019) on :
whys that, do they take the mick out of u, or it jus like "meh, we dont care tbh"
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
only like two of my closest friends know...and it never comes up and if it does, im always the one who brings it up (although one of the two of those friends thats close to me, he has a taste for feet too meaning i dont think he has an all out obsession like i do but feet dont bother him either)
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
That's how my buddies are about my foot fetish, they were like "Whatever floats your boat," and don't really say anything to me about it. About the only time I was teased about it was when I was massaging this girl's feet in front of my buddies, and one of my friends jokingly asked me if I needed a cigarette. I just said I was good and laughed about it.
My parents also know I have a foot fetish, but they don't approve at all. Actually, I try not to talk about anything regarding my sex life or dating life to them at all, although my mom will occasionally keep asking me why I don't have a girlfriend yet and if I still like feet. Other than that, the only family members who know I like feet are my cousins, who don't really care what I like. My oldest cousin, though, has a hardcore foot fetish like myself, so we really relate more than we ever have.
Posted by DaBootman (Member # 1280) on :
I'm 20, all my friends have known, family's known. Ever since i realized it, i've been open about it. And all the girls i know know i have one, which has led to me to many pedicures and sometimes more. All my friends do exactly as you say, "That's the dude who likes toes/feet" I'm completely fine with it. Just had a decent fetish conversation with a friend from work on the ride home this morning, he and i both have different fetishes, but discuss the likeness and hardships/good times we've had through both.
Edit: Also, the same friend i spoke about on the ride home, as well as the rest of my friend will often point out girls who are wearing revealing footwear, or girls they think who are good looking who we've seen for the first time barefoot. It's always seemed to work pretty well for me.
Posted by jks got a feetish (Member # 25019) on :
shit salvy, ur parents know, how they find out? my bro knows, i forgot how, my mum knows becuase she was tidyin the computer room and found a cd i bought off an ebayer that had kindly took pictures of her feet and sent me them on a cd labelled "my feet" she was on the fone at the time when she shown me and havent really said shit since, my dad finding outs the funniest though. he must of been going through the history on the computer or what, but me being me ages ago would type things into the google image search, so he brought me into the computer room and shown me previous seraches that went by names like "toe sucking" and "feet fucking", he was not best pleased, n i was more than embarresed, i was about 15 at the time lol.
Posted by Grishnak (Member # 16756) on :
my roommate knows cuz we were drunk and talking about fetishes.
i think my parents know cuz my dad found my foot fetish tape.
Posted by higharchlover (Member # 23372) on :
I think I understand the question....kinda hard to read.....
Only my ex-girlfriends know, and whoever they may have told about it. My sister also knows because my very first girlfriend was telling her that I always rubbed her feet. Nobody has ever really confronted me about it except my sister. She just asked "whats your thing with feet?" I just shrug my shoulders. She thinks its weird but it doesn't bother me. I like what I like!
Posted by cloudray (Member # 18758) on :
My mother and a few family friends know about it but that's it. In fact my mother has a borderline foot/shoe fetish anyway. I've had it as far as I can remember so I probably inherited it from her.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
I'm a great deal older than you and none of my friends or family know. Though I don't go to great lengths to hide it, I consider my sexual preferences to be a private matter. Though we might occassionally joke about a body part, I couldn't begin to tell you any of my closest friends sexual preferences.
Posted by Salvy_Mic (Member # 13384) on :
quote:Originally posted by jks got a feetish: shit salvy, ur parents know, how they find out? my bro knows, i forgot how, my mum knows becuase she was tidyin the computer room and found a cd i bought off an ebayer that had kindly took pictures of her feet and sent me them on a cd labelled "my feet" she was on the fone at the time when she shown me and havent really said shit since, my dad finding outs the funniest though. he must of been going through the history on the computer or what, but me being me ages ago would type things into the google image search, so he brought me into the computer room and shown me previous seraches that went by names like "toe sucking" and "feet fucking", he was not best pleased, n i was more than embarresed, i was about 15 at the time lol.
They began piecing it together ever since I was young. From what I could remember, I always liked playing with female feet, whomever they belonged to as long as they were nice. So while my mom's friend was my first real experience, my precocious little self would mostly end up playing with the feet of my mom, my aunts, and my cousins. I did stop messing with my mom's feet and my aunts' feet when I was young, but the cousins were still fair game until I was much older, especially my older cousing, who would always let me play with her feet. Anyway, to make a long story short, we moved to a new neighborhood when I was turning 12, and there were a lot of girls my age and a bit older in my neighborhood. 3 up the street, 3 across the street, and 1 around the corner. Out of those 7, I played with 3 of the girls' feet. One day, my mother caught me messing with one of the neighbors' feet and told me off. Then my parents confronted me about it and told me off together. Since then, they've either criticized me or made fun of me for it, since they think its like the pinnacle of weirdness for some reason. I've never bothered to argue with them either.
The only thing that really bugged me was when we went to El Salvador and met up with my mom's best friend (different friend than my first remembered experience). When I was younger, about 7 or 8, she came to stay with us for a weekend when she was in this country visiting for about a month. I had massaged her feet and she enjoyed it. Fast forward to about 11 years later and I see my mom's friend for the first time in that same timespan. She remembered that I had given her a foot massage and in front of my mother, she had innocently teased me with her feet. My mom then told her that it was a sexual thing for me, with a clear undertone that she thought it was strange. My mom's friend didn't say anything negative about it, just asked "Really?" and I asked my mom to leave it alone. She put me on blast really and I walked away, but my mom's friend winked at me and smiled, like if she was telling she didn't think it was weird at all.
So because of my parents, I typically try to keep my fetish under wraps around most of my family. Really, the only person I ever to talk to in person about my love of feet is my oldest cousin, and that's because he has a foot fetish too. Most of my friends know, of course, but they just accept it about me and move on. I'm genuinely thankful for that.
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
wife, of course,sister in law and her husband and my wife's best friend(a girl). i wish they did not, i would have love to keep it between my wife and i, it is a very private thing and i love my privacy.
Posted by Podder (Member # 15888) on :
quote:Originally posted by feetluvr: I'm a great deal older than you and none of my friends or family know. Though I don't go to great lengths to hide it, I consider my sexual preferences to be a private matter. Though we might occassionally joke about a body part, I couldn't begin to tell you any of my closest friends sexual preferences.
Like you, I am probably older than most of the people here. Although I have never told anyone I personally know or am related to of my fetish, I might not deny it if the subject came up, depending on the person and the situation. But also like you, it is a subject I choose not to discuss except in a venue such as this. However, as I have grown older, I have gotten less paranoid about it. For example, primarily to save money, I rent an apartment in my sister's house (she being older than me) after her husband moved out and, also to save money, we share a computer on which I have downloaded hundreds of foot pictures. Now, to the best of my knowledge she doesn't know how to open downloaded images, as she does only e-mail, Web browsing and occasionally a Word document. But if she has somehow opened one of my downloads through, say, the startup menu, she hasn't asked me about it, and at the age I am now, I'm not sure I would care if she did. In my teens and twenties, that would have been a different matter.
Posted by Footman Pete (Member # 16664) on :
Unfortunately alot of my friends are very closed minded so I've never really opened up to them about it, and I don't think I ever really will. I do have a feeling they may have found out through past girlfriends but it doesn't really come up.
As for my family none of them have an idea, although I do recall a time when I was younger and my dad found some pictures but I don't think they were too clearly foot oriented so I may have been in the clear. Posted by devils (Member # 17280) on :
My wife, friends and even people at work know even 2 girls im fruiendly with know. I bring it up jokingly and they laugh at it and think its kinda funny. When i was younger i would never tell but as you get older and deal wiht people your age you begin to take a more less scrutinizing opinion of it and it becomes more accepted as you get older. I knew what it was like to hide it for sake of embarrassment. When i was 18 i wanted to tell the hot girl i was going out with how hot her feet were..lol..been there. But dont worry as you get older it'll be more accepted and you can share your feelings with girls as they mature in late 20's. Youl find there are more guys out there who will admit there fetish too when you admit it to them.
Posted by devils (Member # 17280) on :
No one here should feel ashame of there foot fetish..I tell everyon enow with a smile and i dont give a damn who knows. There arepart of the female anatomy like titties and ass..thats ok so why not a hot pair of petite female feet with a pedicure?? Its more normal in our society to love a pair of tits that are unnaturally stuffed with plastic beach balls but the beauty of a females dainty foot with a dash of nail polish is weird??? WTF?!?!? Its a fetish not a psycho turn-on that hurts anyone. So when youre at the mall and see that hot 22 yo latin chick with the bubble butt and size 7 feet in a pair of strappy shoes and long sized order pedicured toes..be proud..and take a peak dammit!..LOL
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
One of my friends knows but we've known each other for a long time and he said there's nothing to be ashamed of. Other people who may have suspicion or overhear me say something like I like a girl with attractive feet then joke about it which I hate. I can't stand when a guy says like hey why dont you massage my feet. Does anyone else experience this- meaning people find out you have it then give u bad talk because of it? It's not common but has happened.
Posted by GeorgyPorgy (Member # 20439) on :
Lots of girlfriends know about my fetish, I really don't care if women know. However, I am much more sensitve to guys knowing. I haven't quite figured out why.
My best friend walked in on me looking at a foot porn site. He really didn't care. Nevertheless, I was 10x more embarressed than I have ever been having a women find out I like feet.
Posted by BlackHeart (Member # 25059) on :
I'm new here, but I think this question/discussion is a good way to get started here...Just like many others here I'm still quite young (21) and I only realised that I have a foot fetish about 2 years ago. None of my closest male friands know about it, although one friend probably knows since he found some footjob video's on his computer. This was my own fault, cause I forgot to erase them the night earlier when I was sleeping over at his house. But I did share it with my ex-girlfriend and she was totally cool about it, just like my current gf. But in my opinion woman are more open to stuff like that rather than men. Maybe because men expect you to be an ass- or a tittyman, but I'll take a foot anytime!
Posted by imasoleman (Member # 5044) on :
My wife knows, she told her best friend, and my guy friends know. My guy friends found out because my ex told them. They only teased me once about it, and that was about it. I've tried dropping hints to my wife's friends (just joking with them of course) and no one has picked up on it yet.
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
My wife, her sister, old girlfriends, a couple of friends I suppose. I don't dwell on making a point of telling everyone I know about it.
My dad obviously must know though. A long time ago when I was in college back in the late 80s I brought home my collection of LegShow magazines which I really didn't try and make an effort to hide. I just had them on a bookcase in my bedroom at home with some other books and magazines. I remember once using my dad's restroom that was adjoined with his bedroom and when I went up into the cabinet above the toilet to get some TP I found a couple of my LegShows stashed where he used to stash his old Playboys! I left them there and never asked for them back of course. Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
some friends, no family memebers know. They wouldn't understand it.
Posted by dmmgp2000 (Member # 20759) on :
Dang Salvy_Mic,
Your experiences (especially from your childhood) are almost identical to mine! I also had a "mom's best friend" when I was growing up. I used to go to her house and play with her feet all the time. She wiggled her toes for me constantly. When she would have my family over for dinner, I'd go under the table just to stare at her feet.
Like you, both my parents know. My mom is the one who found out. When I was 15, we didn't have internet yet, so I had a collection of feet pics from magazines and such. My mom was vaccuuming my room and came across the folder under my nightstand. A very embarrassing day to say the least! Like most people on here, my parents (mom especially) don't really approve but I'm 25 next week so they don't say anything anymore.
Crazy how similar some of our stories are around here..lol!
Posted by ashifechi (Member # 16477) on :
Well, unfortunately, my wife was pissed off at me, so she called my mother and talked to her about my fetish and things I like doing with her feet. She also called my friends.
Needless to say, I was really pissed off about it. If you tell my mother, you might as well tell my entire family, because she will tell them.
Some of my female cousins know about my fetish, but they are cool with it. They are my age or younger and open-minded.
One of my female friends has known for years. She is totally cool with it. She used to ask me to massage her feet. But then one day my other friend was drunk and blabbed, "Mark, has a foot fetish." I was tottally embarrassed. Me and my friend were the only guys in the room. There were six girls hanging out with us. My friend, Christi, looked at me and said, "Really? You have a foot fetish?"
Since then she began just putting her feet in my lap everytime the situation permitted. Relaxing watching T.V., or at parties with lots of people around. She didn't care. She wouldn't even ask me to massage her feet. I think she just expected it, because she knew I like feet.
There were times my cock would become extrememly hard. Sometimes, her foot would brush my cock (in my pants) she wouldn't say, "Oh, I'm sorry," and act embarrassed or anything. A few times, she rested her foot on my cock. She didn't rub it. Just rested it there as I massaged her other foot.
I think she just loved teasing me. Here and I have been friends for 20 years, and we have showered together etc...but we have never had sex with each other.
CHristi is a cool friend.
Posted by vineofthorns (Member # 1313) on :
anyone who visits my myspace page knows,I put my fetish in there lol.my family knows and lay back about it,altho my father is quick to point out when he catches me lookin @ womens feet lol..my girlfriend is fully aware and I indulge in her feet all the time.all my friends know and all are cool,onely time they mention anything is when they are in my room n I have foot porn out.onely 1 bugs about it but shes under 21(yes people are more eased with ages)and everyone knows her anti-feet feelings in general.she had a bf who liked feet n she wouldn't give him a fj lol.but shes a blessing cause it causes other female friends to pull their feet out n do things to freak her out so I get foot shows every so ofen lol.
Posted by PublicName (Member # 12270) on :
Haha at a party once, a friend kinda motioned around for people to rub her feet. and i was like..what're you doing? And she was like I want a foot massage! So I was like alright I guess. A friend was like someone's got a foot fetish! and I was like nah. I'm sure they all knew it after that night anyway though, without spoken word. Who else says sure to that to just any friend?
Most of my online buddies know and tease me about it, but I don't find it bothersome.
Other than that, my father knows, and most nobody else.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
i handful iof people know i have one but only my wife and best friend know how deep it goes.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
well..my current girlfriend..indulges me to the fullest with them! One past g/f who was open to it..let me suck on her toes..never a FJ, another ex but I was drunk and wasnt the most "smooth" letting her know...she was jerking me off after a party and I was hammered beyond belief so it was taking a while and she complained her arm was dying! and I said "hey, I hear using your feet is just as using hands" or something to that effect..needless to say that was the first red flag for my friends because she told one and so on and so on! My friends found out due to the fact that the GOD DAMN Google search bar keeps the history and I was naive to erase that...cleared other footie porn up just in case...but I left one day to go get some grub and my friends were using my lap top while I was out and sure enough...used the effing searchbar! I came back and one of my friends kept on saying his feet hurt and his g/f kept slipping in the occasional "I like my toes sucked" out of nowhere..but of course I couldnt come right out and say "oh really?" I finally just said fuck it..and asked them what's up. From then on though they know about it but dont bring it up unless the topic of feet has arisen some how. Family doesnt know THANK GOD! And never will! Posted by devils (Member # 17280) on :
quote:Originally posted by DeuceBigglo: nope only my wife. people think your a freak if you have foot fetish. I know a girl who hates her feet, and she has nice feet!!!
Who cares if she knows..if you tell her she does have nice feet shell probably think its cute and shell feel complimented..this form experience.
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
Its all about confidence and accepting yourself. Tommy Lee has a foot fetish and no one would call him wierd. Because he's got confidence. My buddies know I like feet and just about every girl I pick up and sleep with. They don't care. Many are even intrigued because they know that if they're feet aren't up to par regardless of how hot they are, they get far less attention from me. A funny thing when dealing with women who've been told they're perfect their whole lives. I just view it as being part of being very picky when it comes to who i'm attracted too which ultimately make one more attractive. e.g Pam Anderson has a gorgeous body execept her feet. Every guy in the world would overlook that except for you. Who is she more apt to try and impress? You, or the tons of other guys? Use your fetih to your advantage. GQguy
Posted by ladywatermelon (Member # 24532) on :
My Ex-girlfriend knows and when she has her girlfriends over she makes sure to call me and mess around with me. She overexaggerates the words like, "I am Painting my toooeeessss" and her friends are confused and wondering why she said it like that. Other than that I don't think anyone knows about mine.
Posted by NyAd (Member # 25092) on :
i tell only close friends!!
Posted by shadixx (Member # 22316) on :
lmao,your an 'in the closet' foot fetish case. Pretty much everyone I know know's about my fetish. I dont give a fuck. Sure every once in awhile someone tries to crack a joke about it. Its not like its an abnormal fetish such as having a spatula stuck in your ass. Some guys like boobs,some guys like ass and then there are those of us privledged enough to get to enjoy feet. Did you know that in most surveys on sexual fetishes that feet rank in at number 1 by a hefty lead? If u want to tell people about it,tell them. Its not really a big deal. Its just feet. Not like you want to dress up like hitler and fuck a nun in the ass while you slice up her back with a razor blade or something. My fiance knew about me liking feet before we ever even started dating,and do you know what that led to? she gave me her feet like 2 days after we started dating. Now i get them pretty much any time I want. She doesnt care. Just let it out man. I mean,dont just blurt out 'I LIKE TO SNIFF GIRLS FEET!' in the middle of any random conversation,that would be awkward and probably make people uncomfortable. Just wait for the right time and all will be well.
Peace
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
For those who have family that know- do they tend to act odd and hide their feet when you're around or if you look down?
Posted by cloudray (Member # 18758) on :
quote:Originally posted by octoberbaseball: For those who have family that know- do they tend to act odd and hide their feet when you're around or if you look down?
I've noticed my mother do that a few times. It bothers me when she does because I suspect she thinks I was looking at her feet or shoes when in truth my gaze was just wondering aimlessly. I also have a habit of watching the ground as I walk anyway just because I like to see where I'm stepping.
I don't think it bothers her that much though and she rarely brings it up because I'm pretty sure she at least has a shoe fetish. Though I noticed once when she gave me her cell phone to make a call that she has a picture of her foot on it stomping on a toy. So I don't know. I never bring it up though. Her two closest friends know about it and they've joked about it on occasion but as soon as they do (or I suspect they are about to) I cut them off before they can finish and forcibly change the subject.
I'm 21 and I've never dated anyone, probably never will. Considering how un social I am I don't want anyone else if I can help it to ever know since most people probably think I'm a weird enough loser as it is.
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and I said "hey, I hear using your feet is just as using hands" or something to that effect..needless to say that was the first red flag for my friends because she told one and so on and so on!