How obessesed really are you with feet? I mean i would say im am freakishly obessed with them...I get so kinky/erotic e.t.c about them and obsess over them and always starring at them no matter who has them and trying to take sneaky video's and pics e.t.c.
In the last 6-12months it has got alot more intense..I have been on countless Foot fetish sites looking at pics and downloading videos almost atleast once a day..I even do it at work FFS!!!!
Im starting to think maybe i should tone it down abit before it starts getting out of control!! ( If not already)
And did i forget to mention..I have a g/f too!!!!
Do you guys go this crazy over feet aswell and so reguarly? Can we continue life this way and be fine, or do you think "Too much of a good thing" might not be good!!
Posted by eusak (Member # 14476) on :
Iknow exactly where you're coming from. I just sent an email to a fellow candid taper that I'm thinking of hanging it up this year. My behavior has definitely become compulsive and I've compartmentalized to a degree that even Bill Clinton would condemn.
Last spring, summer and early fall, I spent about 60% of my free time in parks and college greens pursuit of footplay to candidly record. As much as I've enjoyed some of the results of my efforts, I can't help feeling guilty about it and ashamed that I'm such a big pervert.
In a lot of ways its almost too easy! Even when the woman knows what I'm up to, she'll keep it up as if I'm not even there. Being able to go my favorite city park and witnessing wiggling rubbing feet on the lawn makes it very hard for me to resist recording the action.
Anyway, wish me luck this summer fellas. I'm going to really try to finally stop. At the very least I'll leave my camcorder at home and just ogle instead. One step at a time!
Posted by Toetapper (Member # 6473) on :
And I thought that stopping in here most every day was getting excessive! Feet have always been important to me but, as with anything else (save, perhaps, smoking), it doesn't run my life. This is not to say I don't take advantage of opportunities to indulge myself - I may not take the most direct route home if I can pass through a park or by a beach where I know that I will get a visual treat but I won't let it distract me from the other things that I also consider important such as loved ones or promises I've made.
I think that foot-fetishes are about as harmless as any others that one could name. Still, one can cross a very hard-to-find fine line as regards what others might find an invasion. I have surreptitiously taken some "candids" but I have done it in such a way that I am satisfied that I haven't crossed the line.
Good luck on "kicking the habit". Don't beat yourself up with guilt, either, unless you're really letting others down by your indulgences.
It might to be important to point out that that if you over-expose yourself to something that you find truly sexy, it will start to lose its appeal. Over the years, there have been a bunch of things that I found very stimulating and would throw myself at it. After a bit of over-indulgence, I would emerge from it thinking, "Well, that was nice...what else is there? There's got to be something better than that". That hasn't happened to me as far as women's feet - they have always been my favorite - so much so they have always been the dessert and never the main course.
Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
yes it is definitely crazy and too much will make you bonkers for feet.
i had the problem of being bonkers for feet for quite some time. i have only recently discovered how to tone it down and that is by actively trying to focus your thoughts of desires toward more normal things like vaginal sex as an example.
it is working for me. mind you i still have the feet cravings, but they are becoming less than the freak obsessed foot fetishist that I was. i am now even more proud to represent (and join) my less affectionate foot fetish brethren Posted by DeadGoon (Member # 24278) on :
Nah not obsessed. But I still LOVE to bask in the bliss of being surrounded by pretty women with pretty feet whenever I'm out in the city anywhere. I'm relieved to say that even though I don't get laid I can casually appreciate the ladies and their feet from a distance. But obsessed? No. I don't let it become an urge as I guess I like to make the most out of what I've got Posted by feetluvr (Member # 1570) on :
quote:Originally posted by stilletoeluver: How obessesed really are you with feet?
Pretty much has me in a firm grasp: - I come to Wu's first thing every day to intereact and peruse the photos - I do quite a bit of looking myself (hard to avoid in Florida because feet are exposed year 'round) - Footplay is a very big, important part of foreplay and sex with my wife. Probably 75-80% of the time I need her feet to climax. Even though at times I feel guilty about being so reliant on her feet, so far she's been fine with it. (In fairness to me I did go without them for 25 years)
quote:...obsess over them and always starring at them no matter who has them and trying to take sneaky video's and pics
It's hard not to look. Try not to stare and I would try to cut back or eliminate the photo and video taking.
quote:I even do it at work
I' d stop that immediately before you get reprimanded or fired.
quote:Im starting to think maybe i should tone it down abit before it starts getting out of control!! ( If not already)
It's difficult to say exactly when too much is too much. Usually it's when it begins to really rule your life. (when it becomes a compulsion that you cannot resist) It sounds like it's causing some pretty compulsive behaviours in you.
quote:And did i forget to mention..I have a g/f too!!!!
Does she know about your fetish?One BIG suggestion I'd make is to tell her, then try to focus your desire for feet onto her feet.
Again with me, though I do look at other girl's feet both online and out in the world, I try to focus my sexual energy toward my wife's feet.
Hope that helps.
[ February 05, 2008, 09:17 PM: Message edited by: feetluvr ]
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Yep I agree with feetluvr !!
Although I must admitt I'm pretty obsessed myself but not quite to the same extent. If I had a girlfriend / wife I wouldnt be so obsessed, its only because I'm single that I seek it in every which way...
Posted by stilletoeluver (Member # 3538) on :
Thanks for all the responsed guys, thats a lot of good info there...
To answer a few points and co-incide with what others have been saying, i dont think it is a bad thing but maybe should just tone it down abit before it gets too much and i actually dont get the same enjoyment out of it like i do now as one of you said above..
In regards to my g/f, she knows about it and fully indulges in it with myself, she has a foot fetish herself! I know, very small world what are the odds of finding a girl with a foot/nylon fetish...Well to be honest it took me 5 years to get the truth out of her one very drunk nite...And since then our sexual life has never been more kinky than ever!!
I think i might stop with the candids ,she doesnt know about that,and that is crossing over the line abit too much maybe, but as for going on the net looking up sites e.t.c, i dont see any harm in that...Maybe just cut down on the frequency...
Well...I hope i never loose this fetish, and i dont think i will, its a beautiful thing and one of the best fetishes to have, there everywhere and girls like pampering themselves!!!
Take care guys.
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
it tugs and sucks at me.. but for now.. i don't feel 'too deep'. mainly because i don't want everyone to figure out i'm into feet.. and plus.. my wife gets a little upset if i don't show control. and i don't want to upset her... because when she's upset... feet become harder to come by.
i used to compuslively take pics.. but that has ended a long time ago (relatively speaking). i used to always bring feet up in topics.. now i don't.
i've gotten a better grip on myself and don't make as big a deal about feet as i did. but... the deep want is still there.
RPM
Posted by Toe Sucker II (Member # 1720) on :
on a scale of 1 of 10....... im a 15.
i cant stop thinking of feet all day..... i download copious amounts of videos most weeks.
i just cannot get feet out of my head. i really cant. its become an obcession and i just have to deal with it....
im always looking out for feet and glaring at feet, i just cant get enough of feet.
Posted by bluetoelover (Member # 14736) on :
Meh...I hammer at least 2 loads out a day...hell...when me and the g/f go to bed at night I say I "cant sleep" and go out to the living room and spend about an hour surfing porn to jerk off too...whether it be footie porn or just "normal" porn. Speaking of which..I find myself getting more turned on by "normal" porn that shows great foot shots/foot sucking during sex than actual footie porn. Do you guys find yourselves like that as well or do you just stick to footie porn only?
Posted by Sabbath (Member # 4844) on :
I was worried about this issue too. I have a girlfriend who indulges me completeley and yet, I cannot stop fantazazing about other women's feet, or jerkig off to feet on the net.
Some months ago I had this female friend staying over at my house, and she was sleeping head to toe with me and all night I was struggling between take her socks off and taking a look at her feet or leave her alone. I knew the right thing to do was not bother her, but I ended up taking her socks off and feeling like a pervert..It was just stronger than me I think
Posted by roynaba (Member # 21745) on :
I think that I have reached a level that is really so high that it scares me!!!
I have to admit that I am totally obsessed with them!! I get home, get online and all night I look at feet and j/off!!
My pregnant wife gets bothered at times bcause I dont spend time with her!! (if only she knew wht I was doing!!)
Im late on work and I also late with evening school!!(mind you I still get straight A's!! go figure).
I totally feel you Eusak!!! I tried in the past to give up but its virtually impossible!!
Worst thing is, I started to have a big collection of candid feet and also my few feet sessions...with female friends and some CL's encounters!!! N guest what, I lost one of my suitcases between London and Paris with at least 6 or 7 foot tapes!!!
Anyhow, just to say that Im too obsessed with feet!!
Posted by Watcher (Member # 1405) on :
I would not say that I'm obsessed because I do not do anything that would get me throw in jail or slapped by a unsuspecting girl.
Don't get me wrong, I love the thought of yummy ,soft female feet all over my face!!! But I can control my urges for sure.
I will say that I am dating a girl who has some really sexy feet and now gets turned on when I suck her toes during sex. I think that alone keeps my lust for girl feet at a controllable level. Without that it would be hard to control but I still would and always have keep my foot fetish in check.
Posted by footjoyboy (Member # 26478) on :
Very !!
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Posted by Tom Uz (Member # 12166) on :
I'm never satisfied - and I don't turn against it - but I get tired of foot fetish. Tired of my fascination with it getting in the way of other things. If the majority of people just don't feel what I feel, I want to come up for air and keep in touch with what life's like for them. I used to swear off foot fetish - and then come back to it. Now I skip the guilt trajectory and just think of it like a cycle. The cycle keeps me in perspective with the rest of reality. And my time on Planet Wu keeps me in touch with this reality. Of couse the seasons of this cycle are not always evenly split. Sometimes it's like, how about one day of the week I'll try not to check out the feet of every woman I see. Half a day? Another time I might get interested in something else and busy and I'm still noticing their feet but I don't care.. . at least for a while. Sometimes when I travel I can't relax that much until I get home. It kind of seems like I have to get away from foot fetish sometimes - but that's easier to do knowing I'll always be back.
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