Hi, I have been thinking about this question for sometime and it just came back to me it is a very hard question to answer and please be as truthful as you can when answering it. I have a fiancee and like many here are in a relationship or are married so we have feet to worship when we want. My question and remember answer it truthfully is another woman came on to you fancied you wanted to go out with you whatever you call it and she had some gorgeous feet this part you already knew about her feet could you worship her feet knowing you are married or in a serious relationship, perhaps you do nothing sexual with her just worship her feet would you be able to do this or would you feel guilty enough to confess all to your loved one.
I know how much my fiancee hates me looking at other girls feet let alone worshipping them I feel it is not cheating on her as such but feet worship is still intimate I could not imagine keeping it to myself.
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Couldn't do it- my wife and I both consider that cheating. In fact, because she knows completely about my fetish she would believe that it was sexual whether I considered it as such or not.
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
Dayeeem this is a hard question.... I would probably say one thing, but when it comes to crunch time.... I do somethin' else... Don't forget we have 2 heads... So I guess my answer is... "Follow your heart... not your cock.." But as I said, when it comes to "crunch-time" I would probably do the other....
Sorry I'm not much help...
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Posted by 2swift (Member # 16002) on :
No, I could not do so...I know all too well how fortunate I am, and what I have here with me. There are many here who would love to trade places with me and have what I have. I could not do that to My wife and put what we have worked so hard to build all for the opportunity to have a different set of feet. I know anything and everything I would want to do with respect to my love of feet she would so do without hesitation and simply because she loves me. To put all of this at risk simply for a different pair of feet would be crazy and insane.
As flattered as I would be to have another woman approach me with this offer, I know I could not take advantage of the situation...who I am would not allow me too. My lovely wife does not mind me looking, and will even point out sexy feet to me and loves to indulge me like this, but I could not betray her like that.
Bottom line, if you cannot tell your sig. other about it, then it's cheating.
Regards, 2swift
Posted by babeflover (Member # 2953) on :
First of all, another woman feet is cheating, specially, and i mean specially if one has a footfetish. Now, i, and my wife will not read this, have a "problem", i enjoy looking at other women's feet very much, god knows i do but, i can't see myself kissing or smelling another woman's feet. i don't know why, and i'm not saying this because i want you to think of as a good guy who would not cheat on his wife,no at all, i don't know exactly why when it comes to kissing, sucking or/and smelling feet, i only want my wife's. i almost wish i could but, i know i couldn't and don't really want to do it.
Posted by crazyscot (Member # 3393) on :
Well said babelover!
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I might like to massage another woman's feet, but THAT'S IT! Just occured to me, why not do this as a poll?
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
man oh man mule! That is a question that not only I but probably many others here on this forum ask themselves every day. For me when out in public,work,on the net doesnt matter if I am looking at another girls peds I am defintely thinking what I would do to them! Does that mean I would go and act upon that? I can sit here and say "No" until I turned blue in the face but if push comes to shove...well...as footlong says another "brain" so to speak gets involved in the decision making! This is a internal conflict that I and many others here have everyday at some point that could go on and on for an eternity! 2swift says it perfectly that if you can not tell your S/O about it then it's cheating! For me,if my girl ever found out that I touched another girls peds she would know instantly that it was a sexual thing for me because she see's what I get like when I touch hers..so in her books it would be considered cheating...and that's what matters here...it's all what our SO's decide it is.
Posted by asiafoot (Member # 1925) on :
Well I guess I’m gonna be the bad guy here, wish I had the moral fiber of the rest but I don’t, I can at least admit that & live with it. I'm a cheater & have made peace with my character flaws. You asked for an honest reply and here it is my story…
I've been married to the same woman for 10 years, she’s a willing participant in my fetish, I’ve always had access to her feet. Believe it or not, we have a great relationship. However, and this is a big however, I travel constantly and spend as much time overseas as I do at home. This is not a disclaimer just a simple fact. During these travels I’ve met several women from all over the world, several of which have feet I’ve personally experienced & still experience from time to time. A few of these women I actually met before getting married, others after my marriage. Some of these ladies are married now & I no longer enjoy foot adventures with them… We still get together but in bizarre twist I feel wrong doing anything with their feet now, go figure. Regardless I’m still an adulterer, no if ands or buts about it. Do I ever feel guilty? The first time yes, very, but now not at all. How would I feel if my wife got involved with someone else? A little hurt probably but to do or say anything would make me a hypocrite, besides I'd know I had it coming. Will I ever tell my wife about my extra marital foot fun? Hell no. I know some folks claim being 100% honest is the only way to go, I disagree completely; some things are better left unsaid. Big question… Will I continue on this course? Yes, to say no would be lying to you & more importantly me. Eventually I’ll stop; lately I’ve been less & less interested probably because I’m growing out of it. But if a nice pair of feet presents themselves, for now I’d probably still go for it as long as it was far away from home.
My honest answer, say what you will
Asiafoot
Posted by higharchlover (Member # 23372) on :
quote:Originally posted by 2swift: Bottom line, if you cannot tell your sig. other about it, then it's cheating.
Regards, 2swift
My thoughts exactly!! That sums it up in a nutshell.
I also have to add, while I admire Asiafoot's honesty, you should use a little bit of that honesty for your wife. Why even be married? If you want to mess around with alot of different women, thats your business, but why put someone else's feelings on the line. I have been on the other end of cheating a few times. It almost destroyed me, Thats why I had to comment. Nothing personal Asia...I just dont understand......
Posted by nusuth (Member # 7372) on :
i second 2swift's statement too. thats something my wife and i have said for a long time.
as for my situation.. it's kinda different. my wife and i are swingers and do enjoy other people and when we started the biggest off limits to her was another woman's feet but this past weekend we went to the swingers club and i said that was the only limits to what we did. no guy gets her feet.. she said well, its ok if you want to do something with another woman's feet.. but it actually doesnt interest me. before my wife i was nothing but visual. i enjoyed seeing sexy feet and i had experimented with women's feet, but it really didnt do anything with me. when my wife encouraged me to try doing things with HER feet EVERYTHING changed but i still have very little desire to have another woman's feet.
Posted by carriebear (Member # 25262) on :
here you go...
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Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
do not let her know man, but don't f' up like that again
Posted by domitilo (Member # 1325) on :
Well, I have a question to add to this discussion. What about thos foot parties. Does attending a foot party meabn that you are cheating on your girl? Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
I'd say yes, that does count as cheating.
Posted by vercingetorix (Member # 20528) on :
I guess the biggest question would be whether foot worship is sexual for you or not. If it is it's cheating.
Posted by Eliza Durden (Member # 22995) on :
I'd agree with 2swift also.
If you can't tell her it is cheating. And same with the foot parties.
Posted by domitilo (Member # 1325) on :
Man you guys are tough, but I think that you are right. It is cheating. Posted by Karas (Member # 23934) on :
I have a girlfriend, but I have had foot play outside of the relationship every now and then. It hasn't gone past the feet, and no footjobs. But yeah I do consider it quasi cheating. I say quasi, cause I have had several friends get married and gone to bachelor parties at strips clubs and we all get dances, and I sometimes would get foot play at the party. She has no problem with that. But I do think that if I approached a woman on my own and asked for it, she'd be pissed.
Posted by Nightbird77 (Member # 13561) on :
I just look at it from this point of view..
How would you feel if you found out that another guy gave your wife or S/O a foot massage at a party? Or kissed her feet? Or if she gave him a footjob?
If it were me I would consider it cheating.
Posted by skaramunga (Member # 11914) on :
Yea exactly NightBird...
If i ever found out that some guy gave my girl a foot message or whatever and had his hands all over MY feet i would be so pissed.
And after reading what most of you guys said, i would consider it somewhat cheating. I mean of course the girl isnt having sex with the guy....but you know the old saying "One thing lead to another"...
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
I couldn't do it...MAYBE a foot massage to another girl, but even that's pushing it...
Posted by Mr. Manny (Member # 6895) on :
Hey, it's not ROCKET SCIENCE. If you even have to ask the question, you obviously are having problems with your conscience. Right?
Duh, it is cheating! Be honest with yourself. Do what you think is right but think about the consequences.
Maybe you are with the wrong woman. Think about it. Don't make this more complicated than it really has to be. Ok?
Posted by feet lover/chris (Member # 2048) on :
yes that counts as cheating.
Posted by scarlet (Member # 2117) on :
"perhaps you do nothing sexual with her just worship her feet"
Since worshiping her feet is sexual to you, your entire statement is incorrect.
It's cheating.
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
muleslicker ont ruin it. follow your heart, not your cock.
Posted by Andy-Laa (Member # 31511) on :
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