She sought advice from strangers on the net and it is disheartening how most of them reacted.
Looks like being a "hot boyfriend" does not necessarily rid onself of the creepy vibe
Poor guy probably has no clue he is being so smeared on the internet.
Average net-surfers use terms like insane, weirdo, stalker, murderer & other undesired terms to associate with this discussion.
Posted by ozboy (Member # 518) on :
Dont take their responses to heart man !!
I'm a hudge foot fetish dude, but I cant stand stinky feet, so its no indication. Important point to remember; not many people dismissed him for liking feet, they had an issue with him liking 'smelly feet'.
Additionally I think she wouldnt have broken up with him if he had just liked her feet !!
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
Haha "everyone has their flaws" wow...super shallow way of looking at a foot fetish.
Posted by PublicName (Member # 12270) on :
Well she said the guy was going on and on about it..maybe he really didn't care about the relationship? Maybe if he asked her later on it would've made less of a difference. There are times when you say things and times when you don't!
As forpeople on yahoo when it comes to fetishes of any sort, they're all idiots, and most likely young teens, girls who don't care what others want..or guys who only want a lil T&A
Posted by Xero (Member # 15476) on :
In all honesty, that was probably the best thing she could have done. It was probably less traumatic for him that she did it now than if he had put up with her crap for months or even a few years. She couldn't get her head wrapped around the idea, and thus she was not going to ever accept this, and because of that he was never going to be truly satisfied sexually by her. So she did him a favor.
As for the rest of those internet "shrinks", they gave their honest, and somewhat uninformed, opinions of a situation they have never been in and probably never truly understand and looked at the best way they could. Through a closed minded idea that what they were into was the only normal way to view sex.
Everybody has their kinks and if she had been willing to be a little more open minded of the idea, sounds like she would have had a great hook up in her life. But that is just my opinion, another net shrink.
Posted by scrunchlover (Member # 21542) on :
Here's my question:
If you're in a relationship with someone YOU like, why does anyone else's opinion even matter?
Posted by Fate111 (Member # 2627) on :
quote:Originally posted by scrunchlover: Here's my question:
If you're in a relationship with someone YOU like, why does anyone else's opinion even matter?
Very good point.
And why put your question on Yahoo Answers to ask everyone's opinion? As PublicName noted, most of the people who respond to questions on there are teens and/or aren't really all that mature to begin with.
As for the "hot guy", he was, more than likely, over zealous with his fetish and probably came off very needy. Although the girl didn't say how long they had been going out before he expressed his stinky feet desires, I would be willing to bet that either they hadn't been going out for very long or that this revelation came out of nowhere with him giving no other indication that he liked her feet to begin with. Both of these situations would make any girl feel uncomfortable and would explain why the girl who originally wrote the question to be freaked out by him.
Posted by Sabbath (Member # 4844) on :
Well maybe the guy wasnt much of a good boyfriend anyway. If he was more than "just hot" I bet the girl would have tolerated his fetish. We all know women who have.
Posted by A&F_FootDude_05 (Member # 2999) on :
Some people on Yahoo! Answers can ask the most craziest questions you would have heard of haha!
Posted by HailyWood (Member # 25294) on :
Did everyone read the response given by Caroline? The poster of the question flagged Caroline's answer as the best: "He sounds kinky and hot. If you aren't going to date him, What's his #?". She rocks!
Posted by jayrea (Member # 28480) on :
im sorry, but i found a couplhe of there posts hilarious. The one from leanne....i guess all guys who like smelly feet work at wal-mart....beware...lmao. Poor guy, ill date him to!!!
Posted by FootLongSub Zero (Member # 19380) on :
Poor dude.... Oh well lookin' at it from her perspective, would you hold it against a girl if she liked you having a stink ass? ..... wanting you to come home from work with a stinky ass and her jamming her nose in your crack smelling it and getting off ..... sorry guys, just had to let that one out Posted by Tyler D. (Member # 11452) on :
quote:Originally posted by FootLongSub Zero: wanting you to come home from work with a stinky ass and her jamming her nose in your crack smelling it and getting off [/i]
honestly, i'd actually be quite disgusted by her and would no doubt think she is wayyyy different from normal girls and I would consider her a freak. probably would not break up with her unless she persisted about it to me all the time by talking about how much she liked it and how much she wanted me to have a stinky ass for her.
i'd definitely break up with her if that became her focus during sex because i would want her focused on pleasing me instead, LOL
i know, i know, i have a fetish so who am i to complain. well that's how i'd honestly feel and i guess it now makes perfect sense to me why many women out there would consider me way different from the norm (not to mention many others who would simply regard me as a freak).
Posted by John Matrix (Member # 20166) on :
quote:Originally posted by FootLongSub Zero: Poor dude.... Oh well lookin' at it from her perspective, would you hold it against a girl if she liked you having a stink ass? ..... wanting you to come home from work with a stinky ass and her jamming her nose in your crack smelling it and getting off ..... sorry guys, just had to let that one out
hahahaha I needed that
Posted by Mighty Mike (Member # 1922) on :
what would you think of a guy that said he liked a stinky ass or pussy?
instead of saying you like stinky or smelly feet you should say you like feet with a scent
Posted by ghost (Member # 1664) on :
the problem is is that she came to the wrong place for answers. if she would have come here she would have felt comfortable because we would have given her the best advice. you cant ask advice from people who have no interest in it. all they will do is bash us. sucks too because the wu forum could have saved her relationship!
Posted by RPM (Member # 2895) on :
i think a lot of folks would feel differently if they were on the receiving end of something they didn't like.
there are a few things my wife is into that i don't care for. being on the receiving end has 'straightened' me out a bit. i don't insist on my stuff as much because my stuff isn't her stuff that she's into. and i don't like when she really pushes for her stuff.
so.. that was our compromise.. she eases off her stuff and i ease off mines. however.. because she loves her stuff.. i do accomodate more than i ordinarily would ever consider.. and she does the same for me.
the image of the stinky butt... talk about putting things into perspective!!!!!!
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..... wanting you to come home from work with a stinky ass and her jamming her nose in your crack smelling it and getting off ![[Laugh]](graemlins/laugh.gif)
..... sorry guys, just had to let that one out