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Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
 
Just curious from some of the successful guys out there who've had good luck in getting feet ...as a general rule of thumb, how long would you suggest as a waiting period before you finally tell a new girlfriend that you wanna lick and smell her feet?

I've learned that asking too early can sometimes cause problems [Cry]
 
Posted by octoberbaseball (Member # 20977) on :
 
I wouldn't say anything, I would just have it grow like if there is a girl I like maybe start with the foot massage then move on if it's a girl I go out with hmmm she could ask or openly I could just say I'm attracted to a girl with nice feet. About the waiting, if you start with the massage that could lead to kissing the feet then licking.
 
Posted by Dave888 (Member # 13797) on :
 
ASAP...that way if she's not cool with it you can move on to a girl that is.
 
Posted by FtLckr26 (Member # 13998) on :
 
I waited after a few intimate times of not even giving a hint that I was attracted to her feet. Then started kissing her feet during foreplay, later trying to suck on her toes during foreplay until she got the message. Process took about 3 months.
 
Posted by shadixx (Member # 22316) on :
 
There really isnt a time limit. Just wait for the right moment...but,the sooner the better. You dont want to end up stuck with some chick who isnt cool with it right? Ive been with my girl for a long time. Shes totaly cool with it and gives them to me whenever I want. I told her before we ever even started dating,lol. You will find that most girls are cool about it,and it actualy intrigues them a little. Atleast in my experiances.
 
Posted by LeDaemon (Member # 198) on :
 
quote:
Originally posted by FtLckr26:
I waited after a few intimate times of not even giving a hint that I was attracted to her feet. Then started kissing her feet during foreplay, later trying to suck on her toes during foreplay until she got the message. Process took about 3 months.

Wow, three months sounds like a lot of time invested to me! I would say once you are intimate a month at the most. For me I prefered not to dilly dally around. The first time things heat up all the way I say dive in. If you're both turned on already its not likely she's going to put on the brakes because all of the sudden her big toe found its way into your mouth! [Big Grin]
 
Posted by blackHxC88 (Member # 15094) on :
 
i would like to know how long as well, just in case.
 
Posted by Feeties (Member # 10561) on :
 
Well, as in my beliefs, if your lady, your girlfriend, can't understand that you love a certain body part that others may not, than she's not mature, and needs to gain knowledge through reading, studying etc on all aspects of life.
 
Posted by dougiezerts (Member # 6829) on :
 
My girlfriend told me she knew about my foot fetish long before we started dating. We worked in the same office for several years. Often I'd playfully touch her feet, when she took her shoes off!
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
I'm not into the whole smelling thing, but I do dig sucking on toes when i'm having sex. I usually ask a girl if she has cute feet when i'm first thinking about showing interest in her. Judging by her reaction you can tell if she'd be into it or not.e.g (I don't know why*look of disgust*)or (I don't know, you tell me *flirty eyes*) Then just tell them I won't date women with ugly feet. Usually they'll go on.. If you're having sex with a girl and start to suck her toes she won't object....odds are she's never had anyone do it so you get points.
I've never dated a girl or had sex with a girl that wasn't cool with the whole foot thing. Some weren't into it but appeased me. Others liked it and loved to tease. If you don't ask you won't recieve.
 
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
 
LOL that picture is classic though Tyler.
 
Posted by lambskin (Member # 1542) on :
 
I'm like a lot of the others, I never actually came out and said I like feet. I just started incorporating foot massage, then playful kisses and so on during moments of getting intiment. I only had one who ever felt a little weird about it. After kissing her feet a bit I finally put her toes in my mouth and she said, "I can't believe you put my feet in your mouth". Funny thing is she put her feet right back up to me for more toe sucking, so must have not been too bad. All the others, including my now wife, never said anything. It just became as normal as regular kissing and eventually some would even start foot play on their own. None ever asked if I had a foot fetish. My wife is still convinced that she's the only pair of feet I've ever had, even though I've never told her that.

All that being said, my best advice is to test the waters with playful kissing, very small amounts of toe sucking and see the response. Most women will catch on and if they like it and you, they will just take to it like any other socially "normal" sign of affection.
 
Posted by panic (Member # 21074) on :
 
listen to lambskin.
 
Posted by footntoesmassager (Member # 12132) on :
 
I agree with lambskin. Just ease into it, even some women who are weirded out by feet might be persuaded to see things your way. I have a new girlfriend and she's real conservative. She already likes massages, so it's a shoe-in (pardon the pun) to get to her feet. The key is to not make her feel uncomfortable. I think blurting out, "I want to suck your toes," isn't the way to go. Women (at least the ones I date) don't like that kind of thing. It can make them defensive.

Another point is that if she loves you, she'll want to make you happy. In this case, you might have to do something for her later on down the line.

Good luck, man.
 
Posted by spartanguy (Member # 6990) on :
 
When I'm sure she REALLY likes me. The'll Never freak out about it when they really begin to like you. Never had one girlfriend not accept it after we had a thing going!
 
Posted by Keyfeet (Member # 27313) on :
 
Confess? That would mean that I did something wrong. There is nothing wrong with liking feet.
 
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
 
It's hilarious thinking about where I was in life when I replied to this thread. Some things don't change though!
 
Posted by mywifesfeet (Member # 2630) on :
 
2nd date bring up her feet. Cool it with the "I want to suck your toes" or "I want to smell your feet" stuff for later. Introduce to her the idea that you have always had a thing for women's feet right off the bat in a relationship. Be honest and courteous. Don't blab out like a fool that you want to suck her toes. A much more gental approach is much better. If she then asks questions in a kind manner, be honest but not creepy. Don't step on the gas to hard or she will bolt. Use your head, not your cock head.
 


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