alright.... here's a bit of background.... my sister-in-law is extremely hot.... and, she has incredibly hot feet.... she keeps her feet in sweet condition.... she wears a size 8.... and, she has incredibly high arches.... with long toes....
here's my story....
part 1 i hung out with family over new years.... my sister-in-law was in the group.... we all got pretty well tanked.... everyone went to sleep.... except for me and my sister-in-law.... i had been staring at her feet for awhile.... and, she asked "what do you keep looking at?".... i said simply "your feet".... she acted a bit shocked, and said "why?".... i told her she had really hot feet.... i explained to her my foot and shoe fetish.... and, i asked her if i could massage her feet.... she said yes, and so i rubbed her feet.... she wouldn't let me take her socks off.... but, she let me rub her feet for about 15 minutes....
part 2 the next day, she wakes up late.... everyone goes out to eat.... when we return, she has painted her toenails.... and, is walking around barefoot.... same as the night before.... she and i are the only people to stay up late.... i apologize to her for rubbing her feet the night before.... she brushes it off, saying it wasn't a big deal.... i ask her then if i could massage her feet again.... and, she said no.... i tried to persuade her a bit, but to no avail.... and, i didn't want to push the persuasion too far.... as she had already commented that i was starting to freak her out a bit....
advice section i'm sort of confused by her reactions.... and, i don't know if i should ever bring these exchanges up again.... if i should ever seek to rub her feet again.... to my knowledge, she has not brought the foot rub or subsequent offer up to my wife or her husband.... such information would have ensured i never touched her feet again.... so, in thinking this issue through.... i figured i'd get some good advice from y'all....
thanks
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
Bud, if I were you, I would drop it, and not ask to touch her feet again. Think of it, her agreeing to let you massage her feet was more than likely due to the fact that everyone was tanked. People can do weird things when tanked. If you keep pushing her when you both are sober, she's likely to get very ticked off, and talk to her husband, or your wife, or both, about it. She apparently was feeling very uncomfortable with the whole foot thing, when she said you were freaking her out. My advice: You enjoyed touching her feet the one time, but I would drop it, move on, and not ask her again.
Mitch
Posted by GQguy (Member # 16534) on :
I don't get why guys let thier love of feet control thier lives. Can't you see that? Not only did you freak out this woman, but you're doing something that would highly upset your wife and this woman's husband. I would even go as far as calling it cheating...because it's not "innocent". My girl knows better than to ever let any man touch her feet because of thier special meaning to us. Chill out dude. It's not normal to be obsessed with your sister in law. Trying any harder than you already have isn't good. I can't imagine being afraid to go barefoot because my creepy sister in law keeps staring. Not cool.
Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :
Was that supposed to be a poem or something?
Yeah, you're definitely heading for trouble if you continue to pursue this. That could definitely be considered cheating. Self control is a very good thing...
Posted by J.J. (Member # 24686) on :
Or wait till she's tanked again to have some fun And personally I wouldn't worry so much about the moral aspect of the whole thing...
Posted by elvis (Member # 10619) on :
i didn't think i'd get such good responses so quickly.....
thanks to each of you for responding.... i truly needed a reality check.... which is sad, because i'm normally the grounded one.... i don't know why or how this obsession began.... and, it troubles me to no end.... as i pride myself on my love and dedication to my wife....
thanks again for your well-considered thoughts and comments.... i will immediately begin to chisel this obsession to dust.... sweeping same under the rug....
Posted by MitchC (Member # 20084) on :
elvis, let me share personal experiences where foot obsession turned bad for me.
My two best friends have hot sisters. One of the sisters has been married for many years, and the other sister, for whatever reason, thinks I'm a dork, even though I've only met her about three times.
I remember the first one like it was yesterday. On the weekend my parents split up, I was feeling very depressed, because I knew they were likely going to split up. So, I had my one best friend ask his sister who is four years older, and who at that time had a boyfriend, who has since become her husband, if I could either smell her feet, or, if not that, take pictures of her soles. While I did not ask her myself, I have no doubt that my friend did. I know him 27 years, and he's never lied to me. I know now that I asked to do things to her feet, because I was both obessessed with feet, and down due to my parents splitting. While I was disappointed that she said no at the time, looking back, I know it wasn't appropriate for me to ask her to do those things.
My other best friend's sister really just isnt that nice, and yet, she's hot. I've thought about her feet for years, even though I've only seen them in a picture. When I begin to think of her feet, I think to myself "She told your best friend that she thinks you're a dork, for no reason, even though you only met her a few times. What could you have possibly done to her to cause her to say that? You shouldnt be obsessed with her feet. She doesn't like you, and said things about you, to boot, when she hardly knows you". I can tell you now, dude, that more than likely, even if she offered me her feet, I would turn her down, and be like: "No thanks". Maybe if she hadn't made comments about me, I would have been game, but now, I dont even want to do things to her feet, she's not the right person to do that with. I'm sharing those two personal stories with you to drive home the point that it just isnt right to do things to some girls feet. I'm not married, and I dont have a girlfriend at the present time, but, in those two cases, my obsession with those two girls feet wasnt the proper situation to act on, for the reasons I stated. It's much the same with you and your sister in law's feet.
Hope that helps, for whatever it's worth.
Mitch
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
I'd say don't go any further... let it go... still have fun with her shoes though. just my 2c Posted by shook (Member # 12484) on :
I think you've gotten away with enough there, all i can say is, completely leave it alone unless She brings it up out of the moon asking for another foot massage, but besides that i would honestly just try to get over it.
Posted by wrinkleheaven (Member # 25648) on :
Well she painted her toenails and walked around barefoot the next day, personally I thinks she enjoys the power her feet have over you....BUT, leave it at that............short story----my father married this woman years ago WOW such perfect toes and soles (my ideal feet) anyway one day it was just me and her at my fathers house and i kept looking at her feet and she asked me why I kept looking at her feet---so I told her about my fetish and that I thought her feet were the best I had ever seen, I never touched them but anytime I ever went over there after that she made it a point to expose and wiggle her feet for me to see --even with other family members around, I would get so horny and later back at my house I would fuck my ex-wife so hard thinking about those feet
Posted by ghost (Member # 1664) on :
[QUOTE]Originally posted by Wing-Washer: [QB] Was that supposed to be a poem or something?
LMAO, sorry i know this is not a joking matter but i was thinking the same thing that wing washer said.
anyways i'd let it go. im not trying to be rude but i do not think you need anyones advice for this one. it seems clear enough that if she said she was starting to get freaked out that you should end it right there. and if your married stick to your wife's feet. it will keep you out of trouble!
Posted by Sinnister (Member # 2394) on :
I'm always amazed at the questions some of the people here ask...
This is going to sound harsh but since you put it all out in the open here goes...
Are you serious? Why on earth would you even press the issue? She's married and so are you.
The whole situation is bad....
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
You're married and she's married....sounds like a recipe for trouble...if you were both unmarried, I think your situation would have turned out much more differently, favorable for you. Anyhow, I advise you to try something like this with your wife. Chances are you'll get a massage and thensome from her.
Posted by Requiem49 (Member # 26362) on :
I have to agree with everyone else. You're lucky enough to have someone that you love in the first place. Don't let one night ruin that
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
just remember.. foot massages for women will fall into a few categories....
1- the pedicurist doing a great job 2- the significant other sharing an intimate moment with them 3- relief from pain of being in high heels 4- bonding closer with someone 5- other aspects that i'm no expert on.
she painted her toenails... you say... sounds to me like she took it initially as some compliment ... but a bit weird of a compliment... and though tanked.. she took it as just a compliment.
you're coming back now clear minded... and that shifted the whole thing.. to .. man.. this guy has a thing for my feet and it's not just a compliment.. but he's turned on by this.. what in the world did i get into... and how is my hubby going to handle this.. let alone his wife... i've got to bail out! he's weirding me out!
you got great advice. glad you took it in stride. lock it up in the memory banks... and well.... move on!
RPM
Posted by MarcusB (Member # 21192) on :
I cocur with everyone else so far....keep the memory of that night and let it go....besides you get to see her feet at all the future family functions, just try to keep your gawking to a minimum....play it cool and don't mention it again...unless she does of course.
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
Glad to see you're heeding the advice offered here, elvis. No offense, but you completely messed up by expressing your attraction to your sister-in-law's feet in words. In this situation, I'm not saying you should've let actions do the talking. Dealing with in-laws is a very touchy issue to begin with, let alone expressing a fetish outright to a female in-law.
For sure, she got freaked out by what you told her - i.e. her feet are hot, you have a foot fetish, etc.. You may as well have told her you have the hots for her because you would've gotten close to the same reaction. Women freak out when a guy suddenly says he's attracted to her in any way when they think that there is no basis for it - i.e. no other "signals" of it being sent.
As far as her walking around barefoot the next day after massaging her feet the night before, I wouldn't read too much into it. If she said she's freaked out by what you said, then she really is freaked out. Just leave it alone and don't bring it up again and don't offer to touch her feet again either.
Posted by John Michaels (Member # 4576) on :
watch pulp fiction. look what marsellus wallace did to the guy who touched Mia's feet.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
Next time, just wait untill she falls asleep from being 'tanked', roll back the covers, and love her feet without her knowing any different.
_fjb_
Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
Let it go and stay away...
Posted by elvis (Member # 10619) on :
wow....
i never would have thought i'd get such thoughtful responses..... and, no worries about the poem comments.... i just like to break my thoughts up....
i agree completely with leaving the situation be....
but, just to clarify a few misconceptions.... she's still really cool with me, and has acted like nothing has happened.... still hugs and smiles.... also, she's known about my foot fetish for awhile now....
with that said, i still agree with everyone.... i shouldn't have crossed the line.... and, i feel like a flippin' putz for having done so.... i've beaten myself up about this mistake.... and, it won't happen again....
like i said before, i knew better.... i know better.... but, just needed confirmation.... just to erase that one last thought that's hanging in my mind that what i did wasn't wrong....
i thank you all for your thoughts, comments, and stories.... i've never really looked upon this forum as such a great resource.... but, now i do....
thanks again!!!! you folks are great!!!!
Posted by Wing-Washer (Member # 3013) on :
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
elvis.. glad we could help.. and you're lucky she's cool with you. shows that there is a genuine respect and friendship there. you're very fortunate. enjoy the friendship.. and keep the memory just incase you are tempted to do this again.
and don't try while she's asleep.. she can wake up!
RPM
Posted by rhbdz17 (Member # 2492) on :
Talk about playing with fire. Just let it go no matter what her reaction was. You can always fantasize and spank about it. At least you won't need a divorce lawyer.
Posted by Cain (Member # 8492) on :
I think that she probably let you massage them cause you both were tanked and it would probably cause problems in your relationship... Just wait awhile and give her an innocent foot rub when she is tanked again. Sometimes anticipation and fantasizing is worth the wait. But my question is whose sister is she your brother's wife or your wife's sister. Cause if it was your wife's sister then shouldn't your wfie resemble her in mamny ways????
Posted by Nylon Toe Sucker (Member # 21491) on :
What's wrong with your lady's feet?
Posted by ozkar (Member # 13264) on :
there are no secrets between sisters. don't go there...
Posted by elgordode62 (Member # 25252) on :
Please just drop it. I have the biggest thing for my wife's little sister's feet. she is the baby of the family (age 29) and although I have massaged her feet before, I know I would lose my family if things were to come out and she had an idea that I am getting off on her. I would hate to see you lose so much over something like this. My advice to you is to keep your wife's family out of your sex life.....\Best of luck to you
Posted by Ummmmm (Member # 15145) on :
Dude,
I have a sister in law with gorgeous feet, too. I would secretly drool over them but, I'm married, happily even. Here's my point. Don't do something that will be uncomfortable for all involved. Just my 2 pennies... Posted by thedunk123 (Member # 20777) on :
The Penis has a mind of its own Posted by imation_pc (Member # 1480) on :
I think every guy who has a gf/wife w/ a sis in law has gone through something like this. maybe not exactly, but I mean, i can guarantee that almost all guys on here w/ sis in laws or their gf sis in law has checked out their feet, on atleast more than one occasion. I know I have. Just dont let it get too far, look when you can, but dont go overboard or make it too obvious. Same w/ all other girls I guess. I understand that it could be hard because you may see those feet alot, and it sux that you cant get them, but hey, like somebody said earlier, self control is a great thing to have.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Drop it bro, you've over achieved. You want to salvage the good relations you have with her and the rest of the family, you DONT want to jeopordise that relationship whereby you cant look at her in the eyes anymore, due to embarassment or uncomfortablness !!
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
I believe you have pictured a happy or, at least satisfactory, outcome where none is possible.
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
Or realistic.
Posted by 1heartbreakkid (Member # 28712) on :
I agree with everyone, just let it go for now but later I'm sure you will get the opportunity again. Just a matter of time. They say the waiting is the hardest part.
Posted by Derfjmeister (Member # 875) on :
quote:Originally posted by GQguy: I don't get why guys let thier love of feet control thier lives. Can't you see that? Not only did you freak out this woman, but you're doing something that would highly upset your wife and this woman's husband. I would even go as far as calling it cheating...because it's not "innocent". My girl knows better than to ever let any man touch her feet because of thier special meaning to us. Chill out dude. It's not normal to be obsessed with your sister in law. Trying any harder than you already have isn't good. I can't imagine being afraid to go barefoot because my creepy sister in law keeps staring. Not cool.
I'm seeing some self control issues here lately.. Asking women to show their feet/toes,getting involved with in-laws,..And I won't even bring up the potential problems of the "Facebook" photos in the picures section...
Once again things are cool if left in moderation and set boundaries..You pushed the issue being persistant in wanting to satisfy an urge massaging her feet...Not being critical,but if you can't set boundaries and do this in moderation,then you have a problem..
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